I'm a 31 y/o asian male who trying to grow his hair out but keeps getting it cut to trying to suck up to society's level. I ahte myself for doing afterwards, but I need a job in order to survive in this city. How long does it take and what can I do to make it grow faster? Also, is there a site where older long haired men can be reached? I like dating older men and it turns me on. I did have a crush on an older man back where I used to live but he never knew. He had hair beautiful blond hair down to his butt. I partially worked with him. It was a real pleasure to hold his beautiful longhair in my hand. Some gay long haired men like their hair played with. I'm asking if you could help me. The men I usually date are over 40. Is there a site like that?