Hello i am going after a new style but i don't really know how to do it and what products to use maybe u all can help me? Well i am a young college african american black male who has natural black male hair it is not curly neither. My kind of hair is the kind that can grow a afro if i let it grow without cutting it for a long time. I want my hair to look hard but at the same time i want people to see my scalp.Not too much of it but just a little. Make the hair appear as it is separated but only a little bit. For example Like it is really really nappy but at the same time my hair will be short and a little bit straight maybe also a little bit wavy. Another thing i was also thinking about coloring my hair what color do u think i should use. When i color my hair i want to make it look like part of it is colored and part of it is not. Like for example old people who have part of their hair white and part of it having its original color. That is natural of course and i want my hair to look natural but i also want to use another color besides white how can i go on doing this? I will really appreciate your help. I know u get a lot of emails everyday asking u for help and tips and i know u are trying your best to answer all of them and i am begging u to please reply ASAP. Thank u very much and i really really appreciate your help even though u all might not know how to help me i will appreciate if u all email me anyway telling me u all can't do it or u all have an idea but don't know if it will really work. I will take any kind of suggestion and i will deeply appreciate it thank u.