I have an observation about living with long hair. It doesn't disturb me, but it does intrigue me: I know several men who will play with my hair, usually by coming up behind me and stroking my ponytail. They are always good friends, not random strangers.
Does anyone else experience this? Does anyone know why this happens, or have any theories? I only noticed the pattern today, so I haven't thought to ask the guys who do it yet.
it's fun playing with long hair. it's not very often that guys and girls walk around with hair longer than their mid-back nowadays. the hair texture can also be a factor in this. if it's curly it's probably even more fun because you can twist and curl it more lol
Friends,
As long as your friends offer you some pleasure, and do not push beyond your comfort level, I think you are very fortunate.
The structures of domination have conspired to keep men from experienceing the power of their hair. We saner men are in the process of rejecting this trend, and the way we wear ur hair is a visible statement of freedome and self appreciation.
Other men often loing to join us, but are fearful. If this is a way for your friends to discover the pleasure, as well as the strength in having long hair, please enjoy.
I know several long-haired man, who play very often with their OWN hair; for example, every five or ten minutes they grip back behind their head as if they want to check whether their long hair is still there, and nobody cut it off. Many long-haired men love their hair so much, that they touch it from time to time, just to remind themselves of their long hair, its beauty and the great feeling having long hair. So I understand, that friends of long-haired men sometimes want to share this pleasure. Look at this picture of Baron from VASARIA (more than knee-length hair). Don't you think, that many people, who talk to Baron, mention his wonderful hair? This has nothing to do with envy or jealousy. It's just the desire to share the pleasure with the long-haired men.
Don't you remember the proverb "A joy shared is a joy doubled."?
Are they mostly heterosexual? It could be an odd form of hetero male bonding...
"Does anyone else experience this?" - Andrew McFarland
Not me. Then again, my friends know better than to touch me without asking and I really dont think they are the type that would ask to do such a thing. I dont like anybody (friend or not, man or woman) touching me without my permission and I've hurt a few people for breaking that rule.