Hi, I haven't been here for that long so I don't really understand the situation; what happened exacly with Tai Fu?
He didn't seem to post that many o/t posts..
He's paranoid. Beyond that, no idea.
He should just be glad he doesn't live in England with that name - his school days would've been hell (see link below)
http://www.typhoo.com/pressreleases/oo_in_a_million.pdf
Lol, i live in England and i never even thought of that until you said
Probably because alot of the off topic posts didn't get posted (each post is screened and if it passes the screening it will get posted in a few hours and for every posted message there were probably 5 - 10 more that didn't get posted). Because of this, he has this pre-conceived notion that this group doesn't like him for his messages are not posted or he expects more positive responses to the posts that are.
I honestly believe he needs some professional help. If he's reading this, it's not meant to sound offensive, but it's the truth. I've spoken to him on a number of occasions and, as someone who once has a lot of mental problems and managed to overcome them, I really do think he is clinically depressed. In this state, all seems hopeless and beyond salvation. But I know from experience that life is not really that bad after all, once you start to get on top of your problem. It's just that he's deep in a rut and, despite everything I've suggested to him, he can't seem to get out of it. I'm not sure what else I can do for him. I wish him well, that he might some day find a solution (or a path to one).
LukeB