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i'll take a risk,and ask..
do long haired men dig black women?
i ask because when i see an attractive longhaired man,he's usually with a white, or asian,or hispanic woman,or if he's alone,and i try to get his attention,they ignore me,or look at me,like they're NOT interested.
i don't know,maybe i'm just being down on myself,thinking that i can't attract the guys i want.
i hope this i don't sound like an idiot,asking this question.
Not sure this is the right answer. For me, I like long haired women, regardless of their melanin level. My hair's down to my butt.
Yesterday I saw a black woman with hair down below her butt, I was greatly attracted to her because both she, and her hair, were beautiful.
Sadly, she was smoking - and I don't smoke...and she was about 25 and I'm 56. Just smiled politely at her, mumbled something about her beautiful hair, and kept walking. She gave me a disdainful look.
Hell, I never thought Black women were attracted to white men...regardless of their hair length....think it's caused me to pass up a number of more reasonable opportunities to date women who have more melanin than I do....
Hi
well,my hair only comes to the top of my shoulders.
yes,there are plenty of black women who are attracted to white men,i'm sure of it.
thank you for responding.
peace,
Ayanna
Hair below her butt? don't you mean extensions (fake hair), very popular with black women, or maybe it was a wig, also popular. Black people's hair grows out, not down. Only way it could be butt lentgh and be real would be braids or dreads, and they would not be described as "beautiful"
Well, I'm old, but I ain't blind. This lady's hair was actually far below her butt, like to mid thigh. Didn't look like a wig or an extension...there sure was a lot of it and it was well styled all the way down.
What ever it was she sure looked sharp, if it's an in look that's great.
Found myself wondering how she cared for it every day...
EXCUSE ME,SLACKER,but it IS possible for black women to have long hair.
thank you!
as a matter of fact,my mother at one time had hair way past her shoulders,but unfortunately she cut it.
this is a website by a black women who has long hair,and how she keeps it healthy.
www.wanakee.com
Hi Ayanna...Well, my hair isn't long..yet! Hopefully I'll be patient enough to allow it to get long..I'm a white guy and I'm generally attracted to black Women..regardless of how long or short their hair may be..I really don't believe that Long-haired men don't find you attractive..That kinda sounds to me like a generalization...Everyone's different..I think of people as people and don't see or view them by their ethnicity, race, Nationality..skin color..etc..As I mentioned, my hair's still pretty short but, not too long ago I came across a Cute black gal who exchanged hello's with me and handed me her phone number...I was very surprised and flattered!!:) So, don't give up!!!!:) They're out there!!!
Hi Marc
Thank you for your generous response.
i almost thought you guys would think i was crazy for asking this question.
i'm glad you took the time to answer.
i'll keep this in mind.
peace,
Ayanna