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I have hair down to the middle of my back. I'm about to enter a job in a conservative prosecutor's office and a pony tail that stretches to the middle of my back will not do. Any thoughts on the technique to make a bun that would be above my neck line would do. Also if there is any cheap equipment substitute that I can use rather than buying some overpriced gizmo, this info would be appreciated.
BOB--
I am a professional person and need to look buttoned down. I wear a tie and shirt to work, buttoned down, often blue broadcloth.
Most drug stores and Walmart has Good brand products. I buy four in a package that have an alum. structure but a horn rim outter decoration.
I part my hair but it doesn't matter. I grasp it all a little higher than the nape of my neck, and put the clasp around it and fasten it, but with the reverse part outside. Then I fold tht up and take a Goody horn rim covered bobby pin, and fasten the clasp above and let the hair fall back over the clasp. The hair forms a natural ball, and if longer maybe a little descending wave. But it can be folded back again. And two of those bigger clips can be used. I try to keep them out of site and covered by the hair, but they are obvious to anyone who really looks.
Hair is salient to some people. You could come in with Green Spikes anotherday and some would not notice.
James
Bob
As a professional man who has publicly worn Buns and French Rolls for many years I hope I am in a position to give you some advice.
In regard to bun construction, start by just making a ponytail at the rear of the head at the edge of the skull. This is the most unobtrusive position for business. I know, the nape is lower yet, but you will have trouble with the bun rubbing against your jacket and collar, fraying it over the day. It will eventually look dishevelled to the point that you will get hassled over your appearance.
Then you can try two basic styles. You can braid the ponytail to the end. Or you can start twisting the ponytail. No matter which one you choose when done braiding or twisting simply start winding the tail around and outwards from the ponytail base. This will form a neat bun. Then take some hairpins or bobby pins and secure this bun around the edges. The pins are a bit edgy for men but WILL keep the bun in place all day. True, there are "friction wound" buns but these loosen with movement. In your job you don't want to have to worry about sudden disasters. The pins can be hidden quite well, however, all women and even most men will know that they just have to be there somewhere. So get used to them. Soon others will too.
You may want to use an invisible hair net to really control the strays. Gel works also. Other than that no gadgets are needed.
You may want to try a simple French Roll after you get used to wearing updos. They can look very business-like while conforming more to a natural head shape. This will only be noticeable a close range.
So try this advice and let us know how your updo career proceeds.
Rolled & Pleated
How to make a French Roll. Good illustrations.
http://www.artistreewoodart.com/french_roll_comb_suggestio.html