how to I get my hair to look like this.....let it grow, right. how do I get the top all one length??
You go in to get the back trimed until or once your bangs get about to your mouth/chin. At least that's what I did/plan to do again.
Just get the back trimmed, what about the sides?
I guess if you want. My sides go behind my ears and stay there no matter what now. Wish I could say the same for the bangs. Just use your head and don't let them take off more then is needed. Remember that hair only grows 1/2 an inch a month at best. Most here recommend that you at least wait two years.
Let it grow silly. That pic of Ryan Dunn is actually what I am in the process of trying to achieve right now, shoulder length all one length. Youll just have to let it grow, and trim the bottom until it reaches your shoulders, and leave the top alone until it reaches your desired length. Youll have to trim split ends if you get them, but the key is going to be giving your hair the several months it will need to grow. STAY AWAY FROM THE BARBER, wait until its time.