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I went out with a ponytail in public for the first time last night. Quick trip to the video store and the grocery store.
I felt good , but I was nervous as I have run into a number of co-workers at this grocery store.
I have had some doubts about letting it grow but I think last night was a turning point for me. I am ready to lose the caps and go out all the time with my hair tied back. First time at work will be a challenge for me.
Congratulations :)
JeffL
congratulations=)
I too went out in public with a ponytail this week.
a.
Congratulations that is a turning point for you. From here on out you announce you are a longhair everywhere :)
Well done!
From one new-tailer to another, congrats!
Mouse
As much as possible... walk, talk, and act as if it's the most normal thing in the world (because it IS), --- co-workers pick up on self-consciousness more than they really care one way or another about the actual ponytail. The 1st time I grew my hair out, in the early '90s, I was constantly worried about what other people thought of me. After I cut my hair short in Y2K, all I cared about was getting my long hair back. The amazing thing about the 2nd time of growing was that I could have cared less what other people thought... and I had a heck of a lot more fun just enjoying the journey!
- Ken in San Francisco
Hi David,
Good for you! That first ponytail you wear in public is one ALL of us growing our hair celebrate with pride, congratulations! I'm sure the self consciousness will go away as you wear your hair in a tail more often, the first time is the hardest and you have already done that!
All the best and keep it growing!
David