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Hello again.
Do you know if long haired guys attract girls or push them away? From my experience id say they dont like long hair. But what are your experinces, good/bad/if any?
And if there are any girls prowling this board, what do you think of long haired guys? or the grunge style of dress, hair and attitude?
Thanx
Depends on the girl, duh. Some do, some don't. Your odds are better if your long hair is clean & neat, if you have a winning personality, are a gentleman, are rich, etc.
Chris
Yup, especially the "rich" part. Not really - just clean, neat, Mr. Personality - that'll do it. Definitely no tte "grunge" look - today that style is relegated basically to middle school age boys (really still children) trying to "find" themselves.
I personally find long haired guys very attractive (that's an understatement..). However, the hair has to be clean (I don't like dirty guys.)
-Erin, long-time lurker :)
>(I don't like dirty guys.)
Guess that eliminates all polititcians.
Except the ones with clean, long hair (which is only a handful, I imagine... I have seen a few)!
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Depends on the scene you are in. Not trying to speak for other girls here, but I think it's save to say that most girls in the Metal and Grunge scene like guys with long hair. Unfortunately, most guys prefer to sport the macho look with shaved heads and baggy pants.... sigh! At least that's the case in the Austrian underground.
Yeah, it's disgusting. Most guys here look like clones. There are very few men who put a little effort in styling.
Hello,
I never dated guys with short hair, and I've been married to a man with long hair for 20 years. Men with long hair are more passionate, and imaginative. Men with long hair do have a tendency to be vain. Guys with short hair, well, wind them up and watch them fit into what ever clique they belong to. Short hairs are not bothered by their lack of originality.
I'm sorry, but why dont other people complain about posts like these? I hear people whining about being segrigated or of people assuming how you are just becuase of your hair style. THIS POST IS NO DIFFERENT. You just CANT go and say all guys with long hair can be wound up fit into a cliche, and long haired guys are passionate, short haired guys aren't, they're vain, etc. There are MANY other ways to express yourself than your hair, and people that judge "shorthairs" like this are just as bad as people that judge "longhairs". If you ask me, this particular woman has developed what we call a FETISH for long haired men and has set it in her mind that they are mentally better people. Please people, think about what you are you are saying and thinking. Let's treat EVERYONE equal.
Justin
So if I like Pepsi better than Coke then I have a Pepsi FETISH?
James, I'm afraid you're not going to get a lot of useful information
with questions like that. Right now, judging that most young men
are heterosexual and have short hair, there have to be a lot of girls
who like short hair. Probably a majority. (Except on this forum,
of course.)
What do YOU like? Grow your hair long and you'll find the girls
who like it that way.
hey there
i think that guys with long hair are alot hotter than guyz with short. most girlz would agree w/ me cuz you cant run yer hands through short...but just make sure it looks clean, and isnt all snarly, cuz ya know, thats gross!
love ya!
meg
From my perspective, the obvious admiration from women is one of the best things about having long hair!
>>>>I don't feel especially liked in KY. right now. A few seem obsessed with it, but most seemingly refuse to associate with me.
A weird thing-I think I'll write a seperate post about it-I seem to get more attention/compliments when I look filthy. Are they being sarcastic?
I mean I go out all clean and groomed, dressed pleasantly, and I'm ignored. I go out looking greasy, wearing old work clothes, looking kind of nasty-and here they come.
The bad thing-if I look like crap, I probably feel like crap, and probably don't want to be bothered!
>>>>>>>>>Also, have you been here yet?(link at bottom)
http://www.longhairedmen.com/main.html
If you think about it, there are many reasons for girls to like guys with long hair. Guys in the military, police, bankers, firemen, most all have short hair. They are conservative and for many women boring. Guys with long hair risk their job in terms of promotions, image, etc. Women are often put down, told how to dress or not dress for work. They see men with long hair as taking a chance, asserting themselves. Men who assert themselves are chance takers and interesting. I am middle aged and started growing my hair a year ago. No guys in the office like it or have said anything positive. On the other hand only one woman liked short hair. The other 30 women in the office like long hair and at least one of them each day says something positive. All the women, without exception, say don't put it in a pony tail. I don'tt know why they said it but they say it. Some of the women will say in a commaniding voice, "Get a hiarcut," but laugh and then say they like my long hair. But remember, when a guy says he doesn't like your long hair, look at his hair, it is short, isn't it?
Hi. Love this board. From my experience, I guess it all depends on each girl. I think automatically guys with long hair attract girls that may want temporary hookups or have a fetish for longhair on guys. (In general, perhaps no meaningful relationships). Ultimately many girls equate longhair with "not a career-oriented guy" since most well paying careers require short hair, etc. So right away if girls figure they(guys) can't have a well paying job, then why bother dating them, or better yet, fear showing them to their parents,etc.
I hope I am wrong but in my experience this is what I have learned:
1) A lot of "bbw" middle aged woman seem to be obsessed with skinny long haired guys.
2) Your typical "bar fixture white trash" women are into it. You know, the type that live in a bar and make it a religion to see local bands on a nightly basis and smell like Jack Daniels.
3) Most "nice girls" that I'd love to get to know are too superficial and only want short haired guys cause it seems to be "the norm". They view longhaired guys as unclean and evil/bad guys,etc.
That is just some of my preliminary findings. Ofcourse if I was rich and famous, I'm sure girls would be running to me. That's just how women think and operate.
So, are there girls that like guys with longhair? Sure! The problem is finding the girls that you'd want to be with.
I'm sure I probably offended some girls with this but I just felt I had to comment. I have longhair for about 2 years now (mine grew real fast) and this is just what I experienced. Girls would prefer to go with short haired guys cause it may be the "pc" thing to do or they are obsessed with N' Sync.
So I guess you may ask, "Well, why not cut your hair then?" Simple. I love the way I look now and although I sometimes feel like cutting it, just to get girls interested in me, I know I'd hate it and just grow it back again. I've done it twice already. LOL.
Feel free to email me back with comments at alexander@alexanderthepoet.com