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This braid is thick.
Cool Braid. Love to have such hair
Thick is an understatement. I almost have to ask "is that real?" but I seem to recall having seen this pic someplace else that was reputable; I just can't remember where. Perhaps one of the LHC people that posts here knows, since they come across a lot more female hair pictures, and might even know her.
Uh, so what? This might be a MALE board, but there are women that come here and post updates, and I'm pretty sure anything pertaining to hair that's a topic of some interest is relevant to the board.
Yes I can see that but I think that his point is we know most the ladies that post here. So my a random one and from someone that does not say much about themselves and posts a couple of ladies pics, just odd thats all.
Cheers,
John.B
As with any social group, visitors to MLHH progress from stranger, to acquaintance, to friend with the regular crowd here. The privileges any social group extends to these three categories of people is different; that is HUMAN nature. This predates the Internet, it predates recorded history. We see no reason to go overboard with laying out the rules in detail for each group, nor do we assign different colored stars to users to tell them definitely which group they are in. Ordinarily-socialized people just know these things, and they can see what is going on with a group and just know what is okay there and what is not. We try to keep our written rules short and concentrate on where misunderstandings are most apt to arise with those who are ordinarily socialized. Etiquette books are two inches thick, and we are not going to write rules that wordy.
Ordinarily-socialized people know you don't tell the same jokes over and over to the same people, and they know you don't show the same photo over and over to the same people.
Ordinarily-socialized people know you don't walk up to an ongoing group and ask them for a complete list of all their rules, nor do you as a stranger immediately ask that they do their usual tasks differently.
Ordinarily-socialized people know as strangers you don't walk up to a group and start sharing stuff about third parties that is on topic even, unless you have previously introduced yourself, and until you have become a friend you don't share stuff about yourself that is off-topic for what the group is about.
Ordinarily-socialized people don't walk up to a group that is engaged in one project and ask that they take on a different project instead. It is clear that we are about supporting men with issues concerning the growth of long hair. If you have other issues such as autism, there are other places to get support for that. We neither have the expertise nor the interest to provide that.
Once a man becomes a regular, then others indeed are interested in hearing about other things going on in his life, but not until then. Ordinarily-socialized people know about when they have become that well known, and they know about how much water-cooler chat is appropriate when in a place where there is a primary job to be done.
We cannot teach ordinary socialization here, this is something you learn from your mother. Your mother is not here. Truthfully, I do wonder where some of these people who occasionally wander in here come from. I wonder if they were not raised by wolves.
Bill
Bill is the man!!!!! Just thought yall would likt to know.
peace
clayton
Yes we can see that and did you get permission rofl!
Why not tell us about yourself!
Cheers,
John.B
I agree, why not tell us a little about yourself. That would be very interesting.
And I agree as well. It would be most interesting indeed.