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Hi les,
here some of my recent experiences with this kind of styling:
After been motivated by my girlfriend I was wearing my hair up since last weekend.
I had no problems with it, while we have been private having vacation.
She says, she likes it very much and looking sexy.
While we are private, I don't have problems with this way looking and I'm going to find it funny, while she likes it so much, though its at the same time very strange to me.
And she knows no restriction when she lets style my hair by a friend (that is nearly professionell) or last saturday, when she took me to a salon: the results have been what you might call very feminine.
Just that she judged to be very sexy (and I have to confirm, that we really had fun).
So she liked to let my hair piled up really high using spray or styling foam and also set some strands of my straight hair to curls hanging down from my updo or pinned up to a very feminine looking.
I still thought about, if I'm a male Lesbian, but until now I think, there's no real problem with it while we are having fun with it.
But going out I'm still cautious: I use to wear disguise / be crossdressed to prevent to be seen by people that I don't recognize to be open-minded in this things.
Going to the salon I had not dared without this way of disguise. Also it was not in the neighborhood, but in another town where we went.
It still was a very special feeling to be treated with a styling what mostly only women are wearing for prom and like that.
I surely had not gone as far as my friend does, when we entered the salon. But she said, if she is paying for it so she wants to have no half results.
So I got tied up my hair to a high ponytail, get it parted to several strands, treated with fixing spray and piled it up in pinned curls until it was a real high and glamourous updo. But my friend wasn't satisfied with that and so they made some curls hanging down from this updo and last trying some accessoires like bows, barettes and decoration combs. I didn't meant to need this too, but won't like to discuss with her in the salon and so got at last one bow in front of the updo and a comb below it back of my head.
They used mass of spray for fixing the results of this styling whole day and evening.
I was feeling very strange, when this was finished and scared for people to take a look on me and wanted immideately to return home, if she really wants to have me with this style, so I thought it had to be private. But she used the occasion (that she hadn't if we had gone with my car) to visit a restaurant for eating with me and even before a shop and buy new nylons for me, cause that ones I was wearing (for my disguise) had got a run.
First I was very strained, but when we were at last in the restaurant and we had passed several people and no one was laughing or gazing at me I started to feel comfortable, until a woman sitting at the next table was looking in my direction.
She asked, what salon had made my style, but then confirmed, that it's very becoming to me and regrets, her hair was cut too short for this. My friend was answering but at last asked her, if she had realized, I'm a man, and what's her mind about men wearing styles like that. And before I got the chance to express my anger for my friend, giving away my secret, got answered: she had just been thinking about, but still likes it to be nice and really becoming to me.
Jumping over the rest of the day that I mostly could enjoy, my girlfriend has invited a friend for the breakfeast next day, who emerged to be familiar with hairstyling while she got the order of my friend to refit my hairdo. It wasn't made perfect as the day before, but they took some times trying out several variations most with high tied ponytail also to find an updo-style to replicate for us without help. So I was learning to pin up that high ponytail in strands and to curls like my friend wanted it to have. I was not convinced by the results, but after at sunday still going with a glamourous updo by her friend, she induced me to follow next days this instructions and with some improvement by her and completion with a flower-decorated comb, she purchased for me, she was pleased so far. -
I guess, you'll find all this crazy or abnormal. Sometimes I also feeled like that, but most we had fun getting thus away from everyday life, some kind of special holidays..
PS:
if you are looking for examples there are two Sites you will be successful: http://www.house-of-lords.com/Formal%20Styles.html and
http://gallery.hairboutique.com/
I don't know how you manage to do this . . . if it was me, I'd have left by now. If you can handle it though, more power to ya . . .
Good luck,
--Tock
surely this is a joke, I mean some kind of made up story, If by some slim chance its real, I would get your girlfriend some dolls and tell her to play dress up with them, she is making a mockery out of you.
HI ,
Thats cool man. i wish i had my g/f like yours.... just loved it
sam