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hey guys my hair is a little bit past my shoulder blades and i really like it but i have a problem
this girl at my school says she will go out with me only if i cut my hair short...
so do yall think i shoulD?
I guess from your perspective this can really seem like a dilemma. But take it from anyone here, if your looks are that important to her it's not worth it. Especially if you're growing your hair out because of peronal convictions, then it's part of your personality. Your hair will stick with you longer, of that I'm sure.
Here's another way of thinking about it: if a guy' only willing to go out with a girl if she got a boobjob, what would we call him?
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Hey,that's an easy one.I'd keep my hair and tell her to join the military.That way she'd have the pick of the litter of short haired guys and get to go on free trips too!Sounds like fun:)
Mark
How about this... what if you cut your hair and then she still don't go out with you? I think she's a hater and just wants you to cut it so she can feed her ego.
Don't listen to her or anyone, if you like your hair then keep it. If you're just going through a phase you'll soon know anyway, but this way it's your choice as it should be.
Paul
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if she really liked you, she wouldn't ask of such a thing
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No way. Don't cut your hair for a girl. How do you know she will go out with you once your hair is short? What if she's just saying it?
Even if she does go out with you... what kind of a relationship will it be, where she requires you to have short hair instead of what YOU want? How arrogant. Surely you wouldn't want to be with someone so controlling?
You said a girl at your school... is this high school? Relationships at that age usually don't last, sorry to say... not that I'm questioning you, just remember that hair takes a very long time to grow back... VERY long.
Peter
I say no...I would Never Change for anyone
": so do yall think i shoulD?"
Did that grin-looking "D" in your "shoulD" indicate you subconsciously already knew how to retort to her?
Does she like trolls?
this girl at my school says she will go out with me only if i cut my hair short...
You date shallow narrow minded self centered women ?
what if after the date and you dont like one another?
I am pretty sure the responce I would have given her would have been "thanx anyway have a great day !
A self centred troll I reckon! Don't cross any bridges!
Don't go out with her. She is not the kind of girl you want to be with if she is going to tell you what to do like that.
Matthew
Heh, if it were me, I'd tell her I'd cut my hair after we fooled around a bit, and then I wouldn't cut it. Joke's on her.
Well...on second thought, no one should ever take my advice lol
Don't do it man! If you like your hair leave it how it is! Find some hot rocker chick who appreciates it. I've cut my hair for money and work, would never even do that again lol.
She says that now. How do you know she will really do it if you get the haircut? She is just as likely to change her mind.
Don't cut your hair for a chick! There are TONS of cool gals out there that ADORE men with long hair. Would you go up to a girl and tell her that you'd date her, but only if she dyed her hair blonde or got a haircut like Jennifer Anniston's? I doubt it. You should not have to change your appearance for anyone to accept you, and I can't believe the chick was so shallow as to ask that of you in the first place! You can do better honey...
Absolutely not man, don't cut your hair for the chick. She's probably just jealous that yours looks better than hers.