Its been almost 14months or so. The back is shoulder length and the sides is a little below my chin the problem is the sides and back are mostly straight and act normal but the front is kinda course or kinky compared to most of it. Is there a deep conditioning or something else I can use to relax it so it is not so course.
Cool instead of hot water and try to use no products at all for a week or two or three at a time
You could try using a hair dryer with a flat-nozzle attachment on the front of your hair. Remember use a heat-protect serum so that you don't cause heat-damage to your hair.
Just comb your hair straight and hold the hair dryer pointing down in the direction your hair falls, continue combing straight as your apply the air.
This is guaranteed straighten out any kinks.
Picture included to show the type of hair dryer attachment I mean.
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