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This is a pic that was taken yesterday with my cell phone. My hair is almost to my waist now. And, I'm glad I let it go this far. My question is--Is it too much hair? When a person looks at me, the hair is so dominating, it's all they see. I've enjoyed the ride to get it to where it is now. I'm just wondering if I should leave it or cut it.
Steve
I vote to leave it. Your hair looks fantastic. And it makes your face book really good.
It is not too much hair, the hair is not dominating, it compliments your face very well.
It would a shame to cut such wonderful hair.
Thanks. I appreciate your feedback. I know if I went by the two-week rule about waiting for that long a time before I did anything, that I wouldn't touch it. It's just something that crosses my mind every now and then these days.
Steve
I Would say Keep it long it looks great
Please do not even think of cutting that beautiful mane !! It is fantastic. You are fortunate to have such thick hair. If you want a less dominating look, tie it back, put it in a braid or tail.
WWT
I agree too. Enjoy that great mane!
Your hair, your decision.
I would be sad if you decided to cut. I'd suggest looking into styles that don't let it dominate your face. I'm always an advocate of hairtoys for easily changing your hair's presentation for a situation or whim.
Hi Steve,
I have followed your updates as you were growing it out. I think it has grown out really well and looks good, fantastic in fact. I think you would regret it if you cut.
Lance
Hi Steve,
That's interesting you are wondering if you have too much hair. I think the same thing about my hair sometimes. Especially after I wash with shampoo. My hair tends to poof out and annoy me. But I think it's because I have never let my hair grow this long before.
I think your hair looks awesome! Maybe the color is why you think it's dominating. I must admit, the color is very attractive and probably grabs peoples' attention. But I would not cut it short. You could try to figure out a length that suits you better than waist. I hope you don't cut much though. Please keep us updated on your decision! Have a great week my friend!
Ted
P.S. Did I ever mention I was jealous of your hair?
let it, how would you feel if you were to see it on the floor, after growing it so long for however long it took, and, knowing how long it would take to grow it back.
Hi Steve,
Personally, I think your hair looks fantastic, and as a guy very close to my age(I turn 60 in 3 weeks), you are blessed to have such a thick and healthy mane.
Obviously, whta you choose is entirely up to you, but it would be a genuine shame to cut such a wonderful head of hair that has taken a long time to grow. I agree with the others that a ponytail, braid, or bun would be a solution that would work for you in those situations where you feel the need to have it restrained in some way.
Keep it growing,
David
Hi Steve,
I have to echo what the others have said as there should be no question that your hair should be kept. Unless you are truly fed up with it there is no reason to destroy what has taken you years to achieve.I would never complain about having too much hair frankly.lol.!The more the merrier as the saying goes.Cheers
Mârk
Why cutting your hair after such a long time growing it out?
I think your hair is beautiful and you should keep it the way it is now.
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I hope you decide to leave it alone, Steve. God has blessed you with really thick hair, and remember, you are in your 60s. It is rare to have such great hair and be over 60 years old. Probably less than one in a million men in their 60s have such long thick hair here in the USA.
What you may want to do is put it in a ponytail. It won't look so dominating. A braid may work too.
Scott
Unless you're dying to get a haircut which from all indications from your school days would probably be the furthest from your mind the only thing I might suggest is experimenting with color.
maybe trim the bangs and/or get some layers maybe, but keep the length. it took you a long time to get it there so why chop it off?
in the long run, it's your hair, but you may want to try some different shades. I would go to a professional unless you know someone in the business who could do it for you.
I see nothing with Men coloring their hair or getting highlights even. many women I've talked to even like the idea.
I appreciate all your feedback. After reading all the comments, I do see that I have what I want and want you to know that I won't be cutting it. If I do anything at all, I might let it grow a little longer and then get the ends blocked off to where everything is evened up, but it will still be near the lower back or waist line. You're right--it took too long to do anything drastic. Thanks again for your input.
Steve
----------------------------------------------------------------Hi Steve,
I am very happy to hear you won't cut your beautiful hair! I do think it would look awesome with a blunt cut hemline(bottom). You are definitely fortunate to have such nice hair!
Ted
your hair is Amazing! Keep it!!!!, When you need a change, just tie it back, or put in a bun.
Looking just wonderful, Steve!
Keep it!!
- Oren
Maybe the problem is that others can't see the corners of your eyes? Try tucking your hair behind your ears, and then it'll open up your face.
There's always restraining your hair, or just having all of your hair in the back.
Steve,
Having a thick head of hair is a blessing and I don't believe in the term "too much hair". I do not think your hair is too long at all if you feel happy with it and it is healthy and well looked after. I empathise with what you call dominant hair as I too have "extroverted hair" which stands out a lot and draws attention as my dominant physical feature. Steve you are blessed with an abundant head of hair whereas many of your peers in your age group have rather too little hair. Your hair can be tied back or put into a bun to reduce the dominance. I too have a thick head of hair and I get used to being stared at a lot in public, whereas i prefer not to bring attention to myself so usually tie it back when out and about or hidden inside a hat or beanie. In the colder months of the year i wear it loose (on days that are not windy or wet) and it gives me plenty of warmth. Of course there's the old saying "If your got it, flaunt it" and " realising one's full growth potential"
Cheers,
Duncan
Gee, I am so glad you changed your mind, I was like "Wha..?" Akk that time and effort, and you were thinking of cutting it????
If you want to make your hair look less 'overwhelming', you could try a half-tail. That would allow you to mostly wear it loose. Or tail or braid it. Us ladies would make use of things like hair clips, barrettes and bobby pins. Somebody needs to make hair accessories for the guys. There are hairbands guys use, the Alice bands. A former resident at one of my doctor's offices, wore his long blonde curls held back with a black skinny Alice band. Looked really sharp. MLHH member Jason has posted various styles on his website using braids that move hair away from the face. A Legoloas/LOR or Viking-inspired style perhaps. You grew it long, have fun with it and try different styles.
No the hair is not dominating. It complements the face very
nicely.
Hi Steve
I think your hair is amazing, but I do understand the desires for a change. I recently cut mine short (see pic) and absolutely love it. I feel free from the day to day pain that my hair had become, I disliked it in a bun, a tail, a braid and it never looked good loose. Now I can just go about my daily routine without thinking about it - I have my life back :)
Also on the upside I have had 100% positive comments from both male and female ranging from, badass, handsome, years younger etc. I am really rocking the sharp look combined with a decent length beard (which I intend to keep growing). Shabby chic!
So let your gut feeling be your guide, its very easy to get obsessive about ones hair to the point where it takes over your life and thoughts, after all we take many years to nurture it so of course its a tough call - but thats when it has to go in my opinion, it takes a strong man to admit it.
You don't say how much you want to cut, but whatever you chose I'm sure it will be the correct decision for you as long as you are honest with yourself.
Not sure whether this helps or makes things worse for you, but I just wanted to let you know there is life beyond long hair haha :) - its whats inside that counts.
My best to you
Dave