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I'm so happy with how long and beautiful my hair is becoming, but lately I've had this recurring desire to have a pretty girl caress my hair. It's frustrating because I think about it a lot, but it seems impossible to ever make it happen because I don't have a girlfriend, and most girls that I meet are repulsed by my hair. And it seems like something that's too intimate to ask one of my friends to do, even though I honestly don't want it to escalate to anything more. Can anyone help me figure out how to get over this?
Soren - never stop being authentic - to cut your hair to 'catch' just anyone is futile ! ... be yourself & go beyond what you ever suspected you could ever ... in your wildest dreams ... your picture is beauty personified !
Find a woman who loves you and appreciates your long hair.
There are women out there who like long hair on men.
It's not easy to give anyone advice, but in general terms, there needs to be more in common than hair and looks to make a relationship. I suggest getting involved in things you like doing like sports, music, art, whatever - and get to know people on the basis of something more than looks. Then a girl might get to love you for your personality and accept what you are and have. You do need to be accepted as an unconventional person and not as something to be used as a conventional status symbol for the girl and a source of income. I talk bluntly, but I have experience!
I don't know anything about you - age, social origins, interests, occupation, etc. Your blonde hair gives me the impression of someone young. If so, you have time. Let life happen. I wish you luck and everything good that life can give you.
Anthony
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Sören, Sören. Females who love men with long hair are a niche market, but a passionate one. Trust me. They're out there. Your beautiful hair added to the fact that you're a good looking fellow anyway makes you a score. You just need to be where they are. Look around for good looking ladies with long haired guys. Where are they? What are they into? Go there and do that. I'm absolutely certain there's plenty of fine ladies out for you, dude.
You never know where or when you'll find them. One of the women
who loves my long hair is the wife of one of our former department commanders of the civil war group. That is one of the last places I would have expected that.
Have you thought about online dating? You don't even have to mention your hair - just post a photo - and girls/women who are attracted will respond. That's how I met my wife. There are plenty of females out there who like men with long hair.
In certain subcultures, long hair is a huge plus. In a goth club, for instance, some guys can feel discriminated against if their hair is too short, whereas long hairs may easily have girls by the dozen. Really, don't expect too much from conservative people! There must be other options in your city. IF not, you should seriously consider moving to a more liberal place. By the way, congratulations on your beautiful hair, dude!
Best wishes in finding a girlfriend, I had one that said she liked long hair on men, then later on she changed her mind!
You have awesome hair, please don't be discouraged...
The Spaf Man
Sören, your hair looks gorgeous!
If you were in Singapore I wouldn't mind caressing your hair for you. (I'm a girl btw :P)
I'm sure there are girls wherever you are who like long hair on guys too :) Or you could always pay someone to caress it...
