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I feel like crying right now. Whenever I post something on other message boards, I constantly receive insult messages. I don't know how to answer them, so I am always the one who "lose" the argument.
I think the best way to respond to insults is by using logic. Don't let insults offend you, simply ignore the insults. Humor is also good (i.e. turn the insult around to be funny). You can also play their own words against them -- analyze (think "pick apart"). If you don't let yourself be insulted, a debate can be a lot of fun! Take care.
those insulting responses are more an indication of the unenlightened mentalities of those responding... why be insulted? it is a crying shame that some are so in need of validation that they must tear down others in order to get it.
I had someone accuse me of being "soft on crime" once …
How old are you, anyway?
I would suggest not to post those boards anymore, some people just have no respect and need to insult others and are happy when you get upset. Just forget them.
this does not really answer your question, or follow the board topic, but you did not leave an email. however, as encouragement, i can appreciate the fact that you wrote what you felt like this on this message board. usually, it seems people do not open up and describe how they feel in these situations. so it is nice to read someone just opening up and honestly saying how they feel(even though you did not give details). thanks. :)
as far as advice goes, just remember that message boards are not the best form of communication, (in my opinion) so if you get overwhelmed because you can not communicate your thoughts, feel free to walk away and ignore the insulting messages. as effective as the internet is in distribution of information and data, the lack of seeing someone face to face can create huge communication problems. in my opinion, no one should be bashed and insulted the way i have seen it on the internet.
good luck. :)