i mentioned earlier on this board the playing with(and gentle pulling of, etc.) hair as a sort of form of massage. just in case anyone cares, i thought i would let you know that it is much better in front of a campfire, especially for those of you who really love to watch fire. it's beautiful.
caution: i realize this is obvious, but i must remind you to be very careful and keep your distance from the fire. fortunately all went well for me, but i worry that something might happen.
by the way, if anyone else has any ideas similar to this, let me know. thanks. :)
my g/f has a small fire pit behind her apartment & some 'bonding' takes place next to a good fire. i tied my hair back before starting & building the fire then undid my tail before settling down. your point is well taken about distance- it is important to be aware of wind direction when tending the fire, especially where one's long hair can become involved as you must get close to a fire in order to poke it around and add wood.
I had a professional massage once where the masseuse gently pulled my hair as a scalp massage. Felt Great!
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One of my ex-girlfriends had long hair and really liked when people gently played with her hair, thought it was relaxing. I don't really care for it myself though.
I live in a kinda country setting and we have fires alot, weve been having alot now since its been colder outside, i usually wear a hat around a fire.