I wish things were differen't, but they aren't.
Have you ever given thought to trying to change them?
There's nothing wrong with being straight, either. ;-) It just strikes me that maybe, instead of saying, 'That's the way it is,' a better response might be, 'You'll be blazing a trail, but others will follow.'
If you don't like the way something is, get off your duff and fix it!
Guess what? I, a long haired swishy girlboy konsider John Rocker as my role model!
I am the queen of swishy guys. I never been in fistfights, wrestling, guys' magazines, exercise NOT viagra! I saunter too!-part of being a swishy guy. Oh yes, I wear a dress too