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Hey everybody-
It's taken me awhile to respond and I am sorry for the delay. But I am not sure if I really want to cut my hair right now, I love it, but I also hate it. I would love to have short hair again that I can't do crap with - but at least I could get out of the shower and run some gel and a brush through it and call it good. There are only three people I know that say cut it and they are:
1. A girl about my age(she is 20, I am 23) that works for my family's business. She just thinks I would look really good with short hair also. But she is happy with what I like.
2. My dad - which he is close to his 60's, therefore he witnessed the drug crazed hippies with long hair (which he strongly opposed). But in a way I think he likes it(no matter what he says), because I am alot different from those tripping hippies. Also he has moved down to florida from missouri and is exposed to alot of guys with long hair, and like his girlfriend, he knows girls really like hair like mine. When I told him a few weeks ago that I might cut, he didn't seem that excited, and said "if you cut it and you don't like it, you can always grow it back out" - Even though he doesn't understand that it takes time, which is not an overnight thing.
3. My exgirlfriend which I was with for a year and a half and ended around labor day weekend. When I met her she loved my long hair, but after a few guys whistling at us from behind and many other girls complimenting me on it - she begun to hate it. She would associate my long hair as a male stripper(a sex object to women, especially older). Also when we made love, she said my long hair made her feel as though she was with another women because it would be in her face. Same for when we - just kissed, my hair getting in her mouth. grip grip grip. Us seperating has nothing to do with my hair though, to get that out of the way!
Other than those three people, everybody loves my hair and doesn't think I should cut it. Including my mom, which growing up would not allow me to grow my hair out under her roof - but now likes it. At a later date I might post a pic of it. But for now I am outta of here!!
I want to hear some responses to my message - to get a feel of what others think about what I have said, even though I do what my own instincts tell me!!!
sorry so long - Rob
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She must really be confused by bearded guys. ;-)
A nice ride in an open convertible .....
ah, the freedom of short hair.
But . . . . .
The whole 'longhair during kissing and making love' thing is
a world in itself....
One boyfriend I had loved my long hair, because he knew that
it turned me on when he played with it. Yowza!
Another boyfriend wasn't particularly turned on by it --
he tended only to notice the inconvenience of having it
in his face all the time when we made love.
But I started to get pretty good at using it. By that I mean
I kept it out of the way when my partner thought it was a pain,
and let it flow when he wanted it.
Shoulder-length seemed to be the sexiest length in bed --
anything too much longer was hard to control. :-)
I finally decided I wanted a new look, so I cut it off.
The short look can be hot!, and I definitely got into it
for awhile.
But now I'm growing it back. It's been short
for about a year or two, and I miss the flowing locks!
So, now I must wait about a year to get it back
to the one-foot-or-so shoulder-length thing.
=:-\ Oct 1998
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\\\\Alas, you pay for your thrills!