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I wanted to find out HOW you wear your hair during sex.
I had a boyfriend (years ago) that had the most beautiful brunette hair that he had grown to about mid-back. But sadly, he always wanted to keep it trapped in a ponytail during sex. He said he didn't want to get it tangled and sweaty. *ugh*
MY preference and part of my desire (fetish) for men with long hair is to have it touching my body dusing sexual encounters. Be it draped and swaying across my breasts, falling across my back, him leaning his head down and letting his hair tickle my waist as he lifts his head, or heaven forbid having it on my legs and thighs.
SO what do YOU do with your hair during sex?
When we were still able to have intercourse (there are many different types of "sex", intercourse is merely one of them) - she's been disabled for the last four years - I would pretty much do, to my wife, exactly what you've described you like having done to you.
Long hair can only enhance sexual pleasure, as it adds to the intimacy of a loving caress, amplifying the feeling of touch by taking it to a whole other level, beyond the flesh.
While we're unable to have intercourse, anymore, I do still enjoy pleasuring her by caressing her body with my hair. I'll typically either grab a handful and gently feather her with it, or leave it all hanging, get on all fours, and slowly move up and down her body. Suffice it to say, she loves it.
*got chills from YOUR post* It truly is a sensual thing...
Thanks for the honesty... and it is nice to hear that there are still caring long-haired men out there. I am glad to hear that you have stuck by your woman - for better or for worse.
She is truly LUCKY to have such a tender soul. :)
*got chills from YOUR post* It truly is a sensual thing...
Thanks for the honesty... and it is nice to hear that there are still caring long-haired men out there. I am glad to hear that you have stuck by your woman - for better or for worse.
She is truly LUCKY to have such a tender soul. :)
Aye...
Life is full unexpected turns of events. All we can control is our reaction to them.
Thank you. Sometimes I think I'm the lucky one. I had all but given up on finding love, until I finally stopped looking and it found me - through her.
I never ever wear a ponytail. During intercourse (missionary) I just kind of let it fall to one side, so it doesn't get in my eyes.
All I have to say is, At least Some of you can find women that like long hair on a guy. Every women I have met think I should cut it off.
Or worse yet, don't even notice you at all.
As for the questions, I think it is much more erotic to let it down, it isn't going to get that tangled, and besides you can comb/brush each others hair out before you take a shower together, and wash each others hair that way.
I would love it If I found a women that would do that for me.
I wanted to find out HOW you wear your hair during sex.
Loose. In fact, my last girlfriend expressley forbade me tying it back. It isn't really much fun when it's out of the way - and it's far more convinient than using a feather for the same effect!
My partner and I both have long hair. In spite of the fact that we would prefer to wear our hair loose during intimacy, we usually tie it back just to be practical. I mean, it is annoying when you are engaged in a major lip lock and you find that you are also chewing on both of your hair at the same time.
But we tend not to go all the way to a ponytail, rather, just tie back the hair growing at the temples. This elimantes the stuff that end up in our faces (and other zones) but still allow some loose hair that can be caressed or can be the agent of caressing.
Yes, it *does* get in the way, a bit, during certain...*ahem*...activities...
I tend just to flip it out of the way. Which, in certain circumstances can look quite sexy when you flip your head and look up at them....
*ahem*
Loose ALWAYS. The sensations of "touch" are greatly enhanced to an even greater height this way because of "wisps" of hair caressing her skin. Ahhhhhhhhhh..............truly wonderful. :-)
>>> AGREED!
Down and sassy always! the sennsation is awesome and my girlfriend would not have it any other way. Some times it is done up in a bun and she will take it down during foreplay. Her hair is to the small of her back and mine just past my shoulders and growing.
Heh im only 15 and my hair isn't long yet so I don't have to worry about that. LOL.
Your post was pointless and in my eyes, spam.
Anyways..
I usually wear mine down. It's more erotic that way.
- Brian
Brian,
SPAM is an acronym for "Single Point Across Multiple", originally referring to posts to exceedingly-large numbers of newsgroups. While it originally did not necessarily refer to messages of an solicitory nature, it has gradually taken that meaning, and its scope has been expanded to include messages in the email domain.
I honestly can't see any way in which Aaron's post fits any portion of any definition of SPAM of which I've ever read or heard. I hate to play "netcop", but let's keep the vibe here positive and happy. If you don't like a post, just ignore it. The powers that be do a pretty job of filtering most of the junk. There's more than enough negativity in the world; nobody wants to come here for more.
Peace,
Officer Dan
We have both long hair, (my wife over her butt, mine is between chin and shoulder) and we love to play with it during sex. Sometimes we even brush each others hair during sex or in a break.
We plan to grow out our hair further as long as possible to feel more of our hair. We don't plan to wear ponytails during sex.
I love to feel and see moved hair at sex. ;-)
I don't know . . .sounds interesting...
is holding by the hair...
considered to be a form of bondage, i wonder?
>>>Nah.... pulling hair is just rough play unless coupled with whips and chains! *LOL*
In Cumbria, it's the wool that can get in the way. Baaa. :-)
OK I'll respond to this one. Yesterday AM was a great way to begin the day! My wife's hair is about 3" below her waist. Mine is mid back. Yes, when we have sex, hair is everywhere, but no complaints!
OMG definately down, it is much more erotic and sensual for us both. The teasing with one anothers hair is sooo incredible to us both, Sometimes I will set my hair in hot rollers and just take the rollers out after that have cooled and not even brush the curls out, my girlfriend loves the "Boinks" as she calles em, dragged erotically over her entire body...........Her hair is to the small of her back mine not too far behind.
Dawn
Down, loose, except for last week when it was in the 90s. We'll see how the rest of the summer goes... :-)
I also have a long hair fetish and when we have sex we always have it down. We have a combined total of about 62" of hair, so it can get in the way... however, nothing compares to the smell and the sensation of his hair on my body. I also enjoy combing out his hair and playing with it and grooming the ends.
When the hair is loose she is more likely to play with it, which is enjoyable. If it's in a pony tail, it is easy for her to pull it, which can be fun.
Both.
I like it loose and all around me as I make love with my partner. I also like dragging my loose hair all over her, or his, body. I've played with individuals who enjoys playing with my hair while we are going at it. Some just enjoy running their fingers through it others enjoy using it as a set of reins. I like both.
I also like being able to put my hair back to get it out of the way for certain activities where it would truly be a distraction. Thus, I keep some hair ties handy by my bed.
Finding a play partner who enjoys my hair is a real treat for us both.
Madoc