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Today the bottomless abyss of suckitude lurked at home. My boyfriend couldn't wait to show me his "great surprise"...that he had shorn off all his beautiful hair today with no notice or murmur whatsoever of warning to me.
Mind you, lovely black hair halfway down his back turned into this inch-high, fucking ugly spiked crap like the stupid lawyer ad on TV, the one we USED to make fun of up until yesterday and now he's sporting that same rooster-comb on his head. And he didn't understand why I was upset...apparently it is unreasonable of me to be sad/upset that his BEAUTIFUL HAIR IS ALL GONE.
I hate it, I hate it. Now he looks just like every other ordinary john on the street. Worse he looks like a totally different guy altogether, which creeps me out even more.
Am I shallow? I guess I am. I LOVED his hair. He knew that. I asked if this was intended to punish me for something I'm not aware of. He can't even give me a goddamned decent explanation of WHY he did it. And now he's all pouty and sulky because I got mad. WHAT DID HE FREAKING EXPECT?!?
He knows how bad I feel tonight and is going to go out and party anyway with his friends. Fine...have fun...maybe one of those bimbos at the club will find that lawyer-hair attractive, and they are welcome to it.
Sorry folks, I just had to vent...he was so gorgeous with that hair, very "Interview With a Vampire" when he wore historical garb ("romantigoth" as it's typically known). Now he looks Joe Blow...if I'd wanted a preppie boy, I'd have picked one way back when.
If it makes you feel any better if I had a girlfriend with long beautifull hair that she suddenly hacked off, I would be just as upset as you are.
Attraction is a funny thing. I'm a guy with big, rust colored curls that go down to my shoulder blades, and my girlfriend has a short spike do'. I personally dig women with short hair, so naturally I was a little upset when she started growing it out because some fool called her a lesbian (in a not-so-nice-way). While I was at first gonna pitch a fit about it, I did some thinking about how my folks gave me a hard time when I was a teenager about my long hair, and how much I hated being told what to do with my own darn hair!
So instead of imposing my preferences on my special lady, I just decided to love her no matter whats on her head ( I'd hope she'd do the same for me), and you know what? She got over it and got a sweet mohawk! (I'm sorry, mohawks are just plain cool IMHO).
So I suppose that if we fell in love for more than just our boyfriends/girlfriends/husbands/wives' hair, it wouldn't matter much what they do with it, right?
Peace.
What state do you live in? :)
Short hair doesn't make someone preppy.
And is it just me, or do we ALWAYS get these SAME types of threads, where the author never returns?
Awww, hun, my condolences. But if he knew that you loved his hair and he cut it all off, plus he went out to party with his friends when you were upset, he is no good and you should kick him as far to the curb as possible. That's my opinion anyway. Give him the finger for me ^_^
~Jenn