I found this site the other day and really liked what I saw. It's a new (couple weeks old maybe?) long hair site w/ a gallery (of both classic art work and real photographs) and message board that seems to be open to discussion for both male and female long hair (after all, hair is hair no matter who's head it's growing from).
anyway, here's the url: http://www.longhairlovers.com/
Yes, it's a cool site, but judging from their photo gallery, when they say "long" they mean loooonnnnggggg. [smile] There are a couple of pics of a guy named Chris with this great, really thick, waist-length hair which has been styled into big springy curls, but just in the back. Yup, I'm jealous.