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my first experience in nudist beach took place just a couple of days ago; and it was a mixture of things.. i'm about 5'9, lean, with long curly blonde hair about 2 inches above my waist. people say me curls are really feminine; i take this as a compliment! anyway, for most of the time i enjoyed myself at the beach; but towards the end, i went and near a rock and dried my hair with the towel, my front facing the sea. after that i began to brush it. suddenly i felt a body being pressed against me; it felt like someone very tall. i tried to turn but the person pressed himself against my back. he placed his hand in the inner part of my thigh and leant his head forward on my neck. as his hands went up my thighs, he eventually felt my *; and that was a moment worth dying for!! the expression on his face was simply .. well, i dont think words can describe it. i turned around and saw him running away! poor chap!
LMFAO..................not quite what he was expecting huh?LOL ohhh man......thats hillarious lol.
I am certain this is a troll post. A lot of longhair's greatest fears are being hitten on by a gay man, or being mistaken for a woman. The other day someone posted on my guestbook that he was a gay man that liked long hair on men. Since I'm an ardent believer in heterosexuality I deleted his entry. Don't want to be seen as a possible homosexual.
And what if you were...big deal!
Agreed, but forgive me whilst I disect the rest of your message:
Not necessary, your failing to remember that there are single Gay Men in this community who would love to be hit on by another guy. What's more I don't think many of us worry about being mistaken for a Women, ocassionally some dumbass makes a mistake and its hillariously funny, but for the most part there aren't many members of the board who would ever be mistaken for a women. (Unless the person was practically blind.) Its not a "Longhair's Greatest Fear" - Its incredibly funny because its so embarassing for the person who gets it wrong.
Why would do a thing like that? How does it reflect on your sexuality? And why oh why would you mention it here?
You should be slightly more observant of your surroundings, atleast 10% of the people who post here regularly are Gay and they tend to be some of the more senior members of the community. You entittled to your opinion but as a relative newcomer you might want to moderate your perspective otherwise you'll get burned alive by flames.
Sorted
Both are transient, temporary situations that last maybe 30 seconds or a minute.
I know a lot of long haired men who experience much greater concerns on the economic front. Obtaining and holding onto a decent job that suits a man's education, skills, and talents is far more important to most mature long haired men than sexually related matters affect them.
If it's your private guestbook, certainly you can do this, but you might want to reevaluate why you did it. Permitting disagreement is a sign of intellectual integrity, while eliminating dissention and diversity usually indicates insecurity. Heterosexuals and homosexuals alike should have no need to be insecure if they are comfortable with who they are.
JE
On one level, this is funny. But, I have to tell you, what really strikes me about this is that as long as you were a "woman" it was okay to, essentially, sexually assault you. Think about it. It was "okay" for this guy to walk up to a woman whom he did not know in a secluded place on a beach and not only touch, but with some force run his hands up her legs and into her genitals--until he found that her genitals were his genitals.
I also think that it's probably lucky for you that this guy ran away instead of turning his fear on you and continuing with a physical attack.
None of that is funny.
Robert
Yikes, that's chilling, but you're so right. I thought a big part of the philosophy behind nudist activities and gatherings, etc., was to display/enjoy nudity in contexts other than just sexual ones. If so, this extremely forward individual crossed that line. Makes a person wary of such activities, be s/he female or male. Tsk, a shame.
Also, it's a shame that many people still associate long hair with only women.
Here's hoping that the dude learned a lesson, but unfortunately, he'll probably only learn to check a little further to make sure his vicitm is female.
JE
I think it was just a matter of realizing that his victim was not in his demographic.
I understood the "confused demographic" part. Are you saying that it would have been okay, this scene, if he had been the right demographic?
Robert
No it would not have been "okay", but say if I was in public and saw what appeared to be an attractive woman from behind, make a cat-call, then *he* turns around. . . .I'd be pretty embarressed. Doesn't mean that cat-calling is ok if it was a woman.
ROFLMAO!!!!! That's a lesson, don't EVER go to a nudist beach again! Na, only joking, but man that's funny!!
That's just not right!
I've been to a couple of clothing optional beaches, but never had anything like this happen (my hair's not THAT long after all).
Which state was this in? The two beaches I've been to are in Texas, and I've never heard of anything like that before (the beaches are monitered though).
Anyways, I'm gonna be putting my hair in a ponytail from now on when I'm at the beach.
(Cody)
That's quite a story
That's just disgusting, mistaken identity or not, it's wrong and the fact that there was a big naked man on your back, well I'm surprised you are laughing it off. I'd be so disgusted and freaked out I'd have found the guy and cut off his wee wee.
"Posting of fantasy is permitted -- however it must be clearly identified as being fantasy."
"Pick a handle or use your name and stick to it."
Elizabeth
Yeah, I suspected this as fantasy, too. All the more reason to identify it as such, since its message is that if the gender is right, sexual assault is okay.
Robert
Years ago I had a somewhat related experience at a nudist beach: I was swimming along the beach at a distance of 150 - 200 feet and a couple og guys ran into the water and began chasing me. When the first one came within a few feet from me he noticed my beard - and made a very quick 180 degrees turn.
And sometimes I am taken for a fat woman as I have big arms and wear mostly sleeveless tops - as it happened a while ago while I was sitting in a bus and the passenger on the seat behind me addressed me as 'madame'...
A Linux Longhair
That's disturbing.
1. I've never been to a nude beach, but AFAIK, that's way outside the bounds of proper nude beach etiquette unless you were at some kind of swinger beach which I assume you weren't.
2. If you were a woman it would be sexual assault.
3. The guy is still out there, and will probably try to do something like that again.
It's sexual assault whenever there is sexual touching or talk that is unwelcome or invited. Gender has nothing to do with it. This was, fantasy or real, a description of sexual assault. It was made to be funny because it was same sex. If it was unwelcome and univited, it was not funny, and it was sexual assault. Because, largely, we don't understand this in our culture, people get hurt.
Robert
The guy could have thought it was his girlfriend or wife!
nt
Am I the only one who doesn't believe a word of this?
No, some others of us get that it likely was made up. However, the message is dangerous enough to have something to say about it beyond "this is not believable". It's message is dangerous. It says that under the "right" circumstances, sexual assault is okay, and if the victim happens to be same-sex, well, then it's just funny.
This board has largely not supported either attitude.
Robert
Exactly my perspective (not meaning to follow you around, Robert, but you state things well). I don't believe the story, either, but the point about sexual assault needs to be stressed over and over.
JE
Nope, I'm with you...
I find him rather hard to believe, He posted a similiar story as "Markus", he solicited Pictures as "Ben". This guy is clearly not on the level.
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never had that thank goodness. i was in a bar once and a guy gave put his hand on my ass... i turned round and he indeed looked quite shocked and made a hasty exit.
When I was in highschool I had a "cute butt" apparently (I never understood the appeal of butts, I'm more of an "overall shape" man).
Anyhow, there was this *guy* who used to pinch it all the time and then joke. I guess he thought it was funny for a guy to pinch another guy's butt.
Every once in a while the girls would do it too of course.
Either my butt got ugly or people around me got more grown up. The last time my butt got pinched I was 18. I turned around and the girls doing it were like, 13! Eeep!
For the record, I *never* enjoyed being pinched, regardless of the gender. Does *anybody* get turned on by being on the receiving end of that? Anybody???
No...it's nerve racking.
When I was in high school, at one entrance, a whole group of guys used to hang out, nearly blocking the entrance, and they would not only pinch and swat our butts, but they'd catcall and say all sorts of highly suggestive comments to the girls passing through them (literally, as they would press us close). This occurred long enough ago that if/when we complained, the school just told us that it was a "cultural difference" as the boys were part of a huge group of recent immigrants from south-of-the-border, and that we girls should just press through and ignore the boys, who would get the point after a while that they were getting nowhere with us. Great advice, huh??!!
JE
Poor chap? I don't think so. If the story is true, he is a pervert and a sodomizer at best. If the story is false (which I suspect), he doesn't exist at all.
I visit a nude beach all the time. Stuff like this NEVER happens. Everybody is cool and very respectful of one another. Nude is NOT lewd. Unless the etiquette at your beach is vastly different from mine, which I doubt, then I don't believe a word of your story, except that maybe, just maybe, you have the hair you describe.
I doubt we can even give him that much credit.
Mistake or not or whatever, a compliment is always better than a put-down.
Your hair must be awesume!
Glad something like this didn't send you running to the butcher................i mean the Barber Shoppe! lol
