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Finally unlurking again!
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Chris C.

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Hey guys. I used to post here but I haven't been able to use the internet much between school and learning a ridiculous amount of audition music for some schools I'm looking at, but I've started lurking occasionally and now I'm going to come out of the shadows once again. Anyway, today makes the 19th month I've gone without a haircut. I'm still having trouble believing that it's been more than a month since my last haircut, but I'm not complaining! :-) Now that I'm taking a momentary hiatus from the stress of life, I'll be reacquainting myself with the board and such. I look forward to posting here with more frequency and becoming a productive member of the board.

Chris.

Today, on our public radio station KERA (kera.org), I heard a wonderful hair story.
There was a call-in question/answer session asking listeners (I'm paraphrasing this) "What one thing from your past would you like to do again before you reach your Golden Years?"
One listener called in and said that he had grown his hair long when he was in high school, and then kept it very short after he was done with school.
He later (age 57 now) grew his hair to lower back length for the very first time since high school. He was amazed at how nice his hair looked and that it still had most of the color it did when he was in high school. This person was very emotional, almost in tears, as he was describing how wonderful it felt to grow his hair out again!
A wonderful hair-related story I heard from out of the blue on the radio today. This made my day!

- Oren

P.S. This aired sometime between 1:30 - 1:45pm CST during "Think".

Kinda O/T: Do your vitamins make you sick?
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Michael

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So lately I've been taking Fish Oil Omega 3 and Vitamin B Complex w/ Biotin to help speed up my hair growth. They've been helping tremendously to speed it up. About a 1" a month or more.

This year alone I've had a sinus infection, bronchitis(sp?) and now I'm on my 2nd cold. Last time I was sick was 6 years ago with anything. Just wondering if anyone else here is having the same issues?

Hey all!

So for the past month or so I've used organic shampoo and have loved it. My hair can actually go a week without looking greasy smelling awful. The next step I'd like to take is using baking soda and vinegar to clean my hair. Has anyone tried this before and what have your experiences been with it? Thanks!

Rich

Another mega-longhair inspiration...
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Urban Cowboy

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While recently checking out Hairfreaky's many inspiring longhaired YouTube videos, i just recently discovered this new [to me] longhaired man's videos on YouTube -- including some AWESOME braiding and bun-making vids, excellent in every way!

He does his self-braiding as well as makes his basic hair-twist style buns in the same way that I do, the only difference being that his hair is WAAAY longer and fuller than mine is [sob sob while turning green with envy - LOL).... Well worth checking his videos out!! Here's the YouTube info / link:

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Enjoy!!

- Ken in San Francisco

Tails of the City
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Jason W.

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Well, Tomorrow I cross a threshold. I will pull my hair back and wear a tail to work. It is getting longer, amd I wanted to wait a bit before doing so. However, my hair, though straight, is thick and is refusing to stay behind my ears. Therefore I will pull back what can be held into a tail situated slightly higher than I will finally wear one. This is to gather all the hairs I can. Those not long enough...yet, I will use a light spritzing. and maybe pins (if needed and I buy some) Wish me luck, I haven't worn a tail to work in 30 years.

Growing Long and Feeling Short
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ArendJK

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Hello All
Marry Christmas and Happy New Year

This is my first Thread-post since I introduced myself a week or 2 ago.

I just have the one question.

It has been roughtly 9 months since my last haircut. My hair is already in the 8 to 9 inch range - thanks inpart to it still being "long for a guy" afterwords. And it is the longest its ever been so far.

But lately Ive been getting the strange feeling like my hair is short again - sometimes it even feels really short. And I was wondering: Is that normal? Does it only happen to first-time longhairs? Or does it happen to (some) people every time they grow their hair out?

Any answers would be greatly apreciated
Thank you

ot: Special blessings to you all [PIC]
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Justin

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Christmas blessings to one and all,
(have just returned from a nearby Mall)
not so much buzz, or hardly a spike-
long hair is back, I note with delight. :-)

And now dear friends, I do wish to say,
Seasons greetings in such a special way-
may peace, joy and love reign now and forever,
and to cut your locks(?): never, never, never!

Merry Christmas Guys and a joyous and Happy New Year to you all. A year of peace, harmony and good-will.

Justin~
ps: Hope Santa remembers that I wanna Sandbox this year cause last year he forgot and gave me a lump of coal.......and ALL I asked for last year was an ounce of Gold. LOL :-) Be good.

Seasons Greetings
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Kevin C

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Happy Holidays From all of us at MLHH

Cheers

Kevin

I read this on a Green Bay Packers blog:

"You know Clay Matthews III would like a shampoo deal.

Lammi Sports Management is working on that. But Matthews' agents are also pursuing an insurance policy for Matthews' hair for $5,000,000. Troy Polamalu's hair was insured for $1,000,000 but there is apparently reason to believe that Clay's hair value is actually in the $5,000,000 range. Here's the story on Troy Polamalu (click for link)."

Clay Matthews has a nice blonde mane, but is it worth more than Troy Polamalu's? Should we all start insuring our hair? :-)

Al

Awesome mane
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nuttidave

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Just dropping by to say hi to everyone and wish you all the very best for the coming year. To inspire those growing their hair, our friend Hairfreaky posted this video, some 'may' have seen it before but here it is for those who haven't:

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cheers one and all

Dave

At 46 Longhair For The 5th Time
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Ebenezer Lewis

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I have dry frizzy to straight hair, think Mitch and Noel in The Jimi Hendrix Experience in '66 and '67. It's shoulder length, a bit longer in the back. And it's a full head of hair and I'm 46, not as thick as it once was but definitely not thin, barely thinning. The only metal I really is the very early kind (Black Sabbath, Deep Purple, Led Zeppelin) and early Aerosmith and AC/DC till 1980. Does that make me a metalhead? I'm more of a 60s "garage" fan, a rocker and a mocker and an artist without art. I'm a natural longhair. Even when my hair is short I'm still a longhair by nature. I'm a primitive longhair. Hopefully, I'll post a picture here.

Trans-Siberian Orchestra concert
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Kif

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Hey guys :)

Last night I had the treat to go to a Trans-Siberian Orchestra performance in Ottawa at Scotiabank Place.

It was an absolutely incredible show they put on, and the band members all had such lovely hair!

here are some youtube videos of the event.

My family are so ignorant!!!!!!
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Mitch Norton

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Now we get a lot of shit thrown at us (or at least I do) about our long hair sometimes. Some of us are mocked by complete strangers whereas others are dissed by their friends and sometimes even their own family. As for me, I get the latter. It's not so much my friends but my family are always complaining about my hair.

OK, it's long compared to most guys' hair but nowhere near as long as some of the guys on this site have their hair.
I respect men with long hair. It shows that they aren't afraid to stand up to society's expectations and that they want to be something different to the Average Joe businessman. Unfortunately, my family thinks otherwise. They on the other hand admire the conservative, boring look of short hair on anyone who's not a girl.

So you might be thinking, so what, just grow it and ignore your families opinions and tell them it's your hair you can do what you want, etc... Well that's easy for most people on MLHH to say but unlike most people here I'm only 15.
That means for some reason my parents think they own my hair and are now putting me down about this matter. I'm not giving in that easily of course and I can't now because it's been a year since my last cut, it's past my shoulders and it's the longest my hair has ever been. I can't stop now!

Anyway, my parents, aunties/uncles, grandparents, THE LOT are all against long hair on guys and the reason for writing this is not to seek help to convince them that it looks good but to get advice on how I can get respect because I don't want to be like everyone else, I want to be ME!
Short Hair IS NOT Me!!!

My last cut was quite a while ago but all I remember is being really annoyed to get a cut and being really unhappy for ages until it got to a reasonable length. My hair is now past the awkward phase and I am happier than ever, but my family is now putting more pressure on me than ever. Christmas is coming up and the whole family is coming to our place for dinner so my mum might turn evil and get it cut before then.

So yeah now you know my story there is one thing however that makes my parents happy. If I tie it up it seems to keep them quite and it's the only reason I managed to grow it for nearly a year (Jan 9 2011 marks one year) but it's boring me and I want to have it out sometimes but then my parents just start b****ing at me again.

But really I just need advice on earning their respect and I need something to convince them that people with long hair are not necessarily (quote) "dirty old hippies".

PLEASE HELP!!!!!

Hello! [PIC]
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Anthony Roy

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Hey guys, just found this board.

I guess i'll tell you about myself

I'm 15, have been growing my locks since I was 11 (Beginning of the 6th grade, now halfway through the 10th grade.)

Great to see more dudes like me, because we all know what a rarity long hair can be :P

The picture is just after a shower

Picture
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thomc1980

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Didnt really realize how long my hair really was in teh back till last night lol. So I figured id snap a pic or 2.

Over 4 years [PIC]
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Hegg

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Haven't posted here in what seems like aeons; so hello, everybody! Haven't touched a blade to my hair at all, here's a picture from out of the shower. My life took a sharp turn the other day; I got into a horrible car accident, but walked away without a single scratch or injury. Going 65 MPH, slid on ice doing a 180 across 3 lanes directly into a cement wall, completely destroying my 12 year old car. Anyway, there's the picture, cheers.

Happy solistice solstice!
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John.B

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Hi there,

Now that the seasons are changing again let's hope it will usher a new cavelcade of updates!

If you are planing to travel over the holidays just take care. I'd forget about coming to Europe as they can't even keep airport runways open or trains running under the tunnel! Perhaps the management from Chicago O'Hare should come over and advise!

Happy solistice solstice!

Cheers,

John.B

A lurker comes out of hiding!

I attempted becoming a longhair over a year ago because I have always had short hair. The main reason for the short hair was because of social and peer influences. I think I look great with short hair but I also think I look so unique and free with long hair.

I cut my hair because I wasn't sure if I wanted to stick with it and because EVERYONE I knew was encouraging me or essentially telling me "you should cut your hair." Mind you, some of them did say the longhair wasn't bad but they just liked the short hair more. Needless to say, I really began to regret my decision to lop it all off just a couple weeks after.

Well I like my hair long-I feel that it's an expression of my life in general from being a young father, to being a student, to being an atheist. Words cannot describe how happy I am that I found this site! You guys are all so inspirational and unique. The members here have really encouraged me to not be afraid to stand out and express myself. I hope to become a regular here and I will definitely post update pics when there is some substantial growth! :)

I've been shaving my head completely bald since I was 15 years old. 2 years ago (age 25), i decided to shave my head clean and then start my new hair growth without getting a single hair cut in between...i always wanted long hair and figured i should do it while i still have the goods lol. My hair grows at about just under 7 inches a year but doesnt look as long due to my curly hair.

first pic is august 08
second is august 09
and the third is august 10

I can see the light..
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ArendJK

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at the end of a very hairy tunnel.. but Im not their yet

short-time visiter, first time poster

Comitmet
I`ve been growing my hair out since early last april & can safely say that Im nearing the end of the awkard stage.

Hair type
In my shorter hair days (2 to 6 inches) my hair was extremly curly but lately seems to be leaning more towards wavy

Current Length
-Only an inch or 2 passed the very tops of my shoulders (with newly natural wave)
-Doesnt even reach my shoulders (with curly bedhead)
-Almsot to armpits (with fresh from shower strait)
quick note: the hair at the lower back area was probibly 3 or 4 inchs long even after that last cut

Goal Length
My goal length is a little different than that of the other future-longhairs on this sight. Where most of the furutre longhairs seem to have a MAX-length goal, mine is a MIN-length goal. My goal is to get my hair compeltely passed the armpits, and to never let it go back.

How I did it so far
-Even before I commited to becoming a longhair, I was only getting my hair cut every 4 to 6 months
-I had my 20th birthday this summer, so last newyears I decided that I didnt want to spend 1 second of official adulthood as a shorthair
-Since I commited, Ive completley stopped using shampoo, and only use Garnier Furctis Long & Strong Conditioner

Issues
-My hair will generally point down for the rest of the day after Ive delt with the bedhead & wet it alittle. but when its restrained (be it with my bandana or in a ponytail) any hair passed the restrait still poffs out in every direction
-Hair right at hairline stays completely flat against my skin, and I dont know if thats got to do with the length of my hair or how Im caring for it

and So it grows
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Jason W.

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My hair is still in my estimation nearing the final stages of "awkwardness' As more hairs achieve a length that can be gathered into a tail, the thicker such tail will be. Still have a few months before, in my estimation. a purposeful tail will exist. However I have a question. I am weaning myself from daily shampooing. Same as I did in the 70s and 80s when my hair was last very long. I have been using a boars hair brush and it does seem to be beneficial to my hair. I have gone to only shampooing lightly every other day and may increase the time between shampoos. My hair seems to lay better (the wild bed head look does not always look good) if I at least wet it down in my morning showers. Perhaps it is because of the low humidity in the Arizona climate. I finger comb it when wet, let it air dry then brush it. Is this a healthy procedure?

Hair care routine. (Whats yours) [PIC]
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Sorted

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Blane posted a question about how you keep your hair from looking dry, straw-like. For some people this comes easily, naturally straight sleek hair like Travis' is easy to look after, because the structure of straight hair is stronger and less prone to damage. Wavy or curly hair can be more of a challenge because its inherently weaker and as such more susceptible to damage. Its even more of challenge if your hair is thick like mine.

But I noticed girls were far better at caring for their longhair than guys, so with all due to respect to the learned opinions of my fellow longhairs, I decided to take my cue from the ladies.

Here's what I do (and I learned from the girls):

(1) I wash my hair twice a week using a salon-brand shampoo and a separate conditioner. I avoid super-hot water when washing my hair, but I'm not puritanical in insisting that we wash in cold water.

(2) I towel dry my hair until it stops dripping then I use a detangler (a light-leave-in conditioner) before gentle combing my hair with a wide-toothed comb from the ends of my hair up to the roots.

(3) When my hair is about 80% dry, I spray lightly with a heat-protect serum and comb through, then I use a flat-nozzle hair-dryer to blow dry it straight. This takes about 15-20 minutes.

(4) Once a month I'll use a leave-in or deep conditioner, which I apply after getting out of the shower.

(5) Generally I brush my hair when its dry and comb it when its wet. You should never brush wet hair.

(6) When I start to notice my hair snagging more and more when I'm combing it, I have my ends trimmed. <1 inch cut every 4 months. Obviously if you are still growing out and haven't reach a length you want to maintain, you may wish to trim less or less often or not at all.

However, once your hair gets to mid back, if you want to go for butt length or beyond, and you have thick wavy hair, my advice is to trim a little 3 times a year. It makes the journey a little longer but you'll get there with better hair.

NB: This advice will apply best to people who have a similar hair type to me. I'm sure others will have their own opinions and share below:

{Please}

When to trim the neck-line hair? [PIC]
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Shark

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As the hair on the back of my head grows, it obviously all grows at the same time. In other words, the hair right on my neck grows with the hair in the middle of the back of my head, and as well as the top of my hair.

The bottom hair is going to drape over my neck before the other hair even gets down to that.

I have attached a picture :)

What is the normal way to get through the "awkward stage", before it's all long and growing nicely together? Do you just keep trimming the hair at the red line, while the yellow and green lines grow to catch up to the neck length?

What's the norm/best looking?

Beatle-head Justin. LOL :-)
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Justin

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Oh my, just look at what we have here. Did the cat drag it in? :-0 Finally arrived at about the Beatles stage and letting it grow. (For now I shall call it my "retro hairstyle.)

Many have said they wanted an update, so ok, here it is at last. (I am only seen in the beginning, so you can skip the music or listen........that is, if you dare.)

Wishing you all a very wonderful holiday season and the happiest New Year of your entire life! :-)

Take care and bye for now-

Justin~

1 year update and pics
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thomc1980

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Well its been a year since I decided no more chopping off my hair so I had to do the obligatory pic =p. This is my first attempt at tailing it my bangs dont quite make it to my tail yet but ooooh so close.

What to do with side burns ... ???
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Shark

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The longer the hair gets on the side of my head, the "crazier" my sideburns start to look.

I'm just trying to get a plan for the sideburns. Should I just daily shave up to the top of my ear line? Is it normal for long hair men to have NO sideburns? Or is it better to just grow out the sideburns with the rest of the hair? I'm sure it's a "personal preference" topic, but I couldn't really find any examples comparing the different long hair side burn (or the lack thereof) styles.

Thanks!

Long Hair Action Shot and Update [PIC]
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del

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Hi Guys and Girls. I haven't posted in a long time but thought you might like these action shots that I took with my Body Combat teacher at the gym. Yes, I'm sure that all of you would have liked to see me beating up the guy with the shaved head, but he was paying the photographer to do publicity shots for him and I was just doing him a favor. Usually, I'm the peace loving, yoga type, but this guy is a great teacher and I thought the pictures were fun. It has been 7 years and 3 months since my last hair cut.

Keep the hair growin'.

del

Chlorine and Salt Water
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Shark

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Are there any swimmers in here?? I swim in a normally chlorinated pool every day, and I'm often in the Ocean. So, basically every single day I'm in a body of water that either contains chlorine or salt water.

I know for a fact that chlorine is awful for your hair, and I don't imagine salt water is good either (though I can't imagine it worse than chlorine).

When I swim in a chlorinated pool, I wear a swim cap. But realistically, the chlorinated water still gets to my "covered" hair. When I immediately get out of the pool, I rinse my hair in a fresh water shower. Then I go home and shampoo/condition it.

My question is, what can I do extra to minimize the Chlorine (especially) and salt water effects on hair?

Remember me?
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Big George

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I'm sure some of you old farts will remember me; I was fairly active on here beginning a few years ago. You may remember that I have been in a battle with my mortgage company for going on four years now. The good news is that I have come out the winner in the battle! This has consumed quite a bit of my time that I used to devote to things like posting on sites on the Internet.

I am still maintaining my hair at just below my shoulder blades. The stress of the last few years has taken it's toll; it is quite a bit thinner than it used to be just two to three years ago. I plan to maintain at this length and hopefully let it fill back out.

Just wanted to stop in and see if there was anyone I still recognized; quite a few of you are still around. So a boisterous hello to all of you and maybe after the first of the year I can once again bless you with my radical conservative tidbits on a more regular basis!

Big George

1 year update [PIC]
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Ar15

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Hey guys back here again with a one year update. Cant believe its been a year already

My First Year [PIC]
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RobD

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Hello all.
Well, it's been one year since I sarted growing my hair long again. It has been a lot easier than I thought it would be, and I look forward to never cutting my hair again.
Keep it growing guys!
Rob

neck hairs? [PIC]
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MrMileHi

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So I am new here and really appreciate everyone's posts and comments. But onto my question, I have been growing my hair for about a 1.5 yrs and my all my hair(almost) can be put up into a pony. My problem is that I have the shorter hairs on my neck that just don't seem to be keeping up, and growing at all for that matter. What to do?

O/T: Columbus Day
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Validus

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Anyone who finds "Columbus Day" something to celebrate is either ignorant of history or a rotten person. Upon first encountering the Arawak people, Columbus wrote in his log: "They have no iron. Their spears are made of cane... They would make fine servants... With fifty men we could subjugate them all and make them do whatever we want." Sounds like the kind of guy who would make men cut their hair, too. Click the link below and educate yourself.

--Val

Radio Show
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Caesar

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My show is on now until 9 est if anyone wants to listen

www.cougarradio.net

I also have a webcam up for it

www.livestream.com/whenlifegivesyoulemons

thanks

Hey guys I've been lurking for a couple years now, checking out pics of peoples nice longhair. And my story is simple, I haven't ever been able to make it past the poofy akward stage because my thick is very thick, wavy, and curly. In the last 10 years I've tried like 6 times to get long hair and I always end up thinking that I just wasn't meant to have long hair ever. I usually think it's going to just keep growing up and out and poof out to the point of a whiteboy afro. I guess I'm more self conscious than I'd like to be. But this time I'm growing it out for me, and not really for how it looks, but more so for the things long hair symbolize. I look up to Willie Nelson, and Jesus, and the hippies of the 60s/and 70s and I've always had a boring short haircut that makes me look very conservative. But thats not who I am on the inside. I just know longhair would reflect who I truly am so much better. And now I'm starting to get to the point where I usually start worrying about my hair, and eventually go and have it cut (a little), but we all know how that ends up, they take way too much off and I end up giving up on the longhair dream for months until I decide I want longhair again. It's a vicious cycle of failing!! Already I'm having my Mom and female friends tell me I should cut it, that long hair won't suit me, that the type of hair I have just isn't meant to be grown out. Sigh... but I tell em to shut it now, At 25 I'm more determined to become a longhair no matter the cost. No trims, no chemicals, to straighteners, no nothing but patience. I told em, I don't care how bad I look, I'm growing my hair long and thats that!! Anyways, this site will be big on suport for me, hello from Santa Barbara California!! Happy Holidays!

The inevidible
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Michael

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Well I found out why my hair isn't growing anymore.......I'm losing it!!!

Tonight was hair wash night, detangling like usual I found all these black dot looking things on the left side of my forehead. You can't see them when my bangs are dry and down. When wet and slicked back, it's almost obvious. Seems to be working from the forehead back.

THIS BLOWS!!!

Hats?
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Dmitri

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I've been thinking about hats lately. Is there any particular style that you guys think goes well with long hair? One obvious choice, I think would be the Rasta hat (tam beret).

As a completely random aside:
I've been smoke free for about 3 months now!

--D

I haven't been here in a while
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Josh

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Hey guys! Well, a lot has happened in the last year and i haven't updated in ages! Over a year or so?

This is a picture for my band Ensyrion. I haven't used any kind of products, straighteners, or hair dryers in over 2 years. I think my hair's gotten a bit longer :D

Josh

Trim? [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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I'm thinking about getting my hair trimmed, to even things out.
Actually it's even in a way, because every hair is at the same lenght, but it looks like the back is way longer than the sides and front. I'm not sure if i like this look, but i do like the fact that it's getting kind of long...

Compare these:

jogging with long hair
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Mentat

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I haven't gone out jogging for a while, partly because my long hair gets in my eyes. When I had a shaved head I would just go out and do it but now I can't do that. Do any of you guys go out jogging much? What do you use?

Training Hair to Lay Flat
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Shark

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Here is the type of hair of have: very thick, wavy hair. The hair on the top of my head is about 3 inches long, and when my hair grows, it doesn't necessarily grown DOWN, it grows UP!

My solution is to wear a bandanna throughout the day (when appropriate) so that it "mats" my hair down. If I wear the bandanna for 4 to 6 hours a day then when I take off the bandanna it is pretty "laid down" on my head, but after a shower or a night's sleep, it's back to the poofed up thing.

My question is, are there any tricks to train hair to lay flat (slicked back) with no product in it? Not to mention, have the hair grow in that direction as well? I feel like what I'm doing with the bandanna trick is just a temporary thing.

Any suggestions/advice/tips?

December Update [PIC]
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Luke

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Hey MLHH! I hope some of you remember me, as it has been a while since I've posted here. Just wanted to let you know I'm still on the long hair journey, and I have now been growing my hair for 28 months. (Where does the time go?)

Anyways, here is my hair as of now.

Hi there,

Just to let you know I'm a guest on a friend of mines Saturdays Rocks with Jennt Tate, Rock and Metal show in Birmingham UK on Rhubarb Radio.

http://www.rhubarbradio.com/

The show is one between 1pm - 3pm UK or 8am-10am eastern time I'm sure the rest of your can work it out :-)!

There is also a listen back at a later date on the site as well.

It should be fun.

Cheers,

John.

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AustinC

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Hey guys im 14 and new here but ive been lurknig fr awhile, i moved from a private to a public school so i had the oppurtunity to grow out my hair. So far its been about a year even though the pics are 2 years apart. So tell me what u guys think :D

8 months really makes a difference!
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FITNESSDAVID

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Hi Guys!

Here is my hair on November 21,2010:

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Here is my hair about 8 months before, March 3,2010:

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Long Hair in the Professional Work Force
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Shark

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I know this question has probably been asked over and over, but I guess I'm just looking for a little consolation. I'm in the IT field and I just want to see from the guys that actually have long hair and deal with prejudices if I have "nothing to worry about".

My hair is thick, dark, and wavy (not that wavy, but definitely wavy). It's currently about 3 inches long and I'm slowly growing it out (I wish it would grow faster!).

How do you wear your hair in the professional work force setting? I read somewhere that the most "conservative" way to keep long hair as a man in the corporate world is just to pull it back (no parts) into a tight pony tail.

As my hair gets longer (it's thick and has a lot of volume) when I'm in that professional setting I use pretty strong hair gel to slick it back. It looks good, and I think I'm going to continue the slick-back look.

I'm just looking for some reassurance that I'm overreacting about the professional future with my long hair!

Thanks!!

Thoughts on Turning 39
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Jason

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I posted the following in my journal and thought I'd share it here as well. It serves as a little update on my life currently. I'm definitely enjoying life right now. I'm married to my best friend and she brings me great happiness every day.

So yesterday I turned 39. One year remains before I cross that barrier of 40 often considered to be the threshold of middle age. It's important to keep young in one's mental outlook and, as much as possible, in one's physicality also. Bodies tend to rust out rather than wear out in my opinion. So many people I know seem to have just hung it up upon entering their thirties. I find that to be sad.

Exercise to a great extent holds back the clock. On the other hand, being sedentary at this age has even more drastically negative effects than when one is younger. I absolutely refuse to give in to middle-age "spread". One's mood, outlook, mobility and confidence are closely linked to fitness.

I patently abhor the misguided notion that humans must cut their hair shorter as they age. In my view, the quickest way to show your age is to get a "mom" haircut or if you're a man, cave to some corporate ideal of what professional men are supposed to look like.

As far as the mental aspects go, I believe that it's natural to have more "mature" positions on things as we get older but I don't think we need to fundamentally change who we are. I have the same passions and viewpoints on many issues that I had when I was much younger. In fact, my political views have become more radicalized in the last few years. My musical tastes have only gotten more eclectic and extreme. My religious path began taking a major divergence in my early 30s and I'm still finding my way in that regard.

So here's to keeping on fighting "the man" no matter what one's age is!

Growth resting period??
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Michael

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I've read on here a couple times that hair may go through a resting stage. From what I gather, this happens at no specific times or intervals, it randomly occurs for no predicted amount of time? and that it means your close to terminal? God I hope not!

I ask because over the last couple months my hair has been maintaining 10"

Introduction [PIC]
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DanH

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Hello All,

I stumbled on this forum yesterday and found it quite interesting and filed with kindred spirits. I thought I'd post and say hello as well as give you my story.

I have been growing my hair since my last very short haircut in June, 2009. My hair grows slowly (I think) but I don't believe in trimming at all, so it's all there in the picture. The picture in this post and the following are not that great and my hair was pretty damp in the one here, but the one of the back is a bit more dry. I'm finding as I grow out my hair this time around that I have "strings" on the front and sides that are growing very slowly - I thought it unusual until I saw the thread about that same issue further down the board - and I figure at 57 that it may be natural. I did start this same process in 1998 and just as the hair on the sides touched my shoulders I had to cut it off. This time it for keeps!

Early on, as my hair started to grow, I realized it was very, very dry, so I did some research and by using off the shelf products I made a concoction of shea butter cream, olive oil cream and jojoba oil. I wash my hair once or twice a week with a clarifying shampoo, then put on a health glob of my stuff and work it into my wet hair and just leave it in. Sometimes I put some extra jojoba on the ends and back. Believe it or not I will sometimes add more cream to my hair later in the week if it appears dry.

I'm just getting the hang of combing and brushing - when I get up in the morning I always have a lot of tangles in the back. I've been pretty harsh until I got a tip on this forum yesterday - start at the end and work up. What a difference!

I sure did enjoy reading the board yesterday - I did get quite a few tips for caring for my hair and everyone here seems to be really great!

Thanks!
Dan

Out of the woodwork - a 40 month update! [PIC]
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Pat Medha

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It's been one helluva long time since I last posted here, but here I am, 40 months and still growing. Only trims were seek and destroy since I started my ever enjoyable journey of becoming a longhair.

I've met my original goal length which is pretty much at mid back now. I have decided to go for terminal which hopefully will reach my waist if not more. Thanks everyone on MLHH for being my inspiration through the awkward stage. The longer it gets, the longer I want it to get!

This is unbrushed hair from out of a shower. When brushed, it measures about 20 - 22 inches :) More pics to follow soon, hopefully

I have recently gotten some bitter/sweet news lately.
Good news: I was accepted to extend my contract as a teacher; Bad news: They denied me a year contract for a 6 month contract because of "grooming issues".
Good news: So far the hair hasn't reached a length they are outright demanding a cut for. Bad news: They have demanded I shave clean and I have a pretty sure feeling they are going to tell me to cut the hair.

This revelation came from my co-teacher who translate the principal's conditions for me to stay. I am frantically trying to find a style that I can wear to hide, or smoothly transition into long hair. I feel like I need to sneak my long hair if I want any hope at keeping my job.

As a few of you might know from my introduction post, I have medium curly hair. It is very thick, starting to fro, and usually sticks up all over the place without product (I hate product).

One of the styles I have never been able to stomach with short hair is a part (No offense) It just doesn't suit me. I have considered caking pomade in my hair and slicking it all back (Maybe it is the Italian in me) but I feel so weird doing anything that premeditated. I have always liked the no-fuss, straight-out-the-shower, don't-give-a-**** look. growing up with three sisters will do that to a guy I guess.

Either way, I am wondering:

A) Do any of you LH gurus or aspiring longhairs have ideas for sneaky growing of bushy curls? Extra points for low maintenance!

B) This is the real important one> Do any of you other curly haired guys know if pomade, continual combing, or anything else will kill my curls? I LOVE the fact that my hair is not straight, and the last thing I want is to turn it permanently straight on accident trying to appease some 80 yr. old Korean dude. If I had my way I would just let it grow like a muffin top til the natural weight brought it down, but I am between a rock and a hard place here.

Sorry this is such a long rambling post, but I just got word of it this week and kinda strapped for ideas on what to do.
For anyone that didn't see my old post, or just doesn't feel like hunting it down, here is an old pic on me a few months back, virtually the same when it's dry though.

(On a side note, I am finally got bangs below the eyes! Silly marker for you people rocking knee length hair, I know, but a small marker for me.)

just took this pic, as you can see my hair is coming along nicely, just the slightest of waves and is getting to "Tail gethering" length. However not all the fery forward hairs are quite there, so I place them behind my ears, at least that tis the theory, my hair, though relatively straight is thick enough to not wish to stay where placed. so until I can form up a proper tail, (sometime by the Spring, perhaps, this is me and my hair. Gettin' a lot of good comments though. It shores me up and pushes mr on to my goal, which is an ever longer mane.

''MY LONG HAIR. THE ULTIMATE LENGTH!''
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Justin

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Hey guys

To watch this newly created video fills me with a sense of nostalgia as to what was lost. The 2nd to the last (stock?) photo shows my hair at its all time longest before the Salon Demolishment. Looks as if terminal was still a long way off.

Coupled with images of some of the beautiful places I love here in the Pacific Northwest, it is ever so apparent that Natures gift of Long Hair to both Men and Women was meant to be. In complete harmony with the "natural" and the beauty of this planet on which we live.

Wishing you all well and hope you are enjoying this long weekend.

Justin~

Hair Brush Recommendations
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Mikhael

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Well it has been while since I last posted.. I have had ups and downs with all sorts of new medications.. Including some that have given a major problem of hair fall out, :( , including hair breakage.. It has not been pretty... But at least I have found some product help to control and hide the frizz and fly-aways until they grow back in..

Anyway, Have a question for you fine gents..

What is your recommendation for hair brushes? I read while researching that boar hair brushes are suppose to be good but then I just read a professional who only recommended large spaced paddle brushes (which has plastic teeth) but he said it does not pull out the hairs in the video I watched unlike round brushes.

I bought a very nice expensive boar hair large round brush but I feel it does to much damage to the hair.

So what do you fine gents recommend?

Round Brush or Paddle Brush?
Boar Hair or Plastic Teeth?
If boar hair, Soft or stiff?

Any other recommendations?

Thanks in Advanced...

Mikhael

Hey guys and gals. I have been looking at this forum for a while. My interest in getting long hair has been around as long as I remember, but I have never been 'allowed' to. As a kid it was school and parents. In college my girlfriend didn't like it. The workplace was strict.. You know how it goes.
Well I finally have the chance to grow it! Kinda.....
The thing is I am an English teacher in South Korea. I started growing it out when I realized the hairstyles here aren't my cup of tea. I have always had short hair, but occasionally let it grow a bit because I LOVE the feeling of it. So I decided this is the time to grow. The only problem is that Korea is pretty conservative and appearance is EVERYTHING here. I can't talk to 99% of the people I work with, so I don't know how they feel, and I want to keep my job! I already shaved my beard, but the growing process will take a while and I am worried they won't be as patient as me. My hair seems to grow on the fast side of the spectrum, a tiny bit under an inch a month I think. I have been growing for about 3 months. It is really curly when it gets longer, so it looks shorter than it is.
I guess the question I am asking is 1. What would you say to co-workers and bosses to respectfully ease them about the transition, and 2. can anyone suggest nice transitional hairstyles? I tried slicking it back with wax, but my hair doesn't want to lay down! 3. How long do you think I have til I can reach the all important 'tie back' checkpoint? To be honest love the wild curly look and if I had it my way I'd let it just do it's thing. Here are some before & now pics.

OT We lost one of the Best.
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Kevin C

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Late November 28th Leslie Nielsen passed away. Most anyone who's seen Airplane, The naked Gun films, among many other of his spoofs can appreciate a good laugh. If heaven does exist I imagine he's signing autographs and getting laughs as I write this. I'm imagining god does a late night chat show and Nielsen is his next guest.

Leslie Nielsen 1926 - 2010

Kevin

Introduction [PIC] [PIC]
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Kif

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Well i have been lurking here for a little bit now and I thought I would post an introduction here.

This is my 2nd time growing out my hair, the first time being when I was 20, and I grew it to a few inches longer than it is now. About 2 years ago I was trying out a management position and kept getting pressured from head office about my hair and cut it for this reason. I since learned that convenience store management is not for me, and that I don't think any job should require me to cut my hair to fit into their "image" of professional.

So once I left that job I started growing back out and as of the beginning of November this is the result.

I have done far less damage to my hair this time around, and listened to the hair salon less (less trims, and trimming less when I do) and I like it a lot better this time. My preference is to wear it loose most often, sometimes putting it in a ponytail or even a bun depending.

It's been great to read up here for a bit to see the great community of longhaired men!

I can't believe I found this site! I have had long hair on and off since 1972. I am from a very small town in the Midwest and believe it or not have never really been hassled about it. My hair is now the longest it has ever been (waist level). I am very happy to find fellow long hairs!!!

Hair brushing the badonkadonk
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William

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What a marvelous new sensation! Five and 1/2 years of growing and I've gotten to the point where the hair now grazes the top-o-the-tushie.

Year
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Abstrakt

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And so it's been a few days more than a year since i cut my hair short. And i have to say i'm happier with my hair now than i've been in a long time. I'm glad i stuck with it. I guess i'll post an update later or something. But now i'm just sitting here with unwashed hair and lovin' it, lol

BTW: Believe it or not, snowstorms can do wonders for your hair! We have alot of snow here earlier than usual, and walking through a storm gave my hair great volume and even a slight wave!

New to This [PICS] [PIC]
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Pretorious

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Hello everyone!

Been growing the hair out now for about a year and that's what it looks like. I did this once before and and chickened out and cut it a little after a year. Not this time though, I'm going as long as I can possibly grow it.

I'll upload a few more pics to show it off; right now it's a wild mess but I like it! I'd like to know what you guys think.

Our deepest fear...
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Validus

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For my friends at the MLHH...

Hello all,

Maybe you remember me, maybe you don't. I posted WAY back in... February(?), but since then I've caved and cut my hair a few times. Basically, I'm still at the length I was then. The good news is IÂ’m happy to say IÂ’m more interested in growing my hair out than I was ever before! Back with a vengeance, you might say. I want to be able to wear my hair different ways, darn it! To have options; to be able to wear my hair in a ponytail one day and let it out the next.

Anyway, while browsing YouTube, I came across some awesome longhair videos and users. IÂ’m sure some of you have probably seen these before, but here they are:

http://www.youtube.com/user/hairfreaky
http://www.youtube.com/user/LongHairLuke

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These videos, and the last one especially, have inspired me to really stick with it and grow my hair out, maybe even see how long my terminal length is. Why so long? Well, as dorky as it may sound, the thing that really got me wanting to grow my hair out (past my shoulders, at least) was the movie Avatar, with the Na’vi people’s simple yet distinguished long, waist-length braid. It was truly awe-inspiring for me, as corny as that may be. I’m not looking forward to the the obligatory “dirty, unmannered hippy” name-calling, however. And the awkward stage… But I digress; in the end I’m sure I’ll love my newfound locks, let’s just hope I don't get too attached to it!


PS: On another note, what about general hair care? IÂ’ve seen some male (and female) longhairs with dry, straw-like hair, which I frankly think is gross. Of course, thereÂ’s also the ones with shiny, soft, and healthy hair, too. Is it a matter of hair care, genetics, of some combination thereof?


PPS: I know this is still far off into the future, but I’m kind of apprehensive of just leaving my hair down at long lengths. Won’t it just blow everywhere, get into everything, and just generally be sloppy?

Thanks for your time and sorry for the longwinded rant/post. :)

Tele-comedy
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Sam

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In the mid 90s I remember watching a TV comedy which featured an old guy and his daughters, and the 17-year old boy friend of one of the daughters. The b/f had (in the program) lovely waist length hair. The problem is, I can't for the life of me recollect the name of the program. All I remember is that the father seems to get easily upset by the antics of his daughters and b/f. Another character in the show, as I remember, was the father's partner, who used to keep muttering "Hm! Heterosexuals" whenever someone did something silly.

Braiding
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Michael

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I'm posting this for a long haired good friend of mine.

He has almost waist length hair, thick straight blonde hair.

Given his work schedule, it is easier for him to leave it in a braid for a week M-F. He and myself personally are wanting to know if this will cause damage now or in the long haul? Thanks in advance :)

O/T - Happy Turkey Day :-)
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John.B

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Hi there,

To all our friends in the USA I wish you a happy Thanksgiving from which ever denomination you are from :-)

Cheers,

John.B

A few more pics [PIC]
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A few more photos...

I decided to document the various ways I wear my hair and show it from a few more angles.

The first shot shows the length from the back.

I really enjoy reading the posts on this site. Up until about 10 years ago, I am almost 50, my hair was below my shoulders, and now that it is very short I must admit I miss my long hair! I should add that the reason it is short is because I have a bone and joint disease which is pretty painful at times. When the doctor started me on new medication for it he told me the biggest side effect was hair loss. About 6 weeks after starting it I noticed my eyebrow hair was falling out, and my head hair began to thin a few weeks later. Now, years later, i have very thin, fragile hair and a pretty big bald spot, but my joint disease is being held in check and my pain is very well controlled. I guess I am writing this to say that I am so glad I had long hair at one point in my life. Now, my 21 year old has decided to grow out the layers of his hair. He has thick, very straight hair and the back is to his shoulders, but the layers in the front come to about the bottom of his nose. He would like to grow it long enough so he can tie the very bottom of it off so it just kind of down his back, pulled back at the very bottom. I just can't quite picture what he wants. He has not had a haircut in about 3 months, and that was just a trim of the ends.. He gets tempted at times to cut it, mostly because he parts it on the side and the hair is not long enough to get behind his right ear yet. We just tell him to wait, and be patient. He is currently experimenting with different hair colors. We encourage him to do whatever he wants with his hair. I tell him to have fun with it now while he can. The day may come when he has to have it short for a job and he will never regret that he did not grow it out when he could. When I was growing up my parents would not allow us to have long hair even though I really wanted to grow mine out. They would pull the "as long as you are under this roof" crap. Obviously, in my house the rules are different, and I like to think I pick my battles better than my parents did. Well, I wish you all the best of luck in your hair growth. And a word of advice from someone who lost a lot of his hair to those thinking of growing it out...DO IT! Take it from someone who knows. If you are thinking about growing your hair out, now is the time. If I would not have had long hair, losing my hair would have been much more difficult to deal with. Thanks again for a great website, and best wishes to all of you! C.

Update of sorts. [PIC]
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Hi Guys

Don't know how many of you remember me, I'm kinda old-skool... But here's an update of sorts I started growing in 2003 and I've been maintaining this length (mid back) since about 2006.

Comments/Questions appreciated,

Long overdue update
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Dmitri

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Hey guys,
I don't think I've posted an update pic since January! So here I am, long overdue.

I am 1 year and 2.5 months into growing, although I did have a trim in July to even up the lengths.

the start [PIC]
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steviedee

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Hey guys . I've decided to join you all as I've wanted to grow my hair for ages. As you can see from the pic its only 3 months in and its really thick.how long till I reach the all important ponytail phase? Also I wanna grow a long beard too but I can only muster bits of hair under my chin and above my lip presently. Will shaving twice a day make this quicker?
Thanks ste

Long hair in the woods
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Michael ''Strong Bear'' Taylor

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I went hunting last week and discovered a small benefit to having long hair. It was a little cold out, but not cold enough to warrant putting on a heavy hat that would interfere with my hearing. Instead, I just let my hair down. That provided just enough cover from the wind to keep my ears from getting too cold without interfering with my hearing at all.

Not a huge deal, but worth mentioning. Besides, I've been lurking for awhile without posting anything and wanted to let you all know I'm still here. :)

Faceblindess article on NPR
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Oren

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For those of us on this board who discuss this subject, moments ago, there was a great article on NPR about face-blindness - prosopagnosia.
There is a link to the NPR article, and a book by Heather Sellers, below.

- Oren

My long haired story
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Steve88

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Hey Folks, since I just started randomly posting here again I thought I'd share my long haired story. I was a long hair for about 10 years since 2000 and just recently cut back in August. People never thought I would cut and I couldn't believe I did it. I did it for a number reasons. I was working a security job in a grocery store and was being called everything from "mullet man" to "hippy" to just being asked stupid questions like, "Why do you have long hair?" Also, my boss was a prick and was always asking me when to hide it under a hat, etc. So one day I just snapped and got my girlfriend's friend who is a hair stylist to do the deed. I'll admit it was a welcome change for about a month, then I went into full on regret, and now I am in major regret. I plan on regrowing but I am considering a career in corrections and I know they are not going to tolerate a correctional guard with long hair. I have no idea what to do. I'm at that stage in my life where a steady career should be more important than hair but oh how I miss my mane. Any advice?

5 year update (pics)
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Garth

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So after my sort of update with my marathon picture, I decided I should do a full update for 5 years, although it's actually been 5 years and 2 months. I haven't realized my hair is actually a little over belt length, as I can now see in the picture of my back. I tucked my shirt in to see how long my hair is compared to my belt. I don't usually tuck my shirt in. I'm happy with how my hair looks, except that the ends look much thinner than I'd like. I'm thinking of trimming off about 4 inches from the ends to make my ends more even and thicker looking. What do you guys think about trimming my ends?

My most resent braid experiment [PIC]
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DanielR

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I had help with these, but I think the double french braid turned out pretty good. I don't think it is at all unmasculine as someone said when I mentioned wanting to give this a try several months ago.

There's a first for everything...
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Michael

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Up until tonight, I've never had a problem with people and my hair.

That being said, I was at Walmart doing my weekly ritual of grocery shopping right... I'm making my way up to the checkout. Three dudes walking behind me. Conversation went like this:

Dude: Hey man do you think your cool or something? Long hair and leather jacket

Me: Kinda hard to look cool when your pushing a shopping cart ain't it?

They all just laughed and left. I just went about my business. Thought I'd share FWIW

Update at ~20 months [PIC]
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Seishinkai

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I suppose its a good sign when one starts forgetting about the hair growing thing and suddenly looks up and realizes its been three months since taking a picture. I guess life will do that to a person (at least a person like me).

I must admit I had a few moments of self doubt, of pangs of desire to cut, but the two week rule (when firmly adhered to) has seen me through. That---and I also remind myself that I wasn't any better or worse looking with short hair, I just wasn't myself.

Here's a link to my self absorbed hair blog again:
http://the-longer-the-hair.blogspot.com/

Fashions in the 2010s
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Wembley

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Will long hair always be in fashion for young men in the 2010s?

Cap'n!, Thar be tails here!
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Jason W.

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Pulled my hair back this morning and except for the very forward hairs, (not yet long enough) I was able to form up a short (3 inches) tail. Still too short for me to be comfortable with. But it is a good sign. Now I need to find some comfoetable ans stylish hair ties/clips/bands. Any suggestions, and remember, Christmas is coming.

Hello Again!!
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leatherlonghair

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Sorry I have not posted in a while, John Beeson knows why. Just letting yu all know I am back in the U.S!!

November update [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hi guys,

winter is coming over Germany and my hair is still growing.

I took a little pic after freeing them of a lazy wrap bun and combing with my fingers.

Since some time I'm only wearing my hair in a lazy wrap bun done with a wooden hair stick after oiling with coconut oil to protect them and the other day I wear them in a braid. Works out very well! From time to time I cut out some split ends and hair breakage but it's decreasing. Only the strands at the front are a bit messed and thin but I'll go for a 3-5cm trim next year to get rid of it and get a nice shape.
My hair is now to my tailbone.

Regards

How to grow Long Hair the Fastest!
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Justin

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Hi all

Just came home for a day and will catch the Luxery Cruise Ship I have been on for 2 months tomorrow. (Currently "parked" in a lot on the Columbia River.)

Uploaded this short video about an hour ago and perhaps of some interest to someone here? You would not BELIEVE the amount of emails I receive on this subject...........and from all around the world. (Even Hairfreaky hears this.) Unbelievable!!!

One thing however and please beware: I appear to be almost "sane" in this one. (OMG........what a perfectly terrifying thought!) :-0

Am growing my hair out from very short and it is doing fine. Still nice and full and no sign yet of baldness. Probably another 6-9 months will do it for my goal. (Kinda a wild Awkward Stage Look ala Asian-style.)

My best to you all. Take care-

Justin~
ps: With the exception of one more video about hair "poofing-out," this will be my final video. Got another project in mind.

Question
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MarkS

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My right side is more wavy and my left side is more curly and my ends are dryer and no matter what I do its dry all the time even if I oil the ends all around, and I usually have more splits on my left side as well comapred to my right side. I dont see any splits on my left side, but it feels like crap, but I heard some people can grow different texture of hair on one side sometimes. Is this true?

hair loss
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aze

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i was on this board and posted pics here few years back, i have very healthy hair and grew it to my midback then got bald for the change of it. Now the hair on my forhead seems to be lesser after once i got myself bald whereas the rest of the hair on my head is still the same thick, healthy and voluminous except the area on forhead which is pressed when one prostates on the ground. The hair of that area seems to be lesser than before and growing at very slow rate as compared to rest of the head. Since i am muslim and have to do prayers so is it possible that when i got bald the area of forhead that get pressed on the floor during prostation damaged the hair follicles in that part and now it has lesser hair and growing at lesser pace? Now i want to grow my hair long again any remedy you could suggest.
It has sort of this shape now --^-- striaght line then inverted v at the forhead then again staright line.

beard growing ,) [PIC]
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Max1982

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Hi, Everybody!
I´m new on this board and a friend of mine told me that I supposed to ask for advices right this way.

My question is about beard growing: You know, I have relatevely "nice" hair which grows pretty fast and looks fine.

But my beard is like nothing. And I´m looking for a good advice eversince.
Getting some advices from you right here would be awesome to me.

Nice regards from Franconia, Germany (:
MAX

November Update [PIC]
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Rich

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Hey folks!

I plan on doing a picture comparison update to track my progress. When I was finished making this update, I was stunned at how long my hair had grown in just three months. On the left is 7 August, on the right is 7 November Enjoy!

New to the MLHH [PIC]
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SAMCRO

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Hey guys new to this website. Basically I ended up growing my hair out to a full ponytail and have unfortunately had it short for two years now. I miss having long hair and I'm determined to grow it long again. Right now my bangs are just able to reach my eyes so its starting to progress, but I want it down to my shoulders when I am finished. I basically want the same hairstyle as Charlie Hunnam from the show "Sons Of Anarchy" for those of you who have seen it lol. I included a photo to give people the general idea of what I want it to look like.

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Kyle

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Hey guys! I come seeking advice and help!

Now, I know I've not posted much before, and I am sorry. But I am currently a full-time university student and my time is not my own! I will try to post more in the future, but please forgive long silences! I'm just busy, that's all!

Anyway, I have been growing my mane for 7 years now and I have reached a point where I'm debating if I should change for something more manageable. Currently, my hair goes down to just above my butt. I wash it every 2nd day (because my hair gets naturally greasy very quickly) and straighten to iron out the kinks in my hair. It's naturally wavy and if I don't straighten it looks messy!

Some people may be worrying that I wash too much, but believe me when I say that I have to to maintain a clean look! I hate having dirty hair and it makes me feel very uncomfortable to not have clean hair. Despite all this, my fringe is now broken and lop-sided, my ends are split and thin and the general thickness of my hair has decreased substantially. Lifting it up, I can see that 3/4 of it is long with a good 1/4 shorter and split. I've also found that it's started to layer itself into uneven lengths under the main length and also I find I am loosing alot of hair daily as well.

Guys, I really feel like I want a change. I don't want rid of my long hair...but I want a new style. Something modern, easy to manage and nothing complex.

Please help!

--=Kyle=--

Hey everyone, I haven't posted an update since the Spring. Anyway, I hit my third year on growing out my hair this October. I've been enjoying knowing that I'm all out of awkward stage and can now proudly consider myself a longhair. Since my last update I noticed that with added length my hair is even easier to manage, as it takes longer for it to get greasy. Before I had to shampoo and condition every day and use a light mousse for my light, fine hair to make it look thick. Now I only shampoo twice a week with a small amount of conditioner everyday. Best of all I don't need to use any other kind of hair "product" anymore.

I know my face doesn't look that happy in this picture, but that's because I was half asleep when I took it, and was too lazy to retake it.

As of Nov. 5, 2010 [PIC]
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Jason W.

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It's slowly (sigh) Getting through the awkward stage, I can pull it back but won't until perhaps the end of the year, when the length will be sufficient to have a tail that is not reminiscent of the colonial look. (think G. Washington, et al.) Had a nice comment from one of the directors at work last week, She liked it. (she is an old hippie, older than me and said it reminded her of her husband) Good comments far outnumber the bad.

Almost a Year [PIC]
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RobD

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Just checking in at almost a year of growth. Just now getting over the "awkward" stage. Best to all of you growing your hair long again! Hang in there!

semi-update [PIC]
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Garth

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I recently just ran the Marine Corps Marathon in Washington D.C. on Sunday. I ran my best race and got 3:06:31, which is under the 3:10 time I needed to qualify for the Boston Marathon. I'm really happy with my time and just thought I'd share with you guys since I know there are a few other runners on the board. Also I'm overdue for my 5 year update, so here's a picture from the race where you can really see my hair. I'll try to get on top of things with some real pictures soon.

Life + hair + beard update [Pictures heavy]
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François

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Hello everyone,
for a while i haven't been really active, i don't know why, i guess i'v lost some interest about my hair, i'm now at belt length (when pulled) and i don't even realize my hair is longer than a year a go.
Last year was not very cool, i failed my first year at university, i'm not very good with studies... i'v got some problems and i left my girlfriend, we have been together for about 2 year and a half so starting to been single is really cool at first, but also hard.
Because of the time i spent with her i lost most of my former friends so i also have to deal with loneliness, although i'm now starting to have some friends.
But now i'm going to stop with the violons and start to talk about some happier things :)
on my 20th birthday i decide to grow out a beard, theses are some picts of my bearded journey.
This is a pict after exactly 4 weeks of grow :
And having fun with my family at 49 days of grow :S :
Side view after 135 days :
And then i decided to go for a goatee + mustache "beardcut" and with the help of my lil sister I shaved my jaw and trimmed my chin beard a bit.
This is the last picts with the full beard after 144 days of grow !:
After the shave and trim :
Then some days ago i decided to shave my mustache cause i wanted my upper lip back ;)
This is a pict just before the shave :
and another one :

And now the last one, i have just taken it (337 days):

My beard journey will probably ends on my 21th birthday, the next 2 december.

I will try to be a bit more active now, i hope you liked the pictures :)

Take care.

François

New Conan Movie....Great Hair [PIC]
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Steve88

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Hey Guys,
I'm just wondering if any of you have seen promo pics for the new Conan movie? This is great inspiration for long hairs!

Longhairs at university
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Charlie M

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I'll be at university in a couple years, and I took a tour of the campus and met some profs and students with my class. I found at least 3 professors are longhaired and I know that countless students are. I look forward to good years to come!

-Charlie M

An Update.....well sorta [PIC]
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Hairball

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So today is officially Halloween and I thought about doing an update but figured everyone knows what my hair looks like so I decided to take a pic of my friend Ash who stopped by to dole out the candy to the kids.Yea even the big kids showed for some freebies!Anyway he feels his hair is at terminal but I think he could eek out maybe a few more inches.Hey even an inch is a lot when you are only a foot tall!Hmmmm,this post may sound weird but I figured someone had to take over for Justin;)Happy Halloween all!Cheers

Mark

Update [PIC]
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kailongbeard

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When I was a kid I would often think about what I wanted to look like when I was an adult. I would picture myself with long hair and a long beard. Today I looked in the mirror and finally saw that image starring back at me in the mirror. I have become the man I wanted to be as a child. Now that I am an adult I have revised what I want to look like. My new goal is hair and beard at least floor length. And so I happily continue to grow.

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Mac

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Hello Everyone,

My name is Mac. I am new to this board and am seeking advice. I am in my late 30s and have been waiting to grow my hair out ever since I was 18, but every time I do, I get about a year into the process and snap one day, getting it cut short, real short. I am a public high school teacher and am expected to look professional at work. While having long hair is acceptable at my place of employment, looking terrible for three years until it grows out is not. So, I have come to the experts. It is my hope that all of your combined knowledge might give me the information to make it this time.

As of right now, I had all my hair cut one inch all over last June. This past August, I got the back neck line trimmed up short, but have not had a hair cut since. Before reading more, take a look at the pic I posted with this letter.

My problem with my hair is that it always, I mean ALWAYS looks like crap. Right after I wash it, it is super “poofy” as one of my students described it. To correct some of this, put a very small dab of gel in my hair after it is towel dried and brush it all straight back. Around the ears, I spray some hairspray and brush it back, letting it dry sort of plastered to my head. When my hair is dry, I brush it all out and go to bed with it dry. The next morning it is somewhat behaved, but looks like I never wash it. Forgoing the gel is an even worse disaster; I look like bozo the clown. What bothers me the most is the back of my hair. Unless I sleep on it, carefully not moving my head, it will just not behave. I get this “that girl” flip that looks greasy, dirty, and mostly unprofessional to the point my boss is telling me to get a haircut.

I need to figure out a way for my hair to look clean, be styled in a way that I donÂ’t look homeless, and still allow it to grow out and someday be long, like I have always wanted. Some people have told me to keep the back trimmed until my bangs catch up with them, others say let it go! I look like crap, feel like crap, and am losing my motivation to have long hair. There must be some trick, some product, something that can take this edge off at least enough so I can pass at work and not look homeless.

Any suggestions are welcomed,
Thank you,
Mac

Vitamins
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Michael

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So lately I've been Vitamin B w/biotin and Fish oil. I know these have been helping speed things up. My hair grew a full inch this month, whereas it grew about 1/3" and 1/2" a month. My hair is at 10" this month as well.

My hair is what I call wurly(picked that up from LHC)

So perhaps if you want faster growth(who doesn't!?) pick up these vitamins.

my lenmonthsg at over 60 [PIC]
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james a swenson jr

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this a photo shop of the lenth i want my hair down the road. im at 16 months now ,dont have a photo but will get one soon.was getting alot of pressure to cut it at 14 months, but they seemed to have calmed down for now. its amazing the hostility i run across about guys with long hair.not all the time , but just out of the blue sometimes , james

My 4ish Year Update [PIC]
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Tuckergeek

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It's been an interesting 4 years letting my hair. I'm kind of surprised that I've stuck with it this long without giving in to joke to cuting it. I knew it would be wavy, but that gave way to loose curls. Here's what it looks like:

Frank

facial hair and graying?
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JK

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Hey everyone,

I don't come around much these days because over the past 4 years I've been experiencing hair loss, but I've been on a natural treatment regimen for the past 8 months now, and the main focus has been treating my thyroid. My hair is showing signs of improvement (thickening, and vellus hair growing in areas that were bald near the temples), so these are definitely some encouraging signs!

Anyhow, another thing that I've noticed is that my facial hair seems to be growing in darker. I'm 28 years old, and it's grown in red for as long as I could grow it even though my hair is a dark brown (I'm part Irish). I only noticed a few months ago that there are a percentage of hairs that are now growing in black, and other people have commented on it as well. At first I was confused, but thought maybe it was a reflection of my improved health seeing as this developed around the same time that my hair started showing improvement. However, upon inquiring, a hair dresser told me that this happened to her husband before he started going gray!

For those who are gray/graying, did you experience anything like this prior to going gray? If not, does anyone know why my facial hair might be growing in darker all of a sudden?

Sorry if this is somewhat off topic.

Oct 2010 the start [PIC]
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Draco

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Hey All,

Here I am at a start of the long hair. Can already put it into a small tail but not all the side hairs reaches the tail. The front I made the error of cutting it, oops...

Hows it going. I'm new to this Board
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Maks

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I am a 17 year old and I am in 11th grade. I live in NJ. I found this board because I am interested in growing out my hair at least shoulder length. I am having some problems. My hair is getting in my eyes. What can I do. Also, I gets oily after like a day. Thank you. Hope to get some advice.

Hey everyone here on this fabulous Hyperboard! :-)

Just stopping in from my "barge" ocean cruise ship as it goes off for a bit and undergoes some tests before we continue on. (BTY: Expected in the "Bay Area" around Feb. 12th. At long last I will arrive and I DO hope a meet-up is possible at Duarts. And if Ken is reading this, I have that Maroon Coat to give him at long last.) Yeah, I know guys, I am all heart. But for a little update on this "grande cruise au de worlde!"

Would you believe? After that "Snowball" melted that we were stuck in at sea for nearly 6 weeks, a leak was discovered and they actually stuck Captain Smiths head in the hole below deck near the boilers until we got to port. He is now being hailed a hero, for had it not been for his head fitting perfectly, they "say" that this ship would sink. Ha Ha Ha........sure, anything to beef-up the captains ego. This thing is UNSINKABLE!!! (BTY: No dandruff in his beard now after that heroic deed.)

Such fun stopping in today and seeing some names to remember. Before I was abducted, i,i,i mean "retired" from my post as moderator, these names were still here and new ones as well. GREAT! :-)

My hair is growing well now and actually getting longer you may be interested to know. Kinda fun actually to see it "poof out" all over again just like "Bozo the Clown." (Ken: remember him back in the 50's on the old 78 records and the picture book?) Oh wait Ken and my apologies for I know compared to myself that you are just a spring chicken in years compared to one who has graduated to the age of "fossile!" Ah, to be young again.

Uh-oh......I hear the Fog Horn calling the passengers. (That's how they call us.) And there is NO FOG! (Only smog.)

Well, Bon Voyage one and all and PLEASE keep that hair growing and NEVER give up! In EVERY single case I ever knew of, any guy who made it to long hair looked fabulous. One thing in life that is a sure winner. Long hair will ALWAYS stand the test of time and ALWAYS be a style that never goes out of style.

My best always to you great guys

Justin~

O/T - Happy teapot day!
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John.B

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Oh dear isn't Earl Grey good enough for some of our friends over the pond! I hear the Alaska maiden is taking over a storm :-)!

Cheers,

John.B

Another shampoo recipe.
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John C

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The last one uses LIQUID castille, which might be hard to find & expensive. I didn't realize it was liquid at first. Thorough searching yielded one made from the bar soap, which is what I wanted. YAY!

http://www.happynews.com/living/haircare/make-shampoo.htm

My 4ish Year Update - Back [PIC]
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Tuckergeek

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And the back.

Thanks,
Frank

Update
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Charlie M

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This is an update of about 2 years 7 months. I switched over a couple months ago from Pantene to a shampoo and conditioner I used to use, that doesn't contain any harmful sulfates, and it's been really good for my hair. I've noticed less shedding and an overall increase in quality, thickness and looks. I won't be going back to Pantene again!

-Charlie M

Unusual superstition
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JSFrodo

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Ran across an unusual hair-related superstition that I'd never heard of the other day.

I was sitting in the lobby of our hotel in San Diego, waiting for my oldest son to come down from the room (was in San Diego for my middle son's wedding, but that's another story).

A lady with a mid-back ponytail comes over and asks if she can tug on my braid. I figured "what can it hurt", so I said ok. She gave my braid a gentle tug, and then told me that it's supposedly good luck to tug the braid/ponytail of someone with hair longer than your own.

I laughed and told her that I was probably out of luck, as I don't know much of anyone with hair longer than mine.

This, of course, was ignoring several members of the board, but I don't see any of you in person much, so not much tugging opportunity [grin].

Anyway, has anyone else heard of this particular good luck charm?

Frodo

Beard dandruff??
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

When I was a teenager and into my early 20s, I had some problems with occasional dandruff coming from my scalp; but that ended a long, loooooooong time ago -- I haven't had dandruff problems coming from the top of my head in I don't know how long...

But oddly enough, I do occasionally have flaking skin coming from my chin now -- how weird!!

Anybody else here have this odd problem? Or am I the only freak of Mother Nature in this beard dandruff department?

Sorry, no pictures (and you should be HAPPY about that fact, too - LOL)!!

- Ken in San Francisco

Just found this, thanks to Charlie Ms' recent post about non sls shampoos!

http://www.instructables.com/id/Homemade-Shampoo/

I'm gonna make the first one, which is 1/4 cup each water, castille soap, and oil. I'll be using Tea Tree oil, which is warming & stimulates hair growth.

I tried Kens' idea of Almond oil on my hair, and it feels so good! I do it right after a shower to lock in the moisture. I thought it would smell like Almonds, but it doesn't, which is dissappointing. Just smells like vegatable oil. I use kind of alot, heh, ;p which makes it look damp, but I like that look. :) I'll use Linseed oil also called Flax seed oil next. I've always LOVED how that stuff smells. It's an ancient furniture oil. From the Egyptians on up. Also very VERY good for your hands and skin. Thanks Ken!! Maybe I'll dilute the Tea Tree oil with the almond oil in the shampoo recipe, as Tea Tree oil's expensive.

I'm off to buy my bar of castille soap now!

Decision about curly hair
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Sam

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Hi all, I'm new and been lurking for weeks now and all I have to say is that this is an awesome community. So the reason why I'm making a thread because I have some questions. I have wavy/curly hair, it's wavy on the top than curly on the sides. I've been trying to grow it out, up to my shoulder and so far it's up to my earlobe. The problem is that with very thick hair/curly it's hard to style it and maintain it. My hair looks very poofy. I always wanted my hair straight but I don't want to straighten it every day since it will be annoying so I'm thinking of going to a salon and doing one of those Japanese straighteners that last like 6 months. I heard it's around 130 dollars and willing to pay it but my problem is that is their any cons doing this and did anyone ever do this before. Oh and by the way I have nothing against curls is just like i said before it's really hard to maintain and style, plus if i straighten it, it will be up to my neck. Thanks ;).

How often should I wash my hair?
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Zach

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I posted earlier and got a bunch of helpful responses so I thought I'd ask another question: When people talk about not washing their hair everyday, do they mean they are washing it without shampoo or that they aren't washing it at all (not even getting it wet). Because to me, it seems like it would be difficult to get a shower without getting my hair wet. Also, I exercise everyday and get very sweaty and stink, so I feel like I need to wash it. I have thick slightly wavy hair that is a few inches past my shoulders, would it be a good idea to stop washing my hair everyday? If so, how often should I?

October update (40 months) [PIC]
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Protector

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Hi, haven't postet here in a while and thought it was time for an update on my hair growth progress.

My last trim was in April 2010, done by a very nice guy who is kind of a specialist for long hair care. He only cut off about 0.5 cm and removed all the split ends. Awesome!

I found it interesting how the waves of my hair change from day to day. The first photo is 4 days old and the second one I took just a few moments ago.

It seems to look best one day after washing it.

New TV show auditions
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kailongbeard

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This weekend, in Hollywood, They are havingf auditions for a new Reality TV show called "WHO WANTS A HAIRCUT". They are casting Men with very LONG hair so they can cut it short for the show. And they are NOT paying you for the privelege of working on their show. This is another major insult and attack against Long hair on Men. The Casting director is EVAN MAJORS. If I had an address or phone # I would complain. We do not want this kind of programming on TV>

October [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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11 months now (with one trim in late july)

Introduction
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Braezel

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Hi MLLH!

I've been lurking on this forum for 13 months now, and countless time I've said to myself that I would introduce me. But I guess I just never had "the guts" to do it.
Well, I've been growing out my hair for 13 months now, and I've had my ups and downs. When I was about 8 years old I decided that I wanted longer haircut. I had always had a sort of buzzcut. I let it grow (with permission of my parents) just above my eyes. And I liked it alot. I kept it like that untill I was 15. Then I decided that I wanted to have even longer hair. I had always looked up to men with long hair (I think that my fascination for medieval stuff at that time played a huge role). I have some family members who have/had long hair, and I've always looked up to them and thought how great it looked. I never thought about long hair on my head though untill 13 months ago. So I finally let it grow. On the back it's past my shoulders, and on the sides of my head it has almost reached shoulder lenght. I'd show it, but I'm not keen on putting pictures of me on the internet. I'll upload one though soon. I can put my hair in a ponytail and all of that, but I don't do that outside yet.

I also have a question to ask to you guys.
I'm afraid actually, I think my ends are fine for now, but my mom keeps telling me I have the same hair as she does, a bit wavy. But she has black hair and I have blond-brown hair like my dad. And the problem is, her ends tend to split after reaching shoulder lenght, and I'm afraid that mine will too :(. She says she has tried everything but nothing works, so she has shorter hair now. Is it possible that my ends will spilt when reaching a bit over shoulder lenght based on genetics? I really hope not.

So, as promised I will put up an update soon.
Oh, btw when just before I started growing out my hair I cut it way shorter than usual :(, wish I hadn't done that, would've been about 2 inches further then already...

PS: English is not my native language, so sorry for any mistakes.

Grtz, Braezel

Hey guys back again with a 10 month update. Let me tell you its been a long 10 months but im really liking how it is turning out. My hair is really wavy and curls somewhat im assuming as it gets longer the weight from my hair will make it straighter?

Any Helpful Tips? [PIC]
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Roman

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Hey, this is my second time trying to grow my hair out and first time that I'm REALLY serious about it. This pic is of me and my twin brother who is also growing his out. we both cut our hair almost completely all off in the middle of february so this pic is about 7 months growth. I feel like now that I am in college it will be easier to grow it out. Our goal for now is shoulder length but I do hope for it to get even longer than that. Any tips anyone has for helping it grow at a good steady rate would be great. Thanks!

Self-conscious about my long hair...
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Zach

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Hey, I have a somewhat odd and girly story/question. I play guitar and listen to metal/rock and that's what initially had me wanting to grow out my hair but now that I have it I love it. I'm 19, have light brown/blonde hair that is real thick and a little wavy that comes down past my shoulders. But on to the point... While I love my long hair (the color, type, style, etc.) I can't stand the spots that are short. My girlfriend says it's just new hairs coming in but I think it's breakage (it's probably a mix of both) and it makes me want to cut my hair. Standing away my hair looks great to me but when I get up close to a mirror I see the ten million little hairs poking up I freak out. Little 1 inch hairs right at the part of my hair at my hairline, 4 inch hairs in the under layer by my ears, etc. When I put my hair up in a ponytail they won't go back and stick up everywhere and when it's down and not brushed they frizz out....

So I guess my question is am I freaking out for nothing? Is anyone's hair perfect without these short hairs? Does everyone get this?

2yr of Growing hair
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Brad B.

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first Started Growing my hair out 10-27-08, at the time my hair was just slightly above eyes in the front....since then iv had no trims

up until just about 6 months ago i had no split ends but here recently iv started to notice quite a few of them and that has me considering a slight trim but nothing more, just enough to get rid of the split/damaged ends....

Random Picture / Radio Show [PIC]
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Caesar

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I posted this picture as my default on facebook I figured I'd post it here as well. I didn't intend on putting it up but I thought my hair looked awesome in the picture. Just thought I'd share.

Also tonight at 7pm EST. I'll be hosting a radio show at my college ( show currently untitled) But if anyone feels like giving it a listen you can tune in by going on this site.

Thanks

Hairstyle [PIC]
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Andrea

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After days and days of thinking I finally realized what hairstyle i'd like to grow out. :D I'm thinking about growing it chest lenght or so but having it thinned a bit since i have very poofy hair and with a fringe max mouth lenght. Thick hair really doesn't suit me that much...

I know most everyone here is more for thick central part hair but I hope you'll all still give me support.

Here's an example of how I plan to have my hair like:

Nexus (Trusted Traveller) [PIC]
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Onslow

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Has anyone had any feed back about being a long haired individual and applying for a Nexus trusted traveller card for crossing the USA and Canada borders?

We all know the world is full of bigots of all persuasions so just curious if anyone has had any experience with this.

Thanks for any input....

new pic [PIC]
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muzzman

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3 years

bit of an update. Yes, it's still growing!
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DavidN

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Hello everyone, and I hope all of you are doing well in your own hair growing journeys. I admit to not doing updates all that often these days, since there isn't all that much point in doing so. Since my hair grows very slowly, it doesn't change that much from day to day. However, since we had some cooler, dryer weather later, and my hair didn't look too bad, I took a few quick photos the other day, and decided to "cobble together" an update. My hair doesn't like summer heat and humidity, and is happier, and has less frizz in the fall and winter.

I did see an increase in growth from earlier photos, and it is only by looking at past photos that I do realize that it is still growing. If only I could achieve 2 or 3 more inches, I could almost say that I am at waist length.

I took a photo from the front. It is longer than my avatar photo, and perhaps it is time for a new avatar!

I also took a photo of my ponytail, and even though it is a little messy here, it does show that the ends are not too far from my beltline.

Although I would love to have both thicker and longer hair, I am reasonably content for what I have at the ripe old age of 57 years and 3 months. At least the hairline is reasonably good, so I have no right to complain.

Thank you to all who might be reading today, and thank you for your support over the years.

Belated update
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Charlie

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Been a while since I updated, started back to college which is a different mind set completely. So far maintaining an A and B average in my classes, so could be worse. Here's a link to my latest photos on my Flickr page, figured that's be the best way to show it.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/16375284@N04/sets/72157625133183612/

I did get a slight trim couple of weeks back, had some split ends and really no shape to the mane, so the gal was very receptive to a freaked out longhair letting someone with a pair of scissors near him. Put a few layers in as well. I like it, so will see.

Hope the Fall is agreeing with everyone. Thanks again my longhair bretheren for letting me take a few moments of your time.

Charlie

Intro 3 years of growth [PIC]
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Myself

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Hi everybody. IÂ’m 22 years old from Puerto Rico. In November itÂ’ll be 3 years of growing my hair and what a ride it has been. First of all I want to thank this forum and the people in it because I remember when I stared to seriously consider growing my hair long, I stumbled upon this site and it gave me motivation and inspiration to go ahead and grow it. IÂ’ve lurked the site on and off for this 3 years and always thought to myself that I have to introduce myself and join the site officially. Well finally I took some time to do it.

IÂ’ve kind of always liked long hair but never seriously consider growing it until I was 18. I think the main reason for growing my hair was a search for individuality. To me all short hairstyles look pretty much the same, theyÂ’re kind of boring, and I was unhappy about how I looked. I felt like a copy of the guy next to me. As a copy of what society wanted me to be, but not who I wanted to be.

Long hair on the other hand is so expressive, is part of you, your genes and who you are. Why repress it?? The other reason for growing my hair long is because IÂ’ve always been a little shy, and saw growing it long as a chance to do something for me without caring for what others may think. A chance to build some character.

So after some thinking and finding this site, I decided to grow it. At first I was only going for about chin length hair. But pretty soon I discover I had curly and frizzy hair, and lots of it. And at chin length, curly hair is still in a very award stage. In fact, I donÂ’t think curly hair ever passes that stage; at least mine doesnÂ’t seem like it. To be honest, at first I was a little irritated with my hair type and it discouraged me a little, but I kept growing it just to see how it will look like if it was just a little longer. And itÂ’s been 3 years of doing that and I still want to see how it will look like a little longer. During the process of growing it, IÂ’ve learn to accept my hair type and even embrace it. Now I really like it because is so unique, it has a mind of its own, it never looks exactly the same every day. And besides, I think the world needs more long wavy and curly hair, society is too fixated on perfectly slick hair.

So, this is my official intro. Hope to make some good longhaired friends and share my experience with others.

My goal = BADASS long curly hair

PS Sorry for the bad quality cellphone pics.

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MattT

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Hi Guys, I promised not to update too much, today is a bit of a milestone... 3rd time growing out this time around, I'm just short of 15 months from #1 back and sides and a little longer on top.

Today I am finally able to do a half tail, albeit a very high one. Will make doing the housework and windy days much more bearable! Looking forward to being able to do a full tail in another 6 months or so.

BTW thanks moderators for adding me back to the users directory :)

Take care all,

MattT

Hair today
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Abstrakt

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My hair looks terrible today. 2 days without washing and wearing a hat most of the day probably explains it.
Thin, flat and incredibly dull. And damn front-hairs that ALMOOOST can be tucked behind my ears, AND STAY THERE.

It better look good in a few months, or else... :P

Hairwash tomorrow will be a relief at least, lol.

hair update! [PIC]
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John Bickers

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I've lurked on this forum.

I forget when I started my hair journey, but I've been taking and dating pictures along the way so you can get an idea. My hair looked to be about 1.5-1.7 inches at the earliest picture I have, and I started my journey from a buzz. I know not everyone grows the same, but at about 1/2 inch a month average (googled it) that would put me at starting my journey sometime around August, or September 2009 which makes this about my 14th month.

also although I cannot yet put my bangs in a tail I have noticed about a month ago, that the problem of my bangs in my face has finally gone away, the trick for me is that I can now tuck my bangs behind my ears and they're finally long enough to stay, however without a headband they're still loose, and I still look like some kind of anime thing with my hair tailed

(since I'm not 100% sure all the links work, heres a copy of the URL to my gallery)
http://gallery.me.com/jrbickers#100087&view=grid&bgcolor=black&sel=2

Why is having long hair important to you?
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Father M.

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Its likely that I'll have to answer this question in the near future and I'm looking to articulate my reasons in a meaningful way to my superiors. In the process of mulling this over for myself, it'd be helpful to hear some of your reasons for growing your hair out. If you're willing, would you share how you would explain your decision to be a long-haired man?

(Please be aware that the life I've chosen precludes me refusing my superiors wishes. I know this isn't something (m)any of you would choose, but I have been at peace with this since well before I was ordained. So yes, I would cut my hair if directed to do so.)

For my part, I decided to grow my hair out several years ago. At the time I realized that it meant more than just being a rebel or a political statement - which had always been a deterrent to even considering the idea.

However, I saw several examples both in real life & in stories of long-hair that illustrated how it was necessarily feminine and that it could actually be very masculine. Moreover, I had to admit that I've always liked the look itself and was interested in how I would like actually having long hair. Turns out that I enjoy having long hair quite a bit! Both the look and the feel. A windy day is a heck of a lot more fun and rainy days aren't as bothersome. It looks good and I enjoy it. Hopefully I won't be required to cut it, but if I am, I will have at least tried it out - and I'm glad I have.

- Father M.

11 Months and Going Strong [PIC]
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RobD

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Just a quick check in to encourage all you guys out there growing your hair long again. Keep growing it! It's worth the effort! I am getting so close to being able to tie my hair back again. That will be a great day!
Take care all.
Rob

Tom Brady Growing His Hair
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Caesar

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I've heard it on the news recently. The quarterback for the New England Patriots Tom Brady has been growing his hair out because his wife wants him to. Apparently people can't stop talking about it.

I just find it funny when things like this are in the mainstream news because you get to see how many people care / don't care and man do they tend to have a lot to say about something that isn't a big deal at all.

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muzzman

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3 years growth

O/T: Need help with Dog
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Michael

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I have a 16 year old Duchsand Terrier. Yes hard to believe she is 16 but still doing great, only one small problem.

Given her age, she can't seem to control herself anymore. In otherwords, she leaves accidents in the house. Before all this, she knew very well when it was time to go outside.

She's still very active and aware.

Is there some sort of medicine or anything I can give her that can help her with this problem? I love her very much but this needs to stop. Suggestions please?

Start 'em young! [PIC]
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Validus

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Here's a pic of my 2-year-old son's hair from behind. After watching "How to Train Your Dragon," he has now begun referring to himself as a warrior.

Your resident proud dad,

Validus

Playing tourist in my own city... [PIC]
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

Long time no post!

Thanks to Mark ("Hairball") visiting the West Coast this week, I got off my lazy butt and had a fun day off doing some San Francisco sight-seeing 'round about town. We met up with Bill & Larry for lunch, followed by taking some wacky plant pics in Golden Gate Park's Strybing Arboretum Botanical Gardens.

My humble apologies to Scott ("Absalom") and Trolleypup, both of whom got extremely short notice about Mark being in town, and planning to meet up with him on Wednesday. We also chose not to post anything about having a longhair meet-up here on MLHH, due to a weird local stalker guy that has been a problem in the past. Other than those two odd-ball little glitches, it was a terrific day!!

Here's a pic that Mark took of me when we went to the top of Twin Peaks at the end of our day together. i have to admit that I almost don't recognize myself, having colored my beard that very morning with the "Just for Men" facial hair dye (supposedly "lightest brown" - HA! - yeah, right!) -- my partner now calls me, "Blue Beard (LOL)....

Enjoy the pics (more to follow, including of Mark, and also of Bill & Larry...)!!

- Ken

Long-haired friends?
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Charlie M

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So I'm just wondering; how many friends, or family or acquaintances do you have who have long hair?

I'm lucky to go to a high school which has sort of a tradition of long hair, so I'm graced with many longhaired friends (guys).

I also recently found an old picture of my dad with his former waist-length hair from the 70s (long hair is in the blood! :) ).

So how many longhairs are in your life or close to you?

Charlie M

brushing hair or not brushing hair?
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Bill montana

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I almost never brush my long hair, but someone's comment yesterday saying "brush your hair" made me self conscious for a bit, and I went and bought a brush this morning and tried brushing my hair just now, and it looks horrible, brushing makes it look a little more volume, and I really don't like the "perfect" look to it when it is brushed

anyone else here never brush their hair and also thinks it looks bad brushed?

Trip to SF [PIC]
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Hairball

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Well as a followup to Ken's post below I just returned home from a fabulous week in the Bay Area.It was a blast meeting some of the local longhairs from the area some of which are from this board.I also had the chance to drop down to Santa Cruz and noticed many longhairs about there as well:)Too bad the time went so fast as I would have loved to spend much more time out west.Anyway thought I'd share a couple pics to supplement what Ken had shared.Hope all of you have been doing well:)Cheers

Mark

O/T: ''Jitterbug Fundamentals''
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Urban Cowboy

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Here's a vintage video clip from the 1940s that just cracked me up -- best dance instructional video I've ever seen... Enjoy!!

- Ken

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Progress (14 Months) [PIC]
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StraduX

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Hey there fellow longhairs, I have been growing my hair out since July 2009 (14 months ago) and I must say things are going pretty well for me.

When I started, I had little confidence in myself and how I would look, but the longer my hair got, the happier I was with the results. I was a lurker for quite some time on this board and you guys gave me inspiration to keep going. I hope this post is in turn encouraging to people just starting their journey as well.

I still consider myself to be in the awkward phase, but hopefully not for much longer. It's hard to say what my goal is, perhaps mid-back, we'll have to see.

My hair care routine is CO wash every other day and comb/brush when necessary.

I also took a video of my hair, seeing as pictures sometimes don't do it justice:

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Hey Guys

Met some longhaires on this White Star Line who are saying similar things. This Summer was so very unusual (weather-wise) that their hair didn't do as well as others. So for the Poll, how many of you guys noticed a difference?

1. More tangles than normal?
2. LESS Sheding than usual? (Last few years have seen more for a number of guys here.)

Well, must run before we set off again. Some joker claims he had a vision that there was a snowball floating way out there. I bet him a million dollars his "vision" was a fake! LOL :-)

Justin~

September update [PIC]
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thomc1980

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Well its been a while since i posted a progress pic so here it is.

HI there long lockers!

Just thought of dropping by with an update and letting you guys know that all has been well since my last post. Those around me has began to accept the fact that i want to be a long term long haired and is not just going through a phase.I guess the stubornness got me through.

Hope all is well for you guys as well

Peace.

O/T - Paranoia again!
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John.B

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http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-11460335

"US issues travel warning for Americans in Europe

French police officers reinforce security at the Eiffel Tower in Paris after reports of new terror threats, 20 September 2010 Intelligence sources say al-Qaeda plans to carry out attacks in the UK, France and Germany

The US government has warned its citizens to be vigilant while travelling in Europe because of the threat of an al-Qaeda commando-style attack, in a new travel advisory."

sometimes I still struggle with it, my hair gets super wavy when it is shorter, so I remember always being unhappy with it unless it is wet, same sort of goes for when it is long like now, I like it when it is wet, not as much when dry

does anyone ever think about finding some genius hairstylist and getting it cut to a midlength style? I remember seeing pics of Tommy Lee with his hair midlength and looking fantastic, but I bet his hairstylist probably charges $300

Just hangin' about the shoulders [PIC]
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Jason W.

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As of this morning. My hair is growing and is now slightly below my shoulders in back and on the rear sides. Seems to be all about curling at the ends. it will get past it. but. Oh. How I "long" for the wonderful manes y'all sport. I am flipping it over my ears to hold it back while at work. Can gather it into the shortest of tails, but, it is really not ready, yet. Geetin' some nice props, even from those who earlier tried to talk me out of letting it grow, However, my older sister, bless her heart, Literally demanded I cut it. (She was so cute.) Of course, I muled right up and said, "Ain't gonna happen". She relented. I am never happy with how I look in pics, but, whatta ya gonna do.

Long hair in the past 150 years
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Justin

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Hi all

Hi all-

I have just posted a colorization video of some of the great composers (1849-1950). Suddenly I find it of great interest that long hair to them would be considered by us at this board Awkward Stage, a little past, or not at all. (No Buzz cuts however.) And BEARDS! Very much in style.

Of course, the Native Americans were different as were some others and truly had wonderful very long hair.

What is your bet that the astounding long hair we have seen on this board in the past, now, and every now and then in real life is something that has sprung-up since the 70's? Hair care now is so much different than in those days of old, and conditioner must surely extend the strength and help the hair to grow to the long lengths.

I rather think the guys of today are a whole new breed.

Take care all.

Justin~

Current Length [PIC]
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Smitts

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Yeah, yeah.
I'm back. =)

So...
Here is my current hair length.
The picture quality is a little bad.

My hair is starting to look thinner.
Do you think I'm at terminal length? or close to it?
because I want my hair to be classic length.

...and nice to see some f you again. =)

I deleted my account and just stook with Facebook, heres my link for that:

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?v=wall&ref=nur&id=1762052473

Doesanybody remember me? [PIC]
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Fire

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Howdy folks, I have not been here in....I guess a little over a year. I was about two years into hair growth when I decided to apply for police force, so I cut it all off. Well, in the process of applying I had a FEDEX Ground job fall into my lap and took it instead, so I just let it grow again. However this time I have not been as worried about how much growth a month, etc. I have just been letting it go. In fact, I can't even tell you an exact time frame of growth in this pic. I gonna guess it about a year from a no guard on back and sides and #1 on top. I hope everyone is doing well and please comment. I was reading a post talking bout not much activity on here and wanna get that fixed. This place was GREAT during my 1st hair growth excursion! Brian

P.S. Sorry for poor pic quality, but batts dead in digital so I had to resort to cell!

Late september update [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hi,

my hair is now near to my tailbone when dry.
I'm not too good with it at the moment as my mood is not too good, too.
I'll have some trims from the beginning of the new year to get a nice shape, also I'm trying to cut the split ends when I have time...

Regards

O/T Soundgarden reunion
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Vivien

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Hi !
Did you know that the band Soundgarden (grunge band from the early 90s) reunited very recently ?
And, as far as I can see, Chris Cornell (the singer) is back with his long hair (cut it short after the band stopped playing). Great news !

Vivien

Washing Everday, any pointers?
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Michael

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Hello fellow longhairs,

I work in a factory and get extremely filthy day in and day out. I have naturally dry and wavy hair. I tried going every other day for a couple weeks, never again!

My hair is barely shoulder length. My goal is tailbone. I fear that it won't get to that length seeing all the abuse I put it through.

It's a shame because my hair loves infrequent washings. Before I got this job anyway.

I oil with olive oil twice a week, doesn't seem to help? Any pointers you pros have, I'd appreciate it very much.

All is quiet at MLHH
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nuttidave

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Wow, what has happened ? This place used to be buzzing, I can log on once a month and still catch up in 30 seconds. Guys are definately lurking as was shown by Justin's Farewell Post, but hardly anybody is getting involved . . . mmmmm why is that I wonder . . .

Singer Thomas Anders
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Mike

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Thomas Anders is a pop singer from Germany and his name did say much to me until the other day when I came across some of his videos on youtube. He used to have a very very long ponytail back in the 1980s! In the late 80s there was an attempt to introduce him to the American public and he recorded some songs in English for the American market.

There some videos from 1989. In the first one there are some glimpses of his ponytail.

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In this video you can see his long hair at 3:10. It is awesome!

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But what interests me even more than his ponytail is the fact that long hair is traditionally associated with particular style of music. We see lots of rock / metal musicians with ponytails but you have to agree that a pop singer (singing silly songs) with a ponytail is rather unusual.

Here's a link to the story of Kenneth Fails, facing in-school suspension for refusing to cut his hair.
His mother is very supportive and has spoken her mind to the school board. Good for her!

Bruce

Hello everyone,
I am now an ordained minister as of September 8,2010, but I still have my long hair!

I was ordained through this website called United Christian Faith Ministries. It was not a five minute ordination process. they check your criminal record for sexual predators etc and your other background checks. they make sure that you are serious about you asking for ordination.I took a discipleship course to qualify for the ordination.

I do not know how to put pics on the posts but hopefully my updated pick comes into my post. I still have my long hair!

forgive me if i put multiple post of the same post. They are all accidents

Birdman

Is that what they call..... [PIC]
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John.B

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.....thick ends then :-)

Amazing you can do with a bit of home help :-)

Just think with all those colours it didn't come out of a bottle and considering the time of year some autumnal colours (I does't quite ring with fallumnal does it lol!)

Cheers,

John.B

Long hair dream
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kailongbeard

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Had an awesome dream last night. I was waiting in a long line for a shower. But this was no ordinary shower. Ahead of me in line, I over heard two guys talkng. First guy said "I can't wait. Second guy said,"Just think we'll never have to wear clothes again." Some how I didn't understand. Were they nudists? One by one the men dissappeared into the shower. Finally I got close enough where I could see the men enter the shower area and minutes later exit the shower fully transformed.
Turns out this magical shower made men hairy. In would go an ordinary guy and out would come a fur god, hair and beard floor length. As soon as I realized what was happening I was elated.
Unfortunately I woke up right before it was my turn to enter.

I'm going to post something that happened today. This is the kind of thing we should be talking about here, maybe that way the board will get some more activity. It's not big news, the hair keeps getting longer (longer than ever every day for the past year, minus two trims), and with that a lot more tangles, it also hates moisture.

Today I tried a really "special" shampoo I bought a while ago. The brand doesn't matter, because I don't think that's the thing to get because it comes in a bundle with other unecessary products. A regular sulfate free shampoo preferably with it's matching conditioner should be enough. Well, it's the best thing ever (for hair at least). Today has been a really wet day, absurdly wet I may say, and it's the best hair day I've had in months, even better than good hair days in dry weather, no frizz and no hassle. I love it, plus it has no damaging products and it really cleans. I don't know why I didn't use it before.

I had a problem with the time between washes, with the added length and the extreme curls, the ends were getting extremely dry really soon, just 2 days, if I washed it would bring in the frequent washing issues (i.e. dryness), if I only conditioned (like I used to), and waited the full 4 days for a wash, then the roots would be oily and nasty, and no help ar all for the dry, brittle ends. It was getting really frustrating. I was about to straighten it permanently again, just to get rid of the problem, not for the right reasons, and I had come to love my curls, and I may want to straighten in the future (for the right reasons). I don't know what changed, if the length has something to do with it, or the hair changed, I don't know. None of my routines were working.

Today that changed with the sulfate free shampoo. There's a lot less lather, it feels funny in your hands and on the hair, it's significantly more expensive, but it's really amazing, and yes I can say that on the first day. The best part is, it's safe for everyday use. That's great news for people with oily hair or really fine hair, people who work out, swim or sweat a lot daily. Even for people who just can't stop washing, some people I know get really grossed out by not washing daily, no matter how much I tell them how much it harms their hair. Well, with sulfate free, knock yourseves out, you can have the freshly washed feeling every morning/night. And your hair's condition will get better and better day after day. I guess you could also wash every other day, that's up to you, but I don't see a reason not to give it a try.

Sorry for the long post, just felt like sharing.

A Fond Farewell. [PIC]
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Justin

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Hi all-

After many fabulous years serving the MLHH, effective today, I have decided that it is time to leave my position as moderator and this superb board. Please be rest assured however that All is presently in the very best of hands behind the scenes with a great group of ever so dedicated extremely "hard working" moderators along with their superb president to assure that all will continue to tick like a clock for your own help, benefit and loyal support of long hair always.

I shall be sure to come back and post every now and then, for how can I ever forget this amazing place? Impossible!

Let us not forget however that this board would have ever been the great place it is today without the dedication, hard work and love put forth by our own beloved Bill Choisser to assure that the MLHH would remain solid and strong always and to run like a top far into the distant years ahead. We cannot thank Bill enough for all he has done for us.

Well, time to run along.

Blessings to each and everyone of you.

Bye all-

Justin~ :-)

Bulk conditioner
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Michael

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Hello,

I'm in the market for a conditioner I can buy in bulk rather than indivudual bottles at the store. I go through a bottle once a week. It's getting alittle old buying a new bottle and costly.

My hair is black/brownish, wavy/curly and my scalp is full of it. If someone can suggest a decent brand to me for a relatively low price, I'd love to hear it. Walmart is really the only place I can buy stuff like that in bulk. Thanks and good day!

P.s My hair doesn't like silicones even though they make combing a breeze. So no cones here.

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ray

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the style i like

O/T Happy equinox equinox :-)
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John.B

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Yes it's here again...happy equinox...equiniox!

We look forward to new autumn library of updated pictues!

Now I'm off to say hello to a pebble!

Cheers,

John.B

Catchin up
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Paul Kmf

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Well, I'm back. Since the divorce I've had all kinds of crap going on so most of it not even relevant to longhair so I didn't want to bore y'all with it. Lol.

My ex's room mate (a girl and supposedly both our friends) called me about a month ago and told me she cut both my sons' hair. I told her I hated her and never to call me again. She hasn't.

I even thought about cutting my own hair after that just so my sons wouldn't feel a difference between us but Harley asked me not to. And my friends (females and short haired guys) looked at me like I was crazy and said stuff like, "What?!" and "Nah, don't do that." and "How the hell will we recognize you?" so I didn't. I did trim it some but it was getting a bit rough on the ends.

The deal this year at the school is still the same; Longhaired boys can wear it in a tail and no one will say anything about it. They follow that rule in the hall and certain classes, the rest of the time they just wear it down.

Kids are doing great still making excellent grades. They adjusted very well.

Went to my 30 year class reunion last Saturday and I was the only "hippie" Haha. Got some compliments on my hair and not one negative look.

Paul

Another Month [PIC]
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RobD

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Just checking in with an update. All grows well here in MN. Getting ready for colder months ahead.
Take care all.

sad to say, but...
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MarkS

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I think I hit terminal or am close to it, because im at 3 1/2 years growth now and I don't see a difference since my 3 year update back in March. I mean its either growing very slow now or im close to terminal. It's about mid back now and I want to grow it to my lower back or waist at least. This makes me sad... :( But maybe it will still grow hopefully

Issues with mother
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L.S.P.P.

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My hair is presently in what is regarded as "the awkward stage". My mother is thoroughly convinced that it must be trimmed to look "nice". To my best of my ability, I have explained that such actions will only prolong awkwardness, which seems to be the consensus among this community. Has anybody had this experience and how might I get her off my case until the awkward stage transitions to a substantial length?

Regards,
L.S.P.P

White Tail goes to War (O/T)
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White Tail

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For those of you who follow the absurd wanderings of White Tail, I must be saying goodbye for a while. I have been offered the adventure and opportunity of a lifetime and will be headed to Afghanistan for the next 13+ months. It will be my privilege to support the young men and women of many nations fighting in that country. I will be working as a hydro-geologist with the SEEBEES and RED HORSE Squadrons installing water wells on the Forward Operating Bases. (See the link below).

I will miss my MLHH family and look forward to the day I will be having my morning coffee and evening tea with you again.

Happiness, Luck and Love to each of you
Walter

''TIPS FOR LONG HAIRED MEN.''
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Justin

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Hey all

Hope you are having a great weekend.

Just came upon this brand new video that I am quite sure will interest alot of guys. It is very well done and in just several minutes time gives many valuable long hair tips. Enjoy! :-)

Justin~

Article on Men with Long Hair, interested? [PIC]
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Mag Writer

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Hi Guys,

My name is Marguerite and I'm a Freelance Writer from Toronto, Canada. I'm trying to write an article on men with long hair and I'd love to have some of you participate if you're interested.

I'm trying to get at the heart of the matter: What is life like for a man with long hair?

I think it's a valid enquirey as men with this aesthetic are not in the mainstream of things; there's something interesting and rebellious about a man who decides to grow his hair, would you agree?

If you're interested in participating, please contact me and I will send you some questions. Or, you can post a comment to this message about your ideas and thoughts on the matter.

Thank you for your help!

Mira Oil?
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kailongbeard

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Has anyone here tried Mira oil? Does it work or is it a scam?
They say it make for helthier faster growing hair. But at $70 a bottle...?

And here's my 3.5 years youtube hair video link.

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Obsession
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Asdis

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Guys (& Gals) please dont be obsessed by your hair and measure it by the day, just leave it alone and it will grow. If you're worried, give yourself plenty of time (6 months/a year/2 years/10 years)

There is nothing wrong or right with anything, long, thick, thin, just be yourself. Just dont be obsessed by it - get out and have a life, you're hair will enjoy it!! :)

Operation Grey Hair : Search and Destroy!
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Tristan

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Hi Guys..

First, let me say I don't have a problem with gray hair. Long or Short. I'm just not ready for it on me quite yet.

Since my hair is now coming back in again from being shaved the last two years, I've noticed numerous white hairs. I've been able to take care of them with tweezers and a bit of time.

Anyone else have any ideas or thoughts on doing this? Any alternatives? or better yet remedies without coloring?

- Happy Hair Farming ... Tristan

Advice about hair style[PIC] [PIC]
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Raphaël V.

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Hi,

I've been letting my hair grow for more than one year and I usually par my hair in the middle. Actualy, I want to change my hair style but I don't know exactly what to do. I thought I could part my hair in the right (Like the picture I post) (or in the left but not in the middle) but I can't decide if it looks weird or not. Nobody in my circle likes long hair so I thought I needed advices from people who won't give me advices like " Just cut you hair".

By the way, I have a good advice for everyone : Don't use your spellchecker when you want to write a text in another language, it's disturbing.

Here is my actual hairstyle : http://img824.imageshack.us/img824/8446/225224.jpg

Raphaël V.

PS : How do you do to post more than one pic correctly ?

September Update [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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Here's my update for september. The trim i had late july and the no-nonsense shampoo i started using seems to have done my hair good, and i'm starting to feel longhaired again :)

3 years update [PIC]
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Vincent

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Although having had some doubts about the lenght of my hair, I'm still committed to growing it longer. As a lot of people say here, once it get's to your goal lenght you want it even longer.
Now that I've reached my first goal lenght (full ponytail) quite some time ago I just let it grow and don't check how long it is. It's just there. So taking these pictures is always a surprise to see how long it got!

Until two years I didn't have split ends but right now I have a lot of them. But it doesn't matter, my hair is still growing after 3 years without a single trim. Although a lot of people (with shorter hair as me) say to me to have a trim so my hair will grow faster. They just don't believe it's not true. Well I just let them think that and keep on doing things my way :)

I'm very close to belt lenght with my hair pulled, but my goal is belt lenght without pulling it.

Hair this long is actualy quite comfortable, I wear it loose more often because it's so long it stays there a lot better when shorter. One surprising milestone I archieved was hair getting caught in my armpits.

I've got three pictures, one from the back with my hair dry.
One just after shower, with my hair pulled (almost belt lenght!)
The last one is from the front, compare it to my avatar one year ago.

Shorter hairs
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Charlie M

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My hair is currently at about 1/2 inch past nipple length, or mid-back. The trouble is that the hairs in front of my ears/above the area where the hairs are normally short are shorter than they used to be, even though the rest of my hair is all about the same length. I'm just wondering what sort of things could be causing this, because they haven't always been so short.

Some theories I have are that it may have something to do with the way I sleep, because I tend to sleep with that area of my head on the pillow and that may damage those hairs, or maybe that I need to switch my shampoo/conditioner (I currently use Pantene).

It doesn't bother me too much in terms of appearance, but when I put my hair in a tail or anything these hairs stick out and must be tucked behind my ears. Since they are shorter than the rest they are also a bit curlier.

Any thoughts would help! I'll get a picture up once I have enough light.

-Charlie M

Hello. I've had my hair long for about 4 yrs. What can I use to get my ponytail to not be so bushy? I'm open to using some type of oil or grease. Something so it will look more like it does when it's damp, and weigh it down.

A general update on my life.
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Kenneth

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How long is your hair?

The ends reach to the end of my belt.

How long have you been growing your hair?

November of this year will mark 7 years.

What is my profession?
I work as a bike Messenger in Manhattan, but lately have been working at a florist part time for my Messenger Company's Client.
I've been a walking messenger for nearly 4 years until up and switched to the bike. Beats taking the subway 20 times a day.

Are there a lot of longhairs in NYC?

While they are not a majority in the city they certainly are not a rare sight at all especially among ehtnic minorities.

Are longhairs accepted in NYC?
Most city residents do not care about the length of one's hair and even if they do you are not suppose to care because you are too busy for haters.

I believe that is all ask me anymore questions please.

September update [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hi guys,

I used a new shampoo yesterday made by the brand Earthly delight from the USA, the Herbal Shampoo. I am suffering from very bad dandruff and it decreased the amount of dandruff very well, my hair is clean, my head skin is clean and I'm satisfied with it... but not good to use more often because it's not cheap to get for me. It's based on soap so I am getting a aleppo soap for my hair, hope, it's doing well for me too.

Regards

For Victor
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Justin

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Hey Victor! :-)

Just wondering if you have any news to share with all of us about "Mag Writer" and how she is planning on doing the article about long haired men?

Hope you had a great 3 day weekend and all has been well with you and your family.

With all good wishes-

Justin~

Hair Groth Status from 3 months ago till now
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Bohemian Prince

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I'm not too sure if this link will work, but here's hoping :)

Its a month my month record of my growth process:

Enjoy:)

Noob here, 9 months of growth. [PIC]
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Machony

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Hey, I've been aware of this board for a long time, but I think now is the right time in my life to have some badass long hair. I've been growing it since December '09 where it was alil over 1" and spikey.

I inherited my mom's hair type; thick and wavy. I'm liking how it looks so far and it is surprising how it can change your appearance. I haven't been met with any naysayers yet, and even if I do, I wont cut it this time!

The pic of me is from about a week ago. I'll post more

1 year mark [PIC]
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ray

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need some advice and love any comments

3 Month Update [PIC]
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Bohemian Prince

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Hey everyone,
I've been a whole 3 months without me having a haircut. So I'm just sharing my profess to show you guys how I'm getting on.

Feel free to click the link below, I'm gonna reply to this when it posts with last months update pic, so you can compare

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ray

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double braid french braid

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ray

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ponytail braid

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french braid

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sectioned ponytail

A Good Excuse!
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MG

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Last night I think they had a thing on Nightline about head lice.
When asked the best way to avoid head lice she said don't wash
your hair. Apparently the lice like clean hair as it is a lot
easier for them to cling onto it. If the hair is dirty and
greasy then they have a hard time getting into the hair.
So the next time you don't feel like washing your hair, don't.
Its good for you.

idk...long hair [PIC]
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fenderbaby

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rock musician watu think?

Newbie....8 months of growth {Pic} [PIC]
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Ar15

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Hi im new to the board. I kinda stumbled across it. been growing my hair out for about 8 months.. Just looking for comments on it and tips. currently its in the awkward stage as its in my eyes and i have to part it. some ask what was my decision to grow it out i just wanted to switch the look up a little bit and see how it looked

There is hope for sport and over there yet! :-)

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-11150607

NFL player Troy Polamalu gets $1m hair insurance
Troy Polamalu in a hand-out picture provided by Procter and Gamble Troy Polamalu's hair has won him lucrative sponsorship from hair product manufacturers

The long curly hair that sticks out of NFL football player Troy Polamalu's helmet has been insured by a shampoo company for $1m (£650,000).

Polamalu, a defender for the Pittsburgh Steelers, has been tackled at least once by his distinctive 3ft-long (1m) hair which hangs down his back.

Cheers,

John.B

It's amazing living in New Orleans I cannot find a single salon that knows how to do what I want. First off I am Caucasion....just saying this so everyone knows my hair type better, and have dark thick hair. My hair is currently 6" long and it grows fast. Right now I just slick it back and put some nice gel in it to give me that whole consecutive wall street look,lol.

Anyway to the point. I want to have braided extensions added to my hair. To give everyone a better idea even though I see this look on alot of black football players in the NFL, that is the look I want....I am white but still that is the look I like. Again not trying to sound racist.
Every salon I go to wants to give me corn rolls where they are twisted very tightly to the scalp which is completely the opposite from what I want. It's really simple....just long braided extensions to be added to my hair which is currently right at 6". I'm looking for a length maybe to the bottom of my shoulders....I may have to wait to grow my hair longer first for that length not sure.
I would love to have the feeling of long braids just hanging I think that would give me the feeling of being a God,lol, plus I crave attention whether it's good or bad:)
Money is not an issue I am really lookong fir the best way to have this done. Thanks for any advice if anyone knows a place in New Orleans that does this that would sound like a dream to me,lol.

Again I see this look on many football players it looks freakishly nice. I am not exactly a small guy so I don't think I will have any problems with this making me look like a girl,lol. Again thanks.

Broken hairs?
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Chris C.

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Hey guys. I broke a few hairs around my bangs a little while ago. If the broken hairs are about 3 inches long, how long would it take before they grow enough to not look "broken." Thanks in advance.

Chris

I used be an active member of this blog 5 years ago but now I'm back! Its good to see some familiar faces but mostly everyone here is new! About me - Well, just got fired from my job today for "offensive internet material" that some coworkers found on my facebook account. Turns out it was a link that I had to my blog!

They gave me a chance and said I HAVE to take my blog down. So I refused out of principle. But I never thought my blog was that offensive anyway so I'm thinking about fighting it. The link is below. Do you guys think its that bad??? Do you think I would have a case against them? Thanks!

[URL="http://infectedcalf.blogspot.com/"]http://infectedcalf.blogspot.com/[/URL]

Returning Home ...
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Tristan

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Hi Everyone.. (for those of you who remember me)..

I have finally purged out all the inclination for short hair. I almost started a regrowth about 9 months ago, but really wasn't ready yet. I know I'm going to need tons of support this go around because it was so hard the last time. I will refrain from posting a pic for awhile because I'm again at ground zero.

Happy Growing.

Tristan

UPDATE [PIC]
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ATP

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Been a while.

Still breathing.

But more importantly, still with long hair. LOL

I may need to get the ends trimmed though. Looks like it may be getting thin...or it may just be the way the hair lays...

Update... [PIC]
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Vivien

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Hi everybody !

I don't post here so often these days, I think... Always checking though the topics though !

As you may (or may not) know, I'm back from Norway to France, after an amazing trip by bike across Norway (Trondheim-Oslo in one week) and by train across Europe (Germany, Austria and Italy). You can see some pictures on my Flickr account (link below)

I join the today picture of my hair. It has gotten quite long, but very thin at the ends. The extra volume on the pic is due to the braid waves and the washing of yesterday with rhassoul, which totally washed my hair but dried it (not a bad thing in some ways...). I plan to trim the ends quite soon.

Bye!
Vivien

16 month update [PIC]
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Highlander

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16 months from shaved head to a tail. Feel great with it! I am glad I stuck the akward phase out. Thanks for all the members tips also.

Intro from an old newbie [PIC]
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Dave in RI

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First, I need to say that I am thrilled to find this blog and board. I knew that being a longhair put me in the minority, though I didn't realize we were 2%'ers, so I never even searched for such a resource.

Now for my story. It started with a battle between me and my ex-military, and most likely homophobic, father who refused to understand that straight guys could have long hair and that having a crew cut in L.A. during the sixties was simply unnacceptable. While he was wrong about my sexual orientation, he was right about my association with 'hippie radical types'.

Having won the battle at age 13 I maintained my 'freak flag' until graduating college with a degree in computer information systems at the age of 28 (another story) and entering the business world. During the next twenty years I struggled with maintaining the 'appropriate' hair length, although I have to admit that I did enjoy the tactile experience of haircuts and, especially, shampooing. However, the repressive feeling that I was simply 'passing' in a world that could not accept me as I truly am eventually became overwhelming and I submitted to my last hair butchering in 1998.

I made the decision then that if a company would not hire me because of my hair, which is simply an expression of my identity, then it was not a place in which I wanted to spend a significant portion of my life. That decision came with an initial financial sacrifice as I transitioned from sales to tech work at a nonprofit. Ironically, after six months I was actually making more money than I did as a shorthair.

Now, at the ripe old age of 55, I am making another transition toward my true identity, having recently received my Master of Social Work degree. While longhaired social workers are more common than longhaired computer salesmen, I still struggle a bit with the 'image' thing. However, cutting my hair is not an option.

I look forward to reading about the experiences of other kindred spirits and contributing whatever bits of wisdom I have gathered over the past half-decade.

Still here, with an update! [PIC]
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Andrea

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Hey everybody! Long time I haven't been posting here even though I've always been looking around...I know all the news, let's say. I guess it's finally time for an update!

I'm still growing out my hair and goatee of course, here's a pic. I've been growing my hair since 8th January from a 5mm buzzcut. I think it's growing out pretty well, I like the shape month after month. While I've been growing my goatee since March. Planning to grow both hair and beard at least chest lenght.

Took a plunge
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Charlie M

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Since I started growing my hair it's always been significantly shorter in the front than in the back, and has always been quite annoying. I wanted to wait until the front had reached a good length until I trimmed it to even it out, and it's finally reached that!
So now I've taken a step towards having the hair even all around, and I'm very happy with the results. The slight loss of length was definitely a good compromise. It's still not quite even, maybe 3/4 inch difference, but it's getting closer and I'll do another trim in a few months.

If anyone else has had issues with hair evenness, as I did, I recommend just waiting until you're comfortable with the change in length and then you should be happy with the results.

-Charlie M

When to minimise hair washing
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Bohemian Prince

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I hear a lot of people saying that when your hair is long, you shouldn't wash it every day because you will dry it out.

So I was wondering at what point, or length should I start to minimize the amount of days per week I shampoo and condition by hair.

By the way, I am currently using organic shampoo from Lush, not sure if that is relevant.

I'm almost at 3 months without a haircut, so I'm almost going into the shaggy look.

One small step.... [PIC]
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Jason W.

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Taken this evening. Comment (a pleasant one) was made about my hair, it's length and a question: Could I reach it with my hand behind my back? I tried, and, Lo and behold, with only a modicum of effort, I was able to do so. Just another step on the way.

question about working out and long hair
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MarkS

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I want to start working out a good amount and will I build more Testosterone is what im wondering? What can I do to not build that up, becauase I heard if you have more testosterone, the less your hair will grow...

Does anybody here make their own leave-in Conditioner with Panthenol?

I have recently heard that Panthenol (Vitamin B5) is very good for keeping hair from breaking.. It is one of the ingredients in Pantene Products, but they never use enough...

I heard it is very good at absorbing in hair and never is greasy...

I have heard it is hard to find by itself over the counter so I found a recipe for making some from B5 Capsules but it does not give how many capsules to use per water.. Does anybody have any clue?

Here is what I found...

"Vitamin B5 or Pantothenic Acid serves as a humectant or moisturizer for the hair. The most effective form of Vitamin B5 for topical application is Panthenol which is the alcohol version. Panthenol penetrates the skin and hair efficiently compared to pantothenic acid. But Pantothenic Acid applied topically also affects the level of moisturization of the hair.

Since panthenol is a bit difficult to find over the counter, we are going to make a topical vitamin B5 by just using Pantothenic Acid capsules or tablets dissolved in water or 70% ethyl alcohol/30% water. For oily skin, use dissolve the Pantothenic Acid in 70% alcohol 30% water solution for better skin penetration.

For dry skin, the Vitamin B5 distilled water combination should be sufficient enough. "

Long time reader but first time poster looking for advice. My hair is currently down to my eyes now but it is thin curly hair that tends to afro. I am of Jewish descent and my hair is taking its course, it looks very similar to Andy Samberg's hair to be honest and I'm trying to avoid this. It gets 100x worse especially down here in the Florida humidity.

I am looking to straighten it and have been reading endlessly on Keratin treatments (specifically "Liquid Keratin") and no-lye relaxer systems. I still haven't come to a conclusion and was wondering if I could get the forum's opinion on this? I plan on growing my hair out to my shoulders and need help bad.

Help me fix my routine?
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Graeme

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I have about shoulder-length wavy hair.

Every morning, I wake up and my hair is a mess. I shower, soaking all of my hair, shampooing about every 3 days, and using conditioner about the same amount (I believe my conditioner is some Pantene kind, while the shampoo is just a basic brand). Next, I lightly towel dry, so it's not dripping. I then use a blow dryer and quickly just move it along my hair, drying it, but still keeping it a bit wet. After this, I shake my hair to get rid of a bit of the extra moister. After all of this, it's usually just a bit damp, with it being a bit more damp in the back compared to the sides and on the top. I then use a hair brush and pull it all down.

I notice that once and awhile I'll get a few curls that seem to stick out from the rest of my hair. With these I usually just curl them in the opposite direction and tuck them under. This gets rid of them sometimes, if my hair is damp.

Also, my hair seems to get more curly and dry near the end, but I don't know what to do about this.

If you have any suggestions on how to better my routine, your help is appreciated. I guess what I'm going for is a bit of a sleak looking 70's styled look.

Thanks!

Update [PIC]
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bte

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Hi folks. As some of you know, I am an oldie with mpb who has defied convention by growing out what hair I have to terminal.

The attached photo represents 16 years' growth without trims - although it hasn't looked much different for the last 12 years or so as I reached terminal length disappointingly soon, but I am happy.

This first pic is ponytail pic; will attempt to post nighttime braid pic later on.

Best leave in conditioner? [PIC]
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NewGuy

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Hey was just wondering what your opinion is on the best leave in conditioner for dry hair. I'm using "Fructis" by Garneir and I have to say its nothing special. (P.S. - My picture is not a good indication of my hair, that was taken after 5 days of camping with no shower so it finally oiled up!)

Thanks!

www.infectedcalf.blogspot.com (World's Worst Blog by me)

Black Tie Affair
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Mikhael

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So I am headed in a few days to a Black Tie Affair, Three Piece Suit and all. It is a Post-Wedding Reception/Ball Room Dancing with Dinner.

What possible hair style can I use that will look very stunning/handsome? I would like to try a hair style without a ponytail if possible. So what options do I have?

Please add some photo or link to examples so I can get a very good idea of what you mean.. :)

Mikhael

O/T - Ishahn in London
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John.B

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Hi there,

Well just got back from a wonderful evening out on olde Londinium dump seeing Emperor's Ishahn playing a live set with his own band and I was very impressed. They did do an encore with a track from Prometheus.

Such a shame he didn't play Bloodstock but we got a good treat in Wacken :-)

Cheers,

John.B

Wide Tooth Comb Vs. Round Boar Hair Brush
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Mikhael

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What do you all recommend for fixing hair? Is there any reason to really brush hair? Do you recommend a wide tooth comb or a round boar hair brush? Which is better?

I thought I heard that you get more oils down the hair if you brush it with a boar hair brush but after buying a high quality 100% wooden boar hair brush it seems like I lose more hair with it. I can barely brush the hair softly and hair is coming out... It really seems to thin me out way to much... Anybody else have this problem?

Anyway thoughts?

Mikhael

Does anybody have any recommendations on John Frieda Root Awakening products? Are they good? Are they Bad? Do they just make your hair look stunning for a day then the hair is in need of help? Are they addictive; what I mean is this, Many hair line products with a lot of chemicals from labs tend to make your hair addictive to the products so that the hair needs the product more to stay healthy looking..

Reason I ask is I have tried very hard to stay organic with most of my hair care products but with all the medications I am on my hair is not doing very well at least in my opinion. Lots of hair breakage, lots of hair loss, etc...

So someone gave me a free bottle of this stuff and said I should try it.. But I am always leery of trying new things out that could be bad in the long run...

Any thoughts?

right around 1 year 10 months.....
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Brad B.

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iv posted a few progress pics here before but haven't in the last 6 months or so, so here is a recent pic after a Day of hiking

Update [PIC]
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MattT

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Hey all, quick update for anyone interested. This is my "almost 13 month update", seems every time I start growing my hair I move house at the same time, otherwise it would have been at 12 months. Anyhow last haircut on 21-7-09, and I did have a trim 2 weeks ago off the length of the back, which turned out fine I was getting abit over the mullet/curling thing. Once all one length I'll let it fly!!

Good to see everyone doing well, I won't do a list out of the danger I will miss someone don't want to offend :)

Pic attached

Take care all,

Matt

Old Member Re-Growing
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Bohemian Prince

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Hi guys,

I used to post on this board quite a few years ago and had been growing my hair on and off. This time I'm determined to reach my goal of shoulder length hair.

But anyway, I may be using this forum, from time to time for advice. I apologize that I will not be posting pictures of myself to protect my privacy online.

So I wanted to ask, when reaching your goal length how do some of you determine what stylists you can and can not trust when it comes to getting trims?

I've heard stories of salon stylists more or less enforcing the expectations of the fashion industry to what hairstyles are fashionable

That brings up a question...
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JSFrodo

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Thought about posting this as a reply to Bohemian Prince's question, but decided not to hijack his thread...

Anyway, after hearing some of the haircut horror stories here on the board, I've started wondering: What exactly are one's legal options if the service rendered isn't what one asked for? In this case, you tell the stylist you want a small trim, and they cut off significantly more than was asked for. My first instinct would be to say, "You didn't do what I asked for, therefore I'm not paying."

So, any of our more legal minds have an input on whether I'd have a legal leg to stand on, in that situation?

Because enquiring minds want to know,
Frodo

My first experience with a bun
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JSFrodo

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Had my first experience of having my hair in a bun the other night. Was visiting with friends, who invited us to make use of their hot tub. Not wanting to have to deal with wet hair, I asked the lady of the pair if she could help me with putting it up to stay out of the water.

I have to say it was convenient, but would definitely take some getting used to. Unfortunately, there is no pictorial evidence of the event for me to share.

Frodo

2 Month Update [Pic]
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Bohemian Prince

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Hi again guys, when I first decided to return to this forum I was a little reluctant to posing pictures of myself on this site. But what I am willing to do, is link you to my TwitPic where I've been posting monthly pictures of my progress.

I usually take a new picture on the 1st of every month, so it shouldn't be too far away for my next update.

Hey guys,

4 pieces of good news:

1. Our wonderful mlhh mate and friend Jason getting married!!! :-D

2. I want to try growing out my hair a third time (1st time was shoulderblades-mid-back, 2nd time was mid-back-waist), but only to my shoulders and then we'll see.
I'll be honest though I may decide to cut it again sooner rather than later as I am still in the first year of trying to build my Personal Training business and I can't really afford to look scruffy.

I set myself a 6month goal of 'no cut' on March 6th and so it will be 6months next month!

3. My only regret in going to that Pro Wrestling Camp in Calgary in 2008 was that i missed my second favourite band of all time (The Cure comes number 1 for me!) Iron Maiden on their first Australian tour since 1992.
I missed them by 2 weeks and when I left Canada in April, I missed their Canadian show by 2 weeks again!

It was devastating stuff (Seriously) but the good news is that they're coming back here next year!
And I have my floor ticket baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here's a nice clip of them from 1986. Not my favourite song of theirs (though I enjoy 96% of their material) but *awesome* hair, esp. Bruce Dickinson (lead singer)and Steve Harris (bassist).

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And who knows....maybe one day when I have mid-back hair+ again, I'll take the plunge like I *almost* did last time and get the fringe like Bruce has here.

4. I'm doing the Oxfam 100km trailwalk in 2 weeks time. To be honest I'm a bit scared as the longest I've ever hiked is 45km (a month ago! lol).
I'm in a team of 4 and we have 48hours to complete the walk (through the bush mainly) though our team goal is 30hours or less.
Anyway *no pressure* but if anyone wants to donate (100 or 1 whatever you want) please feel free! :)
The money does not go to me but to Oxfam a charity organisation who does a lot of good work, especially in Africa and 3rd world countries.
But again no pressure. Even though I'm a bit scared that it might not be a walk that I'll be able to 'walk away'from if you know what I mean (scared lol)

So that's it...Jason getting married, my possibly growing my hair a bit, Iron Maiden(!) and give me money lol

Take care mlhh!

Waves from braiding [PIC]
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Jann

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Haven't posted a pic in a while, but a friend braided my hair yesterday when it was damp and I liked the way it looked when I took the braid out last night, so here's a photo. This braid started at the nape of my neck. Next time, I think I'll try for a bunch of small braids starting at the top of my head so the waves will start higher up. Should look cool.

August Update [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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Hey all!
I trimmed 2cm (little less than an inch) of my ends in the end of july, and i'm happy with the results.
I also changed to a shampoo and conditioner without perfume or color, and very few ingredients. It worked very well on my hair. It's nicer to my hair and scalp, yet it keeps the hair feeling clean longer :)

Not the best picture, but whatever. Hope you are enjoying the last weeks of summer!

My Wedding
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Jason

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Well, the big day finally arrived on July 11th. It was the most wonderful day fulfilling all my expectations and dreams about it and more. It was hot but not as bad as some of the previous days and there was no rain. We had an outdoor ceremony at a picturesque old-fashioned location on a working farm.

It was great to have our own DavidN in attendance and we really appreciated the effort he made to be there. I don't have all of the photos yet so I don't have a photo of him but I'm hoping that David if you have photos of your own that you could add to this thread, that would be great.

So here are 10 pics:
Right after our vows:

The wedding party:

Cake cutting:

The surroundings:

I even got to headbang to a Metallica song!!

This was taken at the rehearsal dinner the night before:

Wacken 2010...still the best summer holiday going :-)

O/T - Cheers! [PIC]
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John.B

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Nice German Beer :-)

Partial Ponytail
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Rich

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SO my hair is not yet long enough to put all of it into a ponytail, however from my ears back it is. Since I have very thick hair, I get very hot very easily, and was wondering if putting what I can into a ponytail would help at all. Thanks.

Enioying a drink in the beer garden :-)

Checking in at Nine Months [PIC]
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RobD

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Hello all.
Just a quick update at nine months. Hope you are all well and the hair continues to grow!
Peace.
Rob.

Helloooo! [PIC]
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nuttidave

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Hi there hairy people!

I haven't posted in a loooong while, so I thought I would say hello and show my face. I still have wild chaotic hair albeit a bit shorter. I'm a longhair for life, just not 'as' long :-)

Oh, congratulations on your marriage Jason!

I hope you are all having a great summer and keep them locks growing and flowin'

cheers Dave

Patirnce...and the heat.
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Jason W.

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Give me strength!. People have asked why I have decided to let my hair grow through the summer, In Arizona. Believe me, it takes strength. It is not long enough to yet tie back. Perhaps by next summer. I hope. I can feel the hair just reaching the nape of my lower neck and is approaching the shoulders, perhaps by late August I can officially proclaim it shoulder length. I hope so, as I will be travelling to St. Louis, Mo to attend a large festival that will bring a whole lot of friends together from back in the late 60s, early 70s, a time when i and many others sported very long hair. 5 bands and a lot of good times in a suburban park. All arranged and approved by the city fathers. Food drink and good times, and the profits go to charity. It was this event that finally gave me the impetus to go ahead and "let it grow" Long may it wave!!

good to know...
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JayKuz

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I have recently been informed that the type of women I like, because of my long hair, are now "out of my league". HA! Women I like, if this is true, please do stay there! That is all.

Feeling Normal! [PIC]
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Growing

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It's been eighteen months, and I was hoping to get to the ponytail stage by the time I retire in December. Well, it just happened. I now wear it that way every day -- to work, to corporate meetings, to ball games and to church. What is amazing to me is how people react...first, most don't even notice or case; and, second, those who do are overwhelmingly positive. The "commenters" say it looks great (even if it is a little sparse) and are a bit jealous about allowing myself the freedom to do it. Anyway, thanks for all of the support from the board members. I am attaching a photo fyi...

34 Months Growing Strong!! [PIC]
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Agentxxl

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Hi All!!

Just wanted to let you know, I'm in my 34 month of my growing experience. Looking forward to the 3 yr mark. Pic was taken yesterday, Sunday.

update on me
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MarkS

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Hey guys, sorry I haven't been active on here at all in the last few months but I have a lot going on in my life and was away on vacation for a month as well and just got back. I am going to be moving in a few months and trying to sell my house now with my family. But do not worry I am still growing my hair strong and I am at almost 41 months growth now and my next update will be in March 2011 at 4 years growth to show a years worth of growing versus every few months like I used to. Hope everyone is doing good and again sorry for not being active just have so much going in my life now.

Finally, a cure for baldness! [PIC]
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Validus

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Update and Arggh
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Mikhael

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First the good news.... I have hit a milestone... My top layer of hair is now completely over my under layer hair. So that means that all the hair is even at the bottom... Woo Hoo... :)

Now the bad news.. I asked my wife to trim-dust my hair thinking I could trust her... Yeah right.. I was so mad... I ask for no more then a quarter of an inch off the bottom to even everything out. Instead she cut more then an inch off.. I should have known since I knew she did not like me having longer hair. Now when I need a dusting I do not know who to trust...

Anyway, when I get a chance I will try to get a picture taken and post it....

Mikhael

Its been a while... [PIC]
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Jarvis

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I haven't been here in a while, I've had other things to do and been keeping in touch with some of you via facebook. But to give you an update, august will mark 42 months (3 and a half years) for me. Heres a pic from outlaw jam yesterday, the best day of my damn life!

No head hair this time [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hi guys,

as I've never posted a real photo of me I decided to post the latest one I liked. Hope you like it too.
Looks kinda depressive but I like the style.

Regards

Texas Hippie Coalition
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Scooper

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I heard these guys on the local college station lately... pretty good music! (and hair!)

Texas Hippie Coalition - "Pissed Off and Mad About It" on YouTube

Western Sky
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formerjackman

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Has anyone seen the tv spot for Western Sky Financial? It features a native american spokesman in a business suit with very long hair. It's nice to see that on national tv!

Question about brushing and losing hairs. [PIC]
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Vincent89

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Hi there to all of you beautiful long haired lions!

I have a question about combing and brushing long hair, and prevent possible losing hairs.

If i wash my hair, combing it wet, then there is nothing to worry about. But, after 1 or 2 days after i washed it, and i'm brushing it in the morning, then my comb is full of hairs.

Maybe 20 or 25 hairs? Is that normal if you have long hair?

And is it wise to take vitamins to stimulate the hair growth? Like Brewers Yeast, MSM or Biotin?

Greetz :)

5 months...I shall prevail! [PIC]
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Jason W.

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One day, one week, one month at a time.....I will do this, and I am receiving some support in the from of compliments...Makes it easier. Still not "long" ,but, In due time. I will have the hair I had so long ago... maybe not the face or the body. But, I ain't gonna quibble.

Neck Hair, What do you do?
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Mikhael

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Okay, So I have three very long peaks of growing hair down my neck, on the left, center and right side of my neck. The peaks come almost down to the bottom of my neck. Funny thing is that though my hair is pretty straight my neck hairs are curled.

I had hoped to grow them out long with the rest of my hair but they do not seem to be growing much past 2 inches.

They do not seem at least to me to look good very well when I am wearing a pony tail. And I wonder at times if they are pushing my head hair outward and not allowing my hair to drop freely. But at the very least the curls down the neck with the ponytail is just weird.

So do any of you have a similar problem? What do you do?

For the rest of you, What do you recommend? Leave the hairs or shave them off?

Mikhael

My favorite longhair [PIC]
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formerjackman

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is Dave Schools of Widespread Panic! Pictured here with my son on Friday 7/30 about 15 minutes before showtime. Great guy...great show!!

We just got the link to the rest of our wedding pictures, all 398 of them. I found a shot that shows my hair pretty well while I was doing the headbanging. The rest of the photos are there too for any interested.

If you get a screen that asks you to log on, just hit continue and you'll have access.

THOR (2011 - Leaked Extended Trailer)
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Validus

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Yet another long-haired hero about to jump onto the big screen. This extended trailer (see link below) was leaked onto the internet. Marvel Studios had it pulled off of most sites immediately, but at least as of tonight, it was still viewable here...

feel self concious when wearing a pony tail
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lonewolf

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I wear my hair down all the time, and it does get a little wild looking at times, but for some reason I feel self concious if I put a band in it for a pony tail, I've occasionally done it in public but not usually if people I know are around.

When I was growing it out I had a bad hair day and I wore a pony tail one day around coworkers and some made fun of me, and I should have just ignored that and worn it again the next day, but for some reason I took it hard I guess (I was a bit self concious going in that day so the joking really drove it home)

since then I just go natural, although there are many times I think I would look less unkempt if I had it in a pony tail

anyone else ever feel this way?

User from way back when sayin' hi! [PIC]
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Weston

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I see mostly new faces but a few familiars, and I just thought I'd drop in and say hi! I was on the board from about '04-'07, but cut all my hair off and that was about the end of it.

I stop by from time to time and look around. I miss my long hair a lot, but I don't really miss having it- it's tough in Central Florida heat, ya know? I wish I could grow it long again, but the MPB bug has bitten me pretty hard (started losing my hair when I was 20 and I'm about to turn 25). Oh well, thank god for guys like Bruce Willis and Jason Statham that make bald look cool!

Anyways, hi to all who remember me (possibly Oren, Justin, Absalom, Victor, John B.), and good luck to all who just started growing!

Wow an update [PIC]
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John.B

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Hi there,

Seems someone took a picture so, I thought I post it as an update. Hope doesn't scare too many people away!

Cheers,

John.B

PS...Amazing how this white stuff takes over!

Thanks for all your kind words regarding my update from a few days ago.

I thought I would also post a link to a video showing my progress as well.

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Just for fun picture [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hi,

today I'm again 11 days without a wash - currently I'm feeling well with my 2 week rhythm as I don't have too much time or energy to care about anything including my hair.

I feel very well being without a wash for one week, then heavily oil with jojoba oil. Right after my wash I oil with coconut oil to protect the hair... and I don't care about oily-looking hair because I wear it all day in a braid.

So here is a just for fun update. I trimmed 1 cm of the ends to have it better looking. This is how long my hair is while wearing it lose...

Regards

Hi all! I started growing out my hair about 10 months ago, my goal is at least shoulder length, but due to some unfortunate circumstances (long story short: I trusted a now ex-gf of mine who is a hair stylist and my hair growing was delayed by needless trims). Above is a pic of me at my current hair length, which as you all can see is quite a mess. Does anyone have any suggestions of a way to neaten it up without losing length and avoiding a trim? Also, how does my progress look after growing it out for as long as I have? Thanks in advance, I look forward to talking with you all!

I havent posted a picture in like five months, or something. My hairs not that much longer than it was before that, because unfortunately my sister tricked me into a major haircut under the guise of simply touching up the back. *sigh*. Oh well, I'm getting decent length, though still nothing compared to my shoulder length hair a few years ago. I have to say, the last time I grew my hair out it made me self conscious, and I dont really have that problem anymore. I mean, every now and again im paranoid that the back of my hair is too long :P but I just genuinely feel good, and I dont really take notice like I first did. Just seems perfectly natural to be growing my hair out.

D

Thanks for the comments :-)
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John.B

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Hi there,

I just wanted to thank everyone for taking the time to post and for all the positive comments. I like this salt and pepper world and not a dye bottle in the place.

I'm sorry if some people may take personal umbridge if I don't reply to each one personally. I've been at a red hot keyboard all day and my fingers are about to drop off! :-)

Cheers,

John.B

Trim
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Abstrakt

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Yes, i did get a trim. But a small one, about 2cm (less than an inch).
It's a little shorter, yes, but it looks healthier and better now :)

shaving sideburns?
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lonewolf

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I am debating about shaving my sideburns right off, above the ear, not sure how it might look, any opinions on shaving sideburns vs. just letting them grow out with your hair?

dyeing longhair
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lonewolf

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I've got very light brown long hair, almost blonde, with nice natural variations and streaks, all natural... but

I've been flirting with the idea in my mind of trying something drastic and dying it dark black... but I realize that it would be one of those things that I couldn't reverse once I did it

anyone else here do any drastic dyeing of their long hair? did it change the texture? how about the growing out period, did you go with two tone or did you have to keep dyeing it?

Hey Lonewolf...
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Validus

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... the more you keep messing with your hair, worrying about it, and wishing it was like somebody else's (color, etc.), the less you're going to like it, until you eventually cut it all off. Stop with the "what-if's," relax, and enjoy the unique aspect of personal expression that is YOUR hair.

For what it's worth,

Val

the Wet Look
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lonewolf

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my hair always looks best when I get out of the shower, the weight of the water keeps it hanging nicely and tight to the head, whereas my hair tends to be curly and out of control

those Conan pics and also some famous wrestlers like HHH come to mind with the "wet look" ...

it looks great but I'm not so sure about it for going out in public, people tend to comment that "you just took a shower" etc...

and I haven't found any gel type products that give a good look without looking dirty and greasy... honestly the best look is dousing with water continually, but like I said it has a bit of a silly factor to it when out and about on a dry day

20(?) month Update [PIC]
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Oneeye

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Hey guys,

It's been at about 20 months since I last shaved my head. I must say that I am really starting to like how it is weighing itself down now.

I've just been lurking for quite some time now. I find that water washing by itself isn't working for me, but if I shampoo my hair once a week it comes out great. what I'd really like to know is what soap that LONGHAIREDLUKE (Thanks for the youtube link Justin!) uses for his hair, as it seems to be a very good routine for those of us with curly hair. Also, those videos have inspired me to grow out my hair to about half down my back, genetics willing.

Anyways, thanks for all the support that you all have given over the time that I've posted here, it has helped me considerably!

Hair questions for you guys.
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Chris C.

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Hey everyone. I hope you guys wouldn't mind revealing some of your knowledge and wisdom by answering the questions I have. First, is there a gel or a natural remedy or something like olive oil that will keep the frizzies at bay? Because of some... well... less-than-perfect haircare on my part, I broke a few hairs around my bangs. It's not terrible, but I'd just like to know how to keep my hair looking presentable until the broken hairs gain a few inches to weigh themselves down. For the second question, if I wash my hair 2 times in 3 days and it's just touching my shoulder blades, is there any hope for me going water-only as my hair gets longer? It's been steadily albeit slowly getting less oily since I stopped washing everyday. Thanks in advance, and keep those manes growing and flowing!

Chris.

Controlling the Beast....
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FunkInPublic

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I have curly hair, and it is about 6 inches right now. I am trying to get a job, going for an interview tomorrow at the UPS store. What worries me is whether the interviewer will tell me to cut my hair for the job. I want to keep my hair and continue to grow it. Any ideas on:

1. How to control a fro-ish hair situation?
Been using a bandana and a new era hat, getting good results but i can't wear it into an interview. Also too fro-ish on its own.

2. What parameters of jobs do managers tend to hire and keep on long-hairs?
Anything where individuality is encouraged, so they say. Any ideas for something during the daytime?

Thanks all.

Update [PIC]
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Robert

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You guys are always so encouraging and I really appreciate that.

Its been a bit since I posted an update and whats more, I finally ended up with a face pic with the long hair that I actually like.

Thanks for all the support you guys provide!

RB

My Bachelor Party
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Jason

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Here's what I did for my bachelor party day:

It was FANTASTIC! I'll never forget that feeling of first falling out of the airplane. What a rush! Has anyone else here gone skydiving? I had to do a tandem. It must be even better to go alone!

I'm Back!
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Texas Long Hair

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Hey, everyone. It's been 18 months since I made that mistake and cut my hair after 11 years. It may be a while before I can post a picture. Anyway, keep it growin' and flowin'.
Terry

For all Conan fans...! [PIC]
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Validus

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... the Cimmerian, not the talk-show host. I'm pretty excited about seeing this upcoming film (2011), starring Jason Momoa as the fantasy world's most famous barbarian. Nothing against Arnold, who I believe was the right choice for the role during the era in which he played the part, but I believe Momoa is much closer to the vision of the creator, Robert E. Howard(who described his character as "pantherish," and as being 6-feet, 2-inches tall, and weighing about 210 pounds). At any rate, it's always nice to have another long-haired hero up on the big screen!

Funny side-note: when this picture was on the computer monitor tonight, my 5-year-old daughter said in her sweet little voice, "You should be that for Halloween, Daddy!" Heheh... I guess love really IS blind :)

--Val

Growing it out! [PIC]
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Jamsey

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Hey im 21 years old. I decided on a change and have always wanted to grow my hair out to about shoulder length, and then see how it goes from there. I decided to grow it becuase I think it looks cool on John Lennon, I have grown it from the begining of this year from a grade 2 shave and the fringe is just past my eyebrows, the sides are just past my ears and the back about collar length. just a quick question aswelll though, do I need ocassional trims, or should I just grow it out until my desired length first? cheers

Past the collar and down TO the shoulders
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Jason W.

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I can O-fishally state my hair is now fully over the collar and is down to (though not past) my shoulders. Means little, I suppose, to ye who are already blessed with flowing locks. A milestone to me, though. Huzzah!!

(Semi-OT) Amusing experience
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JSFrodo

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Went to DC yesterday, and saw the Sunset Parade put on by the US Marine Corps Band and Silent Drill team. Among the band's selections was a medley of songs from the musical "Hair". Found it fairly amusing and ironic to hear the Marines, champions of the "high and tight" haircut, playing a song that celebrates long hair. :D

Frodo

p.s. If you're in the area, and you like drum & bugle music or military drill performances, they put on a heck of a show.

My hair always gets greasy!? [PIC]
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Lucjan

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Hi, I've messaged here before to show my progress and awe at some of the hair X]

But I'm posting for something else this time. My hair always gets greasy, and I've been having this issue for a while. When I wash my hair, it's relatively clean. This is at night, say, around 7 PM. I go to bed once it dries and wake up with it being slightly greasy. So, already through the night it's gotten some what greasy. Well, it's acceptable if I brush it, where it looks fine (I use an old boar's brush so it sweeps the oil around better). Towards the night however, it's actually quite greasy, and if I don't wash my hair that night, it'll be embarrassing to show in public the next day. I don't wash my hair every day because I don't go out everyday, but I'd like to have clean hair for more than half a day. I also have an issue with dandruff...

I know a lot of you will recommend cutting down on the shampoo, but you see, I have done that, and to a massive degree. I went on the no poo thing for two months. After two months was it clean? -no, it was an abhorring greasy mess. Summer's coming up for me, and I'll be out of school for around 2 and a half months, so I'm willing to try a couple things out... And FYI, I've tried many shampoo's + conditioners, no matter which, the same result occurs.

July update [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hi,

here is my update for july - I washed my hair after 29 days! Feeling great to have a fresh head of hair :)

Hair is reaching my tailbone now in wet attitude.

Regards

Changing the tile of the Photo Contest...
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

To make this year's photo "contest" to be as inclusive to all as possible, I'm changing the name of the contest to be the following:

"First Annual Longhaired Outdoor Photo Contest"

I'm still planning / organizing a local longhair meet here in San Francisco this fall; but, by all means, everyone should please feel free to organize other local longhair meet-ups in your own part of the world, -- the more, the hairier!

Since Northern Calif. is home to many exotic and bizarre-looking plants, the focus for our local SF Meet this fall will be to take pics of long hair and odd plants together (think: Dr. Suess or Alice in Wonderland with Xtra hair on top)...

Some of our long-time members here will remember Karsten -- an outstanding MLHH photographer if there ever was one! I always found his pics to be consistently original, creative, and full of whimsy and surprise -- and ALWAYS taken outdoors. I miss his fine contributions to this board, and hope he is doing well after his long illness (including some hair loss afterward). If he is reading this, I hope he drops by to say hello and tell us how he's doing.

Bill, Jason, John B., and countless others I'm temporarily not thinking of right now are also superb photographers and artists in their own right. So, my goal in trying to start this up is to bring out the best and most creative side to all who are interested in going beyond the average typical indoor MLHH "hair update" -- hence the emphasis on OUTDOOR photography.

We can wait until January of 2011 to make this "contest" something like: "The Best Longhaired Outdoor Pics of 2010", -- which should give everyone plenty of time to read their camera's instruction manual (LOL)

How do people "win" in this contest? (you might be asking that question right now....)

Well, EASY: just post your outdoor longhaired pic right here at MLHH. The guys with the most enthusiastic and positive replies in each different longhaired photo category wins... (drum-roll, please)....
Your own self-paid ca$h prize of whatever amount you desire!!!!!!!
(How's that for "generosity" on my part as the photo contest organizer? - LOL)

Now that you know all the mega-$$$ that's at stake here in winning this "contest", I'm sure all your engines are loudly revving up to get going and start snapping your camera's shutter ASAP...

I'll keep y'all posted (and maybe even a bit ANNOYED - lol), as further details miraculously emerge themselves, as time continues to roll along this summer...

- Ken

Bobby Pins
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Abstrakt

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I recently started using bobby pins to keep the front hair away from my face. It was getting frustrating since it reaches my mouth now. Why didn't i ever think about using bobby pins last time i grew my hair? I got hair in my mouth quite often!

Anyway, it's a big relief not to have hair in my face all the time now, and it means that i can keep the hair growing for longer without bothering me much. I recommend them, and they're SO easy to use.

And at last, i have not yet trimmed the ends off. Some days they look fine, some days they look pretty dry and split.

Hi longhair-friends,
just want to introduce myself quickly. My name is Ralf, living in Berlin/Germany.
Having grown out my hair now for 3 years from buzzcut, I thought it would be appropriate to 1) thank MLHH for the "rules" of dealing with awkward stage and giving oneself several days to re-think before going to the barber...(would not have made it so far without those rules) and 2) posting a pic of my achievement so far.

When I was a teen and in my 20s I had longer than average hair most of the time. Metallica's James Hetfield from the "seek&destroy"-video of 1986 or so was my MAIN inspiration at that time, I just plainly loved this look...
Then came a time of starting into job (computer-sysadmin, my profession, which I dislike now, but that's another story) when I had them short for some years. After experimenting with several hairstyles some years ago, I decided I had enough of barbers and each time the feeling of uncertainty before entering the barber-shop what the new cut would look like after, and plainly cut all off with a razor. Looked not bad, but I wanted long hair once more in my lifetime!

That's where it started. And here I am now, 3 years later.
My goal is minimum midback, probably even longer.
Also depends how my hair will develop in future...have to fight with temple recession...*sigh*
But I just turned 40 and I'm aware that I will never have my teenie-like fullness of hair again.
However, I think it's still quite OK, and the best hairstyle for me (apart from a buzzcut which "hides" temple recession in some way). But mostly because I love long hair, I decided to continue to let it grow even further.

Thanx for reading and happy growing, MLHH-members :-)

3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy]
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Shypii90

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Hello everybody!

So 30th June 2010 was my 'hair-iversary' of 3 years. I had my hair cut to about an inch at the end of June 2007 (due to work at the time!), and I've been growing it since then. Here are some pics over the years.

2nd August 2007 - 1 month

30th June 2008 - 1 year

30th June 2009 - 2 years

30th June 2010 - 3 years

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Password: hair08Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair08Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair08Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair08Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair08Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair08Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair08Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair08Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair08Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]

Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]
Password: hair0910Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)CheersShawn Follow Ups: Thanks a lot for the feedback everyone :) (n/t) Shypii90 14:51:44 7/16/10 (0) Wonderful!! n/t Scooper 20:26:43 7/14/10 (0) Thumbs up! n/t Charlie 07:09:49 7/14/10 (0) 3 years! ''Hair-iversary'' White Tail 17:41:24 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Justin 11:19:55 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Jason W. 08:44:16 7/13/10 (1) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] Shypii90 09:07:59 7/13/10 (0) Re: 3 years! / 36 months update :D [Pic heavy] UK 02:23:44 7/13/10 (0) Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 01:59:33 7/13/10 (10) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Oren 13:39:20 7/19/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Absalom 20:35:54 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Urban Cowboy 16:31:31 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Kevin C 15:37:35 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops DavidN 13:13:11 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Ian 09:25:15 7/13/10 (1) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Shypii90 12:11:01 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops jonalbear 07:12:16 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops John.B 06:24:22 7/13/10 (0) Re: Mistake! 3 year photo here! oops Hairball 03:49:59 7/13/10 (0) CLICK HERE TO REPLY TO THIS MESSAGE [ Men's Long Hair Hyperboard ] [ FAQ ]

Thanks a lot for all your support on MLHH, it's a main factor that kept me hanging on so long. I'm aiming for classic length.
Your comments and thoughts are appreciated :)

Cheers
Shawn

Which Boar Bristle Brush should I buy?
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Devon

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I've been looking around online for a Boar Bristle Brush since I started water washing more, and I've been really surprised by the price differences. Is it worth it to shell out 30 bucks for a boar bristle brush when there are also boar bristle brushes that are like 10 bucks?

Growing out an undercut
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Carlos

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Hey guys, I've been a long hair for 10 years now....wow, I guess that's a huge milestone. The past year I ended up getting a undercut. I really liked it at first b/c the sides of my hair would stick out and break off when I had it tied back in a ponytail. I recently started working a security job mainly in a grocery store and I can't get over the negative comments from people. Younger kids and teens call me "mullet man" and say things like, "Business in the front, party in the back." I never thought having an undercut was a mullet, lol. A lady tonight said it looks like I'm wearing a wig over a shaved head b/c half of my head is shaved. I'd like to grow the sides and back that are shaved back but I don't know if it's possible. My hair is to my shoulder blades and I have to have it tied back for work. I thought about just cutting my hair short and growing it all over again. Is there a way to grow out an undercut without cutting all my hair off to even it out? Thanks in advance!

Coming SOON, to a theatre (or hyperboard) near you....

The First Annual Bizarre Longhaired Outdoor Photo Contest, which will include such categories as: 1) Best Pic of a "Longhaired" Plant; 2) Weirdest Longhaired Nature Scene; 3) Best Hairy Rock Photo; 4) Wildest Hair in the Breeze Pic; 5) Most Exotic Longhaired Garden Picture; plus, additional other categories to be announced, later...

The exact time and date has not yet been set; but, it will definitely be this coming fall (probably late Sept. or early Oct.). Also the exact location of this Longhair Meet Up (for the purpose of taking these weird photos) will not be revealed until later -- other than to say that it will be happening here in San Francisco, California.

Unfortunately, due to a problem in the past with a local stalker, the exact time and location of this event will only be revealed via private e-mail communications, rather than posting all of the details here on the board. If you are a regular participant on MLHH, we will know that you are NOT the stalker guy -- so if you live nearby the SF Bay Area, or plan on visiting Northern CA this fall, please e-mail me to let me know you plan on coming!

The pic I'm including here is one of the few examples that I already have in my iphoto library of a weird longhaired Nature Photo. It's taken in a remote section of San Francisco's coastline, called "Land's End" -- which is approximately mid-way between the touristy Cliff House / Surto Bath ruins area, and the upscale neighborhood of Sea Cliff near Baker's Beach. You can see the Golden Gate Bridge in the distance, along with my hair that blew from the left into the picture frame area when I took this shot!

I'll try to include some other odd-ball longhaired pics in this thread -- as well as introduce you to some of the wild and exotic "Dr. Suess" type plants that are seen here in this unusual climate of the North American continent...

Happy thinking about your own bizarre longhaired picture-taking (regardless of whether or not you ever visit San Francisco)!

- Ken

Long hair slideshow.
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John C

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Pictures that inspired me through my life to grow my hair. I know they're mostly women, but It's only some of what inspired me. Anyone else like the Pre Raphaelite painters? I also like paintings of actual long haired guys from the 16th and 17th centuries as well. Just wanted to share!

I made this slideshow today, & put it on my page there.

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HAIR, and a Word to the Wise re. Diet + Exercise...
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

Although not a fun topic to talk about here, good diet & exercise are an important element to having and maintaining a good healthy head of hair. Although it's true that the lucky guys with good hair genetics can sometimes get away with not taking as good care of themselves in this department (and STILL have pretty decent-looking hair), on the other hand, without good over-all health, you can't reasonably expect to get the maximum luxurious, lustrous head of ideal hair-of-your-dreams, either.

Case in point: myself! Regardless of what another may say on this topic, I can speak from experience...

I used to be great at keeping up with regular exercise -- including running on the beach, weekly hiking, stretches, pull-ups, sit-ups, push-ups, knee-bends, etc.... Not to also mention that for several years of my life I averaged approximately 4-5 nights of the week going out C&W dancing, as well as attending regular Swing dances, going to Salsa dance clubs, and occasionally Ballroom events. (That's how I came up with my handle, "Urban Cowboy", back when I joined MLHH in '03).

As that famous saying goes, "Life is what happens while you're making other plans!" We all get thrown curve-balls in life that surprise us with stress and hardships that we never planed on having to deal with. Some of those "curve balls" we find we can bounce back quickly from; but others seem to take more time to get back to "normal"...

Like many people on planet Earth, I've been through financial stress, personal relationship stress, sexual identity stress, job/career stress, etc., etc.... I won't bore you with the details!

The one thing I seriously regret in my life, though, is the fact that I let some of these stress issues gradually stop me from the regular exercising that I used to so faithfully do to keep myself fit.

I have no problem about eating healthy foods, thank goodness (I totally LOVE fresh fruit and vegetables, for example): my problem, though, is that I simply love eating too much of it (LOL) -- after all, I'm a graduate of a good-quality local cooking school, and confess to even being quite a snob about food!

So, here's a word to the wise, especially to you young'n's: if you currently have a good regular exercise program that you're keeping up with, DON'T STOP!!! If you do, as you get older, it's harder to pick up wherever you last left off.

Also, on a much scarier note than just the issue of a healthy body = healthy hair...
It's a well-known medical fact that people with weight problems gradually develop other health problems. I don't talk about this topic much, because I don't usually like to bring in too much of my own personal history onto the board here, BUT: in September of '03, I had a heart attack, resulting in being hospitalized for 3 days (including one of my arteries now having a stent inside). Other than having to take heart medication for the last 7 years, I'm fine now (at least "relatively-speaking"); but, losing the extra weight is even harder than I ever thought possible, whether we're talking about dieting or resuming exercising.

So, take it from an old longhaired geezer who misses his former slimmer, healthier body: eat healthy (and not as much quantity of cheese as I sometimes indulge in - LOL), and keep up with your physical fitness program, whatever that may be (even if it's only a modest one) -- your health (and your HAIR!) will thank you for many years to come for doing so!

- Pudgy Ken (who nowadays has to shop for his clothes at "San Francisco Tent & Awning!")

A quesiton about hair...
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Jake

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Well I'd like to start off and say that my name is Jake, I'm 15, and this is my first time on this website. I've always had a lot of questions about my hair, and it's kind of an obsessive thing about me (I have OCD) and I always felt uncomfortable talking about hair on other websites because it's mostly girls giving me advice, and I'm not looking for girls hair, just long natural hair. Because I like how it looks.

Anyways, I had very long hair about a year ago, maybe a few inches past my shoulders. In the past year I've had several haircuts because I wasn't satisfied with my hair anymore, and It was very damaged because how i washed it. I got two haircuts for it to be above my shoulders, one haircut like down to my eyebrows, then finally i shaved it all off to a shorter haircut, twice.

Here's the real problem, during this one year, and probably a few years before that, I washed my hair obsessively everyday, sometimes twice a day. This is actually why I started getting it cut off piece by piece, it was incredibly damaged and dried out and didn't look good at all. Now I'm ready to grow it out again, hopefully just as long. But I think what I've done to my hair and scalp in the past damaged the pores or whatever, and I fear that my hair will always be permanently damaged now no matter how many times i get it cut.

So my real question is, does washing your hair this much, and I mean a lot, have any long term or lifetime effects? And is there anyway to fix these effects? Or am I just doomed to shave my head for the rest of my life? Thanks.

New to the board.
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Phoenix

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I just came across this site while searching the internet for some tips on how to take care of long hair.

I had no idea that there was such a big community of guys with long hair and i was pleasantly surprised to find this board, i've already read through quite a few posts and found them to be a great read and i've seen some pretty awesome picsand look forward to seeing more, i hope to become a regular here and so just wanted to say hi.

Fourth of July update - 73 months
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Oren

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I have posted a new update to my website.
Hope all are having a great weekend and 4th of July for those celebrating.

Latest update.

- Oren

Speaking of women and long hair on guys...
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JSFrodo

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Last night we had a couple of friends over. The lady of the pair was standing behind me as I was working on something in the kitchen and commented to her husband "You need to grow your hair out like that". When he asked why she said "Because every time I see his hair hanging down the middle of his back like that, I have this urge to play with it". And she then suited actions to words, took hold of my ponytail, did a little finger-combing, and commenced to braiding it.

Oh, the things we longhairs have to put up with... [BIG grin]

Frodo

WooHoo! Milestone Achieved!!!
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Ian

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Getting out of the shower a few minutes ago I though, huh maybe today is the day I can get my hair all pulled back... And I did! Off to the grocery store wearing a little bun for the first time in my life! 11 months in the making, and thanks to the support I got here whenever I thought about going to the barbers!

Francois, any more advice...
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Ian

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Francois, I was wondering if you had anymore advice on washing of hair. Unfortunately I wash mine 1-2x a day, once for work, and then again after the gym. I've been wearing my hair back lately with this heat, so probably will cut down on washing, but for in the future I'd like to know all I can do to protect my hair during the wash cycle.
I use a generic Garnier shampoo, but I use a Marc Anthony conditioner and lotion afterward. I also only brush my hair with conditioner in it and rinse the conditioner with cold water. I've also been towel drying more gently (after seeing my dreaded friend gently dry his locks). Just wondering what more advice you might have.
-Ian

Take two...
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Kenneth2

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I'd like to thank the comments on my previous thread, great morale booster! :) I'm definitely going to let my hair grow, my next mark is to have it long enough to have it rest in front of my chest via a ponytail (hope that makes sense :P). I'll upload another picture soon with it in a ponytail, as someone requested ;)

66 months [PIC]
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jonalbear

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Hey everyone. It's been five and 1/2 years since my last haircut or trim. Thought it might be time for a photo update as I just got the new computer up and running. Here it is!
peace, jonalbear

Braiding Problems
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Michael ''Strong Bear'' Taylor

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I'm about to give up. I've tried dozens of times to braid my own hair, but can't quite manage to do it. The one time I thought I got it right was during a slow night at work (I'm on night shift). I played with it for a couple of hours, trying over and over again. I finally managed to get it braided and left it that way the rest of the night. It was much more comfortable than a ponytail, and I was happy with it. However, when I got home, the first thing my wife asked was, "Who braided your hair?" I proudly declared that I did it myself. She just said OK and tried to look busy. I asked her why she asked and she said it was lopsided and messy. I looked in the mirror and she was right. It looked pretty bad. She rebraided it for me, but I can't always count on her to do it for me. Anyone got any tips on technique or tricks on how to do this myself?

Training my hair to become less oily.
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Chris C.

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Hey guys. My hair is really, really oily. I wash my hair every day and it still looks oily. If I wash my hair every other day, will that make my scalp less greasy? What other ways are there to make my hair less unwashed all the time?

Thanks,
Chris.

pony tail help...
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Ian

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I think my hair is still a little too short for the pony tail, locks from the front keep falling out... but even if they were longer I think I would have a hard time getting all my hair into the pony tail. Any good tricks or suggestions for getting a nice looking pony tail, especially a higher set one? I'm thinking in 1-2 more months I'll be ready.

to ea. and all!

Justin~ :-)

The divorce goes well. [PIC]
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Paul KMF

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Sorry I ain't been on here very much lately but I just been so busy since the wife left, haha.
I lost 20 lbs. and gained a social life.

Paul

Hi,

today was the day of fate - I got my first tattoo, a wish I had for a long time as I've been living for 21 years together with cats.

Next to it is my braid update - I didn't wash my hair now for 11 days and plan not to wash the next week also because there is no reason to - I'm just heavily oiling because my hair would get oily anyways because of sweating - it's very hot in Germany these days. So I can comb it better and have a better look.

Hair length without braid (heavily braided) is near to the tailbone, wet already reaching it.

Regards

Hey there guys, here is a picture of my hair semicombed, I've been growing it for about 2,5 years, maybe even longer. I never expected that my hair would be wavy when I started out, seeing as I always had very straight hair. Good thing I like the wavy style ^^. I'm hoping to get a better pic up soon, seeing as this isn't very good quality and I only semicombed it.

Cheers, Kenneth (2!)

Thoughts [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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I wonder if i should grow my hair beyond shoulder lenght, as i planned, or if i should stop at the lenght shown in the picture (from last september). At that lenght, it looks fuller and many says it looks nicer, too. I only care about my own opinion, though. The problem is that i don't know what to think, lol.

Anyway, i think i've finally settled on a good hair care routine after a few months "unstable" routines. I now wash my hair every 3 days with Barnängen (Mild swedish shampoo&conditioner), and on the day before i wash it, i only rinse with water.

Have a good summer!

Beach days [PIC]
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Validus

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Here's a pic my wife took today. Three of our four kids are pictured here.

From the left: my daughter, age 5 (with her hair in a braided bun, as we'd just come from her ballet performance); my son, age 2 (who has curls that fall well past his shoulders, though it's hard to tell from this picture); and my other son, age 9 (whose hair has been growing for approximately 2-1/2 years, with only two very slight trims to remove split ends).

We don't get many days like this, here in the northwoods... gotta enjoy 'em while they're here!

--Val

Garnier Fructis
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Abstrakt

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I've read some bad stuff about Garnier Fructis shampoo lately. That the silicones in it surrounds the hair and leave the inside damaged but the outside shiny and smooth, and also that the silicone makes the hair look crappy if you don't wash it every day.

What's your experience with Fructis?

Hey guys,

As I continue on my journey of long hair, I find myself getting very frustrated about just how unmanageable my hair is. Right now it's down to my collar bone, but because of how thin it is, the simple act of walking indoors through still air is enough to get it blowing all over the place, like BADLY. It will blow up and out to the side, making me look like I stuck my finger in a light socket! A mere gentle breath of wind outside with mess it all up and frustrate me to no end, let alone what happens to it when it is actually truly WINDY outside.

What I'm wondering is, once it's quite a bit longer, say down to mid-back or so, will it stop blowing around so much, be heavier, stay in place better, and be easier to deal with? I'm ALWAYS wearing it in a tail when I'm out and about because it gets so messed up so quickly if I don't.

I wish there was a product out there that would make it heavier without making it look greasy, but I'd really like it to have some mass and semblance of order all on its own WITHOUT product, which I hope more length will provide.

Anyone else dealing with thin hair dealing with this same frustration? Why does my hair have to be so gosh darn thin to begin with? I don't have MPB but maybe my sucky diet and stress levels over the years have not allowed it to thicken up and grow out properly...

I'm 34 by the way, in case that matters.

Thanks for the shoulder guys.

''The dream''
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JayKuz

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Has anyone here ever had what I refer to as "the dream"? So last night I had a dream that I cut my hair. This dream seemed very real. In the dream I wanted to cut it, but after I did, I instantly regretted it and was very sad and angry. I woke up and realized after a second that I was only dreaming and was extremely relieved! I had a similar dream when I quit smoking that I smoked and in the dream was heartbroken. That actually is a common dream among ppl who quit smoking and I was wondering if this silly little haircut dream happened to others as well. -Jason

''This is to be a man...''
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Validus

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“Wanted-A Man”
from Pushing to the Front, 1911
By: Orison Swett Marden

“All the world cries, Where is the man who will save us? We want a man! Don’t look so far for this man. You have him at hand. This man,—it is you, it is I, it is each one of us! . . . How to constitute one’s self a man? Nothing harder, if one knows not how to will it; nothing easier, if one wills it.”—Alexandre Dumas.

Diogenes sought with a lantern at noontide in ancient Athens for a perfectly honest man, and sought in vain. In the market place he once cried aloud, ” Hear me, O men”; and, when a crowd collected around him, he said scornfully: “I called for men, not pygmies.”

Over the door of every profession, every occupation, ever-calling, the world has a standing advertisement: “Wanted—A Man.”

Wanted, a man who will not lose his individuality in a crowd, a man who has the courage of his convictions, who is not afraid to say “No,” though all the world say “Yes.”

Wanted, a man who, though he is dominated by a mighty purpose, will not permit one great faculty to dwarf, cripple, warp, or mutilate his manhood; who will not allow the over-development of one faculty to stunt or paralyze his other faculties.

Wanted, a man who is larger than his calling, who considers it a low estimate of his occupation to value it merely as a means of getting a living. Wanted, a man who sees self-development, education and culture, discipline and drill, character and manhood, in his occupationÂ…

Wanted, a man of courage who is not a coward in any part of his nature.

Wanted, a man who is well balanced, who is not cursed with some little defect of weakness which cripples his usefulness and neutralizes his powers.

Wanted, a man who is symmetrical, and not one-sided in his development, who has not sent all the energies of his being into one narrow specialty and allowed all the other branches of his life to wither and die. Wanted, a man who is broad, who does not take half views of things; a man who mixes common sense with his theories, who does not let a college education spoil him for practical, every-day life; a man who prefers substance to show, and one who regards his good name as a priceless treasure.

Wanted, a man “who, no stunted ascetic, is full of life and fire, but whose passions are trained to heed a strong will, the servant of a tender conscience; who has learned to love all beauty, whether of nature or of art, to hate all vileness, and to respect others as himself.”

The world wants a man who is educated all over; whose nerves are brought to their acutest sensibility; whose brain is cultured, keen, incisive, broad; whose hands are deft; whose eyes are alert, sensitive, microscopic; whose heart is tender, magnanimous, true.

The whole world is looking for such a man. Although there are millions out of employment, yet it is almost impossible to find just the right man in almost any department of life, and yet everywhere we see the advertisement: “Wanted—A Man.”

When Garfield as a boy was asked what he meant to be, he answered: “First of all, I must make myself a man; if I do not succeed in that, I can succeed in nothing.”

It is a sad sight to see thousands of students graduated every year from our grand institutions whose ob ject is to make stalwart, independent, self-supporting men, turned out into the world saplings instead of stalwart oaks, “memory-glands” instead of brainy men, helpless instead of self-supporting, sickly instead of robust, weak instead of strong, leaning instead of erect. “So many promising youths, and never a finished man!”

The character sympathizes with and unconsciously takes on the nature of the body. A peevish, snarling, ailing man can not develop the vigor and strength of character which is possible to a healthy, robust, cheerful man. There is an inherent love in the human mind for wholeness, a demand that man shall come up to the highest standard; and there is an inherent protest or contempt for preventable deficiency. Nature, too, demands that man be ever at the top of his conditionÂ…

The first requisite of all education and discipline should be man-timber. Tough timber must come from well grown, sturdy trees. Such wood can be turned into a mast, can be fashioned into a piano or an exquisite carving. But it must become timber first. Time and patience develop the sapling into the tree. So through discipline, education, experience, the sapling child is developed into hardy mental, moral, physical mantimber.

If the youth should start out with the fixed determination that every statement he makes shall be the exact truth; that every promise he makes shall be redeemed to the letter; that every appointment shall be kept with the strictest faithfulness and with full regard for other menÂ’s time; if he should hold his reputation as a priceless treasure, feel that the eyes of the world are upon him that he must not deviate a hairÂ’s breadth from the truth and right; if he should take such a stand at the outset, he would... come to have almost unlimited credit and the confidence of everybody who knows him.

What are palaces and equipages; what though a man could cover a continent with his title-deeds, or an ocean with his commerce; compared with conscious rectitude, with a face that never turns pale at the accuser’s voice, with a bosom that never throbs with fear of exposure, with a heart that might be turned inside out and disclose no stain of dishonor? To have done no man a wrong; to have put your signature to no paper to which the purest angel in heaven might not have been an attesting witness; to walk and live, unseduced, within arm’s length of what is not your own, with nothing between your desire and its gratification but the invisible law of rectitude;—this is to be a man.

Hair Control
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Mikhael

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So I have lately been thinking on what would be the best way to control flowing hair.

Due to a medical issue with all sorts of medicines my hair no matter how well I care for it seems to prone to hair breakage and my beard seems to be thinning to much for the same reasons.

I had been putting my hair back in a pony tail going from a elastic soft band without metal to a terry cloth band which is even softer. But I am still having breakage from it.

I would let it flow freely but I do not like it falling in my face.

So I have been contemplating on what else I could use to keep hair out of the face and not look to weird (i.e. headband around forehead) or look to girly.

Maybe nobody here knows, but I was also wondering what Medieval Man used to control their hair since shoulder length hair was the norm during that period and elastic was not yet invented. Perhaps they just let it flow freely but I can't seem to believe they would do that during fighting since hair in the eyes would be a problem.. :)

So anybody have any solutions to what I could use or answers to the above.. :)

Update
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Benny

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Hi!
Been making a video a few days ago of me singing a Judie Tzuke song. I know poor quality, but it shows the length of my hair now after growing out 6 years.
If you want to make a comment on youtube, but please a nice one, haha. I'm new to making videos.
After having blond strands last year i went back to my natural hair colour, using alpecin double effect and syoss conditioner. It didn't stop my balding spot at the top of my head, but it's good for dandruff.
Benny

Hair Smell???
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Mikhael

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Another crazy question from yours truly. ;)

I do the majority of the cooking in our house since I like to experiment and spice up the food. When I was a short hair this was not a problem, especially since I use to wash my hair nightly.

Since becoming a long hair and learning how unhealthy washing your hair with shampoo every night is, a new problem was born. Food smells cling to the hairs and become bothersome. By morning it is very irksome.

So what do you do to eliminate food smells from your hair without washing it every night?

Just 3 months in [PIC]
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Jason W.

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Here is a pic I just this moment took As you can see, the length of my hair pales in comparison to the lengths y'all have gone to. But, I will prevail. I'm a stubborn old Scot. Thanks again for the advice, support, & help in this site.

Just posted by LongHairLuke who lives in Germany. His curly long hair is sensational without question. Now he shows all his own secrets to success.

Another poster greatly helped me out but I still had some questions left, if anyone doesn't mind helping I'd appreciate it:
1) Should I wear a beanie?---- My hair is naturally thin and curly/wavy. When it gets to 4 inches I can afro it out and it looks like I have a mini Dr. J afro (I'm white btw). I don't want it any longer than 8 inches though. I noticed when I slept last year with a stocking/beanie on my head when I woke up my hair was all straight and neat looking, atleast until I hit humidity. Is this a good idea to wear it or will it do damage to the hair long term? I apply Dr. Lee's minoxdil/propecia topical 2x a day and I think this would help absorption at night time as well maybe.

2) How often would you reccommend I shampoo and condition?-- I read off this site every other day and if dry hair then once every 3 days. The professional salon down the street the guy said everyday. Right now I do 4x a week with Aveda's Pure Abundance Shampoo and their conditioner and it is still dry. The pure abundance line is suppose to help greatly with thin hair. I also use a 2% ketoconazole shampoo 2x a week too. I am thinking about cutting both of these routines in half. Another poster suggested I use a lower priced conditioner *everyday* and an expensive one once a week. I'm just getting really confused because I hear a million different things.

3) Vitamins and product?--I read about hair vitamins, are these still considered pretty much a waste and a plain ole multi is just fine? Are there any product I can add to my hair to help grow it better and healthier? Another poster suggested Paul Mitchels "the cream" which is a leave-in moisturizer and then seal this in by rubbing a small amount of coconut oil. I can't wait to try it.

Thanks!

Wear a hat on hot days?
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Frankie

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A month ago I decided to re-grow my hair long again, and so far I'm doing well and I'm currently at 2" length now. Here's what I want to know, right now in Maryland it's very hot/sunny, and I often walk to places where I need to go; Am I risking damaging my hair with the sun beating down on my head? Should I be wearing something to protect the hair on hot sunny days?

Thanks,

PS

I don't put anything in my hair (not even shampoo).

Hi Hairy People,

The first day of Summer is almost here -- the season to grow your hair out as long as possible, before having to return back to school in September!

(That's actually what I remember most kids my age doing when I was a teenager, back in the 1960s...)

In June of 1967, the famous "Summer of Love" that happened in San Francisco's Haight - Ashbury neighborhood, I was only an 8th grader (just graduated and going into my Freshman year of High Scool in Sept.). My dad decided to take that whole summer off to take the family on our first trip out to the West Coast, and then across the Trans-Canada Highway to see Expo '67 in Montreal -- a HUGE road trip, especially by today's standards (but gas was much cheaper back then, as well as we camped the entire trip to save $$)...

After staying with relatives in LA, we drove up the Big Sur coast to stay with another relative who lived near San Francisco. She took us into the city one day, including giving us a tour of the hippies in the Haight-Ashbury area. My dad still insisted on me and my 4 brothers always getting our annual crew cuts at the beginning of the summer; so we did NOT at all "fit in" with the scene there (LOL, an understatement)....

My brother Bruce took tons of photos of the hippies, as my dad bitterly complained about their long hair the entire day. As for me, my jaw was too far dropped down into my lap to do anything other than drool with amazement and envy that there were guys who had the balls to grow their hair long like that (in the suburban Chicago town where I'm originally from, long hair on males was definitely THE popular fashion of the era; but, San Francisco guys had WAY longer hair than most Chicagoans -- some were even past shoulder-length!!!)!!!!

In Sept. of that year, when I went into my Freshman year of High School, most of the local kids from my hometown were proudly showing off their 2- 3 months of summer hair growth (what we now call "awkward stage" hair); but school dress codes were still strict, -- and even the most rebellious of the cool Chicago area longhaired teens had to comply to cutting at least some of that beautiful length off....

Fortunately, well before I graduated from HS in '71, my school had finally tossed in the towel re. their stupid anti-longhair dress code rules.

So, there you go: a bit of Longhair History that I remember, because I actually lived through it! (And as far as that old joke, "If you remember the '60s, then you weren't really alive during it!" goes... Well, I honestly DO remember it, because I was fortunately too young to have been tripping on acid or anything like that - LOL)....

And to think that nowadays a lot of guys think about having short hair for the summer, just because the weather gets a bit warm... What a bunch of sissies (LOL)!!

- Ken in San Francisco

Question about hair style
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Raphaël V.

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Hi,

I recently wanted to wear a ponytail but i noticed that hair in front of my head wasn't long enough to join the ponytail. So I thought about keeping two locks outside the ponytail(I actually separe my hair in the middle). I don't really know what to think about that hairstyle so I'm searching some neutral advices.

''Professional'' Long Hair [PIC]
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AndrewB

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A regular topic around here is looking appropriate for work but still having long hair.

I've been wearing mine in a bun at work - there are few people who've stayed past 5:00 to see it down. It's a non-issue now but did attract some notice as I was going through the akward stage. One of our salesmen also has long hair but he's got good profit numbers and as a company we tend to be pretty forgiving in those circumstances ;)

The owner of the company is very big on appearances and we have a corporate dress code.

Some pictures were taken at a company BBQ - I've blurred out other people's faces, but I think you'll agree that with my hair up - there's really nothing to comment on. With it down, it pretty much reaches my elbows.

my hair [PIC]
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ahmad s

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i'm a college student but at my place, long hair's not allowed for male students. my hair's like below but will it be obvious to the other people that my hair is long even though i comb my hair like in the picture below? thanks so much.

ideal hair length
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Darrub

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I know that it is an individual issue however, what do you guys consider the ideal hair length? I have had waist length hair before, but I found it a little to long for my taste. My hair is currently below my mid back.

Darrin

6 month update
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thomc1980

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Well its been 6 months now since i started growing my hair out figured id put some pics up. Hair seems to grow fast cant wait till my hair gets a bit more manageable =p.

straight hair becomes curly =) [PIC]
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jimho85

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Heres a pic of me taken one hour after a shower. My hair is still a little damp. No products in it.

When my hair was shorter it was all straight.. But now. See pic

The hair on top is still straight. But my longest layer (one inch below shoulders) has developed spiral curls =) =) I like it!!

I wonder how my hair will look like when its down to "nipple length". Straight, wavy, curly,? What do you think?

Thanks for all your support!
Jim - Jimho85

Started growing my hair seven months ago from a very short hair style until now. What do you think? Have a long ways to go still. Want to grow it down to my mid back.

New photo, as requested! [PIC]
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Hemmelight

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Hey, all!

I've been debating cutting all of my hair off for the last few days but I'm hopefully not going to do it, remembering how miserable I was the last time!

Some of you may remember me from a weeks back and a few of you guys requested a bigger photo. Well, here's a recent photo of me on the day of my sister's prom, about 2 weeks ago!

This is what my hair is like straight out of the shower once it's dry, with absolutely no product!

Awkward stage...nahhhh [PIC]
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JayKus

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It will be 1 yr of growing my hair out for the 2nd time next month on July 10th (from basically shaved) and some would say I'm now officially in the awkward stage. Actually, to me, this whole past yr has been the awkward stage! I feel it's at a length now to where I can do fun and interesting little shit with it, like in the attached pic. Anyway, the top is still shorter and doesn's all fit in the tail, but it looks like it does haha. I used gel to give it that look. Master of illusion I tell ya! Oh, and I LOVE the comments I get at work haha eg: "Hippie" and "Steven Seagal". I keep telling them though, "HEY, it's Qui-Gon Jinn....QUI - GON!!" Anyway, I love this board and there's some pretty bad-ass mane's here. I will be among your ranks sooooooon! -Jason

Sixteen years [PIC]
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bte

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Hi folks. I'm only an occasional visitor here - but today is 16 years since my last trim.

As many older folks here will know, I have both MPB and an unspectacular terminal length, but I enjoy having enough hair for a ponytail every day and a braid every night.

Current project is growing out my sideburns - a bit uneven at the moment, but long enough to tie into a small ponytail of their own. The pic indicates the longest strands held by my fingers. Note the high tech piece of paper to show the contrast better.

Thank you to everyone for your encouragement, good luck to everybody, and here's to the next 23 years when I reach my goal of 39 years without a trim (I started regrowing at 39 years old).

4 out of 5 [PIC]
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Paul KMF

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In Wal-mart 2 teenage girls walked up and said "Dude, I love your hair!" Felt like I was high for 20 minutes or so. Who was that who told me to cut it, "girls like short hair?"
My estimate: 4 out of 5 prefer longhair. Haha

Since my divorce I've only met one girl who told me she don't like longhair, but she wants to hang out anyway! I can't get her to even touch it but I'm working on that. Hair-phobia maybe? I think I can help her get past that. LOL.

Oh here's a pic of one that does love it.

Paul

Texas school abolishes hair rule
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Georges

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Hello Everyone,

Even though I live far from Texas, I feel that this can be good news for the long hair crowd, and I hope that this is the beginning of a new trend.

As of next September, long-haired students will no longer be hassled by teachers and administration about hair length.

What I liked about the article, is the mention that school authorities should concentrate on making the school an environment for learning, and should not waste time, and / or taxpayer money drafting silly rules, and policing students on matters like hair length. There are higher priorities than that.

Back in 2006, I noticed a peak in articles about work places and schools banning long hair. I hope to see a reverse trend now.

Have a good day,

Georges in Montreal.

1st day of summer, 10 years ago today...
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Urban Cowboy

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WOW, I can't believe it was exactly 10 years ago today that I impulsively cut my waist-length hair off. I did NOT plan it to happen on the first day of summer, back in Y2k; it just was one of those odd-ball weird decisions you do on an idle Tuesday when you're going through too many mid-life crisis issues...

I don't normally "celebrate" the anniversary of a horrible haircut decision; but, neither can I ignore the significant changes it brought into my life.

The good news is: starting today, I can honestly say now that I've had a commitment to growing my hair long for 10 full years now....

And it's even longer than it was back in Y2K -- YIPEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

- Ken in San Francisco

Very good hair videos.
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John C

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This guy is very good! I just found them, & thought I'd share. he does alot of things with his hair, and is very adept.

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One Year Update! And a long story. [PIC]
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jimho85

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left pic: june 5th 2009, right pic: today june 5th 2010

Hi!

Sorry it's been awhile since my last post.
After 14 months of unemployment, I got a job in may 2010!!! I had to move 500km up north in Sweden. I work for the large Swedish bearing company SKF, at the foundry. Producing bearing houses all day. It's noisy, it's sweaty, it's dirty. It's a lot of fun!!!
Great work buddies. And actually a lot of longhairs for a heavy industry, maybe 10-15 percent of the workforce.

I didn't know what to write since last time but i have been lurking around here for awhile so.
Today is the one year anniversary of my hair growth.

Here's the story:

June 5th 2009. I had been unemployed for over 3 months. I was depressed and frustrated over the work-situation. I did something drastic. I thought "if I cut my hair maybe it would be easier for me to get a job..." I did cut it. As you can see on the left picture, I wasn't very happy about it.... And I didn't get a job either. I started to grow it out right after the cut.
I haven't even trimmed it since...

April 2010: For the interview at SKF I had my hair in a backslick with a small ponytail. It worked well. As you know, I did get the job =)
At work I wear a cap and gather the rest into a ponytail.
When I'm free I always wear my hair loose, I like the way my hair touches my shoulders now.

First goal now is to grow it out so all the hair can go into a ponytail.
Ultimate goal, we'll see. Maybe midback or "bra strap length", Hey what's that BSL length called on us guys anyway????

Thanks for a very supportive community!

I wish you all the best!

// Jim

Happy solistice solstice!
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John.B

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Hi there,

Now that the seasons are changing again let's hope it will usher a new cavelcade new updates.

As Ken so rightly says it's the first day of summer and the start of the Wimbledon tennis. Anyone fancies a shilling bet that Andy Murray will get to the final!

Cheers,

John.B

Coming back to the fold
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Jason W.

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Last march I decided to forgo my monthly hair trims and set out to return to the hair lengths I had in the late '60s and through the '70s, about mid back, though I may decide to go longer. Only have 3 months of growth but I did start with a longer than "normal" style. It is entering the "awkward' stage. bangs almost to the tip of my nose, sides covering the ears and the back just covering the collar. Exactly the length that violated the dress codes in my high school back in the late '60s I am now 59, and uIsee that gentlemen of all ages have embraced longer hair...Huzzah! I am happy to have found this site as it has helped steel my determination and has provided me with some timely tips. I promise to post piocs as soon as I have a recent one taken.

MIlestone update [PIC]
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Charlie M

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Here I am with an update of 2 years+2 months. I have reached the milestone of now having to put in effort to show all the hair in the picture :D

Charlie M

Almost One Year [PIC]
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Raphael V.

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Hi,
I post pics of me a few months ago and i wanted to show you my hair's growth. It didn't grow very much but the difference is visible. When i look to myself in the mirror, i'm happier than a few months ago but also more impatient of having the length i want. I'm sure a lot of people have already experienced that and none of them have found a solution to impatience.

By the way, almost a year passed since i began to grow my hair and i thought it deserve a post. Now, i completly feel my hair long.

Once again, i'm sorry for my english.

Binding hair [PIC]
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Robert

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Hey guys

My hair is reaching mid back and I am trying to find ways to still stay very professional without resorting to cutting. I know many of you favor long ponytails, single braids or buns, but I don't feel comfortable with any of those. Lately I have tried doubling up my tail and then adding an additional band in the center. It ends up creating a shorter ponytail, which I am ok with. But I am not even sure I am doing it right.

Any other advice out there for binding long hair up besides the ways listed above?

I will try and post an update of my length and the method I tried to describe.

Thanks in advance!

Best,
Robert

Grim Reaper on my left leg! Got it today

My hair
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LH Scotsman

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Video taken a couple of years ago. Now it's pretty much the same - possibly a little longer

It takes guts to be a longhair, regardless of age, weight, or the degree of perceived masculine beauty that one possesses (including the amount of fullness and quality of one's hair). But, let's face the facts: a handsome young male with an athletic physique and a luxuriously thick and lustrous head of hair is bound to have an easier time of being socially accepted into traditional Western Society than a guy with sparse, thinning, or balding hair. Similarly with the age factor, considering that historically-speaking, youth and beauty have always been worshiped in human society (in fact, it is usually us OLDER PEOLPE that are most guilty of doing the worshipping - LOL)....

Whenever I look in the mirror and wish I didn't have any receding hairline, or miss the natural honey-blonde color of my youth (as opposed to all the white hairs that I now see in the mirror), I remind myself of a bald guy that I met several years ago:

When this guys stepped out of his car after he parked next to my truck, I couldn't help but notice that his hair went almost down to his KNEES -- and yet in front and on top of his head, no hair grew at all!!!! I couldn't help speaking to him.

"WOW, some day I hope I can grow my hair that long! I hope you never cut yours -- it looks AWESOME!! I cut mine in Y2K, and deeply regret it."

His response was immediate, and very warm & friendly: "Thanks! I figure it this way: God gave me this hair; so what right do I have to cut it off?"

I agreed with him, and then we chatted a bit longer before we both had to go separate ways...

I'll never forget that guy. He's been a source of inspiration and symbol of courage to me ever since I met him that day -- even though I have never seen him again.

So, to any and all longhairs who continue to grow and take good care of your long locks (regardless of how old you are or how much hair is now missing from the days of your youth): keep it growin'!!!

"Onward & Downward!"
- Ken in San Francisco

Don't sweat it...an uninformed question.
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Charlie

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An uninformed question ( I try never to ask dumb ones). Being that I now this summer have much more length than last, at times with our heat in the South it tends to get very sweaty. I have learned the trick of lifting up the hair to let the heat buildup escape. However, it seems that after getting back inside after cleanup at work and the hair dries out it gets very tangled, especially at the nape of my neck. Anyone else experience this?

Haight Ashbury Street Fair [PIC]
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Bill

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Just got back from the Haight Ashbury fair. As usual, it was awesome, crowded, and longhairs were to be seen here and there. Lots of hippie stuff for sale, and a perfect day, sunny and in the 70s.

Wish you were here!

Bill

IMposter
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Kenneth

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This isn't me the guy posting here with the same name

Ends
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Abstrakt

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I suppose i do have split ends after all. I'll get it trimmed sometime this weekend, i think.

Hair in space [PIC]
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Pat S.

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I am always fascinated to see how hair behaves in space. Below is a picture of Tracy Caldwell Dyson, currently serving aboard the International Space Station. Below that is a picture of her in normal gravity.

Checking In [PIC]
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RobD

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Hello.
Just checking in to show my progress thus far at eight months.
Take care all.
Rob.

...for you furry-faced folks
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White Tail

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Check out today's "Photo-of-the-Day" at the Imaging Resource Photo Site......

Trimmed the bottom - Bad idea?
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AnotherSchmoe

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Hello there everyone, first time posting here. I've always had short hair (buzzed to an even length of "pretty darn close to bald"). Last fall it got to the point where I normally cut it and I just decided not to, and that I would try growing it long for a change.

Anyways, so I'm happily growing it along purely natural without any trims whatsoever but then I notice it looking very weird (because I started at even length all around) and so of course the bottom near my neck had a head start and the hair at the top is not caught up, my bangs were reaching the top of my nose and the hair in back was already down to my shoulders, but not the hair on the sides or top, so it looked very strange to me and I just cut it today without much thought.

I didn't cut ANY hair at ALL from the top or sides or anything, I just shortened the back part that was draping down the back of my neck, so that the rest would have more time to catch up (since the bottom near my neck had a headstart), I still plan on letting it grow from now on with no more trims until it gets long, I just did this as a one time thing to try and even it up a bit while I'm in the awkward phase. But as a first time grower, I'm just wondering, did I make a mistake by doing that, should I have let it all go natural from evenly-buzzed to long or is it okay to do a one-time trim at the back of my neck? At this point it looks more even in the mirror, even though the individual hairs are not all even now (because I cut the ones that grow out of top of my neck). I just used scissors btw, so there's still hair coming from the neck it's just shorter than it was.

My eventual goal would be Ozzy-ish in length and now I feel dumb for having done this, is it alright and should I just let it go or do I need to start over from an even length all-around again? Sorry for the long-winded post, it's late and I just feel stupid for having done this without asking about it first.

See the pic. (Normally I have sideburns down to my earlobe, shaved a little too much this weekend =(

To the question:

Under the red line, i have this triangular area that i've been trimming for the last 1,5 year. The rest of my hair is shoulder length.

I started to trim because: I wear glasses and this was the piece I couldn't poke back my ear with my frames. One inch of hair was standing right out from my ears almost =P so I trimmed is and ive been keeping it like this since then.

Big question;:
Should i keep on trimming it or try to grow it out??

I know I asked almost the same thing for about 3 months ago but I've forgot what you guys answered =) Sorry =P

Thanks again!!
Take care!

Jim // jimho85

My prom evening [PIC]
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Nikola

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So, having finished my college studies (the graduation is yet to come in September), at last I felt a bit of calm and relief and surrendered myself to the wave of pleasure of the prom, which was on Monday. This is a picture of me and my friends and teachers. I hope it turned out good. My face is in the topmost row, circled in red.

P.S. We (the students) are all about 23 years of age.

This is an interesting site!
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Tom

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I was crusing the net to find some cool celtic hair ties and came across this! Wicked! A discussion board for long hair men! A couple of questions to yall who have had long hair for awhile: What is the best shampoo and conditioner to use? I use Pantene... Some pals of mine and I go swimming in a derelict pit mine and the water is of high minerial content. When my hair dries after a dip it is very VERY frizzy even after I wash. Any of yall have this problem? Any good advice?

Thank yall.

Tom

The myth says that if you wear a hat or cap a lot, ex. at work, you will get bald when you get older. The scalp doesn't get enough oxygen and the hair follices will decay..
I was thinking about this today. I wear a cap at work so, of course I became worried.... Did some research on the internet with very different results.
I hope you guys can give me some correct answers =)

Thanks for help! =)

JIM // jimho85

Here are photos from our trip to Bend, Oregon, to attend the Beard and Mustache Contest. A lot of the men did not have long hair and some were even bald, but there were quite a few longhairs in the bunch.

Enjoy!

Bill

I will be going to Massachusetts in mid July and possibly Maine and New Hampshire while im staying there, and in early July I will be going out west. The states ill be seeing there are Texas, New Mexico, Arizona, California and possibly Nevada. So maybe if your in those areas give me a call or ask to hang out that would be pretty cool!

This just makes my blood boil...
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ESDI-80

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While teasing one of my mangers to grow his hair out, I found out that there is this unspoken code that a manager in my organization should not have long hair.

I don't know why this upsets me or that I would even care as I would never want to be a manager in the first place. But still, it makes my blood boil.

Why is society so darn petty?

Cold water as Conditioner?
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Abstrakt

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I wonder if anyone here uses cold water INSTEAD of conditioner.
Last year, when my hair was twice the lenght that it is now, i discovered that i could use cold water and not get any split ends.

I still use that method, and my ends are pretty good after 6 months without conditioner or trims. The only downside is that it doesn't make de-tangling any easier. That's not a problem for me now, though, since i rarely get any tangles at this stage, and my hair looks boring and flat when it's conditioned.

A gorgeous day in the City!
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Hairball

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Since the weather decided to finally warm up again here in the east I decided to venture into NYC Saturday afternoon to check out the sites and do some shopping just to help the economy.The one negative aspect early on was that NJ Transit implemented what I would call a severe rate hike starting Saturday.My normal fare went up $5 overnight for the round trip:(I'll admit I knew this and actually bought my tickets Friday night at the old rate.HeHe.

Well getting beyond that it was fun to walk around the city and yes, I did see longhairs about:)Straight hair,curly hair,dreads it was all there.Well I'd expect that with the volume of people around as it wasn't like I was in Wyoming.I proudly wore my hair in a nice segmented tale for all to see:)I liked seeing it swinging around as I saw myself in profile reflections from storefront windows.I was tempted to just let it go loose but I was afraid of getting tangles.lol.I would have loved grabbing a few pics but people just walk too fast in NY!

Well in a week I'll get to compare the longhair sightings from NY to those in San Francisco as I'm heading out for a weeks vacation there.I'm almost expecting to see the same result but you never know.So it will be a comparo of east vs west longhairs.Should be fun:)Anyway hope you all are having a nice weekend wherever you are:)Cheers

Mark

The Highlander series from the 1990s, with Adrian Paul as the Highlander, is running Monday through Thursday evenings, starting this past Monday, on the SyFy cable channel. Besides having a longhair in the leading role, this series also has lots of longhair characters come and go as the series progresses.

Definitely worth checking out!

Bill

Timeline- 9 months from shaved head
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That ''Ball'' Guy

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So I'm waiting for the hair to get longer before letting it go neglect again, but here's a timeline from my last dreads.

Head was shaved in August(?) last year. Goatee has been growing since then pretty much, and the rest of the beard since mid-February

Today

Alternate hair ties?
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AndrewB

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I was in the hospital getting a sleep study done a few weeks ago. They involved putting a bunch of electrodes on my scalp and other places.

The first time I went through this, they had me keep my hair loose but told me not to fuss with it so that I wouldn't disturb the electrodes. This time, I suggested that they tie my hair back with the wiring bundle attached. After some thought, the tech pulled out this stretchy bandage product that he wrapped around my hair a few times.

It worked great! Not only did it and my hair stay in place all night, but in the morning it came out with no lost hair at all.

So if you've got to have something similar done, check to see if they have the same product available. I also noticed after looking for it on-line so that I could properly reference it that the material comes in a variety of colours and styles - perhaps it would be good for every-day too if only I can lay in a supply.

approaching the dreaded trim... [PIC]
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kubanpanzer

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Hello everyone, Im not a very regular poster, but I leave my little story here from time to time, some of you will remember me, and to the ones I haven't had the pleasure of knowing yet, Hello. Im 22, ling in Miami FL. Its been around 18 months since my last haircut.. ha! 18 months, is a long time. I know its dwarfed by the heavyweights here, but hey its MY 18 months.. lol :P I have gone tru all this time without trimming my hair and Im approaching that moment when I feel Id like to go to the hairdresser to even things out a bit, I grew from a buzzcut and my hair is a bit uneven as the layers are growing.. But before I put myself in the hands of the murderous barber, Id like to ask for tips from the age old wisdom board... what should I be looking for when stepping into the barber... what kind of barber or stilist... woman, man? what questions do I ask, what points should I stress to him/her and how to keep control of what he/she does so I dont have to set the building on fire... I might be asking too much, or sounding a bit of a noob but its been a long time for a barber to mess up my head because I didnt let him know what I wanted... thanks for ur help.. peace

I think you all rock!
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starlight

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I am a young lady from Australia and I have to say I found this board and read just about every post on here and I think it's really, really great to have support for long haired men. I am a HUGE supporter of men with long hair. I love it. I think it looks fantastic and very attractive on a man. I have always loved long hair, ever since I was a little girl. Seeing men with beautiful long hair, cut if all off, saddens me. A lot. I watch television shows and when a character cuts his hair and everyone is like "Oh, you look so much better, you looked like a hobo!" and all of that nonsense, I actually turn it off because I cannot stand it. My idol, Myles Kennedy of the band Alter Bridge (you probably haven't heard of them!) is incredibly talented, nice and successful. He has amazing long hair! I am actually jealous of his hair!

I think my love of long hair came from my dad. He had long hair my whole childhood life and only cut it about 5 years ago due to pressure from his girlfriend and friends. Even now he asks me if I think he should grow his hair, I always tell him yes. He is a bit iffy now because he is going a bit gray, I don't think it matters to be honest. It's his choice first and foremost and I don't think he should cut his hair just cause other people want him to. Sadly, this happened to my 13 year old brother as well. He had beautiful, shoulder length, curly brown hair, and from pressure from his mum and his older siblings (he's my half brother) he cut it all off. They cut it into a rats tail! No offense intended to people with rats tails, but either it's long or its short. Make a choice. Still I am trying to get him to grow his hair again but he said he can't deal with name calling and teasing. He was called horrible things such as "mop head" and "ugly chick". Enough of that.

I think I have ranted a bit too much, but again, I think its absolutely fantastic that there is a site to support men with long hair. I have looked at the photo threads and I must say, each and every one of you has rocking hair!
You all seem like really cool people, keep up the growth and have a good day!

From Buzz cut short to 10 Months....

I been growing my hair since August of 2009 and the front of it only reaches the tip of my Nose....and its in that awkward stage right now....I have curly thick frizzy hair by the way....

Some news ^^ [PIC]
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Vivien

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Hey everybody !

As you may now, I lived in Norway during this year. Now, it's sadly the time to leave this great country to go back to France, where I am from. The year has been full of new experiences : I improved *a lot* my english skills (everybody here speaks english, norwegians or exchange students like me) and learn to speak norwegian (bokmål for those who know...It is one of the two official languages, among a lot of dialects, anyway very similar to swedish and danish), I did a lot of hiking, and cycling, and skiing. It also developed my independance. I made new friends from all over... the europe (not worldwide...). Yeah, it was a superb experience.

As I said, it's time to go back. And, *tadam*, *great announcement*, I will cycle from Trondheim to Oslo (500km) and then take the train. So, right now, I'm planning everything for this big travel across Norway and my room is still a mess =) I'm very excited about this trip. It should take about one week on the road. The trains I take after will lead me in some european cities to visit some friends (Munich, Innsbruck, Torino).

Now, about the hair. As you may remember, I discovered a bit more than one year ago a bald patch on my head. With some good luck, and a bit of treatment, it finally disappeared. That's good. I now have the ends of my hair at my belt. I mostly wear it in a long braid. The ends are quite thin, but I think it's still growing.

You can hopefully see a picture of me, from few weeks ago, hiking out in the norwegian nature. On my head, a kind of bandana, very useful for trips like this.

Thanks for reading! Bye
Vivien

Not much change in the hair department on my end, at least not on my scalp. I've grown my beard back out from the goatee I'd been wearing for a while. I've started toying with the idea of letting the beard grow for a while, especially after Bill's inspirational contest win the other day (belated congrats, Bill!!).

Anyway, here's the pic...

Frodo

3 1/2 year update [PIC]
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AndrewB

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It's been a while since I've posted an update and my avatar is quite old so I thought I'd let everyone know how far I've come.

Thanks to everyone for the encouragement. I still haven't decided if I have a goal length - as it gets longer it actually gets easier to live with ...

Quote of the day :-)
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John.B

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Hi there,

Just following up from AndrewB's post and what a great piece of advice "as it gets longer it actually gets easier to live with ..."

See some people should heed....eh trimmers!!!

Cheers,

John.B

PS...mind you can always have a little weep when you come back from the barbers!

Meeting the Longhairs [PIC]
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Charlie

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Vacationed in Dallas this past weekend and had the pleasure of meeting up with Oren while on the trip. Also been a few months since my last photo update so thought I'd kill 2 birds with one stone.

braids anyone?
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Kenneth

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Anyone here fond of braids. I'm getting really good at the 3 stranded ones regular braids and the braided ponytail, I would like to expand that into french braids and more than 3 stranded varieites. Anyone else have this interst

How should i wear my hair?
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Johnnychimp0

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Hello, my hair is a little wavy and goes down to a tiny bit below my lips but its not long enough to wear in a pony tail and it looks kind of messy, so whats a way i can keep it neat without tieing it back?

Old hair pics [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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Here's how my hair looked before i got tired of it and cut it. What do you think?

Makes me wonder how my hair would've looked like now if i never cut it. Would be way down my back :D
Ah well, another year and a half and i'm there again!

Thunder in the Sky
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Validus

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Just a heads-up for my fellow ManOwaR fans at MLHH... "Thunder in the Sky" is being released in the U.S. and Canada today!

Scrunchies anyone?
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MarkS

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I bought a pack of them, I now use them to tie up my hair while wet and let it dry that way most of the way, it's a lot better! Before I wore a beanie and let me hair down to dry, now this is way easiar and a faster way to dry my hair. Anyone else use them here, just wondering?

A photo taken on the Faculty Day [PIC]
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Nikola

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A manifestation for the Faculty Day was held in the municipal library on Monday, and several students were to read their works and perform two plays and a presentation. Here I am, sitting and waiting to be called to the stage. I read four poems.

You'll notice I shortened my hair quite a bit. I did that in the beginning of February having been convinced that I have way too many split ends, and I have never trimmed it till today. Hopefully, it's my last trim till I find a new flat after the approaching graduation from college.

New video
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hairfreaky

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I did a new video of my knee length hair. Don't try this at home! It's definitely the last time I treat my hair like that. Although surprisingly I didn't have much tangles afterwards, fortunately.

Country Rock Hair [PIC]
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Deanof316

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I'm a METAL fan and don't particularly care for country music but I randomly came acorss these guys on the news and noticed that all of the members had long hair.

Apparently there music is good too, but I wouldn't know about that haha

29 year old male here on the quest for long hair (no longer than to my nose or so though). I have always shaved my head and left about 1 cm on top and 1/2 cm on sides, I naturally have curly/wavy thin hair. I'm looking to get a "Johnny Depp"-ish look going on (cliche I know, but I can't think of any other famous examples).

Long story short: my friend convinced me to get a "trim". After 5 months of no cutting it was about 2.5 inches in length all over. It was definately going through the 'awkard' phase but my friend said I needed to do *something* to it to make it look better especially since the bottom back of my head started curling upwards and forming a 'curly mullet' almost. The hair dresser took off too much though! They took of about 1 inch off the sides and at my request they took none off at the top. Now I feel horrible! I worked so hard to grow it out now I have a mini-Kramer (Seinfeld) look going on.

What do I do? Should I count my losses and trim the top and created a same length all the way around? Or should I not worry much about it and look at it as a template for growing into a nice style?

Update - Its been a good 16 months [PIC]
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Ryan B.

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Hello everyone! Summer vacation just started for me last Thursday, so to kick off the summer I decided to post a few update pictures, it has been about 16 months since my last hair cut. My last hair cut had my bangs cut a half inch or so above my eyebrows. It has been a good 16 months, while there have been a fair amount of people that every now and then say something to the effect of "you should get your hair cut", it has not been an issue ever where the person is harassing me, and I am grateful for that.

Earlier this year I stopped using shampoo and rarely using conditioner for about 10 weeks to see if my hair would decide its better off without such things, alas after the 10 weeks were done my hair was still oily, so I gave up on no shampoo. Then I tried to use less shampoo then I had before, shampooing only every 4 (and later 3) days, but alas, that too failed, and I ended up right back where I started, shampooing/conditioning every other day. My hair told me what it needed, and I listened. Good luck to anyone who experiments to see what works best for their hair.

I wish everyone at MLHH a good summer, grow long and prosper.

New Here (pic) [PIC]
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Timothy

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I'm Tim. Have been growing my hair for about a year and a half. It was short when I started, but not a buzz or anything. I'm 15 by the way and have always wanted long hair so I finally went for it. mom and dad to let me, but said it must be clean and tied back at home, luckily I have found I like a ponytail a lot so no problem there. I am going to grow it longer, but probably not to much. Sorry if the pic isnt real good I'll have to get better of taking them of the back of my head. and sorry the lighting was weird and the sun was setting so thats why the color looks so red.

intro + question [PIC]
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Polynikes

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Hi!

I recently stumbled onto this site, prompted by frustration and an understanding as to why I took this path. Here is a pic of me, approximately 3 months ago, at approximately 24 months of growth.

Around two years ago, I was getting my hair cut by a new stylist, and she wanted to me to grow my hair out a little bit. At the time, my hair was extremely short (#2 blade). I was going through a time in my life where I was redefining my physical avatar, so I went along with it. After waiting an extra few weeks, I went back to see what she could do with it; however, she ended up cutting way too much off. In fact, I was irritated that my hair had been cut it all. It was MY HAIR! It was then that I decided to grow my hair out; actually, it was then that the I went with the deep feeling that I previously had for years to grow my hair out.

And it's been quite the journey! It seems that every few weeks, I would have to try something to make it look presentable: gel, cream, brush, blow dry, air dry, silicone shiner. Often times, what worked for a particular length failed long term, I would have to adjust amount, type, or brand, or seize the use of it altogether. I remember the length when it would stab me in the eye, when it fell into my mouth the first time, when I was first labeled as a longhair, when I was first called "ma'am." Some days I would absolutely love it and how I looked; a week later I would want to chop it off. Everything cycles.

My end goal has always been a bit nebulous. I've wanted a lion's mane, an epic fantasy warrior's hair (see Cecil from the Final Fantasy 4 video game). Tom Cruise in The Last Samurai also had awesome hair, though I would like it longer than that. I don't know exactly where that lands it, but I expect somewhere below the shoulders, possibly mid-back. I don't expect to want to grow it to the tailbone or classical length, but who knows? For a long while, I've existed at the mental stage where growing hair is an inseparable part of who I am.

So this brings me to what has caused my recent existential crisis, at least regarding my hair: an inability to feel comfortable with it down. I was able to pull the entirety of it back in one tail at the bottom of my head at approximately the 2 year mark . Prior to this, I didn't feel comfortable with a half-tail. Around that time, the above picture was taken.

Now, I am actually quite embarrassed about the above picture: I can't stand how my straight hair decides to do a 90 degree curl at the end. It looks like little girl's hair! I want it completely straight! The last time I went to the stylist, a few weeks before this picture, it came out completely straight, silky, beautiful. I loved it, but I can't figure out what they did differently to it, except the water. Perhaps their water is cleaner, and there is something in mine that is causing buildup in my hair. I've tried a straightening iron, but my thick hair just laughs at that ineffective appliance! So, for the past several months when I'm out in public I generally only wear it in a ponytail.

However, I've completely missed having my long hair out in the open, and enjoying it as a part of myself. I began wondering what to do about it, considering chopping it off, etc. In a way, it felt like I had lost my direction in all of this, forgetting what my journey had taken me through, and how I've become stronger through it all.

An additional distracter has been difficulties controlling my hair during my martial arts classes. My art form requires a lot of rolling and flipping in the air, which always cause my ponytail to come out. I've noticed that it is easiest to get the tightest hold with a new elastic tye, where I can get three loops around the tail. Inevitably, it will stretch, making it loose, and then I'll have to wait until it stretches out a bit so I can get four loops around the tail. However, every class ends up the same: you'll see me on the sidelines tying up my hair every five minutes. It's getting to the point where my hair is effecting my ability to concentrate on what's happening and impeding my progress. The half-tails seem to stay in a bit longer, but it looks really goofy with the half tail sticking out really far. (maybe some pictures would clarify the point...)

So, does anyone have any ideas regarding 1) the weird curling of the ends; 2) keeping my hair up during sports?

This appears to be a very supportive community, and I look forward to being a part of it. :)

When do i need to go a hair salon?
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Ian

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This is my second time growing my hair out. First time I did it I dreaded my hair so that was that. This time I just want to grow it out. I've been growing it out for 10 months now (started at a short crew cut) just wondering when I should go to a salon to get it "shaped" or whatever.

Having some doubts
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Vincent

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This will be a long post, but this is the only place I can share my thoughts with people who will understand it. For people with shorthair this would be no big deal.

Don't know if it happened to other people on this board but I started having some doubts about having longhair. Started in december last year.
And now I don't know what to do, I will explain my story.

As long as I have long hair I both love and hate my hair. I love the way it feels and looks but I don't like to take care of it. I still want it to look as good as possible but with the minimal time input. The routine I settled down with is only combing it in the shower with conditoner and don´t do anything until the next week. Other showers in that week are water only. To keep my hair neat I keep it in a tail almost al of the time. This works wonders, I have longhair with minimal time input. But still it takes time and I started to wonder how it was with short hair.

Another thing on my mind, to keep my hair neat and out of my face I wear it in a tail all the time. I never really enjoy my hair loose because of that. I would love to enjoy the feeling of loose hair again, but without getting major tangles or hair getting in the way. I'm a very active person so I don't want the hair to bother me while I'm busy.

But I don´t have the guts to change my hair and I´m not 100% sure what to do. Until I´m 100% sure and I have had the 2 weeks I won´t do anything, but this have been going on since december. Sometimes I love it and want it even longer, sometimes I´m thinking about cutting al off.

In my opinion there are three styles:

Very long: -Maintain at current lenght or grow longer.
Mid lenght: -Cut of tail so I have ponytail lenght, so it will take less time and I still have longhair. I can wear it loose more often!
Short: -Cut all of or keep it at a shorter lenght I enjoy

The only way to know for certain if I like it better short or long is to cut it. If I don´ t like it at least I know for sure and can always grow it back. Some day's I'm sure I want it longer some days I want it at shoulder lenght. That makes it very hard to decide.

Last point, I almost finished my study. After that I´m going backpacking and will probably also take hikes in nature multiple days. Other people over here that went backpacking and hiking with longhair? How does that work out?

I know I'm the one who have to make the decission but maybe other people have had the same experience or have some advice.

p.s. If it would only be as simple as facial hair, I can go experiment a lot with it and can always grow it back very fast. I often change my facial hair style without a lot of doubt.

Remember me? [PIC]
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DanielR

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Hello again, it's been a few months since I've posted here (mostly because I've been a little too busy, to busy even to lurk. Anyway, I had a few extra minutes so I stopped by to see how some of my friends were doing. I'm attaching an photo that was taken about two months ago.

Daniel

I won the SF beard contest! [PIC]
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Bill

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I went to the San Francisco beard contest last night, just for the fun of watching it, but some of the people there cajoled me into entering the contest. So I did. And I won!

This article

When I won, I was blown away.

The crowd was almost entirely under age 40, and Jack is 27. I am not in their generation at age 63. I figured I had a snowball's chance in hell of winning their vote, so I just kicked back and really enjoyed the ride. Well, maybe the crowd saw I was not heavily invested in the outcome and liked that. Or maybe they just thought it would be cool to elect a guy with a white beard. (Except for Larry who went with me, I was the only guy with a gray or white beard in the whole place!) Or maybe the crowd was just wanting a change.

I found myself pinching myself as we left, because it all felt like a dream. It was all so surreal. I had done something that many have yearned to do for years, although it was never a dream of any sort of mine. I had beaten Jack Passion in a beard contest.

I did feel sorry for Jack. He has an awesome beard indeed.

Bill

RE: New Longhair - Thanks
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Kyle

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Hey again!

I hope this does not come off as rude for me to make a blanket response to all of you, but I want to wish everyone huge thanks for welcoming me to this great community! I'll try and post when I can, and if you ever in scotland, gimme a holler and maybe we can do stuff?

Thanks everyone!

--=Kyle=--

Uneven Length?
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Michael ''Strong Bear'' Taylor

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I'm several years into growing my long hair for the second time. My hair is almost to my beltline. The first time I grew it long I made the bad decision to dye it, which caused damage, made it impossible to go back to my natural color, and was a lot of work that I didn't want to continue to do. So I cut it off and went to a military-style flattop like I had when I was enlisted. I've been growing it out since then, and as a result all my hair is the same length, at least theoretically. The bad part about that is the hair in front took over a year to reach the back, while the back grew down past my shoulders. Now all my hair is a different length at the bottom, which seems to by the main cause of tangling and breakage. I'm tempted to get it trimmed so that all the hair is the same length at the ends. I've been considering that for a long time, but I'm not convinced the results would be less tangling or breakage.

Any words of wisdom on this point?

My Decision/Not that horrible
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Dougboy

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Hi gents.

I cut it.

Well sort of. I have been frustrated with my hair for a bit now. Mainly because of damage and breakage. My roomate and friends all sort of said one day. "You're hair looks good long, but it's starting to get a little ratty"

So I went to my hair dresser (Who is excellent) Who refused flat out to cut it. Said she would add some style, and take some off of the back to blend in and hide the breakage.

So yes. I lost a good chunk of length, but in the end I have not gone to a buzz or anything.

I dont regret the move though, mainly because I feel better about the repair job and dont look at it as a hack job

Willie Nelson cut his hair?
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Daniel O'Neil

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Hi Guys,
I just saw this blurb on Excite, and wonder if it is true that the American Legend is without pigtails?

http://apnews.excite.com/article/20100526/D9FUP53O1.html

Sad day!

-Daniel

I'm curious to hear from those who use gel, mousse, hair spray or other hair products to control frizzies/fly-aways, especially in the context of keeping your hair neatly laying down or restrained in a professional environment.

My two basic question are:
1) Do you wash/rinse these products out on a daily basis, or just in accordance with whatever wash schedule you follow anyway?

2) How does your hair feel after using one of these products, and then later letting your hair loose (i.e., is it sticky/oily or whatever, or does it flow naturally)?

Thanks in advance for any infom
Frodo

My first real Update [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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So this is my first real update, a little over 6 months since my last haircut.
Pic is taken with newly washed hair. I also used conditioner for the first time in a long while.

My hair is 12 cm now, which means that it has grown 8 cm in 6 months. 1â…“cm per month, which is pretty average growth.

Keeping it looking professional [PIC]
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Vic Rattlehead

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Hey guys,

Wow, it's probably been about 3 years since I've posted here; I started growing my hair out in late high school and just finished my 3rd year of college. You could say I've been coasting for a while; I reached my target length (between shoulders and mid-back, I find getting your hair caught between your back and a chair too annoying), stopped taking update pics, and have generally been avoiding the "actually styling it to fit your face" phase as I've been out of the "focus on getting enough length" phase for a while.

I'm finally getting around to changing this now because I got a really awesome internship in Hollywood this summer. It's a music industry thing so I think they'll be cool with the length overall (don't think they've seen me in person yet) but I want to look as professional as possible.

So my question is twofold:
1. As evidenced below, my hair gets these short frizzy bits all throughout it and no conditioner or anything I've tried seems to do a lot with them. How do you fix this?
and 2. In terms of actual styling what are the general rules for my type of face? Everytime I get a trim and they ask me if I want it layered or not I think I give a different answer because I can't remember what they did last time and honestly I can't tell what the difference looks like. What do you guys recommend? The internet has been less than helpful as most people consider something like David Spade-length "long"

Also any tips on making it look professional in general are appreciated. Thanks a lot!

hair troubles 1
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Clarkey

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Ive had long hair since 2008 and usually its curly/wavy. Recently it started going frizzy so i had it cut. That didnt seem to work so i went to another place last Friday and got it neatend up a bit and it seemed to do the trick. During the last week when I wash it it goes dry and the wavy look seems to have gone. Someone suggested I condition it everyday but it doesnt seem to bring back the curly/wavy look. It seems to be straigher in a way. Any suggestions on what i could do?
Also I dont use shampoo everyday or many hair products.

New Longhair - Hi! [PIC]
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Kyle

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Hey There!

Im a member over at GLH but decided to start posting here for a change. I already know Hairball and JohnB here so im no stranger to them, but I thought i'd join the party and say Hi!

Name's Kyle. I'm a 22 year old longhair from scotland, currently at university studying video games design. I'm also kinda chubby too with lots of bits to grab! Heh!

So, who's all here? I'd love to get to know you all!

--=Kyle=--

Today is my 5-yr anniversary
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William

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It was 5 years ago today that I cut off the four years of growth. I immediately began regrowing and now I am further along than I have ever been before.

binding hair 3 [PIC]
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Robert

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and finally, a pic of the back down and loose.

binding hair 2 [PIC]
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robert

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hey guys
below is a pic of what I was describing in my other email. Its a bit sloppy. Will also send one of the hair down.

Thanks guys!

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brazjol

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Hey guys,

I've noticed I have several white hairs in my beard. I've noticed them for a couple years but just assumed they were vellus hairs. However, they have the same thickness and length as my other beard hairs, which leads me to believe my beard is already turning grey at age 22. Is this kind of color variation normal? I really can't tell if they're white or blonde, especially because of varying lighting, but they really look white to me. The photo I've attached is the most pronounced area, but there are more throughout, around the chin area.

O/T Death
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Jason

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The band that is!

Lately I've been exploring their catalog and I'm finding with repeated listens, I'm really liking a lot of the songs. I know they're a pretty old band but are any of you guys fans?

Chuck Schuldiner was so talented and a longhair too until his untimely death.

Stand out songs for me:
Crystal Mountain
Empty Words - love the intro!
Sacred Serenity
Symbolic
Voice of the Soul
Trapped In a Corner
Spiritual Healing
Perennial Quest

ren faire fun [PIC]
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Tony

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I was playing the sheriff.

MEET-UP WITH WALTER IN ASTORIA! [PIC]
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Justin

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Hey everyone :-)

Yesterday I had the unique pleasure of meeting our great long time MLHH member (as well as moderator) Walter Slack in the beautiful seaside town of Astoria Oregon. And, how honored I was to be meeting this especially fine and unique gentleman for the 2nd time!

Despite the weather being more like a cold Winters' day, the very warmth of a personality like Walters' I dare say could melt a glacier. He is an absolute delight in every possible way and has the greatest sense of humor. And on top of that, when it comes to intelligence, perhaps the closest one could come to Einstein himself! (Start up ANY subject with Walter and he is sure to know something about it, or even MORE than you do.) Absolutely amazing!

We had a great time seeing some of the sights of this famous Pacific N.E. historic town and took a ride on the quaint vintage Trolley along the warf bordering the mouth of the Columbia River where the most magnificent vessels ever can be seen as well as WA. State 5 miles across the river with its fabulous array of mountains.

Walter took me to the neatest restaurant which overlooked the Columbia, and it was there that we indulged in a most scrumptus luncheon that one could imagine. The hospitality of this man is sure to be legend to anyone who has ever had the privilage of meeting him.

Such a rare individual is Walter. So humble about his abilities. Everything about a human-being that should be, can certainly be found when it comes to this great man.

Walter, I will never be able to thank you enough for everything, and next time we meet in Astoria, the Lewis and Clark columns 120 steps will still be safe for the visitors to climb for that awesume 360 degree view which is simply breathtaking!

With total admiration-

Justin~
ps: Photo above taken inside the famous Maritime Museum visited by thousands upon thousand yearly.

White Tail scam
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Bill

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It appears that someone has broken into White Tail's e-mail account and is begging for money. If you have e-mailed with him, you may be in his address book and thereby have gotten the scam. Writing Walter at his e-mail address to ask about it may not be effective since the scammers may be those who get your e-mail and reply to it.

The moderators should be aware that if they have any discussion of it using their usual means, that the scammer will get any of their e-mails, and would have the ability to pretend to be White Tail in joining in any discussion.

Bill

45 months
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Hegg

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Hello, everyone.

You may have noticed I've been absent for a while, or you might have not even noticed at all; I've been really busy with work and school, back and forth, but I check here often as I can. Nevertheless, I'm back with an update. Nearing 4 years, here's my progress so far, voice your opinions if you wish.

Lately, things have been negative for me in the school and work place; I've been the target of abuse and teasing. A lot more than usual. I mind my own business, yet people, or ignoramuses, as they act, have the audacity to be totally rude and disrespectful to me because of my hair... I graduate high school in June, but it seems the ridicule will follow no matter where I am. What do you guys do to put such idiocy and teasing behind you?

Anyway, thanks for reading, I appreciate it.
H

First time poster...
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Kenneth

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Hey guys, first time poster here!
I've been growing my hair for about 2-2.3 years or so, and I was wondering how often do you guys get a cut to fix the broken hairs?
I also see alot of people with hair shorter than me, and they can put their hair in a ponytail without the hair that grows from the falling out (which is what is happening to me), how do they do that? :P
I used to wash my hair everyday, but I think I'm noticing that if I don't get it wet/wash it everytime, it's less greasy and is more wavy. How come? Also, I'm going to start using conditioner soon, any tips/advice?

Thanks for your time! :D

Ponytail to Work [PIC]
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Growing

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Well, I did it -- wore my hair in a ponytail to work today for the very first time. The earth didn't shake and the sky didn't fall. In fact, i got a lot of nice compliments. The only sour remark came from a cop in the elevator when he snarled "cut your hair" -- then he burst into a big smile and said, "just kidding!"

Back from California vacation/meetup [PIC]
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Hairball

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Well I just arrived home from my west coast vacation and it has been a great week.Visited the SF bay area which was highlighted by a meet up of some great members of this board.I'm sure you will recognize the faces in this group.Some I've met before except for Scott and Walter who I met for the very first time.We had a great lunch down in Pescadero then traveled north to the coastal town of Half Moon Bay.Spent some time chatting and taking some pictures to document the event.From there I traveled north where I was given an insiders tour of the city of San Francisco.My tour guide Ken was a fountain of knowledge showing me that fabulous city.It's a day I will never forget.The awesome thing about the mlhh is that its more than internet postings, its also about making real friends:)Something that has to be rare for internet message boards.Finding the mlhh to me was like hitting the jackpot!I'd like to thank all our users past and present who have kept this board alive.I noticed, by a quick scan, many awesome updates just below and what fabulous hair I see.Great going guys.Anyway here are a couple pics of the guys from our event.Have a great weekend all.

Mark

San Francisco Meet (under “The Hat”) [PIC]
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White Tail

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As Mark has already posted, a few of us were able to meet last week. What a wonderful pleasure and privilege to meet some of the folks I've know for many years through the MLHH board. We had a great time talking over a fabulous lunch, then all drove up the coast to the hospitality of Urban Cowboy. Great day that went by much too fast.

I persuaded each of them to pose under the "famous" hat of the White Tail....Ha !

Enjoy !

Walter

Mark:

Who started this meetup by traveling to the West Coast from New Jersey. Just as great a guy as his posts reflect. Really, REALLY Tall !!

Ken:

Just as likable in person as on the boardÂ….offered us wonderful hospitality. These photos were taken at his family's beach house in Half Moon Bay, CA.

Scott:

The genius in the groupÂ….scary smart !!

Thank you FitnessDavid
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Father M.

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David,

http://www.tightlycurly.com

As one with very curly hair, I had resigned myself to out-of-control hair smothered by products - usually pomade, to little effect - to keep it down. When I saw your post & read over the site, I was fairly skeptical. However, after a few days of experiments with conditioner amount & combing, I've had over week of controlled hair. Additionally, because its less wild, I've finally been able to pull it into a (high) tail. (It a high point in a frustrating year & a half of looking like Einstein)

Thanks for the reference and support of new longhairs like me!

Peace,
Father M.

Do you like my hair? (Pics)
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Will

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Hi, I made a thread before about my hair being wavy and thick and all but I forgot to post some pictures and I think it was a little to late so I'm gonna post it in this thread. My main question is how do you think it will look like long and if I have at least decent hair because I don't like my hair that much because it's very thick and and can get crazy but maybe that's because I'm in the awkward stage.
http://img413.imageshack.us/i/picture614.jpg/ (side)
http://img15.imageshack.us/i/picture625f.jpg/ (side again)
http://img341.imageshack.us/i/picture618.jpg/ (top)
http://img571.imageshack.us/i/picture612.jpg/ (back)
http://img706.imageshack.us/i/picture622.jpg/ (top but wet and sort of flatten due to trying to dry out my hair wit a towel :P)
http://img32.imageshack.us/i/picture626f.jpg/ (front it's sort of wet kind of dry and it's pushed to the side)
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Nth update + 1 - BBQ time :-) [PIC]
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John.B

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Hi there,

Well were just in-between an equinox and a solstice so I'm sure some people in the northern part of the globe must be thinking about getting the BBQ cleaned.

Still over here in good old blighty, we are not ruled by "x" public holiday (oh quick get the car and visit granny and block up the motorway!) and "y" bank holiday when everything must close before the first icicle lol!

So time to get you BBQ's fired and enjoy some outdoor dining. As you can see we even BBQ in the rain (just a typical english summer!) lol! As you can see I like outdoor food yum yum :-)

Cheers,

John.B

In case you guys haven't heard about it yet - metal legend Ronnie James Dio has died of stomach cancer in the early morning hours of Sunday, May 16th. He was 67 years old.

The official website, all in black, says:

"Message from Wendy Dio

Today my heart is broken, Ronnie passed away at 7:45am 16th May. Many, many friends and family were able to say their private good-byes before he peacefully passed away. Ronnie knew how much he was loved by all. We so appreciate the love and support that you have all given us. Please give us a few days of privacy to deal with this terrible loss. Please know he loved you all and his music will live on forever.

- Wendy Dio"

This is really shocking. I believed he'd defeat that f'in cancer. He was so optimistic about it, the chemo therapy seemed to work well too, and now we get these horrible news. That is really sad. Not only an outstanding musician, but also one of the nicest people is lost. I have never met him personally, but what I can tell from interviews, he was a very nice and honest person. I had the honour to see him live with Heaven & Hell in 2009, I will never forget this truly magical concert.

May you rest in peace, little man with the big voice.

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Hello Again [PIC]
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John in Tahoe

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Hi Everyone,

I posted here in the early years of the board. Thought I would share a photo of my hair today.

latest progress pic [PIC]
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muzzman

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here is my latest hair progress pic

Larry

BillÂ’s partner and a truly nice gentlemanÂ…

Bill (grin):

The grin is real !!

pic [PIC]
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muzzman

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my hair length approx 2 years ago

May update [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hi guys,

time runs away, next month I'll have my 21st birthday.

So here is my update for may. My hair is now not far away from my tailbone anymore and I'm glad I still have it. The ends seem are alright as I'm still cutting the split ends and maybe I'll have a little trim in august or september. I also found out that shea butter is very well for my ends, way better than coconut oil.

Regards

hi people,

Been lurking in this forum since a week or 2, afraid to post my dilemma. Found the courage to make this post now though, so here goes:

My name is Remco, im 21 years of age and live in the Netherlands. Been growing my hair for about 3 and half years now, but i feel it's time for a change of looks. No way im cutting my hair though.

i have very thin, straight ginger hair. it's halfway past my backside, but im growing rather tired of the fact that it's so damn straight. I'd love to get some minor curvings in it and stuff, but i have no clue how i'd do that. Mind you, i'm not looking for perfect curly hair (which most likely isn't even possible with my hair) but just some minor curvings.

Sometimes i braid my hair in one big braid when i got to bed (sleeps easier in my opinion), and when i wake up i take it out. At that point my hair is a bit curly (if that's the right word, my english ain't perfect). I'd like to keep it that way permanently, but sadly, after i take my shower it's all straight again :(

Can anyone tell me how i get that curly look to it? or any other suggestions on changing hairstyles would be highly appreciated too.

kind regards,
Remco

A very late update [PIC]
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Vladimir

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Hi guys,

Probably no one remembers me, as I last posted here almost two years ago, when my hair was somewhere like 2 inches long. But I was still lurking here, and I think it's finally time to post an update :)

I still haven't found a good hair care routine for me. I've tried almost every imaginable thing: most shampoos and conditioners I could find, washing without shampoo and only with water, using olive oil instead of or after the conditioner, combing or brushing before and after shower - still I get almost the same results. The hair becomes frizzy on the second day or so, and if I wash it too often - it becomes frizzy right as it dries.

The best thing I've found so far is to wash my hair in the evening, only comb it while in shower and with a lot of conditioner in, then tie it in a short braid and go to sleep. Then the next day or two it looks ok. Walking out with my hair not completely dried is a sure way to turn it into a frizzy cloud by the evening.

Does anyone know what works better for such type of hair?

And thanks to you a lot, you're all a great inspiration to me!

Vladimir.

13 month update [PIC]
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Highlander

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Hi Longhairs

13 month update of back of head. Hoping to have a cool tail in 6 months, using Aussie hair shampoo and avedda ligh elemts. Founf GNC's hair viatamin awesome. Best to all!

Just in time for summer
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PaulKMF

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D-i-v-o-r-c-e.
Yep, I hate to say it but after 13 years it comes to an end. On the positive side we are going to stay friends and in fact we get along better now than we did in the last six months, lol.
And don't worry, she ain't gonna cut my boys' hair!

Paul

Just one chopstick!!!!
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John C

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LOL!!!!! I could've died! Died laughing at myself! I figured how to put my hair in a bun using nothing but one chopstick! Know what? It holds better than anything I've ever tried!!!! I cut the chopstick so it's shorter & won't stick out like some kind of antenna, and I'm wearing it that way now, at the library. I expect I'll get very used to this. Taking it out coudldn't be easier. I read the Samurai would keep their hair up this way, and that the stick could be used as a weapon (!) though I have no need to do that. ;p

I'll take a picture when I get a new battery for my camera.

Should I go to a stylist?
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Will

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I'm wondering if I should go to a stylist to shape my head. I'm in the awkward stage and should i just let it grow over the summer then shape it?

Hi Guys

It's all about maintaining the length....

This is some of what I do so I don't end up with problems in the future

Being that curly hair is somewhat high maintenance :)

Here are 2 vids that I put up on YouTube:

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Because of this, NO MORE KNOTSOR SPLITS!

Just hair growing like a weed!

David

www.fitnessdavid.com

Last year I hardly got any tangles on my hair ends, now that my hair is even longer im starting to run into that problem a lot and other than a pony tail, is there any other way to keep my ends from tangling so much?

Videos 2
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FITNESSDAVID

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Vid #2

Hey, I'm starting to grow my hair (I never done this before) and I always wanted long hair. The problem is I have VERY wavy hair and it's also VERY thick. If I flatten it (which I dont but saying if i do) I get curls in the sides,which is probably just short waves. So far it's medium length , kind of. I'm going through the "awkward stage" when the hair starts growing and it looks sort of funny. The main question is what it will look like, shoulder length. I'm wish it won't stick up. Even though it goes down and the back is flat. Someone told me that it might look like Jim Morrisons hair which I want, so i'm hoping for that. I might post pictures if you guys want. Thanks :).
- Will

So I've decided to grow out my hair
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Gilles

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Hello everyone!
I'm Gilles and I'm from Belgium :)
Last year, in december, I got my hair cut for the last time!
Since then, I've just let it be. But now I'm entering the 'awkward phase'. So I would appreciated if you guys could give me some advice on how to deal with my hair during this phase. I realise there are plenty of threads like this one, but since everyone has a different type of hair, I started my own. Below are a few pictures I took (I hope the uploading worked). It's something a tried for the first time today, and I an honest opinion would be appreciated :)
I basically just washed my hair, pulled it back and let it dry in that position. When it was dry it just fell in this style, and I used a but of sculpting wax to keep it here :)

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2 Photos 20 Years Apart [PIC]
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Agentxxl

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Hey Guys!!

I was looking through some old photos and found one from 20 years ago. Compare it to what I look like now...What do you think? The newer pic is from March of this year. Now, in my 31 month of hair growth.

Dandruff! [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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I've had problems with dandruff on and off for about 2-3 years now. And i've been using this natural shampoo against dandruff and such for a month (been using it before, too). It contains tea tree oil and other good herbs and stuff. That shampoo is a ***** to use, since you pretty much can't get ANY lather from it. The dandruff may be a bit less, but there are still parts of my scalp where the dandruff just won't leave me alone!

Any of you guys with similar problems? Dandruff sucks!

The Pic was taken in August 2009, and has nothing to do with the dandruff.

This should make the trimmers feel good, they can save the American gulf coast one hair at a time. I don't know about the guy who sheared it all off (a little over the top) but if it makes you feel good then donate it to the oil clean up effort.

I can imagine the gulf coast covered in frizzy hair. LOL

Kevin

14 Month Update [PIC]
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Chris C.

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Hey guys, I don't know if any of you remember me, but I posted here with some degree of frequency last summer, but I stopped posting due to school and some other things going on and I also didn't check out this board too often since last Fall. Now I'm going to make a genuine effort to integrate myself with the crowd here once again. I'd also like to say thanks to everyone here posting their awesome manes here and inspiring me along with everyone else that sees them. Special thanks to Urban Cowboy and all the others that responded to my few posts for their words of advice and encouragement that I still remember all these months later. By the way, sorry for the inclusion of my part in the bottom in the picture. I'm not good at taking photos of myself.

Hi guys,

I have just discovered this forum and I would appreciate your help.

I have very curly and frizzy hair. I am growing it out, to the dismay of my employer, and I am still in the ackward phase. Because it is so curly, it hardly gains in notorious length over the months, it looks as ackward as 3 months ago, despite when I pull it, it has grown quite a bit.

I made the mistake of having cut it like a bowl about 16 months ago. I then had another haircut about 8 months ago and cut it in a bowl shape again. Results, my hair looks like a palmtree or like Sideshow Bob from the Simpsons. I wasn't intending to grow it back a year ago but I seemed to get the love for it and now I want to grow it up to my shoulders.

I get a lot of compliments about my hair, even from guys. People love my curls (I love them too) and it has grown as part of me. I am naturally rebellious and non-conformant, and I love when the curls blow in the wind (although my hair ends up looking worse as it sticks out and doesnt hand loose). Girls constantly ask me what I do to my hair or if I do perms. They dont believe me when I say that I dont use anything at all and just wash it with water (or soap if I have been sweating a lot and only to remove the smell). My curls are a part of me, I have yet to meet another male with a hair like me so I consider it a blessing (although it is a bitch to keep). By the way, I have seen some pics from you guys and you all have lovely hairs too in their form (straight or wavy). I just haven't seen yet one guy with hair as curly as mine and shoulder length as I would like to.

Anyway, I need some directions as to what to do now. The hair which I used to cut (temples and back) are growing but are still only 2 inches which creates a Sideshow Bob effect, especially when seen from the front. My plan is to continue to grow it, no cutting whatsoever. However, by the time these areas reach 6 inches, the hair on the top will be much longer so I don't know if it'll look odd. The idea of cutting just one hair bang from the top of my head makes my stomach turn (literally, I have invested 16 months and gone through bad times but the hair was always there).

I am posting a side pic so you can see the differences in length from the top hairs and the ones on the sides/back. I think I can only post one pic so I will try to post another one in the following reply. I took a day off work today and I was on my bed reading online about long hair and job discrimation, so my hair looks all over the place. Normally, it looks better (but not that much haha).

I would appreciate any directions, feedback, opinions or experiences from other keen longhairs.

Thank you very much.

Roy

Vincent with his sister [PIC]
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Vincent

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When I started growing my hair, my sister was inspired to grow out her shoulder lenght hair as well. 32 months later we decided to take a comparison picture, I tried to match my sisters height but I was a bit to low.

My sister is on the left, I´m on the right.

I am a long hair man, congratulation for your great hair. I have been one of your fans since 2004.
Mine is about waist length now. I send everybody my hair pixs, and ask for your advise about maintaining and wearing the healthy styles. Anyway, I like high bun most of the time.
Regards,
Boodie,

Hii ! [PIC]
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longhairdream

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Hello guys ! I'm here to achieve my "longhair" dream !
I've been finally growing out my hair after much hesitation - I'm at a year's growth now and m loving it !

Braided Half-tail... [PIC]
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Urban Cowboy

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I should probably re-title this thread, "Longhaired Plumber's Crack", because the braided portion of my hair is not as easy to see in the mirror as my pants falling down...

For those members of MLHH who are from non-English speaking countries, the term "plumber's crack" might not be a familiar one. I don't know if it's used in the UK or Australia or New Zealand; but here in the USA (and probably also in Canada), it's a familiar term that is part-derogatory / part-humor.

Just imagine an over-weight plumber coming in to fix the pipes underneath your bathroom or kitchen sink, and every time he bends over too far, his pants slide down off his hips, revealing too much of his butt-crack -- not a pleasant image, but great inspiration for many a good joke!

In my case, I am neither as talented nor as handy as a plumber; but have a definite "plumber's crack", as you can clearly see (in spite of the pic being a bit blurry) -- only in my situation, I have a HAIRY plumber's crack!

Next week my partner said he would take a better pic of the braided half-tail (only minus the plumber's crack - LOL)....

- Ken

Greetings, Newbie Here [PIC]
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Sam Westing

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Hello everyone. I've been lurking on these boards for about a month now, so I've decided it's time to start posting. The picture here is from two months ago.

I think a short introduction would be appropriate. My name is Sam, I am 16 years old, and I have been growing my hair out for about 20 months now. My dad has pretty long hair (a bit past mid-back), so I didn't really receive much opposition from my parents when I told them I wanted to grow it out. My mom said I could grow it out as long as I took care of it. She also said that I needed to get it trimmed regularly, but that never happened.

Here is what my hair looked like about a month after I got my last haircut:

http://i576.photobucket.com/albums/ss209/Xsanoid/HPIM1603.jpg?t=1273279425

...............have a great vacation, Mark !!

My First Tail [PIC]
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Growing

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Posted this at the end of a earlier thread, but noticed no one saw it...Since it was my very first tail -- and I wore it for a day in "public" (everyone loved it!)-- I wanted to sharre and say thanks to all for the encouragement. 16 months and counting!

Have bangs or grow them out?
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WifeOfLongHair

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My husband much to my pleasure is growing out his beautiful very thick straight hair. I'm enjoying this site and hope to get some tips on dealing with hair at the awkward stage.It just makes a high pony but the sides and front just hang down over his eyes ears driving him crazy. He's tried putting it behind his ears but it keeps coming forward. I've looked around and can't find many if any long hair on men with bangs...is it done? I'd appreciate any help you can render...He's considering cutting :(

Hey everyone - 34 month update
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Shypii90

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Hey
just wanted to post a 34 month update. It wasn't growth the whole time - in total at least 4 inches were cut from the length to fix the shape somewhat.

Looks very short for nearly 3 years because the curls are getting tighter especially at the back. In these pics it looks awful though lol because I had just washed it and it was windy outside. I'm getting a lot of frizz lately on the top layers because I mainly wear my hair pulled back... is there any way I can reduce this frizz please?

Enjoy!

Thanks

Shawn

Sixteen Months [PIC]
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Growing

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Not exactly Samson, but a bit more like Ben Franklin, I guess. I am the lawyer who is retiring in December and "growing" into it. Here is a 16-month progress photo.

Lukes Long Hair Slide Show
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Justin

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I do believe LongHairLuke has just topped the cake with his presentation uploaded today on You Tube.

Luke lives in Germany where he is in study within the Medical profession. Of the emails I have shared with him this past year, he is a most honorable gentleman indeed. He is a most caring as well as very artistic person. Extremely humble.

Great proof of how well long hair can look and what a gift from nature it is.

Hope you guys enjoy Lukes presentation.

Take care-

Justin~

made it back to my one year mark! ;)
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Danny7x7

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Hi Guys,

cut my hair a while back for a job, i'd had it growing for about 2 years, the company i'm with now has more mellow dress codes policies so i've been able to grow it out. As you can see I had dyed my hair. I used to have silver hair and I had dyed it auburn (i used to look damn good with it, but my hair grows out a bit too quick to maintain it and am in the process of lifting the color back to silver, it's been about 5 weeks since i dyed it and you can see where i'm at. I just wanted to share my progress with you guys, I've seen some amazing manes on here. I'll post other updates later ;) Take care all! Happy Growing!

Danny

sons long hair
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dantheman

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Just wanted to thank everybody for their in put. My boys are indeed going to have long hair. they are very excited. we set some ground rules with them ie: must be kept clean, brushed/detangled every night, once long enough it has to be tied back when they eat and play sports etc. plus mom says they have to learn to braid it (dont ask me). Thanks again and soon youll have a couple new members of the club.

Validus recently indicated a link on the trustworthiness of bearded men. I just found a rather fun picture resuming the thing :-D Apparently my trustworthiness is questionnable, haha.
Someone to do this about the hairstyles ?

Vivien

here

It's not particularly brief but I endeavored to keep it entertaining. If you have a few minutes to kill and feel like a romp, please avail yourself.

-- George

22 months progress Pics
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prometheuz

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22 months since shaved head ~~

from the side

from the back

Longhairs and Job-hunting: old advise VS new....
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Urban Cowboy

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Back in 1979 (when I used to be a slim & buff-looking stud, still in my mid-20s - LOL), I was going through both a job change and a career change, and ended up taking a 3-day course offered by the San Francisco Employment Development Dept. (AKA "EDD").

The job and career direction that moved me from my native state of Illinois out to California in '77 no longer felt right for me -- so, "all options were on the table" (as far as exploring which new career direction might be best for me).

I learned a lot of helpful things from taking that 3-day EDD course, and definitely felt better prepared afterward to go out and pound the pavement, going on job interviews and considering various new career opportunities. The one thing that I remember, though, which I DIDN'T like hearing, was the EDD teacher's advise re. men with long hair and how they should present themselves when going on a job interview.

"For men with long hair who are having trouble finding a job, it is best to cut your hair short -- then after you get a job, most employers in San Francisco won't have a problem with you growing it out."

Keep in mind that this advise was voiced by this particular teacher back in 1979. But, also keep in mind that San Francisco is generally considered by most people in America to be the country's most "liberal-minded city" in the USA....

As one joke about our city that used to be popular a few years ago goes: "San Francisco is like a cereal bowl -- the people in it are either fruits, nuts, or flakes!"

(And, as much as I hate to admit it myself... there is SOME truth to that joke - LOL!!)

Back to job-hunting advise for longhairs...
Although there are still some people who will tell a long-haired guy the same unpleasant job advise as I just stated above, I firmly believe that there is little reason to have to go the route of cutting one's hair short anymore, in order to succeed at landing a good job. Please consider the following reasons for NOT cutting one's long hair before anybody here goes out on their next job interview:
1) the people doing the hiring and firing nowadays are of the hippie generation (meaning: chances are that even if the person interviewing you does not CURRENTLY have long hair, chances are that when they were younger, they DID -- and so their view of long hair is not as negative as the previous generation's);
2) long hair no longer carries the weight of any major political or "anti-establishment" implication to the same degree as during the '60s and '70s;
3) as long as a longhair presents himself in a very clean & tidy manner, -- and with clothes that are appropriate for both the job, AND for a good first impression -- the smartest and fairest employers do not hold long hair on males against them... only bigoted employers will (and, so, why would you want to work for that jerk, anyway??)

As further emotional reinforcement to discourage anyone here from cutting their hard-earned long hair off before going out job-hunting, let me share an interesting conversation I had with a fellow local longhair, a guy who owns his own construction business, who I met while gardening right across the street from one of his upscale remodeling projects. I had this conversation with him right after I had cut my own hair short, back in Y2k....

He told me that he hadn't cut his hair short in over 25 years (his hair was in a great-looking braid, BTW, reaching almost to his belt) -- and the only time he did cut it short for a job (25 years ago), he not only deeply regretted cutting it; he also told me that the job turned out to be a bad one, which he left very shortly after he started working there... And apparently vowed never to cut his hair short for any job ever again -- and besides, he told me, his wife likes it long!!!!!

So, there you go...

If at all possible, DON'T cut your hair for a job. Tie it back neatly into a nice-looking ponytail or braid, YES, by all means; but if you cut, remind yourself before you do so that it takes YEARS for it to grow it back to long again. This doesn't mean that we should ever judge another longhair if they do decide to cut; just that I feel that the old job-hunting advise which I was told back in 1979 is definitely outdated -- and that the current advise we often tell guys here at MLHH (to hold off on cutting for as long as possible, if ever even giving in to cutting at all....), is not just "new" advise: it is also BETTER!!!

Apologies for my standing on another soapbox again -- I promise I'll get off it now (LOL)!!

- Ken

PS - I might be out looking for another part-time job soon -- so, this is why this topic happens to be on my mind right now.... as well as now you know that I am going to have to also give myself a dose of my own advise-medicine!

Seems Janet Neoplitan is going her best but the ice cream slick keeps on melting!!!

An interesting evolutionary / anthropic theory...
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Urban Cowboy

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I finally got around to reading snakedog's blog (re. why men have short hair and women have long), and regret not checking it out sooner...

For those who are into the topics of Evolution and Anthropology, it is truly a great read and narrates some fascinating concepts as well as some little-known early human history in there. Originally I mistook the title of the blog for that of a commentary on society's shallower reasons for men having short hair and women having long; but it was way more anthropic than that...

I hope more people here have a chance to check it out -- and thanks again for taking the time to write it & share it with us, snakedog!!

- Ken

My long hair photo fantasy [PIC]
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Absalom

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Hi guys, I have a longhair photo fantasy that I would love to see come true. There is this park in Novato CA. See the sign. My mane is lonely and would like some company while hanging in front of that sign. I would absolutely love to have a few photos with at least five gorgeous long manes draped over that sign. Maybe a Bay Area longhair meet could happen there this year, and hopefully, before the oppressive summer heat arrives. This is a great site for a picnic.

I would also like to hear from others who would like to share their longhair photo fantasy ideas as well.

Scott

Current [PIC]
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Dougboy

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Thought I would throw out some new pics.

Cheers

Doug

Progress pictures [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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I thought i'd post some pictures of my progress to keep you updated.
Next picture would probably sometime during summer.

I hate when my hair looks oily/dirty but feels fine!

Little trouble with the bangs
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John Bickers

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So my bangs are about 6 1/2 inches or so now (basically everything is, started from a buzz) and I'm really enjoying my every other day wash that I've gotten into the routine for. The only downside is on day #2 my bangs are oily where as everything else is still pretty consistent. I use the BBB and its still just oily enough to look like i haven't showered. Got to thinking and realized that since i always wear my hair down and I have an oily face, I bet its getting all this excess oil from the face.

So now you know the lament, my question is this. What do you guys do to deal with facial oil on the bangs?

A great decision
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Raphaël V.

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Hi!
It have been a few weeks i introduced myself and i want to share with you a decision i made. It's the first time i decided to grow my hair.I have very curly hairs so i decided to go to the hair-dresser to smooth my hair with chemical products to make the growth more comfortable. I did that three times and i just decided to not do that again. I don't know how my hair will look like and i will not have the time to go to the hair-dresser for several months but i think it's time to let my hair be as they should and i hope they'll still look long. I just wanted to share that with you.

Raphaël V.

PS : Sorry for my english, i know i probably made a lot of grammar mistakes.

first ponytail in public?
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james

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i'm james, just for short intro i have been growin my hair for a while now, though it was always kinda long. Its now a few inches past my shoulders in a blunt cut. I'm half asian so its black and really straight and thick too. any way, i have never worn my hair in a ponytail out in public like to school cuz i am kinda scared. I do it at home by myself all the time, but just dont have the guts i guess to do it around other people. Its been long enough for a while and i need to for convenience, especially at school, plus i like how the ponytail looks and feels, but i am still to scared. I was wondering if you all could give me some advice or share how it went for you the first time to help me out?

My hair is long, now what? [PIC]
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Zustiur

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I've had long hair since I was 15. Most of that time I've had a center part. In other words, I've had the same hairstyle for 12 years.
One of my friends has been trying to talk me into getting my hair styled, but I'm reluctant to change. I just found this board while looking for ideas. See, my friend wants me to get layers because she says my hair needs to be styled so that I'm more attractive to women. I don't particularly like the idea because:
a) I'm afraid of change
b) I don't like the idea of not being able to tie my hair back when I need to
c) I'd have to start using hair product to keep the style, and I'm convinced that would be bad for the health of my hair.

So, as fellow long haired males, I value your opinions. Is it a good idea to get my hair styled, and do you have any suggestions (photos?) of how it could look?

Progress update [PIC]
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thomc1980

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Well its been a few months since i posted a pic as i didnt want to be posting em monthly at this point and boring everyone with a fraction of a inch growth =p. So far my hairs made it down to nearly my shoulders and my bangs are well below my nose now =p. So little by little my hairs getting to where i want it.

Washing
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Will

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I hear alot around here that you shouldn't wash your hair everyday. But when I had short hair I just kinda did, and that got me into the habit of it. Whenever I dont shower every day, my hair gets pretty greasy fast. Which I suppose is just because my body's oil's are so out of wack due to years of over-washing. How often should I shoot for in terms of washing my hair weekly? Has anyone experienced this similar thing, when they decided to take better care of their hair and noticed there was like, a transition period? Or am I just unlucky and have an overly greasy scalp?

Thanks for any advice. :)

Sorry Guys...
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MattT

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Sorry Guys,

I know when my hair was at 6 months I said I would wait till my hair was at 12 months before I did anything......... that is anything in the way of posting an update in order to avoid boring everyone! Here's 9 and a bit months! Ok sorry for the trick. This really does seen to be third time's a charm growing it out for me. Well and truly in the awkward stage now.

Hope these link things work I forget how to do them sorry!

Not behaving:

http://i418.photobucket.com/albums/pp262/menshairfan/2010/Hair250410e.jpg

Behaving:

http://i418.photobucket.com/albums/pp262/menshairfan/2010/Hair270410e.jpg

Hope you are all well, cya!

Matt

Ram Bahadur Bomjon [PIC]
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President

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There's a documentary about him available on YouTube.

''Birds of a feather...''
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Urban Cowboy

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Just a quick few comments that relate back to my "Anatomical Completeness and Hair" thread...

Just for the record, I think now would be a good time for me to clarify that in no way do I believe that longhairs are "superior" to any other type of human person. That superiority concept re. hair is just as bad in my mind as to believe in any particular race, religion, or national origin as superior. Life is too big and vast to believe in that garbage. As the movie character Antie Mame said, "Life is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death!" If I indulged in believing myself to be superior over another just because of having longer hair, I'd be missing out on many precious things that life has given me, including the many short-haired folks in my life, both friends and family I can't imagine being without. If I ever do make the mistake of feeling a bit smug & superior to others, then all I have to do to remind myself of how wrong I am is to go to the nearest Northern CA old growth redwood forest, and stand next to a 2,000 year old giant... I LOVE feeling that small and unimportant!!!

I think Bill hit the nail on the head when he mentioned Phantom Limb Syndrome, comparing it to how longhairs feel whenever they are missing having their hair. I felt that way even BEFORE i was able to grow my mane out -- like I was "missing something", and that the short hair on my head wasn't making me happy enough (until I would eventually grow it out some day).

What makes me happiest in life (besides having long hair)?

I like to hang out in various dance communities, for example. That's probably my #1 thing that makes me happy in life, to be on a hardwood floor with a fun dance partner and great dance tunes playing all night long -- whether it be Swing, Salsa, C&W 2-Step, or Tango...

I also like to garden, and am happy as a clam being outdoors in general -- and to be with others who share in that same kind of enthusiasm, including just admiring the many wonders of Mother Nature, like even just a beautiful lake or being by the ocean.

I also like to pride myself in cooking a good meal (and in swapping recipe ideas w/ other cooks as well)! Good food is AWESOME (and I have the belly to prove it - LOL)!!

"Birds of a feather flock together!", as the old saying goes. And that's why I come here: to talk about HAIR! My [short-haired] dance friends and gardening buddies or cooking co-workers just wouldn't understand if I talked about the topic of being a longhair to them (LOL)....

- Ken

New guy, Just saying hi!
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Hemmelight

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Hey, there!

I've been reading this board off and on for a few months. (Ok, more like a year!) and I love all of the great advice and chatter that goes on here. Just thought I might as well post a photo as well! I have really thick, curly hair. I like it alot, but around a year ago I cut it out of hatred (awkward phase, we all have it!)
but it's back to normal now! Here's some photos of it wet, and another once it's dried.

Sorry that the 2nd is so tiny lol!

~Hemmelight

Introduction/Pictures
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TyphooN

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Here are some pictures of my hair with 1 and a half years without a cut. I have had some trims of split ends but that is it. I started growing my hair out from a mid length style. I posted some pictures before but I don't think I gave a proper introduction. I am a 22 year old college student going to Georgia State University majoring in Computer Information Systems. I listen to death metal, black metal, dubstep, psytrance, 90s rap, some 90s rock, classical, and classic rock.

I have been reading this board for quite some time and I would like to thank Justin for being one of my greatest inspirations for growing my hair long. I love his youtube videos. I found the forum thanks to him through youtube! Walter, I also really like your posts :). Thanks for all of the hair care tips and inspiration! I have a job interview this morning for an IT help desk position and hopefully I will have a long hair success story for you guys. How do I go getting into the Users' Directory?

I am not sure about how to go about adding these 3 images in the same post as my other image maybe somebody can help me out:

http://i41.photobucket.com/albums/e274/xXTYPHOON/hair/DSCN4110.jpg
http://i41.photobucket.com/albums/e274/xXTYPHOON/hair/DSCN4111.jpg
http://i41.photobucket.com/albums/e274/xXTYPHOON/hair/DSCN4118.jpg

Belated thanks, enjoyed reading your comments...
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi All,

I finally had time to lurk & read the replies to my thread on anatomical completeness -- many thanks for sharing all your insightful thoughts!

I'm still staying overnight at work; so will keep it brief here...

I have no idea why I like to babble on & on about longhair topics. Maybe it's because the vast majority of my closest friends in "real life" tend to be mostly short-haired -- even the women (LOL).... So, since it would be pointless to babble on and on to them about how much I like long hair, I torture you guys instead(LOL)!!

Anyway, my apologies for not having the time to respond individually or in greater detail right now; but just wanted to say a belated thanks, as I really enjoyed reading everyone's comments!

"Onward & Downward!"
- Ken

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Validus

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Well, it's soccer season again, and my now-9-year-old boy is still a proud and die-hard longhair! Over the past year, he has received a few more taunts and rude comments from other kids about the length of his hair than he had previously, but he has weathered them like a real champion. It's a good thing that he's so easy-going, and doesn't let what other people think overrule what he values. He is an active participant in swimming, soccer, and karate. Also an avid reader, he is just finishing up the Lord of the Rings trilogy, and plans on being Legolas for Halloween this year.

Congratulations to everyone who's been posting updates... I haven't been too vocal on here over the past year (VERY busy with family and school, and just a few weeks away now from being a registered nurse), though I have remained a chronic lurker :)

Take care!

Second time grower [PIC]
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Abstrakt

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Hello there.
I've been reading this board on and off for probably a year or so, and now i finally decided to post myself.
I'm 16 now, turning 17 in August, and i'm growing my hair long for the second time.

The first time i grew it past shoulder lenght was when i was 14.
I grew it for about 18 months starting from an ugly mop-hairdo. Then i got into a period when i just needed a change in life, so for some reason i decided to cut half my hair off.
Then a few months later, in late november 2009, i decided to cut it short (4-5cm).

And now i'm regrowing it obviously. Trying to wash my hair as little as possible (2 times a week usually) etc...

I've got a few pics of me with long hair, but for now, this one will do:

(O/T) Blu-ray AVATAR... [PIC]
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White Tail

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...was released yesterday.

While the spectacular 3D effects are not on this release.....The Blu-ray version viewed on a decent HDTV, even in 2D, is crisp and clearly shows the wonderful world of Pandora in fine detail. Without the detraction of the 3D, more incredible special effects are revealed......

Soundtrack is also wonderful...listen to it loud on a good system...the bass will rattle your dentures...James Horner seems to have no limits in his musical creativity.

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I come from a generation that did not have television...to see the level of entertainment that James Cameron has brought us is history in the making.

''Anatomical Completeness'' and Hair
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Urban Cowboy

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A few months ago, one of our regulars here made an insightful comment that has profoundly stuck with me ever since. I believe it was Oren who first described himself feeling, "anatomically complete" once his hair had grown out -- a term that I immediately recognized as my own feeling as well, yet had never been able to put it into those exact words before. I'd like to talk a little bit more about this topic, because I wonder how many others here feel similarly...

Modern society seems to put a helluva lot of emphasis on how someone LOOKS these days. While I'm sure this isn't anything "new", the fact that fashion magazines and Hollywood celebrities are constantly telling us what is "in" VS "out" only adds more social pressure to the overall picture, since human beings often want to look like their favorite idols as much as possible.

What this all means is that unfortunately what then gets UNDER-emphasized is how a person FEELS (because of the social pressure and over-emphasis on how a person LOOKS)...

Here's an example from my own life of what I mean re. the above comments:
When I first grew my hair out to ponytail-length, the broken record going through my head at the time (which almost made me fail at growing my hair out during the early '90s) were some of the following thoughts...
1) Ken is now "too old" to grow long hair anymore
2) Ken has a receding hairline -- and therefore his hair is not "perfect"-looking enough to grow long
3) Ken will look very foolish with long hair (everyone will think he is TRYING to look "cool" or TRYING to look "young", when he obviously isn't either one of those)
4) Ken is "too fat" to look good with long hair
5) Ken doesn't have the correct shaped face to fit with long hair...

.... You get the picture!

Veterans that come back from war obviously have a much tougher loss to deal with than hair if they come back with an arm or a leg missing; and yet society in general tries to dictate to males that we all "SHOULD" be short-haired, "because"...
- men are "supposed to be" short-haired
- long hair is "only" for women
- it's an unnecessary "luxury"
- we should be "tougher' than that!
- we should "grow up" and become "adult" (meaning, become a short-haired conformist)
- etc., etc., and so-forth, and so-on, blah blah blah...

Some people like yogurt; some people don't... Similarly with hair: many guys apparently like it short (although I have no idea for the life of me WHY - lol); but then there are other guys who genuinely like it long (or in my case, looooooong!!)!!!!!

Like Oren, I feel more anatomically "complete" with long hair than without it.

If a crazed Nazi were to attack me on the street and chop off all my hair, I will survive. But, as long as I have a choice, I will also grow it back.

If an accident, illness, and/or chemotherapy (or even MPB) were to cause my hair to fall out, I will deal with it as best I know how. But again, if any opportunity whatsoever to grow it back allows, I will -- even if others think I'd look "better" with a shaved head, it's not about how I look to others that matters to me anymore: it's how I FEEL having more hair, rather than less.

In other words...
Just like with having two arms & two legs, I'd prefer having my hair long, just as much as I want to keep all of my limbs: I feel more complete, and happier because of it.

As the "Serenity Prayer" in 12-step programs goes, "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can, -- and the wisdom to know the difference." (My apologies if I may have gotten the quote slightly wrong -- I'm not a 12-step guy myself; but I do have a lot of friends who are.)

OK, getting off my soapbox now (LOL)!!

- Ken

Hair Haul when in Mexico
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FITNESSDAVID

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Hi guys

I was in Mexico this past March, and was running out of stuff for my hair, so I went to the store to get some products....

Here is the link to my vlog on that subject:

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I have other Mexico vlogs on my Facebook (you can see them without having to be a member!):

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David

Long Hair Encouragement at Work
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KevinV

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I posted a thread recently stating that I was fortunate to have a supervisor that has no issues with me growing my hair long. I was thinking today about my work environment and realized that I have more to be thankful for in the hair growth realm.

I work in a VA outpatient clinic and several of my fellow veterans that I care for daily have long hair. I usually ask how long it took to grow to that point, and other questions that come up and they're always more than happy to talk about it and give me encouragement in my own journey.

One moment from last week really stood out...one of the guys had his hair pulled back and held by a leather band with a stick through it. The stick was very ornately carved and the leather piece skillfully embellished as well. When I asked where he got it he said that he made it and started telling me about his woodworking hobby. It was very cool to not only see something that looked perfectly in place on a man's long hair, but to learn that he had created it.

I'm really glad that I work where I do.

Eight Months and Growing [PIC]
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RobD

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Just checking at eight months. Still on track. Take care all.
Rob.

Questions of Hair Growth Motivation.
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EastCoastAdam

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Hey All,

I've decided to finally let go, let loose, and let it all hang out.
NO MORE HAIRCUTS! (This was an especially hard choice to make as I have a great love of barbering, and I cut my own hair as much as my barber does. I keep telling myself 'Put the scissors down...it's just that awkward phase...give it time').
Truth be told, I prefer the way I look with a well coiffed pompadour, every hair in it's right place. But I FEEL best with long hair.
Are any of you like this? You don't necessarily look the best with long hair, but you feel like a million bucks?
I relish in the act of standing at the sink, wetting my long(ish) locks, and running my hands through, feeling the weigh of the hair on my neck. Getting my hair soaking wet in the shower and shaking the water out, feeling the hair moving about.
Am I alone here?
Or are most longhairs motivated by the asthetics of it?

Hair Loss...
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murf26

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It's been a while since I've been on the board. Hope everyone's doing well. I have a question to pose to everyone here. And it's probably been repeated a thousand times. Is there a natural remedy that any of you use or have used in the past to alleviate thinning hair? Mine's starting to thin and I would like to keep it as long as I can. Really don't want to go to chemicals but try a natural remedy. Thanks...and have a great day :-)

O/T Happy Earth Day !
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Vivien

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Because we're all concerned with the destiny of the Earth, Happy Earth Day 2010!

Hey guys!

Things had been looking grim for a long time, but finally, nine dispiriting months after graduation, I've been hired. I'll be working in an office environment, where the dress code will be business casual; slacks and collared shirts. However, at the interview today (I was hired through a separate staffing agency), the interviewer strongly recommended I tie my hair back for the training which will begin tomorrow.

This is daunting for me, because I recently cut my hair, and now there are a few strands that won't fit into my tail, because of the short layer on top. How would you suggest solving this problem? Should I try some gel or hairspray to keep the offending hairs in order? It looks very goofy having a lock of hair sticking out behind my ear while the rest is tied back. In my opinion that looks less professional than having it loose.

Begin rant, feel free to ignore:
Honestly this really annoys the hell out of me. Why should I, because I'm a male, have to tie my hair back in order to look presentable? My hair looks best loose, and I'm also fairly certain women do not have to meet the same requirement, unless it's directly required by the type of job, such as manual labor or something. I'm so sick of the hypocrisy present in society in general, especially when these jobs consider themselves "equal opportunity" employers, where they supposedly do not judge people based on their race, culture, sexual orientation, or whatever. It disgusts me that I'm immediately categorized as dirty or unkempt simply because of the length of my hair, while females do not have to deal with this sort of criticism.

I mean, I'm glad they hired me at all, because I've been barred from certain positions on the basis of my hair alone, such as when I applied as an artist to a local amusement park. Seriously, it was because of my hair. They will not allow men to wear a moustache extending past the corners of the mouth, or hair that reaches the collar of the shirt. Period. The fact that this kind of sexism still exists is disquieting. And even if they allow longhairs, why must we be forced to meet standards that women do not have to meet? It sickens me that they emphasize that there should be no sexism or discrimination of any kind in the workplace, but it only works one way. It's okay to be sexist, as long as it's directed towards men. What?

Okay okay, ranting aside, back to my issue: a lock or two of hair fall out of my tail and I need a good and tidy method of keeping them in order. What would you suggest? Gel? Hair spray?

Something for the beard lover in you
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Hairball

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Just saw them advertise this on TV so I looked it up and here it is.They should also have one for hair too:)

Mark

(O/T) No Performance Tax
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Jarvis

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Don't know if any of you have heard about it on the radio in the past couple months, but a bill to tax free local radio stations per song is in the process of possibly being passed. A good bit of congress is against it, as well as about 30,000 of us normal (whatever that means here) people signed up as supporters on the site. But we need more.

No Performance Tax homepage
No Performance Tax homepage

Show your support
Show your support

Thanks to all who sign up, and those who already have.
Jarvis

Thinking about growing my hair Long
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Mikial Arreita

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Hello im Mikial a 16 year old male, and I currently have short Coarse curly hair. Back when i was about 13 or 14 i wore long hair but soon was forced to cut it. I find it rather hard to keep up with it when it becomes long, and wear it out without it becoming frizzed up or messy. How can i maintain nice looks wearing it out, but also keep it from becoming dry? help.

new - hello! [PIC]
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jeremy0415

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hey, guys. been growing my hair for about 6 months now.. hope to get abt mid back. we'll see. just wanted to say hello ;)

- jer

Too much hair
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Kailongbeard

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I went and auditioned for a shampoo comercial today. They were looking foe men with hair over 4" in length. I went in and the casting guys said,"OMG, you have too much hair." With a big smile, I replied," Don't you mean not enough hair?" Needless to say didn't land the job. But Kudos to them for bringing in guys with longer hair.

Hair Update [PIC]
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Devon

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Hey everyone. It's been a few months since I last posted a picture of my hair progress. Before I complained about how fine my hair was, but I noticed that as it gets longer I don't seem to mind it as much (except for having to wash it every day). I also started using a really light mouse which I found really useful to giving my hair some extra volume without weighing anything down.

long hair and basketball help needed
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thomas

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I play basketball a lot and my hair is now long enough that it gets in my face even with a head band on. what can i do? its a few inches longer than shoulder length and really heavy hair. Ponytails always seem to come loose really fast, so? thanks for the help

Enthusiastic Newbie With Grand Plans [PIC]
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snakedog

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I would like to introduce myself to you fine ladies and gentlemen.

I have spent the last four hours - when I should have been working, LOL - scanning this site and all the posts. What a wealth of ideas that I have been looking for for ages! Techniques for caring for my hair, what products do what, what to avoid, how hair actually WORKS, and so on. Thank you all so much.

I have also really enjoyed and related to the accounts of the struggles we have all had with the social (and in some cases religious) stigma of long hair. When I was a kid in the early 70's it was definitely a statement. We've seen a lot of societal changes since then. Isn't it amazing that this is still an issue? I really like the positive stubbornness seen in these posts. Thanks for that, too. I'm not decided yet whether this hurdle is actually a pain or a blessing - if everyone had long hair I may not be so attracted to it. I may just get stupid and start a thread on "Why I Like Being a Longhair".

I plan to be a regular visitor and reader. You have helped me with the first step - reconciling to the awkward stage for now - and I hope this to be the start of a long and beautiful (you should pardon the pun) friendship.

-- George

is it normal to have a few broken hairs?
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MarkS

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lately my hair has been showing little broken hairs and im worried, please tell me that is normal

Parents and loved ones
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Jackson

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Hey Guys. Hope all of you are doing great. For rhose who remembers me , my hair is doing great and i will certainly post progress of it in the near future.

Right now, i just want to share something with you guys. It's about my parents,my mum to be more exact. I love both of them very much but some things really bother me. I'm typing this just after a heated argument with her and guess what was it about. Yes indeed, it's about my darn hair. She didnt like the idea of me growing my hair out from the start but she knows she can't do anything at the same time because i'm 19 this year and i ought to have a say of my decisions in life. At times if i'm lucky she would not bother me about my hair for a span of months. Every now and then she will try to persuade me to cut or trim my hair. I told her thats not the point, i will decide to trim it when i reach my goal length. She obviously didnt know my goal length. until today..and shocked she was..

This morning she told me that alot of her 'friends' and people around me have commented on my hair. I knew it wasnt good because i would describe those people around her as radical upkeepers of society norms. Then the dreaded word came, cut or trim. As usual, i would keep my composure and tell her i woulndn't. The discussion became more violent as she became more persistent..Well that's not the point i'm trying to convey. I have seen various ways of dealing with outsider or friends negative comments about the 'hair'. But what if our loved ones has problem with it, how do we cultivate the tolerance we need in order to live normally. Obviously i don't have much option as i'm still mostly living with my parents.Feedback and suggestion from you guys would be much appreciated :)

Trippy Wildflower Trip
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Bill

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For those of you with a hippie bent and a love of wildflowers, at the link below are photos we took on our recent trip in quest of springtime California wildflowers. (Sorry, no photos were gotten of any desert rats with white tails.)

We had to go through quite a bit of snow to get there, so don't be surprised to see a bit of that at the beginning.

Bill

I am a long hair man, congratulation for your great hair. I have been one of your fans since 2004.
Mine is about waist length now. I send everybody my hair pixs, and ask for your advise about maintaining and wearing the healthy styles. Anyway, I like high bun most of the time.
Regards,
Boodie,

Beards as indicators of trustworthiness
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Validus

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Thought y'all would find this interesting (clickable link below)...

LH and Motorcycles
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snakedog

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I have a pretty strong feeling that there are a lot of bikers on this board but I search in vain for posts about how to deal with long hair in the open air at 75 MPH.

I always wear a helmet. When I get to work in the morning it doesn't matter how much prep I did at home - my shoulder length hair is flat as a pancake, stuck to my head like like a stocking cap. When I brush the tangles out of the ends that have been flying in the breeze for 45 minutes they are frizzy and untameable. Looks pretty awful all day.

If my hair were longer I think a braid or multiple pony ties would work great, but even then there is the hair that is not yet long enough to reach the braid. Even you more seasoned longhairs must have to deal with that.

I can with some difficulty shove my hair up into the back of the helmet, all the while being careful to keep it from dangling into my face in front where it would otherwise flick around my eyes, driving me to distraction. But doesn't this cause breakage? My helmet fits pretty tight.

Any advice for a neophyte?

Thanks,

George

can we gather at the chat room agian
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Birdman

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Hello everyone
Lets meet at the chat room agian ok

Birdman

Bodybuilding+Supplements+Long Hair
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Solfaur

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Hey guys, as I saw the thread about creatine it put me into thinking since I started working out heavy about 1 year ago. I'm letting my hair grow for arround 2 and a half years and I noticed despite the increase in length that my hair got a lot thinner and "fewer" since I stared lifting. I also lost about 25 Kgs of fat after starting going to the gym and to compensate and help my body I also got myself quite a lot of supplements.

Now I know about the DHT issue and was wondering if there is something that damages my hair growth in the supplemnts also. I'm taking the following suplements wise:

Dymatize ELite Whey Isolate (protein powder, about 3 scoops a day)
API Amino 2300 (BCAAs, about 6-9 tablets a day)
Animal Pak (multivitamin, 1 pack a day)
Animal Flex (minerals for the joints, 1 pack a day)
and cycling EFX Kre-Alkalyn (creatine pills)

I'm planing to eliminate all supplements except the protein powder( since I doubt it can have any major negative effect on my hair) and see if there is any improvement. Thing is I don't know what's causing the thinning, should I try to find a "anti DHT" shampoo or will reducing the supplements work?

My hair is about 50 cm long and wavy almost curly at ends, my routine is shampoo & condition once a week, if I'm really sweaty I do a water only wash inbetween. I produce a LOT of sebum, so the conditioner is mostly to recover after the chlorine from swimming(wich I have to do once a week for the next two months)

I'm 21 years old and my direct relatives don't have any hair issues or at least never so young (my father for example started having a receding line just in his 50s and even then he still has enough hair) so I doubt it is genetic.

Sorry for the wall of text but I know there must be others here who work out and are interested on this subject. Any tips and hints are welcome.

Out of the mouth of babes
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Seishinkai

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I was showing my 4 and 1/2 year old daughter an old graduation picture of me (with short hair) and her response was...

"you look weird..."

Heh, heh. Training the next generation. I love it.

I cut it all off... [PIC]
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brazjol

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Just kidding!!! (Sorry, I bet you were about to freak out!)

I decided I did need a hair cut after all, but I decided to just get three inches or so cut off, and once again had long layers put in, which really helps emphasize the curls and keeps them from 'balling up' at the ends. Those of you with curly/wavy hair probably know what I'm talking about.

I'm really satisfied with this length. It's lighter, more voluminous, curlier and more manageable. I don't like it when my hair gets too long, it gets heavy and straightens out the curls and becomes flat, so this is a nice change for me. The only negative is that the front tends to fall out of my ponytail, but that's okay because I shouldn't need to keep it back much anymore.

For comparison check my last post, it has a picture I took a day or two ago, before the cut. Also to compare how long it was a year or two ago, before my last drastic cut which took it back to approximately shoulder length:

Peter Steele of Type O Negative died yesterday of heart failure, no way im shocked right now and sad...

and what a great long hair he was too, he had lower back jet black hair that was kickass

Special message to Snakedog...
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi George,

Thank you SO much for your kind words in your reply to my "Cultivating Your Inner Longhair" thread (which is now waaay down the page by now....), -- I really appreciate it!

As I understand it, MLHH does save everything in the Archives section (after the bottom of the page gets its occasional "haircut" by the end getting trimmed off). I wish I was more computer-savvy, I'd take you up on some of your suggestions you mentioned; but things are the way they are, I guess -- I enjoy writing; but getting me past computer-stupidity is like pulling teeth at the dentist's office (just ask anyone who's ever tried to help me out w/ this - LOL)!!

Also, re. your comment about Bill Choisser's "On Being A Longhair", Bill occasionally posts here, simply using the handle, "Bill" (scroll down to Mikhail's thread to see a couple of recent replies he made). I had the privilege of having him help me design and install my web site -- which you can look at simply by clicking on my little avatar pic (it will take you right to my Hair page and "welcome to my web site" stuff. Other than recently upgrading / updating my Virtual Garden page (thanks to Bill!), the Hair and Dance pages are the same as when first installed in '04 (my hair is considerably longer nowadays than in those pics, for example)...

My apologies for my silliness and strange humor on my website's Hair pages; but, although here on the board I enjoy writing about more serious topics of discussion, in real life I enjoy being more of a goof-ball...

It also might help you to know that I happen to have a Master's degree in Procrastination, as well as am working on my doctorate thesis on "Sloth and How to Succeed at Maximum Waste of Time" -- which is not an easy thing at becoming a world-class "expert" in; but it's the one thing I can indeed be proud of "accomplishing" in my lifetime...

I hope that long-winded answer explains a little bit more about me -- and why it is unlikely that I will ever venture beyond writing here at MLHH!

Long Lox 4ever,
Ken

Tidying Medium-Length Hair
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President

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I'm an aspiring longhair.
My hair is in that awkward stage where it's too short to be in a single braid or ponytail, but too long to be comfortable. It's between 6 and 7 inches long and I don't want to cut it. Is there anything I can do apart from just waiting until it is long enough to tie back?

...by accident!

Only a little information on here, but all of it good and you could tell it was written by a longhair:

http://www.wikihow.com/Grow-Long-Hair-As-a-Guy

I'm Back x) [PIC]
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#18

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I can't quite remember what name used to be on here. Ex Blonde or something of that nature. I'm blonde again but my hair's long again too. It was cut short in 2007 and I've let grow and maintained it at shoulder length since. Now I plan on letting it grow as long as I can grow it, with maintenance trims of course.

Nice to see you guys again, if anyone remembers "Ex Blonde" lol.

Shoulder Length Hairstyles [PIC]
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Mikhael

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In another post someone suggested braiding at night for a fuller look. Since it is unlikely to braid my hair since I can not grow it long enough due to Wife/Family, it got me thinking on what other hair styles would look good on me with shoulder length hair.

So with the photo attached what recommendations would you have for hair styles with my face and build and hair texture that would look good on me?

I am willing to experiment a bit but I will avoid any style that requires hair dryers, irons, chemicals such as colors or perms and rollers. Trying to avoid any possible damage to hair.

In addition to a style would you recommend for my facial features a side part, a middle part, or a no part? Any other recommendations?

Thanks in advance,

Coram Deo,
Mikhael

Re. Newcomers
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Urban Cowboy

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Is it just me, or does it seem like a lot of recent newcomers just come to post their pics, receive a lot of helpful comments and/or compliments from many of us, and then just go away and disappear as quickly as they arrive?

It's also nice to hear a "thank you" once in awhile -- not that it has to be individual thank you replies (I realize that takes a lot of time); but at least a thank you to the whole group would be nice.

In fact, just for fun, I may not bother saying thank you to anyone who replies to this thread... (but, on second thought, then again that would be kind of rude, wouldn't it?)

Grrrrrrrrrrrr.

- Ken

Creatine and Hair Loss
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Devon

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Hey everyone. I've been working out for about 2 years now and was thinking of adding Creatine to my diet in addition to the protein shakes I usually take. However, I heard from people that Creatine causes hair loss. Has anyone here experienced this, or is it just a rumor?

Cultivating Your Inner Longhair
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Urban Cowboy

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Approximately 5 or so years a go I got a letter from an older gentleman who wanted to tell me that he admired my long hair, wished he could grow his own out; but "couldn't" (because of several different kinds of social pressures on him that would always be standing in his way).

His fears were many: he had a wife that just wouldn't understand, his grown daughter would think it too weird, his golfing buddies would be too critical and probably laugh at him, and his community and family in general just didn't approve of long hair on men.... And, in all fairness to this man, I'm sure that having been surrounded by this kind of negative anti-longhair thinking all of his life, I have no doubt that it must have felt like an impossible mountain to climb in order to ever succeed at growing his own hair out, -- especially with himself as his only supportive pro-longhair "friend" nearby!

But, this man had one powerful thing on his side that he probably had not seriously considered: Mother Nature!

FACT #1: Hair grows on its own -- only YOU have the power of decision to cut it or not cut it.
FACT #2: The hair on your own head is YOURS... you own it; only you and you alone have the yes/no power to do whatever you want with it.
FACT #3: The hair on your head is a part of your own personal body -- and therefore, your own personal decision as to what to do with it!

The facts I've just listed above means that all social pressures on a man that make him cave in to either cutting or keeping his hair short are.... SELF-IMPOSED pressures.

True, if I lived in Nazi Germany during Hitler's time, I might fear for my life if I tried to keep my hair really long back then; but other than in extreme examples like that, most men are freer to do as they wish with their own hair than they usually allow themselves to think. (This statement I've proved in my own experience, as it took me until age 40 to finally have the guts to grow my own hair out to ponytail-length.)

Since hair grows very slowly, people around you at first will not notice if your locks are increasing in their length, -- until it gets rather obvious, at least. Once they do notice, and if negative comments abound, critics will probably demand for an explanation...

You don't actually "owe" anybody an explanation; but if you're feeling generous and empathetic towards them, and would like to help them understand you a bit better about this issue, then my advise is to keep your explanation simple, like: tell them that you simply LIKE long hair, and that you've always wanted to try it! (There's nothing about that kind of statement that they can argue with!!!)

If they continue to make a lot of noise and nonsense about this "issue", then just politely excuse yourself from the table and tell these silly control-freaks that the discussion about your hair length is now OVER.

The ruder the people are who are trying to get you to cut your own hair, the more they are not worthy of being around your company.

I don't know about you; but for me, my time is too precious for me to spend it around rude, selfish, or very demanding people!

Over time, the people who truly love you for YOU will get used to your new look of having longer hair... It really should be no big deal -- it's just HAIR!!!

Stand tall, stay firm, and listen to your inner voice (rather than to all the noisy voices that are trying to force THEIR will upon you).... and don't forget to SMILE (because Mother Nature -- as well as lawyers all over the world -- on on YOUR side; not theirs)!

- Ken

Ok, that's it guys.

It's been 2 years since this picture and while I am pretty sure that I will grow my hair out again in the future for a third go around, for now, I am keeping it short.

That said, I am doing a bit of an experiment and not cutting it for six months until mid September. We'll assess it then.

Let me know your views on the short-haired me.

Dean

P.S. I am still a MASSIVE supporter of men having longhair and so please don't read my posts here as an attempt to encourage anyone to cut their hair, or discourage anyone from growing theirs out.
These postings are mainly for the people who remember me as ana ctive part of this wonderful community for many years.

want to cut it all off [PIC]
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brazjol

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I'm just sick of it. I can't seem to get a job, people refer to me as the "jesus-looking guy" or something equally stupid, I'm stereotyped as a drug user or a lazy/dirty person, and it only looks good right after a wash it and the rest of the time it looks bad. I'm just beginning to think I'd be overall better off without it.

here's a front picture. i had my last shave on 3rd December and am happy with the 4th month old beard which i will grow out for 12 months and see how it looks. i would like to request this new picture for my avatar to replace the old one which was taken ages ago.

duncan

http://img706.imageshack.us/img706/5231/superlonghair.jpg

I took that picture about a year ago. I cut my hair pretty short afterwards (I know) and so far this is what I've got.

http://img528.imageshack.us/i/1000868.jpg/

First post here[PICS]
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Raphael V.

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Hi,

I'm lurking here for a few months and i thought it was not correct for doing it so long. I'm a 18 years old french longhair(?).

Since i was a young child, i loved long hair and wanted to have long hair but i never did it because my hair were too curly. But, last summer, i said to myself "Stop! I can stand anymore!", i went to the hair-dresser and made a threatment to have less curly hair (yeah, i know it's bad and i planned to stop it when they weight would be suffisant to make them fall and look almost long when curled) and i didn't cut them. I didn't had cut my hair since a few month so i gess it's my first year of growing.

So i'm here not for the reason i mentionned but for a funny story wich happened to me. That night, i was walking in the port with a few friend When we saw two drunken people. Well, no problem we continued to walk. Then, on of them said : "One girl for three guys!? It's few! ... Oh wait, there's another!" One second passed and we understood he was talking of me because of my hair. We laughed and then i thought "I think it makes me a longhair.". So i came here and i posted that.

And it's not finished! I have a few pics to post here. I'm a little shy so i won't post (for now) my face in front. I'm sorry for the wrong angle but i didn't have a better way to do this. I didn't known how to post pics (i saw the uploading box below) so i posted links

http://img94.imageshack.us/img94/3589/052804.jpg

http://img340.imageshack.us/img340/6040/052907.jpg

http://img339.imageshack.us/img339/6274/053033.jpg

And i also have a question. What do you think of a half pony tail using only hair in your back. I thought it did a little girly so i didn't do it but i want to tie my hair and they are too short for that. I've taken a few pics :

http://img62.imageshack.us/img62/5240/053228.jpg

http://img638.imageshack.us/img638/9114/053313.jpg

Well, i didn't find better than that awful blue thing :p What do you think about that?

Concert Pic! [PIC]
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DarkMetal

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Hey all!

All you metalheads out there know Amon Amarth is currently touring the U.S.! Just thought Id share a pic of me while I was there I had an amazing time they were awesome! Big fan thats why I have bracers on :)

26th month hair update [PIC]
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Duncan

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here's a 26th month update. very happy with the progress and would like to grow to double the current length which is around 35 cm or 14 inches at present.

Hey all,

Well after a long, long, LONG relationship (over 13 years), I am finally single again. I won't bore you with the details but long story short, we were never right for each other to begin with and couldn't make it work.

A lot has changed in 13 years with regards to the dating scene, that much is certain. I'm 34 now and it's a TOTALLY different world than when I was 21. One big thing I find myself wondering is this -- does having long hair in and of itself turn away a noticeable number of women? I was hoping to get input from you guys, single or not, on how much positive female attention you get with your hair and what you've found to be the case when you've tried meeting them and starting relationships while having long hair.

I'm growing my mane for me, I'm never cutting it, and I don't care if that makes it more difficult for me to meet someone or not. I am curious though about what the situation in general might be and what to expect.

Your input (and experiences or stories) are appreciated! Thanks all.

April Update [PIC] [PIC]
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Element

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Hey all. I lurk all the time and enjoy everyone's posts but rarely post myself. Figured I would post a current hair pic taken just a couple hours ago. Thanks everyone!

AFTER CUT (April 2008) Pic 1 [PIC]
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Deanof316

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At my first Baesball game watching the Mets.

Well, what do you all think!?

Hair down and loose just BEFORE CUT [PIC]
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Deanof316

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I reached my waist length goal barely at 50months.

When my hair was pulled down (as it's wavy) it reached my wasit which I know is cheating a bit.

Still...I made it dammit!

Hello everyone! Hellow MLHH community!

It's been a while...

A long while!

For those who remember me, I was a frequent contributor to this community from 2003-2008. I was also a moderator and even bought one of the first MLHH shirts.
I was so devoted to this group of people.

Then, in January of 2008 I went off to Canada to pursue my dream of becoming a Professional Wrestler.
I spent 3 months in Calgary Alberta Canada, after that I went to New York for a month and cut my hair. What happened?

Let's begin with my HAIR!

From the age of 16 in 2000(especially being a massive METALhead, which I still am today!) I wanted to have long hair badly. After a few attempts that didn't go to plan, I started growing it out.

I reached just above mid-back length, when after intense pressure from my mom (the most wonderful mother ever, but also a scissor happy hairdresser!) I cut my hair in September 2003, after 29months.

Then in February 2004, just b4 my 20th b'day, I decided to get back in the hair game and continue what I had started.

A few trims aside, it was not until April 2008 that I cut my hair off... 50 months!
And I had reached mid-back length when dry, to my waist (my goal) when pulled and wet.
(Don't worry I'll post pictures later! :)

So why the cut? The first time was basically forced, but the 2nd was my choice....for the most part.

You see in Pro Wrestling there is a time honoured tradition of the guys playing pranks ('ribs') on each other.
One particular prank came at the end of the training but went way too far.

Basically, in the middle of the night, 3 former student of my Pro Wrestling coach and the three fellow students I was living with in Calgary decided to play a 'rib' on me.
They came into my room and tried to duct tape me. Straight away I knew it was a joke (and not a home invasion!) because one of them was wearing a clown mask (and they knew I was afraid of clowns) but still...I DON'T LET NO ONE TIE ME UP. So i fought back with a vengeance, and they didn't expect that. It took 3 guys about 5min to get me to stop struggling, but I only stopped fighting because they put the tape all around my ahir and I knew what that meant....

I had a shower and yup...my hair was stuck to the tape! I used a whole bottle of conditioner and spent like 20minutes in there, but to no avail. I eventually had to rip my hair out :(

Afterwards you couldn't see that I'd lost a lot of hair, but I could see it and furthermore, I could feel it.
I also felt like I'd had my power taken away and had been tied up because my hair forced me to be (but don't worry, once i was tied up, that was the end of the rib).

So with that said, for the first time in over 7 years I found myself wanting to have short hair. I spent a month thinking about it, but after the first week I knew I was going to do it.

Eventually in April 2008, I went to 'Bumble & Bumble' in Manhattan and got it all cut off.
To be honest I actually enjoyed the experience, because even though the rib had set things in motion, my decision to cut this time was mine in the end.

Since then, I have come back to Sydney, graduated from University, worked as a Personal Trainer in a gym and am now running my own outdoors Personal Training business (GetaGripPersonalTraining.com.au).
Also, I/Dean Devastation have/has no plans to continue with Pro Wrestling, aside from watching it.

I still love Metal and plan to grow my hair again in the future, even though i probably shouldnt as short hair is identified with my profession and I need to build up my client base.

Finally, let me say that I AM SORRY.
Sorry for not coming back on here sooner and telling you all what was happening with me. At first there was the Wrestling camp excitement and limited Internet, then came the rib and my intention to cut my hair, by then 4 months had gone by and I felt badly about cutting my hair without saying anything here first.

But I had (hopefully 'have') friends here and I should have let y'all know that I hadnt dropped off the face of the earth.
A few people have found me on Facebook though which is nice, still...I'm sorry guys.

But I'm alive and well and even if I don't post on here as much as I used to, I hope you'll all welcome me back.

Best,

Dean

Question and Photo [PIC]
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Mikhael

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Hello all again,

What can I do organically and naturally for limp and flat hair? It has been amazing to me how many people have come to me and say, wow, I have never seen such straight and flat hair.. So, what can I use to give it volume with a fuller look? Organically and Naturally of course..

So what is my routine?

Pretty much what I do for it now it I wash it with a very mild tea tree oil shampoo about once week or unless extremely dirty.

I then use a conditioner hair rinse that is organic/natural with jojoba oil, coconut oil, tea tree oil, and a few others during the rest of the week.

I then use a leave in conditioner that I made from diluting the above conditioner 2 tablespoons to 6 ounces of distilled water. that I spray in after shower.

I deep condition once or sometimes twice a week depending on the feel of the hair with either pure coconut oil or pure jojoba oil lightly heated and head wrapped with warm towel for 2 or 3 hours at night and sometimes sleep all night and wash out in the morning.

I also use pure Jasmine oil in the morning for the softening affect of said oil.

I use a detangler comb after the shower very carefully and brush with a boars head brush after hair dried on it's own.

I am now wearing the hair in a pony tail during the day..

No chemical, no commercial stuff, and no appliances such as iron or hair dryer.

So thats it...

Except one more question.... After using coconut oil and jojoba oil especially after a deep condition how do I not make the hair look so oily... :)

So here is my updated photo from just last month (March of 2010)... It does not look so flat in the picture due to the wind that was blowing that day in Annapolis. It is normally a lot flatter.

Mikhael

Introducing Deryll (and his hair!!) [PIC]
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Deryll Cunningham

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Hey guys, my name is Deryll Cunningham, and I'm a man with long hair! I've been working on my hair for almost 18 months, but I just discovered the site and you guys inspired me to post. I know I have a pretty fancy look in this pic lol, but usually I just let it hang, unless I'm trying to impress the ladies. ;)
I haven't cut my hair in over a year and I hope that it eventually grows past my back so I can do more with it. Nothing is a show stopper like the beehive, am I right guys?
Hope to see some adventurous hairstyles on you guys soon, it's not good to be stuck in a long hair rut, lol!

Does bumping your head kill/damage follicles?
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EdwardNorth

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Hey all,

Dumb question I know, but I smacked the top of my head on a cabinet pretty hard today and have a nice bump on it now. I was wondering if this kind of thing will damage or kill hair follicles? I don't need to lose any hair in this spot!!

Thanks all.

Thanks [PIC]
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Seishinkai

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I finally had someone mention me as "the long haired guy" today at work. At last. And it is all thanks to the support of MLHH. Too bad this internet thingy didn't exist when I was in high school...

So, thanks to ALL for the support!

It's me [PIC]
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Alex122333

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It's me.

Sock Bun [PIC]
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Jann

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This might not be for everyone, but I just discovered something called a "sock bun." A couple of weeks ago, I saw a flight attendant on an airplane with her hair in a perfect, round bun. I asked her how she managed to makes such a perfect bun and she said it was a sock bun. So when I got home I searched on YouTube for "how to make a sock bun." There are several videos explaining how to make one. There are a couple of difference techniques. Here is a pic of my hair in a sock bun, taken yesterday. All it requires is a ponytail elastic and a sock with the end cut off. That's it -- no hairpins or anything. It feels very comfortable, by the way.

2 years! [PIC]
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Charlie M

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Well it's now been 2 years since my last cut, which was from about 12 cm down to a mere 2-3 cm. I've had marvellous re-growth in the past couple years and plan to keep going for a long time :)

-Charlie M

Desert MeetUp [PIC]
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White Tail

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Well, after years and years of "near misses", our eminent Bill C. (grin) and 'ol(really old) White Tail, finally got to meet. Of course, we are now both so old and feeble, we forgot to take photos (sigh)...the attached cartoon gives an idea of what it was like with two old fossils sharing a couple of "the Tail's" famous hats ! Ha!

Serious, Bill, Larry and I had the most delightful visit and conversation over Easter Dinner in beautiful downtown Beatty, Nevada. Wonderful folks and it was my privilege to visit with them...

My Site
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Jason

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Hi Guys,

I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about my hair history site. I've only updated it once in the last six months and just don't have as much interest in it anymore as my hair's growth has slowed a lot. It has grown some since my last trim in July and I'll post an update at some point but the month to month excitement of posting new photos has disappeared.

I'm also not thrilled with paying a monthly fee to maintain a site I'm not updating much. I have gotten considerable feedback over the years, mostly positive, about the site and how it's helped motivate both men and women on their long hair journeys. I've certainly enjoyed maintaining it over the years. It's been a very long journey dating back to 2001 when I first created it and had a couple of growth journeys to only long bangs instead of long hair everywhere. My current journey started in January 2004 and I haven't looked back.

It's currently paid through the end of next month so I won't close it for at least a couple of weeks if any are interested in looking through it again before it is closed. Thanks a lot guys for your interest and support over the years!

Here is the link to it:

I think I look pretty good here (for all those people in my life who say "You look so much better with short hair" grrrr-even though I know it's meant as a compliment-rrrrrrrrr)

Maybe even Duncan Mcloud (of HIglander the TV series fame) esque?

One of my favourite pictures and one that still inspires me when I see a shorthaired man in the mirror now.

One day I will grow out my hair long (mid-back and beyond) again, and this pictures helps to remind me why.

Guess It's My Turn Now [PICS]
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ATP

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I liked the lighting in this one. Makes me feel like I radiate sunlight. LMAO.

***

My haircare routine hasn't really changed. I shampoo/condition every other day. Sometimes every 2 days. I use Head and Shoulders 2 in 1.

I generally don't brush my hair thoroughly for I don't have the time each morning before work, and I feel it takes the life out of my hair. Besides, I "bun it up" for work.

However, I was inclined to try again, and I guess the key is to know when to stop brushing.

I let it airdry and finger comb for the most part.

Though 95% of the time I have it up in a bun.

I get the urge to shave my beard, though I know I will regret it as soon as I do. Perhaps I just want to trim it more than I do now.

It's weird. If my hair is tied back and there's an illusion of short hair, then I feel I look great with the beard.

But when my hair is loose, meh. LOL

Longhairs spotted at NYC Auto Show [PIC]
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Hairball

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Well yesterday I was at the Auto Show in NYC and what a pleasure it was to see a fair amount of longhairs in attendance:)Unfortunately longhairs move very fast and with the crowds it was difficult getting in the amount of pics I'd like to have taken of them.However I did capture two of this one guy's beautiful mane!Note the guy wearing the black cap. Cheers

Mark

April update of my long hair
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Dusk

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Hi guys,

on tuesday I made it 3 weeks without washing. I think it's really oily now but I don't have to get out so no worrying.

My hair is now next to the mid of my butt and I really think I'm going to get classical length at the end of the year.

Regards

I guess it's about time for a recent... [PIC]
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Urban Cowboy

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For once, I'll NOT flap my mouth in the breeze and bore everyone with my mega-comments, proving that once in a rare while I can avoid being as long-winded as I usually am!

Here's me as a "flasher" (thank goodness it's only G-rated - LOL)....

- Ken

15 Month Update [PIC]
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Dan H.

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Hello all!

First, I apologize for not contributing to the board much since my last update (if any of you actually remember me, haha!) I just don't want to be one of those guys who just posts update pictures expecting praise but not giving anything in return. I'll try to get back in the habit of posting replying to posts again.

Now that that's out of the way, here are my ~15 month progress photos. No trims so far, just letting the hair take its natural course. I can make a decent tail now but a small portion of my bangs still won't reach the hair tie. Now I'm eagerly awaiting shoulder length and a full ponytail!

Goal length is terminal, as I tend to be an all-or-nothing kind of guy, haha. I believe that the natural hair length set by genetics is the length that suits each individual person the best.

-Dan H.

29th month Update [PIC]
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AgentXXL

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Hey Guys!!

Just thought I would post a new pic. Mid March, I reached 29 months in my longhair exprience. I've noticed a lot of shedding. Finding hair and hairballs all over the place. Maybe I see it more, since my hair is longer. What is the norm on shedding?

Back on the job with Radio Shack. Was out for 4 months due to surgery to remove tumor in my lower spine. No cancer. Working and standing is taking some getting use to.

Just in case you didn't see it, I'm re-posting a link to my YouTube video, showing the last two years of hair growth.

Anybody else growing their hair out feel that way? my first goal was mid back, then I decided lower back now I want waist/butt length, but I think thats my ultimate goal of my hair barely touching my ass lol and also now im growing a small goatee ill see if ill stick with a little facial hair for my next update

Happy Easter
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Birdman

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Happy Easter everybody.
I wish i had an Easter present for you all, but I don't have one at the moment.

Happy Easter Everyone!

Birdman

Braiding Update [PIC]
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Vargen

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Hello Everyone!

Last post I promised to start braiding, and some of you wanted to see some pictures of that. So here it is, my first OK-looking braid, a simple 3-strand. Still kind of rough, but some more practice will fix that, hopefully. I'm not used to working behind my head and my arms get tired. It is really fun though.

Other than braiding during the weekend, I have also read this board. Seeing people post about their sites inspired me to make one of my own (hurrah for free blog providers). I'll primarily be posting the different hairstyles I'm going to try out, so drop by if you feel like it, link is below.

//Sebasthian

[O/T] After the NJ flood... [PIC]
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LinuxLonghair

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This morning I found a 6 ft long alligator prowling around on the street in front of my house - in central New Jersey. As far as I know alligators don't live this far to the North. So one of the following explanations is most likely:

1) The critter was somebody's pet and its owner let it loose when it grew too big

2) The house where it was kept was flooded and the alligator escaped

3) The climate in my area got warm enough for the alligators to live here, despite the snowstorms that hit us this winter

I had to call the police and they got the animal control people to capture the alligator.

--
A Linux Longhair

Detangling hair longer than shoulder length
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Ryan B.

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Right now my hair is a bit past shoulder length and soon I will no longer be able to reach and detangle the ends the way I usually have (by raising my arm so that my elbow is directly horizontal from my head and fingercombing downward at the ends.

I am wondering how you guys with longer hair detangle your hair. The only method of detangling that works for me is finger detangling. Do you tuck your arm behind your back and comb downwards? This seems the most plausible way to me.

Just curious how it works for you guys.

Sometime in summer I will be posting an update picture since my hair will then be significantly longer than it was last time I posted a picture (November).

John posted this question a few days ago, but I haven't visited in a few days, so here goes...

His question: "Oh yeah, about the don't sleep on your hair comment. Its too short to worry right now, but I have been wondering when it gets that length where my rolling in my sleep could be bad whats a good way to restrain it without driving me nuts for trying to sleep?"

My method is a segmented ponytail, using some fairly loose fabric hair-ties (similar to the "scrunchies" many women use). These hair-ties fit a bit looser than the ones I use during the day, which (for me) makes them perfect for sleeping on. When I've used my standard hair-ties I found the tighter fit tended to pull on my scalp and/or make a more rigid lump under my back if I laid on the tail.

Frodo

Hair Care Products . . .
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Danny7x7

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Hi Guys!

long time since i've posted on here. I fell off the wagon and chopped my hair for a job (that didn't last anyway *sigh*) but I am back again, been growing my hair out for almost 1 year now. I'll post pics at my one year mark which is at the end of April.

anyway! I just wanted to share something that I thought you all might like if you're not aware of it/not tried it. It's this really awesome stuff called Silk Treatment by CHI. It does make the hair softer and seem a bit healthier, at least to the touch. My only gripe is the cost. I did find a way around that though, if there's a costco in your area, hit them up for this, it is usually like $25 at the store but at costco they have it for $10 ;) Needless to say I was stoked! Also, I wanted to know if you guys had heard of or tried anything comperable/better? Best wishes to you all!

Danny

37 months with Braid [PIC]
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MarkS

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My first braid, my friend did it for me what you think?

spring styles
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Gudmundur

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i've been playing around with fashion lately and wanted to post some recent adventures.

as far as hair goes, this spring is definitely all about the braid. i started out with a braid like this but lately have been favoring instead to make a very loose braid starting from the top of the head, which creates a lot of volume and savagery.

i've also been playing with hairspray with the shorter bits. i'm not too worried about damage in these areas because it can easily be trimmed as it grows out and never plan to use the stuff on any longer hairs.

for a night look i have been toying with synthetic hairpieces as add-ons.

General haircare
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John Bickers

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So I keep coming across stories from this site and others of longhairs with a similar story.
"i just discovered (random haircare technique) the other day, i cant believe i never did this before, think of the years of damage its caused!"

It seems guys tend to ask for a lot less instruction with growing their hair out and miss a lot of the basics. So I'm gonna throw out in the open what I've learned and I'd like some input, to either verify or dispute. Because I love my hair :)

1. Wash it infrequently as your scalps natural oils protect your hair much better than constant shampoo and conditioner.

my comment: I've noticed as I am currently in the 6inch/15cm length, the daily washing thing isn't really needed, I of course still shower daily but i leave my head for every 3rd day at the moment.

2. Wash it with cold water, Now I was told that hot water opens up our hair, allowing the moisture to leave faster and so we end up with dryer hair that splits more commonly. Where as the cold water shuts our hair more, locking in the pigments and the moisture. so it preserves color too?

My comment: I have trouble with cold showers, I'm all about the steamy hot shower, So I've been showering it warm, but at the end rinsing it with super cold water. I can notice a measurable difference in the overly softness of my hair when i cold wash it as oppose to when i always warm washed it.

3. Never Brush it wet, Yeah this one was a no brainer, I asked myself why then i laid the brush on my freshly combed wet head and attempted to move it 1cm, wouldn't budge. I've yet to brush it wet but it sure sounds like a dangerous path

4. Shampoo the scalp (also because shampoo is designed to lift oil, we want less focus on the hair with it) and condition the hair, as conditioner is just softer, has something to do with moisturizing.

5. boars bristle brushes are a treat, the scalp massage I get from one is heavenly, apparently that scalp stimulation also promotes the production of our natural oils, as well as since the brush is made of hair too, it does a great job of spreading the oils evenly from root to tip. Some arguments I've found state that it cleans your hair better than shampooing and conditioning, to the point where some people intentionally don't wash it

comments: ok, makes sense stiffer hair guiding softer hair into place and distributing oils easier because it is the same hair that normally has the oils anyways. But what I'm confused on is how damaging it is, some people have told me it can cause a ton of split ends with overuse. I tend to do my brushing once when I wake up to put things in place, and once before bed to make sure everything is free and clean.

6. combing, use this for removing tangles (comb strokes should be root to tip, however short strokes, and start from the tip and work your way to the roots to de-tangle without ripping

comments: does it do anything for spreading oils like the boars brush?

7. restraints: never ever ever ever use rubber bands, they break hair, use common sense and the stuff you'd find at the hair section of a department store, surprisingly enough there arent that many feminine things in that aisle, sure theres some pinks and purples and bright colors, but the majority of clips, bands, and everything else are all hair color shades.

So this is the collection of advice i've been given since I started my journey. sources are people like friends wives, my sister, my mom, surprisingly enough even my father who I never guessed because he started balding in his 30s (being native american apparently all the men in my family have been proud of their long braids at one point or another).

If you have any input Please share! I want to know the long terms of these kinds of hair care tips, and I want new suggestions, and maybe a few stories along the way :)

The Consequences of Becoming a Longhair
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

Here are some thoughts rolling around in my head recently re. the results of becoming a longhair. Feel free to discuss, agree / disagree, throw tomatoes at me, etc....

OK, take an average-looking man with an average-looking short male haircut, and you'll find him to be a guy who can easily blend into a crowd. Now take that same man with 2 or 3 years of added hair growth, and he'll no longer be able to "blend in" as easily. He'll suddenly be more noticeable, more distinctive-looking, more remarkable, and more memorable to others (both for better or for worse, depending on other's opinions about long hair on men).

Now take an unusually good-looking man, and compare the short-haired version with the longhaired one. Suddenly this same man will become even MORE striking to look at, standing out in a crowd as "exotic"- looking, etc.

Now take an UGLY looking guy.... With short hair, most people will secretly feel sorry for him that Mother Nature skipped over him so badly; but, add some long hair onto this same guy, and suddenly he becomes more frightening, more intimidating to look at, and even UGLIER (prime example: just look at me! - LOL)....

A longhaired criminal will get caught quicker by the police because of their inability to hide in public as well as a short-haired criminal. A long-haired saint will get even more attention re. all their good deeds simply because of also being more unusual to look at. In other words, whether for better or for worse, the longhaired man will get more attention, be more memorable, and will stand out in a crowd. Even in my own experience I've been told by several dance partners that when they are looking for me on a crowded dance floor, they look for my long ponytail or braid -- and whenever I've tucked my hair up under a cowboy hat or baseball cap, they complain of having trouble finding me!

Some guys like all this attention (although in my own case, it was never the thing that motivated me to grow my own hair out). Other guys find it part of the challenge to have to deal with during their awkward stages experience, and that it's one of the more difficult aspects of becoming a longhair that takes some time to adjust to.

"If you don't like the heat, stay out of the kitchen!" -- as the old saying goes...

OK, bring on the tomatoes!

- Ken

and heres my new long hair website!
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MarkS

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http://markthyknight.moonfruit.com/#

Happy equinox....equinox!
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John.B

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Yes it's here again...happy equinox...equiniox!

We look forward to new spring library of updated pictues!

Now I'm off to say hello to a stone!

Cheers,

John.B

Hello MLHH! [PIC]
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Vargen

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Hi everybody!

I've been lurking for a while, and feel it is time to make a post.

Short intro:
My name is Sebasthian, I'm 20 and Swedish. I found this board when searching for a way to trim my hair to make it easier to handle. I have since decided not trim it and instead try out some of the various advise that can be found here and through the links section.

My hair is currently ~45cm long, and I'll let it grow a bit more, without a set goal length though. I've been growing it for just over four years, and am very pleased with that.

This board seems to be inhabited by a nice bunch of people. You have encouraged me to start experimenting more with my hair and try out new things. Next up is braiding, so please wish me luck!

//Sebasthian

Hello I'm still alive ! [PIC]
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François

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Hello,
I'm posting to let you know i'm still alive and still lurking.
I have been growing a beard since i'm 20 (December the 2nd) so it has been 3 month and a half of beard growth !
I don't know if i'm going to let it grow, or if i style it.
So far i only trimed my mustache cause it would go into my mouth.

Have a nice day.

François.

My friend.. [PIC]
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Charlie M

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Just thought I'd post a picture of one of my many longhaired friends whose hair I admire. I'll post some more soon as I find them on the computer

-Charlie M

LOVE LONG HAIR ON MEN [PIC]
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VampyreBarbie

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I am teased about it often, as all my friends and family say high and tight is the way to go.

No thanks. I was raised in the 70s (and 80s... shhh) and Long Haired Men were all over the telly, here in California, and no doubt all over the US and other countries. Plenty of long haired men in real life, thankfully, too.

I have one rule (well more than one, but the initial one is) the man must have long hair. Made the mistake 2 times, dating short haired men, seemed to me, they were too darn uptight. High and tight, I think I get it now.

YAY for those men that have long hair.

Hair Goal In Site [PIC]
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Tuckergeek

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It's been about 4ish yrs. since I started my Hair Journey and I've about reached my goal. I'm thinkin a couple more inches in the back is about all I can manage. It is alread getting tugged and pinched between the back of my wheelchair and shoulder blades. A ponytair helps, but I prefer to wear it free.
Well, Let It Grow & Flow!

Frank

New longhair [PIC]
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John Bickers

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Hey everyone, I'm a bit of a shy guy here so you probably won't catch me posting much. Figured I'd say that I've been enjoying everyones tips along the way as they've been very useful.

My lifelong concern for growing my hair out was always the whole society rejecting me thing. But as time went on I found my own path and realized that society can go worry about itself, but didn't until recently realize what truly made me happy and to be complete, and that was to let my hair be natural, to be myself.

I forget the last haircut, but I consciously made the decision mid summer of 2009 to stop cutting my hair. here are some progression pics as big old hello and a show of progress for how I've managed the awkward stage :)

I'm only attaching one pic of my goofy mug on here, but for the progression pics you can check my mobileme gallery
http://gallery.me.com/jrbickers/100087

Although only 4 of you left a message in a thread way down, I am truly happy that at least some of you still remember me.

I am no longer a regular poster on this board. No particular reason, just a personal choice to become a lurker here. But I am happy to see many guys all over the world are beginning to grow their hair long and be proud of it. I am continually inspired by both men and ladies who post their progress pics here. It is through your sharing of your journey, that encourages and pushes people on to grow their hair.

Take care guys, and thanks for your subscriptions. Do check back on my channel for updates :).

Hello again and hi to the newcomers [PIC]
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swiss longhair

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Hey, I'm back :)

After my trip through California, Nevada and Arizona (more than a year ago, some of you might remember some of my posts) I was so much sunken into work (and other troubles) that i never made it back here again. I used to lurk once in a time. More and more recently and now I thought it's time to join the community again.

It's so cool to see all the new members starting to grow their hair out or showing their already georgios manes.

Here I need to say something which might have been a reason to not to join the discussions here any more.
For me, this is a board of people admiring and loving to have long hair. For me, being a longhair is (among thousands of other reasons, like loving the look, the feeling, ...) showing that I am different, that I don't act to the rules/standards just because they are there... But I expect to be respected and I think this is very much so in my environment.

I often try to read between the lines written here and very often I find that we longhairs miss tolerance (respect) from the 'non-longhaired' community. Just remember the threads about work discrimination but also the threads about how to react to some comments of other people about long hair.
But sometimes I became more and more frustrated about the intolerance of some members here. One example that comes to my mind (if I remember correctly) is how João David has been attacked for only wanting to get applause for his hair. I might have missed it but I've not found an update from him since this discussion happened.
Hey, we love long hair and most of us enjoy seeing beautyful long hair, not???
Another thing that ennoyed me was the never ending story about trims or not. Hey, what the h... does that matter?

Anyways, these are some of the things that I needed to get mentioned before I rejoin again :)
I am very glad to be (a very minor) part of it again.

Btw. I took that picture of me in the elevator because I thought it might stimulate Justin to do some more 'magic' :))

Hope I did not bother you guys too much with this post...

-- tom

Update! [PIC]
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Luke

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Hey MLHH! I hope you are all doing well.

Well, today is my birthday. I am now 17, and I thought today is as good a day as any to post an update, so here is my hair as of today. Sorry if the quality sucks, all I have is a webcam.

All comments appreciated.
Luke.

Hi guys,

is there somebody here who knows the natural cosmetics brand "Earthly delight"? It's a small company that sells their product in shops like "Willmer".
I would love to test it out but I'm not able to buy it. Would someone be able to buy a bottle of conditioner and shampoo and send it over to me to Germany?

Regards

milestone? [PIC]
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kubanpanzer

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hello everyone, few of you will remember me, its been ages since i havent posted, but at least i have kept myself up to date with the board doings.. its been around 13 months, probably a bit more since i paid the last ramsom to the much hated barber and im much happy with the results, i am planning to let it grow to mid year or even the fall season before doing anything to it, or styling it in any way. but so far, I am happy with it. is it a milestone when u grow tired of so much hair in your face? because i am, my bangs reach all the way to my jawbone but with the curling, they retract to about the lips, which is really frustrating because they ith like a mother. I could tie them in a ponytail, but theyre not long enough to be grabbed by a tying at the base of my neck where is the only place id do it... im not a fan of high ponytails for men.. no big deal, ive had problems worse than this and i know by now the only solution is to wait it out and not to worry so much.. so this is more like a hello than a "Im desesperate" but still .. sucks... I include a pic for u guys to see where I am, that was a month ago... but im not counting fractions of an inch anymore.. haha peace out!

http://i437.photobucket.com/albums/qq100/RickAP/IMG_1783.jpg

11 Month update [PIC]
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Highlander

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Hi-

Wanted to post an updated photo. 11 months ago I had a buzcut, growing out well now. I plan to get to shoulders and wear a tail. Appreciate all the cool threads to keep me going in the earliest months!

Interesting comments
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JSFrodo

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Went to a waterpark at the Great Wolf Lodge in Williamsburg, VA this weekend with my family and some friends. While I was waiting in line for one of the waterslides, one of the lifeguards (a guy) passed me and said he liked my hair. I thanked him, and he told me something I'd never heard before. He said the native Hawaiians believed that we carry our knowledge in our hair, and then said, "You're a very wise man".

Frodo

The difference between longhaired men and women...
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

No, this is NOT a thread about male and female anatomy -- I'm sure all of us here already know how to identify male and female "differences" in THAT way (LOL)....

What I'm talking about here is how longhaired men and longhaired women see the world a bit differently -- socially, emotionally, and psychologically.

I mostly am only able to speak from a basic "modern" Western Society point of view (I know very little about Far Eastern or Middle Eastern Societies, other than the fact that originally a lot of the early Chinese immigrants who came to California during the Gold Rush era had arrived from the "old country" wearing their hair in long braids)...

Historically-speaking, it has always been far more socially acceptable for women to have long hair than for men. Other than intermittent periods of time within the last 100-plus years or so, long hair on women has been traditionally socially ENCOURAGED, while long hair on men has usually been traditionally viewed as, "odd!"

Even from a very early age, men are often raised with many limiting thoughts put into their heads about how their hair should be, such as: 1) a man's hair should always be at a "practical" length (in other words, SHORT!); 2) a man should not indulge himself in any self-centered, unnecessary amount of time fussing over their body or physical appearance (and hence, long hair on a man would require him to "fuss" too much); 3) since traditionally within standard heterosexual marriages, the burden of going out and earning enough money for a family fell on the shoulders of the man, rather than the woman, this usually also meant that the woman was free to stay at home to be the one to grow the impractical, luxuriously long & beautiful hair -- but the man had too much responsibility on his shoulders to ever indulge in such a "selfish" pursuit of growing his own hair out....

I hope you all know that I am NOT voicing my own opinions, above; but am simply stating views that are commonly held in Western Society that explain why long hair on men is so frequently discouraged in a man's family and in their community.

Conversely, long hair on a female is usually a non-issue.

Also, I'd like to walk out on the risky plank one step further by also stating that I feel there's a difference between the main reason for a man growing out his hair VS the reasons most women grow their hair long. Although generalizations are generally-speaking, bad; for the sake of making my point, I'm going to be general, anyway (LOL)....

OK, so here's my theory about the difference between male and female long-haired people:
When women decide to grow their hair long, it is usually based on a desire to LOOK a certain way (their thoughts are more based on fashion and/or their personal sense of style for themselves looking as feminine and/or as beautiful as possible).
Conversely, I believe that most men who decide to grow their hair long do so more based on how it makes them FEEL.

There are always exceptions to the above-mentioned generalizations, of course. For example: if a guy is a struggling musician, and his band that he plays in recommends that he grow his hair out in order to better look the part of a cool rocker dude, this sort of guy will temporarily decide to become a longhair. However, since he never really thought of the idea of having long hair himself, if his band were to break up and he then has to go out looking for a day job, most likely he'll gladly cut off his locks in order to go out on job interviews (and maybe even not miss his long hair one bit for ever after).

Some long-haired women I'm sure are also "exceptions to the rule"... I know of one woman friend of mine who has had long hair all of her life, only cutting it as short as shoulder-length just once in her lifetime -- and she told me how she just didn't "feel right" or feel like herself until her hair grow back to its former length again...

Anyway, I've babbled on for long enough! Now it's time for any of you who wish to put in your $.02 to speak up and even tell me I'm crazy, if you so wish (not that I don't already know THAT already - LOL)....

Thanks for reading!

- Ken in San Francisco

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Jackson Kang

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Hello there amazing long haired people :)

1st of all let me give you a brief surface introduction about me.
i'm born a chinese in the country Malaysia and think i'm one of the few 'asian' ppl that have seen or joined this site.I have been following this site for some time now and was reluctant to post any thread at 1st due to my shy nature.

It made me felt encouraged about growing my hair out everytime someone else post a new thread here.I have to admit i felt a sense of belonging here.Though my country is of a mix ethnicity,chinese indian and malays,long hair on man is scarce and even revolted by certain people.I'm sure it is the same for anywhere.

that aside,now about my hair.i have been growing it out for almost a year now since shaved length.It wasn't my choice to be shaved either.My goal length is until my hips.

hope to hear more from you people :)

3 Months Growth (Pics)
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KevinV

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I decided to post some pics since that seems to be the norm here. My hair isn't long by any means, only longer than it was 3 months ago. I've worn a very short hair cut for the last 24 years and decided to make a change. I hadn't planned to post any pics until the 6 month mark. I'll post one then as well in another 3 months.

These are before and after photos of buzzed sides and back to 3 months growth...

Ground Zero...

3 months growth, taken at the local music festival yesterday...

Six months! [PIC] [PIC]
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Will

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Wasn't intending to grow my hair out again initially, but I have decided to anyways. Haven't cut my hair in six months, luckily my hair grows very fast. Last haircut my bangs were about halfway down my forehead. Low quality webcam photo from yesterday, on only two hours asleep. Nevertheless! :D

My hair is so thin and light...
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EdwardNorth

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...that even walking indoors in still air blows it all over the place and makes it stick out sideways... Is this normal? What's the solution? I can't keep it secured or styled no matter what I do.

It's almost at my shoulders now, but when it gets a lot longer (like halfway down my back) will moving air not mess it up as much?

Sometimes my head literally looks like that creature from Jurassic Park when I walk, the one with the big gills that stick out from the sides of its head. It rises up and sticks out that much!

Just looking for a little positive reinforcement my friends. It's very frustrating. Despite my high hairline I have a full hair of head. Why does it have to be so horribly THIN?!

Good Walter ! [PIC]
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White Tail

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Good Walter

For being such a good boy in Iowa, I bought myself some (way overdue...)new wheels in Des Moines and am driving back (I'm "enjoying" a blizzard in Denver tonight). Subaru Outback with all the bells & whistles.

To keep this slightly on topic: Does the name "Gandalf" (the Gray..long-haired wizard) sound right for this vehicle??

First, a bit of an introduction:

My name is Caleb, and I'm currently a college student in Louisiana.

Throughout high school, I've always fluctuated between a relatively medium length side-swoop hairstyle (as much as I hate to compare it like this, think of typical teen boy-bands hairstyles) and buzzing it (simply for convenience).

Not too long ago, I decided to continue growing out my hair (was already at medium length) so that I could donate it to what I thought to be a worthy cause at the time: L.O.L. A few months later (unsure of how long it's been), I stumbled on some interesting articles on various internet pages about the practices of L.O.L.

Since then, I've decided to grow out my hair just because I've never had it long, and I think I would enjoy it.

Now, onto the meat of this post:

How am I supposed to style my hair to keep it decent and out of my face while it's growing out? Right now I look like 'it' from the Addams Family, and my only counter to it is to constantly wear a beanie cap. I don't like putting product into my hair at all, other than conditioner and the occasional shampoo.

Also, I'll follow-up with a picture of my hair just hanging with no cap.

(I already looked through many posts to see if any contained tips such as this before posting, so I apologize if this is a standard/annoying question. I think I'm safe though; it's not in the RAQ.)

Big Hair
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KevinV

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I'm now about 3 months into it and my hair is so thick that it's tough to manage sometimes...lots of volume and height I'd rather do without. I think a little natural thinning to accompany the gray's would have been optimal. I'm not entertaining the thought of a trim, but dang, it just seems so thick.

Looking forward to tomorrow's vinegar/water rinse...those feel so good.

Bad Walter !! [PIC]
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White Tail

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Bad Walter !!

Two months of snow, sleet, humidity, drilling mud, hydraulic fluid, etcÂ…..little shampoo, no conditioningÂ….no grooming whatsoeverÂ…..

Headed home (IÂ’m in Denver tonight) for a much needed desert defrizz !!

I miss my desertÂ….I miss my olive oil conditioningÂ….I miss my Aussie Hat !!

Hair Band [PIC]
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Rudy

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Just wondering - around where I live I have seen more and more guys with hair not yet shoulder length, or long in front and not probably quite long enough to ponytail, wearing Alice bands in their hair. I am not quite sure what they are called. See picture below.

Do you see many guys sporting these around where you live?

Rudy

So here is a recent pic of me=)
My hair is just about 5 inches. But it has a lot of layers so it appears longer than it really is.
Notice my mullet layer in the back!

Short story: Take this serously:
When I was living at home I wasn't allowed to have longer hair than this. I had a Beatles hairstyle as a kid. I have come to this length 3 times before in my life. Getting to shoulder lenght, cutting it, Getting to shoulder lenght, cutting it, you know how it goes. Always getting stuck in the evil scissors.
Reasons were:
1. My short haired father forced me to cut it.
2. Love: When I was 17 I was together with a girl whose strict parents forced me to cut it, if I was gonna keep seeing her. So I did. We had a 16 month relationship.
3 Summer 2009, Prior going to a job interview. I didn't get the job anyway. Been growing it out since then....

Nowadays my father accepts my hair, so that isn't a problem anymore. I've had my own place for 4 years.
Yeah and my mom always keep telling me that I look so good in this length I have now, and I should keep it this way.

Recently my insecurity has coming back to me. I always has it at this length... I dream of long hair. I like the feel of long hair. But Im not a rocker, a biker, a hippie or a bum. People are gonna stereotype me and put me in these categories. And Everyone keeps telling me how good I look in short hair and so on... My mind feels so split.

I need some courage and strength. This is a critical point for me.

All support is greatly appreciated!

// Jim

Bad Walter !!
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Whait Tail

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Bad Walter !!
Two months of snow, sleet, humidity, drilling mud, hydraulic fluid, etcÂ…little shampoo, no conditioningÂ….no grooming whatsoeverÂ…

Headed home (IÂ’m in Denver tonight) for a much needed Desert Defrizz !!

I miss my desertÂ…
I miss my olive oil conditioningÂ…
I miss my Aussie Hat !!

Quasi-update
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JSFrodo

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For Ken, Paul, Walter and John, who responded to my recent post with comments about me being absent for a while...

First, thanks for your comments. However, in actual fact I've been around, popping in every few days or so, just haven't had much to say. I haven't chimed in on many of the update posts because I usually find them a few days after they get posted and they've already started sliding "down" the board, and by then it seems kind of pointless to chime in with nothing more than "looks nice", which is often all I can think of to say.

Haven't posted any updates myself because I haven't taken any new pics of my own mane lately, and haven't noticed that much change in it to update folks about.

With that, I'll re-activate the cloaking device and go back to lurking [grin]. Apparently the money I spent on it was a good investment.

Frodo.

longhair nightmares
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Tony

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Last night I dreamed that someone shaved my head in my sleep. When I woke up for real I was very relieved that it was all still there.

March update [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hi guys,

I learnt my lesson and started combing daily a week ago and it was the best thing that could happen to me - at least no tangles and no hair pulling when combing. My hair is soft and I don't get how I could do it without :-)

So here's my pic.
Tip - don't be too lazy to comb.

Regards

I'm Back!
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David

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Hey everyone,
My name is David and my long hair is back, it's at shoulder length and growing fast! I used to post here and in 2008 I felt compelled to donate it, I actually made two ponytails out of it! Shortly afterwards I became uneasy and felt unhappy having short hair so I decided to start all over, I got a crewcut, I felt shocked after I did it but realized the hair would grow back pretty quickly so I was patient. I'm now at the point where I can do a high ponytail but for right now I enjoy wearing it down.
Thanks for reading this,
David

scroll down and you will see it :)

Amusing comment
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JSFrodo

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Went to my barony's weekly fight practice the other day. Haven't been there for a while, so got a chance to catch up with several friends. At one point while I was talking to one friend, another walks up beside me and says "You need a haircut..."

I was about to get annoyed when he pointed to the side of my head and continued with "... I suggest THAT one," and grinned.

A suggestion I got, that worked
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Dougboy

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I get Strawman syndrom during the coolish Canadian winters. I went to see a naturalpath because my company pays for the services.

The woman looked at my hair and told me It was in a wierd condition. It's thick, wavey and heavy. But also dry. Regardless of what I do it does not seem to matter.

She suggested buying Omega-6 Oil. Can be bought at most food stores. Normaly you put it in food or ingest it. However she told me to comb it through my hair.

She said the Fats are what I need, and because it's mainly protien it would help.

I did it, because it was a cheap thing to do, and It did help reduce static and breakage. I would only suggest doing it once a week though and it's not the most pleasant smelling stuff.

But if others are having any issues this might be a solution. It's only somewhat effective on my hair because mine is so dry, but If you had a dry or processed or even dry ends I would suggest this to you.

Thanks

Doug

People are strange.
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Viking

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I was out in a bar with friends in Kent on Saturday night. We were all standing near the door having a drink when this group of women came in. They got served and stood beside us. Next thing I know, one of them's got a hold of my braid and is saying, "I've got a pair of scissors in my bag." Then she stopped and said, "Your hair's so soft. I've never seen anyone with such long hair. How long did it take you to grow it? What do you do to keep it in such good condition?"

One second, I was getting ready to defend myself, and the next, I'm handing out hair advice! Still, hopefully made a convert there.

For jimho85 and any other newbies who might want to use them.
Here's a updated list of my favorite hair retorts.
It now includes some excellent responses from others here as well.

"Get a haircut"
"What's a haircut?"
"I was thinking about getting one until I saw what yours looked like."
"Which one? This one? That one?"
"Get a face lift."
"Get a life."
"After you cut your nose hairs."
"Worry about you own damn hair."
"I got one... 4 years ago."
"Damn, I knew I was supposed to do something, NOT!"
"Give me $20." (If they actually give you money, don't cut it... you just asked for money.)
"I just shaved my _____, does that count?"
"What are you... the damn fashion police or something?"
"Have you ever said anything that wasn't... stupid?"
"What is this thing you speak of... haircut?"
"I was once like you... then I got a life." (Ok, you could use that one for a lot of things.)
"If I do I'll avoid whatever idiot cut your hair."

"I couldn't wear mine that long."
"That's right! Long hair ain't for sissys."
"It's true, only real men can have long hair."
"If you grew your hair, you might be cool... like me."
"Why? Are the hair police on the prowl again?"
"Yeah, a**holes aren't allowed to wear their hair long."

"Why do you want/have long hair?"
"So my head don't look like squirrel nuts." Especially if they have a buzz.
"Your mom likes to run her fingers through it."
"So I can be cool like _____" Insert favorite longhair's name.
"I don't have long hair, you're having a hallucination."
"Long??? This ain't long, I was still planning on growing it another foot or two!!"
"The cowardly lion had longhair."
"Gollum had longhair." It's true, he just didn't have a lot of 'em.
"The voices keep telling me to grow it out." With a sinister grin.
"So I won't look like those kids that shot up the school." (Just making a point, it's true.)
"That's what happens when you don't cut it" said slowly, like you're talking to a small child.

"I think it's wrong for a man to have longhair."
"Who asked you." Simple and to the point.
"Really? I've been thinking about growing mine out." Best if your hair is already mid-back or longer.
"So did Hitler, Stalin, Mao, Kim Sung" or choose your favorite communist dictator.
"Then I'm glad your opinion doesn't count."

"I thought you were a girl"
"Ever get your eyes checked?"
"Do they have any girls on your planet?"
"Ain't been around many girls, huh?
"Uhh, buddy you need to feel again."
"You must run with some pretty ugly women"
"What? The beard didn't give you a clue?"
"But I am a girl, I work for the circus. I'm the The Bearded Lady!"

"I thought you were a girl" when you're at the urinal. Yeah, it happened to me.
"So you know a lot of girls who use the urinal?"
"Does this look like a girl?" (you know what to do next.)

"Fag"
"Your not my type buddy."
"No, sorry. Keep your hands to yourself and we'll be fine."
"Most homosexuals have short hair... like you."

"Longhair is gay"
"Why ain't yours long then?"
"Hair is gay? Hair has no sexual preference."
"That's an ignorant statement."
"Does that mean you're attracted to me?"
"But your dad doesn't have long hair."

"I don't like long hair on men." from a woman
"But your daughter does."
"Oh, you're just jealous that my hair is prettier than yours."
"And your opinion matters to me... why??"
"You're NOT the woman I'm trying to impress"
"I'm not a man... I'm a lesbian." (Followed with a wink).

"I don't like long hair on men." from a short haired woman
"I have to wear it long... to make up for all these women with short hair."
"Oh... I'm sorry, hows the chemo going?" (Yeah, that's pretty mean, snicker.)

"This ain't the 60's"
"Wow, really? I gotta check the batteries in my watch..."
"Yeah, I thought there would be a vaccination for you by now."
"What are you, a fashion Nazi?"
"It ain't the dark ages either, buddy."

"Hippie!"
"Hippies are pacifist, I am not a pacifist." Crack your knuckles.
"Groovy! Thanks for noticing... MAN!" Give 'em the peace sign.
"No dumb*ss, I'm a Viking... like DUH!"
"No, I'm a (your actual job here)"
"I'm not old enough to know what that is, apparently you are."
"I'm wearing a 9mm... not a peace sign." Just be careful with that one.
"Hippie? Is that the best you can do? Come back when you're worthy!"
"If I'm a hippie what does that make you, a fascist pig?"
"At least I'm not a... Loser!" L sign on the forehead.

"The bible says it's a shame."
"How many pictures do you have of Jesus?".
"Did you read the next verse? The church nor God has any rule about it."
If it's a short haired church lady, "It also says, 'A woman's hair is her glory'."
"The Bible also tells you not to eat pork... have you eaten any bacon for breakfast recently?"
"More people in the bible had long hair than short." (It's good if you can name some as well, Jesus (probably), John the Baptist, Samson, Samuel, Absalom, etc.)
"What about the Nazarites? God wanted them to grow theirs."
"Short hair was a Roman tradition, not a Christian one."
"God has longhair!" Who knows, it may be true!

Paul

All the cruel people in the world....
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Smitts

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I accidentally came upon this youtube video...
I normally don't put cruelty and rudeness past people nowadays but I guess you can be shocked once in a blue moon.

This girl got a round brush tangled in her hair and I assume the person trying to get it out is her mother.

Honestly, I would have cursed her out and probably hit her after what she did...and the nerve to sit there and laugh at your own daughter's distress makes me disgusted.

...the youtube comments don't help my liking for people any better.

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Hypocrisy, changes and enlightenment
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Charlie

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First of all I do want to tell everyone that their compliments, advice and support have been most appreciated on my journey in becoming a longhair. I probably would have never made it past the awkward stage if you guys hadn't urged me on. I have talked to some great poeple on here and made some friends as well. It has been quite an adventure so far and I feel it at times has only just begun.

I do feel at times a hypocrite in that my initial desire for long hair was for just a temporary life change to donate. Five years ago if someone would have told me when a grows his hair long it becomes as much a part of him as his hands, sight, voice, I would definitely have scoffed at that prospect. It is amazing what time does to change outlooks on subjects at hand.

However, now, I can't ever imagine myself having short hair again in that it HAS become a part of me. A part that I have grown to love very much. If I did in fact offend any veteran longhairs out there, I most humbly apologize.

Recent meetings with classmates from years ago, they all concur that it is an image that more suits me than who I used to be way back when. Difficult to explain, but I think I am more confident about who and what I am now than before and for that I am most greatful.

Thanks again for all listening to my ramblings. Long may your manes flow and may it mever lash your face like a whip with the wind. All have a great weekend.

Charlie

20 months update pic
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prometheuz

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This is my pic from the back :)

Update at 40 months [PIC]
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Twistofchaos

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Hi there,

been a while since I posted but I decided to let you all know I'm still here and growing.

My hair's gone from about 40cm at my first and last update here last year at 30 months, to well into the 50's cm now at 40 months.

Took very similair type of pictures to see the difference and although the difference could of been more obvious I do seem to have made some progress.

I've experienced a lot of hair loss but it's probably just in my perception as the hairs keep getting longer and the collected losses increase. Still seems to be fine although I can notice the ends getting thinner, as I don't have a big full rich head of hair to begin with I don't think I have a very long terminal length but we'll see how far it goes without getting too thin or unhealthy.

I've had no trims since last update and I even have very few to no split ends. Not entirely sure why that is but I believe it has to do with being carefull with my hair when wet, no brushing and no blow drying. Also I simply don't brush often at all. I basically fingercoam to detangle a few times a week, and when I have to go somewhere fancy (never happens) I usually just plan my washing before it so my hair is fine by itself without brushing. I do have a brush but it will last me a long time.

Since last update I started to use conditioner and quite an eye opener that was.. Although the stuff is kinda icky my hair is much more manageable, far less tangles and I can go longer between washing. I tend to wash my hair two times a week now.

Ok well, keep it up all!
regards,

Myth or Not/ Long Hair = Headaches?
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Dougboy

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Hey guys. I thought I would post. I have been suffering from some pretty nasty headaches. I talked with my Doctor. The brain is ok, and so is all of the other things that could be wrong. Eyes have been checked etc.

My Doc however told me that my hair looks really heavy (It is rather thick) and he said it could be causing the headaches.

So...I did what I thought was right and called my mother who used to have butt length hair, which is just as thick as mine, and she said one of the reasons she went shorter was because the weight of the hair was causing her headaches. Muscular tension which resulted in headaches.

Is this a myth? My mom likes my hair long. Reminds her of my dad when he was younger, so she would not lie to get me to cut it.

Has anyone heard this before?

Thanks

Doug

meeting new longhairs
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Jarvis

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Was walking around the mall yesterday and a couple guys who knew some of the people i was with came over to talk. One guy had long hair and eventually we got carried away in the usual longhair meets longhair discussions.

How long since your last cut? Letting the hair flow to see who had the longer hair with a front and back comparison (me! by about 4-5 inches). Trying to get people to see which one of us had the best hair for headbanging. Different styles. Talking about getting is caught places. Another guy watching this talking about how he could have been a part of it if he didn't cut... etc. etc. etc.

All while watching the 5 girls and the guy with a buzz look at us like "what the hell?????". Only response i could think of - "Tts a guy, longhair thing. You wouldn't understand." :)

First time I've gone that in depth in a random longhair to longhair discussion. Twas awesome.

To add discussion... How often do you get into these talks with random people you meet?

PS. there were a hell of a lot of beards there last night too.

Growing Partner
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KevinV

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A guitar playing buddy of mine had very long hair, down to his waist, and cut it off about 2 years ago. He never grew it back out very long and ended up getting a buzz last July for his wedding. He's decided to grow it back out after the wedding. He's got 6 months on me, but we've created a hair growing alliance to encourage each other through the rough spots. I just wish I had started growing when he did instead of 6 months later. Oh well, hair under the bridge as it were.

Anyway, I think it's pretty cool that I've got a local growing partner for the journey.

Long hair attitudes in Texas?
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DK

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Hi - Just curious what people's attitudes were like toward men with long hair in Texas? I plan on relocating there soon and was curious - I've read that many schools there have a short hair only policy for boys, and that of course the state is more conservative in general. Just wondering what I should expect - I'm from NY, and no one really cares here. My hair is about chin length, a little shorter on the sides (maybe 1" below the bottom of my ear).
Thanks, Dave

2 months update. [PIC]
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Andrea

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After a long time, after facing many annoying troubles recently, I'm here to post a current update of my hair. :) I'm at my 2nd month of growth after a 5mm buzzcut. It's growing well, despite the dandruff. I really have many many flakes on my scalp.

-Andrea

32 month update... about time I know! [pics]
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Shypii90

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Hey everyone!!

So life has got in the way a bit and I completely forgot about hair forums and this site, sorry to say. About a week ago I suddenly remembered it was my 32nd month since I started growing my hair. I've had .. 3 trims since then (not really trims, rather, cuts!!) but I'm happy I have an overall net gain of length and not loss of it, lol. Length varies as I have so many layers, it now varies between collar length in the front to shoulder blade length at the back (when wet or straight, of course...).

The weird colour combination is basically a mixture. The last two or three inches of ends have been chemically dyed a long time ago, so they're the lightest and most damaged. I have about 4 inches of natural roots which are like ash blond or greyish...and the rest of my hair went through like 3 henna treatments. Hence the grey-into-red thing going on. I know it doesn't look at it's best here... I had been brushing it constantly everyday for a month for an awful job and only started treating and oiling it again now.

Why do i always tend to write an essay everytime I update?! haha

I just wanted to say well done to:
Silviu, Cewyn, Vincent, Hegg, Jarvis, longhairedone, Chris, Pat Medha, EnergeticKrusher, unionstation and Mark S... your hair is growing well and in great condition. keep it up!!

Enjoy then. let me know what you think etc.
Thanks :)

Shawn

Remember Jin?
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Marco

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Remember Jin? He hasn't been contributing for a couple of years, but he does have 4 new videos on YouTube, and he mentions that he still looks in on the MLHH. He has classic length hair now and says he plans to grow it to the floor. You can see his new videos at http://www.youtube.com/user/silkylonghairguy

i could realy use some support, i look pretty good with the longer hair, sexy barbers get me though

Just Checking In
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Dmitri Sylvain

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Hey,
It's been a while, so I figured I'd make a post. A lot has happened, mostly that I've moved back in with my mom. It's not my dream living arrangement, but it is certainly better than where I was before. And, I have an interview tomorrow! If all goes well, I'll be a Library Clerk!

And, just in time for that interview, I discovered Sunday that my hair is now long enough to tie back and mostly stay in place and look decent. A few hairs won't stay, but they do at least stay behind my ears.

I need to take some pictures and get them posted... But I just wanted to let everyone know that I am alive and well.

--D

from november to march [PIC]
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Nick S.

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Sorry for this emo/metalcore-ish pic (LOL), but mirror pics are always the best.

Here what i had in november 2009:
http://i48.tinypic.com/2yw5us4.jpg

Here what i have now:

http://i942.photobucket.com/albums/ad267/mrsauli/hair/101_3911.jpg?t=1268329644

http://i942.photobucket.com/albums/ad267/mrsauli/hair/101_3912.jpg?t=1268329659

This: http://www.relapse.com/MYSPACE/BI/BIBANDPIC.JPG
Is what i'm aiming for, the haircut is okay, i just need 6/7 months of lenght. O
(yay! i'm also growin' a beard but this is only the 2nd week)

from november to march
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Nick S.

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Sorry for this emo/metalcore-ish pic (LOL), but mirror pics are always the best.

Here what i had in november 2009:
http://i48.tinypic.com/2yw5us4.jpg

Here what i have now:

http://i942.photobucket.com/albums/ad267/mrsauli/hair/101_3911.jpg?t=1268329644

http://i942.photobucket.com/albums/ad267/mrsauli/hair/101_3912.jpg?t=1268329659

This: http://www.relapse.com/MYSPACE/BI/BIBANDPIC.JPG
Is what i'm aiming for, the haircut is okay, i just need 6/7 months of lenght. O
(yay! i'm also growin' a beard but this is only the 2nd week)

8 Months today [PIC]
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JayKus

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Today marks 8 full months into this process from buzzzzzed (1/4 inch)! Some might say I have reached the "awkward stage", but to me it has been the awkward stage from the 2nd month lol. I don't mind it though. Back in high school I had about 9-12 inches in length easy, but that was almost 15 yrs ago. I cut it during my junior yr and have kept it very short ever since (an inch at the longest). I'm going for about 12-18 inches. All I do is shampoo every day (I have been blessed with a very oily scalp) and condition about every 3 days. No blow drying and usually minimal to no styling products.

New here
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prometheuz

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Just want to say hello to all readers ;)

here are my progress
http://s786.photobucket.com/albums/yy141/prometheuz_photo/Prometheuz%20hair%20progress/

Me at 24 + my garden. [PIC]
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John C

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That was my red & white VW in the very last post of mine, incidentally. I grew all those flowers in this one too, besides my hair! ;p

Me at 13 - 14 Years old. [PIC]
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John C

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Don't assume my hair has always been long. My mom let me keep this for just the summer, then it HAD to go before resuming Catholic school. I loved it!!!!

My first post here [PIC]
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John

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Found this site a few months ago & really like it! Just thought I'd post a picture of how I wear my hair these days. I found a claw clip & I really like how easy it is. I wonder what people think of it. My hair's halfway down my back. I just got out of the tub an hour and a half ago in this picture. It takes about a half a minute to put it up this way, and it stays up ALL day. I like it so much better than elastic bands. I've got pictures of my hair down on a stick drive, but it's not with me right now.

Oily hair - more hair loss?
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Stas

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So I went to a dermatologist recently about my male pattern baldness (high forehead). I told her that I don't wash my hair every day to avoid keeping it dry. She told me that if I have too much oil in the hair while it's long, it will be much easier for the hair to drop. I thought that drier hair equals weaker hair and weaker hair will break more easily, but she said that more hair will fall out if it's oily. There you have it. Will be glad to hear your opinions on that.

She also prescribed Propecia. I bought it. Still haven't taken any though, because I'm reading about that dihydrotestosterone guy, and I'm not sure I like what I'm reading (mental capacity loss, and other men's issues when it comes to women) and if I wish to take the risk.

Salon visit soon....question
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DarkMetal

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Hey all I'll be going to the salon soon to get stuff cleaned up and whatnot and I was wondering if I should get my split ends trimmed. Literally almost every hair site ive been to states that trimming split ends is important if you're trying to grow your hair out, and that trimming enables your hair to grow longer. However I remember a discussion on the site that talked about if you are going for length and your not at the goal length dont trim at all.

Whats a guy to do? I want my hair to look nice and great without split ends but I also want to reach my goal length and trimming will but me behind several months. Should I stick with my original goal of growing my hair past the point I want and then trimming so i am then at the length I want and the splits are gone?

Me at 24 [PIC]
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John C

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Me & a friend when I first moved here.

growin it out
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gkevin

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I'm deciding to grow my hair out long, i decided to hang out here as i progress, cheers
gk

Onward and Downward
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Charlie

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Well after another 2 months, it appears I once again mastered another stripe in the rugby shirt. Hopefully I did thid right in showing the photos, we will see. I have started doing the cool water rinse (I wuss out at cold) and it sdeems to make it wave more. First photo is wet after the rinse (sorry about the shirtless pic)with the Barely damp dry following. All have a great weekend.

Early Stages Hair Care
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KevinV

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I'm only on my 3rd month of hair growth from a buzz cut but I've been enjoying the journey and taking care of my hair the best I can. Hairball mentioned taking care of it in the early stages in another thread and I thought I'd post my routine for board scrutiny.

Every weekend I wash my hair with the apple cider vinegar & water mix. I then apply Nexxus conditioner, rinse, apply a small amount of Wild Growth Hair Oil and Light Oil Moisturizer to my hair and scalp, and then throughout the week I wash with water only, use conditioner about every other day, and apply the Light Oil Moisturizer once or twice more throughout the week. It's really a small amount, about 10 drops of the Hair Oil in my palm and spread through once a week, and when I use the Light Oil Moisturizer, I apply about 6 drops directly to the scalp and massage in.

The Wild Growth Hair Oil contains...

olive oil
jojoba oil
coconut oil
vitamin D
choline
inositol
iron
magnesium
phosphorous
calcium
natural color/fragrance

The Wild Growth Light Oil Moisturizer contains...

olive oil
jojoba oil
coconut oil
castor oil
flax seed oil
carrot oil
pumpkin seed oil
grape seed oil
safflower oil
roman chamomile oil
blackseed oil
evening primrose oil
vitamin E
nutrient & essential oil complex

I haven't noticed any "wild growth" from using it, but my head is never itchy or flaky anymore, my hair is soft & manageable, I hardly ever leave a hair in the brush, and I really enjoy the ritual of taking care of it.

My hair is short compared to you guys, but I'm enjoying every minute of this and learning a lot from the board. I'll post a 6 month pic when I get there along with a before shot.

Me at 19 [PIC]
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John C

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In cold cold Buffalo!!!!!! With almost no heat!

Thank you guys.
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John C

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Thank you very much for your amazing encouragement and complements and insight. This is the best! You guys are all an inspiration too for that matter.

3 Years Journey has landed!!!
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MarkS

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and this is a comparison picture of from left to right: 0 months of growth, one year of growth, 2 years of growth and the last one on the bottom right is 3 years of growth!

234th day update !!!!!!! [PIC]
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dave

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hey guy its been a wee while since i updated ive been very busy latly :P. well as the title says this is 234 days of growth so far (and it looks the same as it did once before 0_0) so i guess in around 4-5 months i wont be down about its length being so short still not used to it *sigh*

lol sorry for writing a story carried away again - dave

recent shot of jonalbear [PIC]
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jonalbear

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Hi all,
Seems like recent shots are abounding on the board right now. Thought I'd throw in my two cents worth, so here's my recent shot! 5 and 1/2 years of growth without trims. Apparently,also without comb or brush for this photo.
peace, jonalbear

I could be wrong here, but my best guess would be that it stems from the 60's when in people's eye's, "people with long hair took to the streets protesting the Vietnam War causing trouble, were dirty, and abused drugs", because prior to that point in time, for thousands of years, men having long hair wasn't an issue. You all know those time periods in history that I'm referring to; 18th century Europe and America, the Middle Ages, the Rennaisance, ancient Greece, ancient Persia, and the list goes on and on. Do you guys feel the discrimination will ever go away where longhaired men won't face discrimination, or are we basically doomed to face it forever? Because as a long- haired guy, I sometimes can't help but feel that it will never go away. It hasn't since the 60's, and that was a long time ago. I would think the discrimination should've gone away by now(for Christsake's we're in 2010), but it hasn't, because I still feel the discrimination myself. I just wish it would one day end and we could go back to a time, the way it was in history, where long hair wasn't an issue with people.

Long hair progress...Video
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FITNESSDAVID

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Just decided to film my hair after 1.5 year's growth, to see it in motion.

The front was dry and straight, due to being ties up all day.
The back was damp, so curled up, even after I decided to gently brush through it.

The video is from my Youtube channel www.youtube.com/DDDavidBud

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David

Update pics [PIC]
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Robert

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Hey Guys

Thought I would send an update. Followup pics of the back showing length to follow.

This post is selfish as I need encouragement. Came close to getting rid of it a few weeks ago. I am going on a trip in a week that is very formal, to say the least. 2 evenings requires tuxedos so I am foolishly nervous about showing up with long hair.

As always, thanks for your support.

Robert

another milestone...
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Tony

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I shut my hair in the car door today. I hadn't ever even considered that possibility.

Hello everybody, so I'm having a big problem for the next few months. I'm going at a sports college and swimming is part of this semester's classes. Now I'm having a big issue with getting all my hair in a silicon swim cap that I bought today (it was also the biggest cap I could find). True that my hair was fresh washed today aka lots of volume, but I found it pretty much impossible to fit it on my head. If there are any swimmers arround who had the same issues I'm dieng to hear some techniques to get it done since I really don't want to ruin my hair in the chlorine, besides I'm not even allowed to enter the pool with long hair and no cap. :(

Thanks!

Brushing Question Survey [PIC]
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

I have a question to ask any of you who wouldn't mind responding...

How many of you longhairs out there *regularly* have a hair-brushing ritual? For those who might be a bit unclear re. what I'm talking about here, I'm specifically talking about brushing your hair when it's DRY ONLY (I've always been advised from as far back as I can remember that whenever the hair is wet, it's best NOT to use a brush in that case; but instead, a comb).

It was not uncommon in my grandmother's generation to hear about long-haired women brushing their hair every evening and/or morning, encouraging "100 strokes" with the brush. I remember one elderly woman when I was still a teenager who was shocked to hear a young woman friend of mine shampooed her hair every other day, -- when she confessed to only shampooing her long hair ONLY TWICE A YEAR!!! "Haven't you ever heard of just brushing?", I remember her saying.

I also had an aunt that lived in the East Coast of the US who had knee-length hair. My girl cousin got an opportunity to see it down a couple of times, because she stayed overnight at this aunt's house, getting to witness her brushing her long hair (which unfortunately I only got to see this aunt's huge swirl of a bun on top of her head - LOL)....

As for myself, although I never literally count to 100 whenever I brush, I do at least regularly do the dry-brushing ritual on average 4 or 5 times per week, going from scalp to hair ends in one smooth stroke (AFTER all tangles have been safely taken care of, first), several times over until my scalp starts to feel pleasantly stimulated and "tingly" (meaning that there's good blood flow happening at the hair roots). I then finish with a boar's bristle brush to smooth it all out at the end.

For me, this ritual helps me better endure going for longer periods of time between shampooing. And oddly enough, my hair afterwards usually does NOT feel "greasy"; but instead helps to have the scalp's natural oils (or sebum) travel down the hair shaft towards the ends (where it needs it the most)...

I've learned from here that many curly-haired people tend NOT to find brushing as beneficial for them as more straight-haired people do... hence, this is why I'm curious about who does a brushing ritual VS who does not.

I hope that long-haired women feel free to reply to this thread, as well as all of you MLHH guys, as I'm sure that hair-brushing is a "unisex" experience (LOL)!!

Thanks in advance!

- Ken in San Francisco

PS - Apologies over having posted this pic of myself many times before; but since it's the only shot I have of me doing my hair-brushing ritual, I include it to torture the newbies as well!

It felt a bit weird...
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Viking

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There's a snacks van just round the corner from my office, and every now and then, I just can't resist a bacon sandwich - especially when the wind's blowing from that direction and my window's open!

Anyway, the other day, I caved in to temptation and headed off up the road. I couldn't believe it when I got there. There were four people waiting for sandwiches and ALL of them had long hair!

I'm used to being in the minority and it felt strange to be one of a crowd. A couple more and we could have held a convention!

Followup to update - Back [PIC]
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Robert

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Shot of the back

followup - another back [PIC]
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Robert

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last one

Right, been a while since I posted here. Probably a few months, don't remember.
Anyhow, It's been a great 5.5 years. Long hair through high-school and college. A childhood I will surely remember!
However, it's my time for call of duty, and I'm not talking about the video game. Living in Israel, I have to serve in the military like every other proper citizen. I still have my long hair, though, but not for long. My recruitment is in May and lots of shampoo will be squeezed until then, but I'll have to cut eventually... now I hope I don't sound sad or anything, I'm sure the change will be refreshing and I really like the guys from my unit. Hair is hair. Can be cut, can be regrown. Anyway, I'll be doing hi-tech technology related work I can't rally talk about, since my health profile doesn't allow anything beyond that. So a lot of time will be spent near the computer, programming and whatnot. It will be fun though, I'm sure, because I do like that stuff, it's interesting.

I'm also thinking about taking some Propecia, since my MPB is really starting to show... I'm afraid of the side effects though, I heard it can... erm... make some things... err.. not work for a guy, you know. I've been to a dermatologist, and she recommended that treatment. So, if you have more info on that or you're taking Propecia for many years and it's working OR not working, let me know!

Now, for some good news. I'm back from vacation. Actually I was still relaxing on the beach several hours ago and only few hundred miles away from my home. It has been raining in many parts of the country for the last few days, but there's a place where cold is afraid to go, it's called Eilat (google it).
So I have a few photos from there...

On the beach, watching scuba divers (did that once, but it was too pricey this time): http://i45.tinypic.com/295u993.jpg

On another beach, after a long swim (watched cool fish!):
http://i45.tinypic.com/2zfv7kw.jpg

Same beach, relaxing (you can see the baldness clearly there):
http://i45.tinypic.com/ohl0ci.jpg

The city (picture taken from a boat):
http://i49.tinypic.com/2qwflgi.jpg

A cool old fashioned ship passed by while I was on the beach:
http://i46.tinypic.com/21opil0.jpg

My third visit there, so yeah, wasn't that exciting, but still nice to have such a place nearby to travel to and relax from time to time.

Right, so this isn't my last post here. However, my next posts will be of me with no long hair... I hope I'll have more time on my hands to actually write those, because I was neck-deep into studying and other commitments, and hopefully I'll have more time during service. I might show up and throw an advice or two.
For instance, I started using this new shampoo recently, from Frulatte. It's based on Oblepicha oil and Saw palmetto.
http://www.beauty-center.co.il/image/users/114070/detail/small/1441167.jpg
Helping a lot with shedding - much much less now. It or anything similar will probably cost you more than the generic shampoo from any popular hair products company, but totally worth the money. Probably anything with those two ingredients will work for most people.

Anyway, thanks for your replies on my previous posts! Otherwise I wouldn't be here today writing this.
Always good to hear back from you people.
Keep it real and keep supporting others to think outside the box!

Next post will probably be after my recruitment.
See ya' and wish me luck !

A Story of Two Brothers [PIC]
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Flat Lander

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I have a brother who is just a few years older than I am, and who has for most of the last 25 years has grown long beards, and frequently also grown long hair. Until a few years ago I've never had long hair and if I had a beard, I kept it fairly closely cropped.

A couple of years ago the picture of me above appeared on the front page of our small hometown newspaper. He still lives there, and I live two states away. Of course, many, many of his friends saw the picture and commented how much we looked alike (which without long hair and beards we really don't, and never have). The comparisons to me prompted him to go out the next day and get a haircut, and to trim his beard back to a half inch or so.

After that, he just let his hair and beard grow again. I rarely get back to our hometown, but made it there last fall, and we had a family dinner with some of our other siblings. Sure enough the next day my brother again got his hair cut and trimmed his beard. I find that behavior kind of funny, but I'm not offended by it, just amused.

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muzzman

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last pic taken yesterday

Hey all,

Finally got around to acquiring my digital camera and took a pic. Not the best pic of me or my hair but I'm terrible at taking digicam pics, so I'll practice and post more another time.

I've been growing it out since around December of 2008 and plan on taking it as long as it can possibly go (hoping for tailbone length). My hairline has always been high like this even as a kid, but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere so that's good. If there were a way to bring it down a bit I'd do it but once the entire mane gets longer it will look better I'm sure.

Looking forward to your comments.

2 year update well sort of! [PIC]
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EnergeticKrusher

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It was somewhere around the first days of march in 2008 where I decided that that would be last haircut because I honestly did not feel at home or myself with short hair even though others said I should just keep it the way it is.

If it wasn't for me and this I probably would have heeded my sisters impractical advice and would have beaten my hair up to death with ironings, and prolonged the status of the awkward stage with trims.

pics feb 2010 [PIC]
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muzzman

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another pic, of my hair and 2 wks of beard growth

The Hockey!...who's up for a bet!
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John.B

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So it's an all North Amercian affair then! So who up for a bet and any prediction for the gold medal?

Professional Finance?
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An MBA

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Anyone know any financial professionals with long hair? The only ones I can think of are the hedge fund guys on MSNBC. I'm going to be pitching managing money to wealthy people. Wife's saying buzz it off, and I'm almost complicit...

Hi Hairy People,

I guess it's confession time: Dear Hairy Father in Heaven, I think I have sinned!

I want to take this opportunity to apologize to any of our newcomers here who are too shy to show a pic of their face to us yet. I don't mean to be cruel or too demanding or sarcastic in my comments to anyone only willing to reveal a pic of the back of their head for me to look at, -- it's just that I'm a bit "cruel" and "demanding" and "sarcastic" by nature (LOL)!!

As far as any of you long-time regulars here who only post pics of the backs of your head... Well, now that's a different (and meaner) story!

I guess my pet peeve re. this issue is this: if you wish for me to say hello to you after introducing yourself, or sharing a recent update on how your hair is doing, wouldn't it be nice to at least show SOME PORTION of your face in that picture?

Maybe I'm a bit old-fashioned; but, in "real life", if someone were to turn their back towards me after introducing themselves or trying to engage me in a conversation, I would interpret that as rather cold and inhuman thing to do.

So, I'd like to propose a solution for those who hesitate for any reason in not wishing to reveal a pic of their face on this site: How about revealing at least a LITTLE BIT of your face, then? As I mentioned in my reply to Bill earlier, below, long hair is so PERFECT for helping to conceal whatever portion of your face you don't wish the outside world to be able to recognize! A little bit of face, though, can make all the difference in the world in me wishing to say a hearty "Welcome!, -- or, NOT....

Just an idea from a long-time longhaired, sometimes cranky, old geezer here...

- Ken in San Francisco

Fuzzy and dry.
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nicko)))

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I'm doing the sten (a chemical treatment that makes me have straight hair) every 4 months. When i go for the 3rd month i get this fuzzy/dry and a weakcurly (not curly, not straight) hair.

What to do?

The iron straightner isn't good and i don't know what to do with this hair, i want a quite straight look and i want a-bit greasy hair.

Thank you.

(I also know that the problem stems from the medium length that makes my hair puffy)

latest pics [PIC]
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muzzman

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pics taken today feb 28th,

I suspect many of us have experienced this, and maybe deal with it better than I do, but I sometimes still find it uncomfortable to be the only man with long hair in the room. We go to concerts or plays or things where it never seems to even occur to me how few men in the auditorium have long hair.

Last night I went to a party at my wife's work, and in addition to not knowing many people there, which tends to make me uncomfortable, I noticed I was the only man in the room with long hair. There were probably 100 people there, and I didn't notice anyone staring, and I did find a table to sit at where I knew the people, but in certain situations I do feel the "odd man out." It isn't enough to encourage me to cut my hair, but sometimes it is noticeable.

A few years ago when I started growing my hair out I did notice a few people with whom I interacted regularly began to treat me differently. Seems like there are still lots of people who like to judge a book by its cover.

The pic is of me in 2008 with flowers given to me by a group that appreciated my speaking out on a social issue at the time.

Long haired politician =) [PIC]
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jimho85

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This is Anders Borg, Finance Minister in Sweden since 2006. He has had long hair since the 90s.
He also won the swedish price "Swedens best celebrity hairstyle 2009" citing "Anders Borg is a true inspiration for men to grow long hair, and still be successful in work and life.You can keep your long hair even if your job requires a suit He is considered a trend setter."

February update [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hi guys,

I am still here with my long hair.
I stopped thinning my shampoo because my hair didn't get too clean from it. So I have more volume now with still using nature cosmetics.

My hair now at about 93cm from my parting at the forehead and that means around belt-length.
Pic is freshly washed and oiled without combing.

I have not washed for two weeks.

Regards

Growing hair for 5 years, beard for 3 [PIC]
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Flat Lander

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I've been working on my hair purposely since June 1, 2005. On that day my wife donated her hair to Locks of Love to make wigs for cancer patients, and I thought it was a great idea, and started growing my hair out. When it got long enough to donate, I just couldn't do it. I have never in my life had long hair until now, and I really like it, wish I had been doing it longer.

The picture above is from sometime last year, and the video I linked to shows my hair as it was yesterday. You need only watch a few seconds of the video to see the hair.

I am excited to find this place and hope to visit regularly. I also several months ago found "Beard Team USA" and joined the Beard Team.

I had thought my hair would be longer after nearly five years, but I suspect I'm not taking proper care of it. I might just start to work on that as well.

Best wishes,
Flat Lander

A little update...
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Oren

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By now you've heard it all about draconian school "boys" hair length policies [cough], now let's take a peek at what really goes on deep-in-a-hearta-Texas!
Victor and I were at "Misprint Magazine's Fourth Annual Beard and Moustache Competition" in Austin, Texas.

http://galleries.austin360.com/gallery/beard-and-moustache-competition/#61835
http://galleries.austin360.com/gallery/beard-and-moustache-competition/#61835
http://galleries.austin360.com/gallery/beard-and-moustache-competition/#61835
http://galleries.austin360.com/gallery/beard-and-moustache-competition/#61835

Lots of fur, beer and good times!
My birthday was also on Feb 19th. Could not have asked for a better "birthday party". :-)

- Oren

Long time since last update. [PIC]
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Pat Medha

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Hi! Just thought I'd share a somewhat current update. Did a seek and destroy split end trim. Here's +/- 30 months

4 Months and Growing [PIC]
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RobD

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Hello.
It's been four months now and still growing. Not bad for growth, but the hardest days are ahead I know, as I have done this a few times before. Only this time I am going the distance!
Take care all.
RobD

Thanks, and Hair brushing
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FITNESSDAVID

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I decided to start a new thread, as by the time I was able to answer from my first posting, a lot had happened :)

I first wanted to thank: (from my first post on Feb 22)

Urban Cowboy (Ken)
White Tail
longhairedone
Hairball (Mark)
and
longhair511

For their kind words..

Also, regarding hairbrushing, I do brush my hair, stimulating th scalp, maybe once a week or week and a half.

Being that my hair is curly (It gets big ifno product is in it),
I make it a habit of heavily oiling my hair (cocunut oil), and possibly using conditioner (for this I like Cholesterol hair treatment, but any conditioner will do), and maybe adding some water , if needed.

I do this to prvide the most possible "slip" to my hair, to be able o go trough my hair, and to not damage it or pull it while bruahing.

I use a Denman brush (great for detangling curly hair, and stimulates the scalp), starting carefully at the bottom, then workng my way to the top., then working the scalp too.

Most of the time, I do this insections, for more control, then wrap each section up, but I can do the whole head too.

After the brushing, and wrapping the hair up (either 4 section buns/ bantu knots, or one bun) I put a shower cap o my head, then a satin cap (to protect my air while sleepng)

I sleep like this, which keeps my hair eat, and moist.

When I wake p in the morning, I Conditioner wash, rince, then reapply oads of conditioner, leave it in while finger smoothing it into a ponytail (n the shower), using a gentle cotton band/elastic.

I thin wrap the ponytail into a bun, then apply another gentle cotton band/elastic to secure it. I then place 4 bobby pins to help secure stray side hairs. Even though the frot doesn't reach the bun, when this conditionnered hair dries, it will set like gel, so no worries.

long-winded here :)

David (aka FITNESSDAVID)

Update [PIC]
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Seishinkai

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So another two months goes by. Obligations, frustrations, and all the usual ups and downs, yet still the hair grows.

Nice to see all the other updates and witness the law of conservation of hair matter at work. To me, the best support is seeing others un-shorn.

To paraphrase Lao Tzu: The ten thousand things rise and fall without cease. And hair still grows...

First time poster, about 6 months [PIC]
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Majin19

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So, after lurking here for a while I've finally decided to grow my hair out. I've only had one trim since the end of summer just to even everything out. This pic is about a month old, so the front is just starting to reach my eyes now. This is the longest I've ever had my hair before. Do you guys have any advice for a first timer?

First Time Post - Long Time Observer [PIC]
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unionstation

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One Last Picture (with more lighting).

Thanks, and Hair brushing
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FITNESSDAVID

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I decided to start a new thread, as by the time I was able to answer from my first posting, a lot had happened :)

I first wanted to thank: (from my first post on Feb 22)

Urban Cowboy (Ken)
White Tail
longhairedone
Hairball (Mark)
and
longhair511

For their kind words..

Also, regarding hairbrushing, I do brush my hair, stimulating th scalp, maybe once a week or week and a half.

Being that my hair is curly (It gets big ifno product is in it),
I make it a habit of heavily oiling my hair (cocunut oil), and possibly using conditioner (for this I like Cholesterol hair treatment, but any conditioner will do), and maybe adding some water , if needed.

I do this to prvide the most possible "slip" to my hair, to be able o go trough my hair, and to not damage it or pull it while bruahing.

I use a Denman brush (great for detangling curly hair, and stimulates the scalp), starting carefully at the bottom, then workng my way to the top., then working the scalp too.

Most of the time, I do this insections, for more control, then wrap each section up, but I can do the whole head too.

After the brushing, and wrapping the hair up (either 4 section buns/ bantu knots, or one bun) I put a shower cap o my head, then a satin cap (to protect my air while sleepng)

I sleep like this, which keeps my hair eat, and moist.

When I wake p in the morning, I Conditioner wash, rince, then reapply oads of conditioner, leave it in while finger smoothing it into a ponytail (n the shower), using a gentle cotton band/elastic.

I thin wrap the ponytail into a bun, then apply another gentle cotton band/elastic to secure it. I then place 4 bobby pins to help secure stray side hairs. Even though the frot doesn't reach the bun, when this conditionnered hair dries, it will set like gel, so no worries.

long-winded here :)

David (aka FITNESSDAVID)

One continuous problem I have is keeping an apartment with 2 longhairs clean - long hairs get all over the place, and when I go to vacuum, the beater bar on my vacuum gets clogged up every time, and I have to "unspool" the hair. In the words of my mom, "there's enough hair in here to knit a sweater!" So, just wondering... how do you guys cope with long hair everywhere? Are there certain vacuums you recommend?

new to longhair [PIC]
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AnandPatel

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hi my name is anand. i have read over the forums here for a few months and am about 3 months into growing my hair long.

from what i see here it looks like very friendly community and that is rare to see on a internet forum. attached is a picture of what my hair looks like as of a few days ago. i hope for it to get at least past shoulder blade length or maybe even longer.

best of luck to all you long hair men, i hope to join in with you in the not too distant future.

growing it again [PIC]
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akshay

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Hi all,
Akshay from Bangalore , India. I am 28 years old.
I was part of this community like 2 years back.
growing my thingy again...its been 3 years now...

let the comments flow, me with the beard and the immortal tee..sitting next is friend Keni

Cheers
Akshay

Another Picture.

I really enjoy this board, and I have decided to stop observing and participate. I am so impressed with some of the length and growth you guys have achieved. I haven't cut my hair since March 2007. My last haircut was a standard short "above-the-collar-off-the-ears" haircut. I wash and condition my hair twice a week, and only comb with my fingers during the conditioning. As you can see, my hair is very curly. Without product and diffusing, my hair would be so big I couldn't fit through any doorway.

Thanks, and please respond. I feel like I know some of you guys already. :)

First timer, 1.5 yrs growth [PIC]
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FITNESSDAVID

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Also from today

Note that I started with practically a shaved head, and my hair curls and shrinks quite considerably when left to dry alone.

David

In search of Andrew Koenig [PIC]
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Charlie

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Andrew Koenig, longhaired son of Star Trek actor Walter Koenig has been missing since Valentine's Day. Here is the link to the story...

http://renegade-studios.com/newsletter/andrew/

Just in case there are fellow Trekkers on the MLHH

Peace and long life

Charlie

Hat Question
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KevinV

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I poked around in the archives and found some indirect references to hats, but am curious about the general consensus on the effects of hat wearing on hair.

Will wearing a baseball hat on a regular basis damage my hair, or is it a non-issue? I'd like to be able to keep it under wraps sometimes when it gets unruly looking and a hat seems like an obvious choice.

First timer, 1.5 yrs growth [PIC]
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FITNESSDAVID

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This is a pic to show how I wear my hair preety much all of the time...wrapped up in a bun, done in the shower, with loads of conditioner in it...

David

First timer, 1.5 yrs growth [PIC]
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FITNESSDAVID

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From today

David

First timer, 1.5 yrs growth [PIC]
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FITNESSDAVID

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Also from today, I have problems pulling the hair down to show its length, :)

David

First timer, 1.5 yrs growth [PIC]
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FITNESSDAVID

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This pic is from TODAY, wet-ish...after taking it out of the bun

About 1.5 years of growth

David

First timer, 1.5 yrs growth [PIC]
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FITNESSDAVID

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This pic is from the same day, pulling the hair to show its length.

David

First timer, 1.5 yrs growth [PIC]
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FITNESSDAVID

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First time poster here...have been lurking for a few months.

Will post a few pics, showing my hair (wet-ish) at two different times.

David

This first pic is over a year of growth. wet

I hope that picture answers the question, ha, because yes, they did let me keep it. I got my first job on Friday (yesterday), after months and months of struggling and rejection. Here's how I wear my hair to work. My hair now reaches my belt line and to the bottom of my rib cage.

Off to France in July!

I hope you're all doing well.

Cheers,
Hegg

O/T - A quick straw pole - The Hockey
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John.B

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Hi there,

So as we are mid way through the olympic Ice Hockey games in Vancouver. Do we have any tips as to who might win it. Of course have to remember it will either be Canada or USA if you are geographically aligned!!!

I'll have a shilling with the Russians and Finns!

The Cannucks almost got creamed but Belarusskies tonight.

Kiitos,

John.B

PS...now back to my armchair for another week :-)

Shaun White
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Jason

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2006 Olympic gold medal snowboard champion Shaun White tries to defend his title tonight. What a great longhair representative! His hair is incredible and his talent amazing. It's great to see a fellow longhair succeed to the degree that he has.

What should I do now? [PIC]
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Todd

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Well, I'm finally to the point where I can tie my hair up, just like I've always wanted.... Sigh... But I still don't know if it's what I want. Here's my thoughts:
1.) Tied up, my hair's fine, but when untied, it's a horrible mess that gets in my face and mouth all the time.
2.) I think my hair pulled back makes me look older, and it shows my enormous forehead more.
3.) When I don't tie my hair up, I look like the 50-year old woman I work with (see 3rd pic, 3rd row), and the Quaker Oats guy. Yeah.
4.) My family says I look like Comic Book Guy from the Simpsons, I think I look like Mario Batali, and my boss says I have a "Steven Seagal thing" going. So I'm getting mixed reactions.

So, at this point, I'm having trouble deciding what I want to do from here. I have it narrowed down to 3 choices:
1.) Keep tying up what I have, and let it grow more.
2.) Keep tying up what I have, but go to a stylist and get some bangs - I think they look cool, and they would hide my forehead (in exchange for getting used to hair on my forehead)
3.) Go to a professional stylist and get my hair cut to medium length with bangs, like the guys on Row 2. This has always been the hairstyle that I think is the sexiest, but I've never done it because it looks hard to maintain, it looks uncomfortable, and I dunno if I can do it with my wavy/frizzy hair.

Which option do YOU think I should do?

At the moment I use a range of products called Fudge- which are pretty expensive. But I'm not sure if there that good for my hair?
Im very prone to frizziness. I always leave my hair to dry naturally.
I wash it with shampoo and conditioner every other day, and just user conditioner in-between.
Any product suggestions? I've tried KMS california which i didnt really get along with. Maybe something more natural? I use to use Aussie. Maybe i'll give that a go again.
Any tips , suggestions welcome :)
Grant

Conditioning idea?
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Mike

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This is just an idea that popped into my head recently.

Provided the length is clean to start with, without it being wet, could you just condition the length then rinse like usual? Seems you would get better moisture content into the hair this way without diluting the conditioner? Or should I be quiet now!? lol

Update! [PIC]
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Fred

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Hey all,

I don't remeber the last time I posted here. So here I am!

Speed up need advice. [PIC]
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nicko)))

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I've cut my hair short about 5 months ago, now, in the front they reach the end of the nose, in back they're going to cover my neck.
Now, this is my second attempt to looong hair (two attemps has been cut for bad ideas, but they were pretty long).
I want to reach the lenght on the pic (5-6 cm, i don't care about the cm when i've long hair), how many time i've to wait? What to do to accelerate my hair growth?

(I'm not an english-speaker so my english isn't always the best.)

I never really posted here often, so I doubt anyone remembers me. About two n a half years ago I started growing out my hair, but under *constant* pressure from my sisters I finally decided to cut it last winter. I always had medium length hair and it grows faster, so my hair was *just* about to start resting on my shoulders when I caved and cut it. Last time I got my haircut was September. I honestly didn't plan to regrow my hair out simply because the awkward phase [and even after] was such a blow to my confidence because it was weird for me to have long hair, and most people bashed me for it. But I was lazy, and just didn't get a haircut.

I still don't know if I'm going to try and grow my hair out again, but if I do my goal is for my hair to just to rest around the end of my shoulder blades. I'm not quite as hardcore as some of you, who just never cut it! ;]

Anyways this picture was January 24th, just wondering what everyone thought/advice if I decide to try and grow it out again [specifically harassment from my family!].

Also I'm pretty concerned with my hair being overly long at the back, the last time I got it cut I actually planned before hand and so my hair was roughly the same length all round, I've kinda got a mullet [honestly not the best picture so you cant really tell] and thats bothering the hell out of me. Guess thats part of the awkward phase and I should just ignore it though, eh?

Two Months Into It
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KevinV

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I'm 2 months from my last haircut now which was a buzz cut. Didn't have much to start with on this journey. It's not long enough to post a pic, but I'm enjoying the trip so far. I kept it slicked back for the first month until it was trained to stay back. Lately I just combed it back while wet and it stayed there. I've got pretty thick hair and the top was getting a bit puffy so I tried parting in the middle this morning and found it feathers back pretty nicely. I'll have some training to do to get it use to the new style, but this should work pretty good for then next several months I hope.

The only thing that's bothering me is the neck hair in the back that grows up. It seems to be competing with the hair that grows down and is forcing everything into a tail in the center rather than letting it fall on its own. My wife said to just leave it be and the head hair will eventually overtake it.

So, I'll keep treating it right, avoid the scissors, and post a pic when I get to a point where I feel I've made some progress worth sharing. In the meantime I'll just keep on reading.

UPDATE! [PIC]
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Chris

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No, it's not Tourette's Guy doing Unsolved Mysteries while sloshed. I figured I'd give about a 1 monther. I have a couple of pics, so hold tight. I plan on getting the ends nipped 1 month from today, but just the extreme tips. I'd say I've just about sufficiently hit shoulder length.

Does anyone know of any good products for long hair that curls over on the sides, but stands up in the front just at the hairline?

I've tried a number of products that are of course better for shorter hair, and having put them through more/longer hair is so much that it produces too much oil on my forehead and just makes my long hair stale/hard.

I also don't want it to look like there is product; i.e., make the hair look like it is dried.

Thanks!

What could this possibly mean ?? [PIC]
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White Tail

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Found in "downtown" Dallas Center, Iowa.

I still have yet to see another longhair man here....hmmmmm
Maybe it is something in the corn....
Maybe that is why they need Hair Repair Shops....

Any Info on This Product
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Tommie

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I was surfing around trying to find a good oil product for my hair and found this site. http://www.wildgrowth.com/Hair%20Skin%20and%20Nail%20products.htm Does anyone know anything about them. Are they legit. #12.95 isn't a bad price if it works. Tommie

Straight Hair That Curls At The Ends
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Ryan Paul Fialcowitz

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I've been growing out my hair for quite some time now and it's about shoulder length. My hair is naturally straight. or at least the top and middle are, but the ends of the hair tend to bend outward at odd angles which is completely not the look I want. The curling at the end looks rather like the letter J. Combing has no effect but to accentuate the curls. I'm wondering what causes this and what would the most effective way to avoid this. I've done a bit of research but obviously most of the advice is aimed at women and none of the straightening methods seemed to be permanent. Any advice? Thanks in advance.

-Ryan Paul Fialcowitz

WO Washes
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Mike

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First off, I had a good time chatting with some of the guys in the chat room yesterday. Mr. Bill Choisser was in there and had a chance to pick his brain alittle about washing in water only.

He really got me intrigued about this. For those of you who swear by water only, I'd like to hear your side the story about it. Tips, information, techniques etc... whatever you want to spill out, this is the thread for it. Meantime, I'll be putting google to work :)

Either I'm mistaken or...
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Nikola

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Kevin C. has his own fan page on facebook :-)

Well, I'm a new member. How bout you?

Long Hair / Long Beard / Financial Security
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

This may sound like an odd trio of topics; but it happens to be one that I think about a lot, especially recently...

In December of just this past year I decided to try once more at growing my beard out. In January, I even colored it (with the "Just for Men" type of facial hair dye), which I actually liked quite a bit (because it gave me less of a "Santa Claus" appearance - LOL).

Today I looked in the mirror, couldn't stand the sight of myself with my beard making me look like a goat, and trimmed it back to a short goatee. Probably I was face-to-face with the beginning of the "awkward stages" of what long-bearded guys must go through. I'd still like to try a long/big beard someday; but I probably don't feel brave enough to follow through with it right now because I'm not as financially secure as I wish...

"What does money have to do with growing one's beard out?", you're probably saying to yourselves right now (LOL)

Well, the answer to that question is simple: I have NO intentions of ever cutting off my long hair, regardless of however bad the economy turns out to directly affect me. But, by having a neatly-trimmed beard & mustache, I guess that's my way of compromising with Western Society's pressure to not look TOO far-out there... In other words, by me having BOTH long hair AND a huge frickin' beard, I fear I would be less employable and/or less likely to get a raise.

"Clear as mud?" (LOL)

Of course, there is one more little factor that makes me feel like I look too much like "Santa" every time I let my beard grow out: if I could only lose a little more WEIGHT, people wouldn't expect me to be wearing a red suit and saying, "Ho ho ho!", even when it's far from Christmas time!

- Ken in San Francisco

Archived House of David article. [PIC]
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Georges

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Hello Everyone,

Google Archives is a good source, to look up articles about long hair on men, even before the sixties, (news.google.com - advanced search - archive search). A lot of free articles can be found, from defunct newspapers, and library microfilm reels.

Here I am uploading an article about the House of David baseball team, dated from august 6 1929, two days after my mom was born :)

Enjoy.

Update, hmmm 10 years, more? Can't Remember [PIC]
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longhairedone

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Brad inspired me to take some photos of the back of my head! LOL I wear my hair in a tail at work but let it loose at home, so here are a couple photos with my phone. Been doing a lot of sking lately, the hair works great keeping my neck warm! Hope everybody is doing well!

Deep Conditioning Treatment
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jm1987

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1.How often do you do it? (If even)
2.What product/s do you typically use?
3.how long do you leave the product in before rinsing?
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1.I do it about once every week or two.
2.I am using my silicone-based conditioner which is very nourishing for curls. Contains many beneficial additives. It is a rinse out premium conditioner, not a special "leave in" or "deep treatment" product, but can be used for this purpose all the same, and it gives me a good result.
3. Still experimenting with the residual time prior to rinsing. Some people leave it in for as little as 20 mins while others recommend several hours. My main concern is product build-up and coating of the hair. I usually wait about 25-30 mins before the conditioner has fully dried in my hair and then thoroughly rinse with warm water to remove any residue. When I want to leave conditioner in my hair I use cone free product on most other days, for this intended purpose.

Any risks incurred?
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jm1987

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I've been using this cheap family sized bottle of silicone free conditioner as a leave-in product for my hair. I like to leave conditioner in my hair because it makes it less dry and clarifies the curls. Last time when I was alot less experienced about hair care I used to do it with cone containing conditioner - definitely not a good idea. Lately I've noticed a few split ends forming on my hair and they're probably not all that bad(maybe even a natural occurance?), but my hair neuroticism makes me consider all the possibilities.

I will list the ingredients and hopefully a knowledgeable member can quell any doubts I have about leaving cone free conditioner in my hair and the 'safety' of it, especially in the long run.

INGREDIENTS : Stearyl Alcohol, Centrimonium, Chloride, Polyquaternium 7, Hydrolyzed Collagen, Fragrance, DMDM Hydantion, Disodium EDTA

Many thanks for the help. :)

16 months
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Brad

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Dont post here much but read here every day......here are 2 pics with hair slightly damp

sorry for the bad quality

Long Hair Update
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Justin

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Hi Guys

"Only" because several of you wanted me to show updates of growing-out my hair again after the Salon demolishment, here is one I just put on YT.

Not really planning on doing any more...........but, 4 years from now perhaps a pic of where my hair once was. This vid follows the one I had made about "Beware of the Salon" and is a follow-up to that particular video of about 5 weeks ago.

Hope you all have a great weekend. :-)

Take care-

Justin~

Jason B
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Has anyone heard from Jason B - no posts here for a while and website not updated since 12 December. Hope all is well?

Long hair Accessories
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Simon

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Hi guys!

It's been a while since I've posted here.. something over a year. My hair has been growing out peacefully as there weren't any scissors nearby ;)

I'm here to ask you lot a question:

What type of accessories do you use to keep your hair together? Some time ago I've seen some kind of metal clips that bind the hair together, but I don't know how they are called. They looked like some kind of a ring that you put around your hair and then press it together to close the gap... I really liked the design on them, celtic or rock/metal influences were clearly visible :)

Anywhoo, if anyone knows how these beauties are called or where can i buy them (or something similar) I'd be really happy to find out :)

Story Time!!!
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Nick

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I saw Trolleypup's story about some rude old man riding on his bus in a thread below, and I thought it would be interesting to read some stories about people's reactions to your hair. I'm sure almost everyone has at least one.

Here's my very uninteresting one.

I've hated haircuts, so after lurking around and browsing on the subject I decided to just stop without telling anyone, except some friends a little later. My family kept telling me to go get a haircut but I refused, and it kind of shocked them. After a month of no cuts my mother just came up to me and asked me if I lost a bet with someone or if I had joined some religious cult.

As for my friends, they just said I'd look like a girl (even though I have a beard) and told me it would look dirty if I grew it out (yet it's not dirty on women for some reason).

Enough of my story though, let's see some others.

Picture update
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Jarvis

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I said I'd get pictures up as soon as I could. Schools out unfortunately, and the camera actually has a memory card today...

So here they are. My 3 years is on the 15th, I figured you guys wouldn't mind if I posted the pictures earlier. I don't know how big they're gonna be, so sorry if they're huge.

Heres a couple of me from the front:

from the back:

and closeup so you can see the eyeliner- which I redid today just for you guys- and the little goatee that needs to thicken the hell up:

I hope the pictures worked. I agree wwith Nikola, smiling sucks. Besides, I'm typically pissed of at someone and look like this anyway.

Trimming - A Reason Not To
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Ryan B.

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It occurred to me today when I was reading the article on how to "grow hair mega-long" that trimming hair most likely reduces the total length of the hair when it is ready to fall out. I decided to do a little research and rediscovered the phases hair goes through in its cycle. The page briefly explains the phases of the hair cycle and lower down on the page goes on to say (essentially) that any length trimmed from your hair detracts from the maximum possible length of that hair.

Therefore if you trim your hair while it is still in the anagen phase, the end result when it exits the anagen phase will be that much less, and if you trim your hair while it is in the catagen or telogen phase then it simply won't grow any longer at all. In this way trimming reduces the maximum potential length of any hair cut until whatever hair was cut has fallen out and been replaced.

For maximum length you should take good care of your hair so as to avoid damage in the first place and using the search and destroy method cut off any damage off individual hairs, sparing as much length as possible.

Thoughts?

29months update [PIC]
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Vincent

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I got a comment that my hair was so long from a friend, she then compared that lenght with a longhaired friend which has been a huge inspiration and it turns out I'm cathing up very quickly!
I decided to take a picture myself to see how long at actualy was and I was amazed!

This one is takes after a shower to show the lenght better!

I will post another picture taken one year ago after showering to compare.

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White Tail

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New hair car regime:

NOTHING until Spring thaw.....

Article w/ good advise on how to grow mega-long...
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy people,

Since I've messed up with including links in the past, I'll also type it out here:
"leadfashion.com/Beauty/Hairstyle/How_to_grow_and_keep_lovely_long_hair_2382"

It's an article written about a guy who owns and operates a hair salon in New York who specializes in long-haired clients only. Although the intended target audience is obviously meant for long-haired women, there's no reason to not have us enjoy reading about the suggested tips for us guys to follow, too. As far as I can remember, it all sounded like very sound tips and suggestions for how to best grow super-long hair, and how to best keep it healthy that way. For anybody here who's interested in mega-length (including this guy has clients who have knee-length or even longer), this is the best article I've ever read on the topic...

Happy reading!

- Ken in San Francisco

New Guy from CA [PIC]
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Humble

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Hey everyone, just stumbled on to this place chasing links from littlebird's youtube videos and you look like a friendly bunch. :) I've been growing out my hair for probably the last 25 years so I'm no stranger to the long hair look. I was foolish just out of high school and cut my lovely locks for a job, which is not something I'll do twice. Since then I've grown my hair out but didn't know how to take care of it properly so after 10 years of growth it's still between my shoulders. I did a little digging around November and discovered I was doing a lot of the don'ts which explains why I was shedding so much or the general lack of length. I still need some help getting rid of the frizz but hopefully now I can get some length growing.

Ugh Oh..... [PIC]
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White Tail

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I have taken a contract in Central Iowa which will have be here for about two months and I have spent the past week doing a great deal of meetings and shopping in the Des Moines area.....I have yet to see ANY guy with long hair.....hmmmm. Yet no one has reacted to me negatively, so maybe I will be OK.

Had to cancel drilling today due to high wind, heavy snow and low temperatures.....-15F right now ! Brrrrr (glad I have long fur to tuck in my fleece hood. Ha ! Needless to say...grooming is out the window....going for the "NuttiDave Look". Frizzied Fotos to Follow...

Walter

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White Tail

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Yes....that is a snow shovel in poor ol' White Tail's hands....Brrr

I know they did not mention anything about that in Geology classes...

Pantene Pro-V
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Mike

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No this is not another Pantene Rant. In fact, my hair loves it!! Ran out of shampoo and decided to give this stuff a whirl. Hair hasn't fully dried off yet but man, combing my hair after I took a shower (been snowblowing all day) like combing silk. I'll be using this stuff for awhile.

The colder the better?
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Mike

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About a month ago, I decided to try to wash my hair with cold water. Been doing this ever since. Nowadays, I wash my hair with the coldest water I bare and my hair is no longer frizzy. Maybe it's just me paying more attention to my hair but it seems to shine more too. Anyone else have similar observations?

Picture of Current Hair... [PIC]
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DarkMetal

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Hello all,

I was finally able to take a pic of my current hair. As you can see the split ends are towards the bottom where it is stringy. Ive been arguing with my sister about it haha! Should I trim these ends now or wait till my goal length? As you can see the healthy hair is more or less at the midpoint. However if I cut all of the ends off that puts me behind like 4 months in terms of growing! whats a guy to do?!

I think it's a natural brand. I was looking for something that wasn't going to try out my thick, coarse, curly hair and I came across this at the grocery store. It seems to be working well, but does anyone else have any experience with this brand?

A little update [PIC]
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Silviu

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Hello! Although I'm a new here, I did post some pictures many moons ago

Feb 1st Pic [PIC]
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Cevyn

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Just a pic...my hair is lower back length at the moment, I'm maintaining it there.

First time hair grower [PIC]
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Orin

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Hello everyone. I stumbled upon this board after reading an article on the net about hair growing and some tips about it. This is my first time ever really letting my hair grow out, so I have a lot to learn about taking care of it, how to treat it right so it continues to grow and stay strong, etc.

I started growing in October of 2009. This is (so far) the longest my hair has ever been and I am pretty happy with it, even though most of the time I look pretty shaggy and unkempt, despite my best efforts to make it look presentable. I did have a few questions.

Some of my main concerns are: How often should I get the ends of my hair cut for split ends? Is it normal that every time I comb my hair I comb out hairs (Sometimes I comb out none, sometimes it's around 5 strands or so) Should I start washing my hair with expensive shampoo and conditioner or is it really not necessary? I have more questions but I'll leave it at that right now.

I'm including two pictures. The one with the short hair is from October, and the one with my hair longer is from today. I know people's hair growth varies on a bunch of different things, but does this look like a somewhat natural length for the amount of time I have been growing?

Well, I apologize that this is turning into a novel, so I will end it here. Any help is appreciated!

I see a lot of pictures and stories on here that are inspiring, and make me want to continue on my quest to become a long haired man.

Hi,

When I was about 10 I tried to grow my hair out... but I kept playing with it all the time so we had to get it cut. Fast forward some years, and somewhere around my 16th birthday in October 2009 I decided that I wanted to grow my hair out. That picture was taken today, so that's about 4 months progress (with one trim in there). Now for the questions!

1. One of the reasons I wanted to grow my hair out was to see if my hair would curl. (My dad's hair curls like mad, but my mom's hair is straight.) But I can't tell if my hair is curling or not. I have that weird 'swoosh' thing on the left and my bangs/fringe is sort of curling. So is my hair curly, wavy, or just some weird cowlicks or something?

2. I have been debating as to what length I should let my hair grow. I was originally going for some sort of surfer/skater/shag look, but I have read some pretty inspirational stories online and am considering growing it out to something longhair-ish: shoulder length or a bit longer. Which style would look better on me? A factor to consider is that my hair is quite thick. I am also concerned that if I do something without bangs/fringe my large forehead would be distracting, but I don't really want shoulder length hair with bangs/fringe.

Can't think of anything else at the moment, so suggestions and constructive criticism is welcome. Tell me what you think!

P.S. Sorry about the bad picture, but it's the best one from my crappy iPhone camera.

Current Pic of My Long Hair [PIC]
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Element

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Hey everyone! Long time lurker...first time poster. This pic was taken about a week ago. I had long hair for about 8 or 9 years when I was younger (from around age 14-23). But was forced to cut it and wear it very very short for about 4 years while I was a firefighter. I quit that job in early '07 and immediately started growing my hair back out. It could be longer, but I prefer it at this length and probably wont let it get much longer. But I dont see myself cutting my hair shorter than this EVER.

Update. [PIC]
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Smitts

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Not much length since the last picture I posted but there has been a tiny.

1.5 months since last hari cut [PIC]
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tomc1980

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Well its been a month and a half since my last cut and just got out of shower and decided to do some pics with my hair wet so i could show some length gains. It seems to be progressing on fairly well.

Update
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ATP

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Got a back hair problem? Easy, grow really long hair! LOL

My hair care routine is Head&Shoulders shampoo/conditioner in 1, every other day, and just wash with water in between.

I finger comb and let it air-dry. That's what I've done for god knows how long now.

I find that brushing it actually kills the life out of the hair and makes it more static-y :/

I do use a comb to comb the front part of my hair straight back when I put it in a tail or whatnot.

Surprisingly I do not see any split ends or wispy ends, and it has been a long time since I've had a trim.

Perhaps it is true that wearing your hair in a bun protects it? Hmmm...

Year and a half progress [PIC]
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Devon

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Hey guys I never post here that often, but I wanted to show you how much progress I've made on growing out my hair. My last real haircut was September 2008, though I've had two trims since now. The first one was last spring because I had a wedding to go to and didn't want to look homeless, and the second was in October to add some layers to my hair. The one thing that always bugged me about my hair is how fine it is, so I have to wash it everyday or else it looks like a limp/flat mess. My goal is to get chest length hair.

Awkward stages - mullet or trim??
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Dr.og

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First post here. I am trying to grow my hair to legth but have basically gotten to the awkward and annoying stage. Should I be trimming the hair on the back of my head near the top of my neck to let the rest of my hair on front and on the sides catch up??

If I don't, it looks like I will be sporting one of those 80s style mullets soon....have read on some posts that you just let it grow. Sorry no pics, but my hair is physically thin( ie the strands) and I get significant "flipping" in the back....Any suggestions?

The regular trim?
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Eli

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Im new here, but hopefully someone will answer my question.
When the stylist asks "how much?" what do you say or describe to get what you want? Note: i am trying to actively grow my hair, so should i even get maintenence cuts?

Side Trim
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Growing

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You may remember me -- I am the lawyer retiring at the end of the year and hoping for a pony tail by then. . .long hair and short hours, my partner says. Anyway, I am just over a year in and the back is way, way over the collar. I love it! I did get a trim on the ears yesterday so that I can maintain the "professional" image at least for now. My barber is very sympathetic, on the journey with me, and he thinks I'll be able to start a weekend tail in a month or so. Pictures soon.

Little update, pictures hopefully soon
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Jarvis

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I haven't been around much for a month or so, I'm still here.

The biggest thing right now is the little dread thing that was going on. I started brushing it again back on the 28th. I had my usual "fuck your opinion" attitude even stronger back in December. Maybe it was a little bit of depression I don't know. Dec. 30th I stopped combing, but never felt 100% on the idea, but was pretty sure I wanted them. In the couple days leading up to My combing I missed brushing my hair, all my girly styles, and there were a few peoples opinions that I did care about that convinced me to comb it out. I didn't loose any length or thickness and didn't cut anything. Just spent an hour or so with a brush. So my hairs longer than my last update.

Anyway, on to more cheerful points. As much as I dissmissed it in the past, Im thinking about dying. If I do Im debating black with red tips or bleached like the singer from Bigelf in the madhatter video.

Also I've taken a liking to eyeliner, and maybe other makeup, just to let you know before hand when you see my next update with pictures. Aside from the fact that I got a good bit of compliments for it today, it makes a lot of people even more uncomfortable around me, which I've already explained I love to do.

Oh, and I'm keeping a slightly pitiful, thin goatee. I haven't shaved it since october and my moustache since about 2 weeks ago. Chin hair doesn't get past a half inch or so and I'm fine with that. The only reason I shave the sides of my face is because the right has a little more hair than the left.

Other than that I'm still keeping up the hippie-metalhead-goth thing and waiting for warm weather. I'm tired of this damn cold.

I think thats everything, hope to get new pics up soon. And yes, I have stopped using that site from my avatar. If you want to change the re-direct to just the picture, thats great. If not, whatever.

~Jarvis~

Hi there,

I've just got back from a couple of days off and a nice trip up to Manchester "The Grim North so some people say" and we even had a smattering of the white stuff as well.

While I was up there I arranged to meet up with our very own Decapitated_Vogg (Matt), who has been posting here since around 2004, we enjoyed a good evening over a few beers and seeing the return of one of our favourite Techncial Death Metal Bands of Decapitated. They have not played for 2 years since the death of their drummer Vitek. It was great to see the band back playing again and a really powerful set. There was a good turnout for the band in Manchester with great support from Kataklysm and Man must die

It was good to see you last night mate and we'll have to do it again.

Cheers,

John.B

SF Giants' longhaired pitcher
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Bill

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At age 25, San Francisco's star pitcher has already gotten two Cy Young awards and is a city hero. The article below may be of interest since it is primarily a discussion of Tim's long hair.

Long time... [PIC]
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mr,coffee

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Haven't dropped in in ages, just thought I'd say 'hey.' I see a lot of familiar names still around, some new and some absent.

So evidently my terminal length is just past my shoulder, about where it was when I stopped posting, never did grow any further than that. Go figure. It is what it is, I guess, so I take it as it comes.

Anyway, life is treating me more or less fairly, hopefully all is well for y'all. I'll probably pop by to see responses, maybe shoot the $#!* for a bit, then fade away again. :)

-m

New Long Hair Hazard
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Michael ''Strong Bear'' Taylor

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My truck's transmission died on me so I've been spending time underneath fixing it. As a result, I've discovered a new long hair hazard. Three times my hair got caught under the wheels of the creeper I was using, and once it got stuck in the wheel itself. That may not sound too bad, but remember that I was laying on the creeper while I was under a truck. I had no way of getting up or shifting my weight to get my hair out. I had to get help from my dad, whose garage we were using. He ended up having to use a metal pipe as a lever to lift the wheel off the floor so I could pull my hair out. I'm sure the trauma of being ground between a metal wheel and a concrete floor didn't do my hair much good, not to mention the transmission fluid.

Oh well, I guess I have some damage control to do.

Quick hair update(13 months)
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jm1987

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This is just a quick update to portray the fringe/layered cut I have done. My hair hasn't grow much and I don't want to overpost so, here it is.

Front - Front bangs and side/front bangs have been cut at different lengths. Will leave this style as it looks good and keeps my hair manageable and less awkward. Can now wear it freely all the time, without worrying about gel/restraints/caps/etc.

Side - Portrays the 'blending of hair' and where the fringe line meets the hair, in a layered style. Curls are a fair bit longer when unravelled and go well past the chin now.

Back(wet) - If I might say so myself, my hair looks fabulous when wet and the hydrated curls and real length become apparent.
Cannot wait for double this length to see how amazing it will look.

Take care y'all.

200 Days Of Hair Growth Time Lapesd
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dave

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hey guy my last upadate was jst 17/01/10 however ive jst reach 200 days of taking a photo every day so far sorry about posting this link but i thot some of you may be interested in this thankyou guys :P

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suddenly hair turning gray
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aze

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i got few gray hair on my head i dont know why but only few months back i had not a single gray strand but now i got them and every few days i see them increasing what could be the cause i am only 22 years old. Could it be shampoo, i use head and shoulders anti dandruff shampoo or could it be some internal bodily imbalance? otherwise my hair is very thick and healthy its just all of a sudden it has started to turn grey. I am worrieed what should i do?

Awkward stage revisited
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Gudmundur

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I've been growing my hair now for nine years (can't believe it's been that long already!). For someone my age, that's a loooong time to go without any change in hairstyle.

Last May I decided that it was time for something different. I wanted something drastically different but not something that was too radical that I would become miserable if I didn't like it. I decided on a compromise. I would shave only half of my head.

No regrets at all. It did nothing but confirm for me that short hair is not only boring but also too high maintenance. It has been growing back out ever since.

I think that this awkward stage reaches new heights of awkwardness. For your entertainment:

But, it's not so bad. It's still kind of a cool haircut.

Also, it is quite easily covered up.

Just felt like sharing. :)

The chat room
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Birdman

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I am wondering when do you all go to the chat room? Every time I go there, no one is there. I want to chat so bad LOL

Birdman

Thinning
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Robert

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It seems that my hair shafts are becoming extremely thin, so much co that they start to just "flyaway" all the time. Also, the Grey that is coming in my beard and mustache is a weird texture - extremely coarse and unruly. Any thoughts on this? I have had long hair for 30 years, and suddenly its like all my hair belongs to someone else...

Awesome amounts of shedding today
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jm1987

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...but not so awesome for my mane!
Today I got out of the shower and deep conditioned my hair and ran a wide tooth comb through it and detangled it with my fingers. There seemed to be an unusually large amount of shedding from my hair. The fact that I have not deep conditioned, or even ran a comb through my hair for weeks may have simply caused more dead hair to accumulate, that was ripe to be removed?

Yesterday I did have a party and used some heavy products on my hair(mousse and hair spray). I only occasionally use styling mousse, and the hairspray was done without consent from my sister who likes to interfere and thinks she is always right. I think it might be possible that these products could have dried the hair out and caused more shedding as I combed through the hair. I always use a liberal amount of conditioner when I comb through my hair wet.

Just an observation really, and wondering about the normal shed rate and whether I deep conditioned/combed every day if the shed rate would be significantly lower because of the higher frequency and less dead hair accumulation. I wonder if some of the shedding is happening in real time, as I run the comb though my hair, straight from the roots.

Just Saw Avatar......WOW!
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Hairball

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First of all I'd like to thank Matt for bringing up this film in an earlier thread and to all those who twisted and re-twisted my arm into a pretzel to go and see it.Well I just got home a little over an hour ago and have to say this movie blew me away.The 3D was great but the overall story was very emotional.This movie was worth the admission and I'm tempted to see it again this time at a true IMAX theatre. I can see the moral of this story is that corporate greed has no morals.What they tried to do to these poor people was horrible.I was pleased at the ending though dismayed at the destruction.For those of you who have not yet seen it I highly add my recommendation to the list.The longhair presence with those phenomenal braids was to die for:)

Mark

Hairy Sideburns.... Grow or trim? [PIC]
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jimho85

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Enjoy my informative picture =)

Noticed a problem with my hair and dont know what to do??

I have this "head-hair" in front of ears under my glasses (see pic) right before my sideburns-hair starts. My glasses cant hold this bit back... and It seems to grow slower than the rest of my hair.

Should i try to grow the "head-hair" out or trim it down to sideburn length???

My hair is shoulder lenght in the back and lots of layers right now. Think young Shaun Cassidy...

Thanks for help

// JIM

Truncated hair and fringe cutting [PIC]
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jm1987

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I think I might have truncated a few too many hairs when I was cutting my fringe. Some hairs that I thought would be part of the fringe are moving to the side. I did predict the 'fringe line' when I was cutting, but my hair is so unpredictable the way it sits. It's possible that I might have overestimated the fringe line, but it was my first time cutting it, so live and learn. So there are about 2 or 3 strings/strands/sections of hair that are significantly shorter than the others(about 4 inches as opposed to around 6-7 inches). They appear to flyaway and look rather awkward on my head. I guess I will just have to let them grow out again, although they will always be a little shorter than the rest of the hair. ATM, my goal length is shoulder length and I'm already over the halfway mark to achieving it. I can't let something small like this discourage me(yes, I am neurotic). The fringe looks good though and is helping me immensely get through the awkward stage. Furthermore, since I don't plan to wear the ponytail style very often the shorter hairs near the front really bother me, I can just slick them back with gel and be done with it(same as the fringe).

Ever since I switched to natural conditioner(cone free) I am getting great results and my hair looks very healthy and hydrated, at last I've found the winning combination for my hair!

Next time I will have to take extra care with the fringe line to ensure I don't cut any hair that shouldn't be cut.

This photo depicts the fringe. It is still wet in this photo and I applied mousse to my hair to give it volume and enhance the curls, which is something I do only occasionally to prevent drying of the hair/build-up. Laugh at the funny pose/lame attempt at facial concealment. LOL.

01-25-10 Update [PIC]
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Doomlord

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Hello everyone, I cant remember when I started posting here but it was soon after I started growing my hair long, back in 2000, I cant believe its now been 10 years and I just turned 30! I honestly didnt think Id live to be this old when I was a kid lol. anyways heres my latest pics, taken tonight:

Found this site a while back and lost track of it but recently found it again! I've grown my hair to the length it is currently several times and seem to decide that shorter is how I would like it. Every time it gets cut I feel horrible so I figure long hair is definitely the way to go. I only have a mobile phone image right now but will work on getting a proper picture in the next day or so.

NEW GUY :D [PIC]
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Granty

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hello all.
I see you've all got amazing manes of hair. VERY jealous!
I've been lurking on here for YEARS, and finally started growing my hair.
I've had longish hair for a couple of years - but I've finally started getting some length to it.
Had a few issues with thinning and such. It use to be very thick but not so much anymore. I've tried various different washing routines and found that if i use only conditioner in between washes it doesn't go greasy or look so dry!
any body got any suggestions?

I've included a fairly recent picture. Could do with a trim though.
Tell me what you think? It's naturally quite curly. This photos from an odd occasion where i straightened it.
Cheers
Grant

27 Month Update!!
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AgentXXL

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Hi Eaveryone!

Hope the new year is treating you right. Hey, had a little more time on my hands or is it my hair...lol!! Oh well. Here's a 27 month update. No photo, but a link to a video.

January Update
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Dmitri Sylvain

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It's been about a month, and this is my progress. At the beginning of this week, I changed my routine (again). It was getting time to change my shampoo anyway, and I think my habit of using silk drops every night and a ton of jojoba oil once a week was making me too greasy. So... the new routine is Johnson's No More Tears baby shampoo. And every time I use that, I put one or two drops of jojoba oil in my hair. Still washing three times a week. It seems to have helped.

I'm still not smiling right! I hate posing for 10 second timed self portraits. At least headshot style ones...

--D

Make the itching stop!
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Nick

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Hello, lurked here for a few months.

I stopped getting cuts around September, and now my hair is around 3-5 inches. When it was shorter, I had dandruff and would use some anti-dandruff shampoo every day. I've heard some comments that it's bad to wash every day, so now I do it 3 times a week. My head is starting to itch, and there are flakes of skin but not as bad as before. Any advice?

Thanks.

Body Painting 'Dante's Inferno' [PIC]
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Cevyn

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I got a chance to work with body painter Chelas in Lancaster earlier this month, and this is a pic of the result...there are many more that I'll get up on my site eventually.

What do you do?
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Smitts

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Well, as you all know.
I'm trying to get my hair just below my butt. That is my ultimate goal.
I notice I get split ends a lot or so it seems.

Going from a half an inch trim every 3 months. i decided to take some advice from some of the users here and trim less often.
As of now I am going 4-5 months without trimming. Well, I'm kind of "search and destroying" the split ens if I see them. I'll just trim it off.

I would like to know what you guys use to detangle your hair.
I use a pick. After I wash my hair I run a pick through it gently and slowly. I have heard regular brushes are bad for your hair and it is best to use wide tooth combs instead of brushing.

Also, do any of you towel dry your hair? I figured scrubbing it dry with a towel was more than likely very damaging to the hair so for awhile now I have been gently squeezing and pressing the towel to my hair, nothing more.

What do you guys do and any other recommendations to help prevent split ends.

I want the length but I want the healthy look as well.

Thanks in advance!

Hi there,

I'm sure this topic is been reported differently on both sides of the pond and of course we speak the same language and of course cultures are different.

I was just reading the press and with the mention of the current health reforms going through Congress (we love you NHS). I was just wondering how one person that just been elected as a new Senator, upset the applecart and completely de-rail such a reforms or at least that's how it's been reported here. I doubt Mr Brown would get away with that lol!

Cheers,

John.B

Thankyou! [PIC]
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MattT

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Thanks for all your responses guys to my earlier post re my new hair growing journey, finally got a chance to get back on here just now. Yes next bithday I may just try the reverse ageing Ken it sounds great!

Oren your mane & beard are looking incredibly thick,

Hairball yes It's good some of us are coming back again to longhairdom, hopefully the spate of "I need a haircut'" incidents are decreasing, although necessary for me at the time.

jm1987 yes I may create a new photobucket account, good idea then people can look when they want rather then being overwhelmed by us!!, this is my 3rd go at this now so I have heaps of photos, I was way obsessed last time I have literally stacks of DVD's of pics and videos too. If anyone wants to have a poke around I have included a link to my youtube page that has some of the old stuff on it from the last 2 times.

Nice to see I started a wave of old ship nostalgia too!

Also thanks Longhair 511, Francois (not sure I recall you sorry how rude of me, must be the beginning of alzeimers!), thanks John B too, David great to see you have kept your growing up, looking good of course thanks to Justin, White Tail & Tom too! Sorry if I forget anyone.

Oh and for you Vivien, a picture from 2 years ago too showcasing my fantastic brick wall as it was then ;) I was "cheating" a bit my head is tilted back but not that much!

Cheers,

Matt.

My progress after about 2 1/2 years [PIC]
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John S.

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Some of you here may remember me.. I started posting here in 2007/08 several months into growing my hair out from a short military cut after getting out of the Marines. At one point after I stopped posting here I had the back trimmed to be more even with the front, then not long after that I had bangs cut into it, again after that I trimmed the back to be even with the front. This last trim was about the end of 08/beginning of 09...I honestly cant remember! I've been doing water-only washing for about 5 months now, and I have to say may hair has never felt and looked healthier! Giving up shampoo and conditioner is probably the best thing I did so far with my hair!

Heres a couple pics I just took to show my progress so far. I still really dont have a goal length in mind, but I have no intentions of cutting or trimming so we'll see where I end up!

OT - Have you seen Avatar?
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MattM

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Screenshot

On MLK day, I went to see Avatar with my friend Megan. This 3 hour movie was my all time favorite, and I watched it in 3D at a regular movie theater (not IMAX).

Since I liked this movie so much, I actually wish to be a Na'vi person for part time if it is possible (and not just a Halloween costume). Looking at the Na'vi beings, they do indeed have waist-length hair, but inside the hair, they have nerves that connect to other beings or to animals that live on Pandora. No, I did not get the "Avatar blues". The 3D effects of this movie made it so real that some people rather live there instead of our world, and can't seem to get out of that world. Have any of you experienced that feeling?

Matthew

Long Hair Hazzards
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Michael ''Strong Bear'' Taylor

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I've never really wore my hair down until I started visiting this site and decided I would wear my hair the way I wanted. If anything, people are more polite and friendly with me than when I have it pulled back in a tail. But there are some hazzards I am just becoming aware of.

1. On windy days, long hair tends to get caught in car doors, even if you try to hold it down while closing the door!

2. It's possible to sit on your own hair (or lean back against it) and get stuck in the chair. Even worse is when someone else sits on your hair.

3. You can find hair in your food and realize it's yours and still attached to your head.

4. You have to be careful when brushing your teeth or you can end up spitting in your own hair.

5. Pets don't recognize you. Large dogs can be a problem.

6. If you use a telephone headset at work, you can get it tangled in your hair and become effectively stuck to your desk while coworkers try not to let you see them laughing.

7. Fire becomes more hazardous, even if you're just trying to blow out a candle. Birthday cakes are downright deadly!

Anybody got any more?

high voltage
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Tony

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Just wondering if anyone has any good tricks for dealing with static electricity.

Split ends, dry hair
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Fabio

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Hey, guys, so I read this forum sometimes, I`m letting my hair grow since October 2008. I have no good quality pics atm, so i`ll prolly post later.

Many people say my hair looks good, but end up saying that it looks dry. I, too, think it is kinda dry.

In the back part, tho, it looks healthy, while on the front side (forehead) it looks dry and kinda broken, you know? Like if you look from a distance, it looks ok, but if you get kinda close youll see some hair that is kinda shorter than the rest and seems kinda broken, or dry, dunno for sure. It looks like it got some frizz. hm

It seems that if I let my hair get in front of my face, it will be straight and alright, but I kinda need to see where I`m going, to I put the hair to the sides (like parting in the middle) and it kinda rests in my cheeks. It covers a lot of my face, something that I wanted to work on also.

Plus, sometimes (right now, for example), that I put it behind my ears, for the sake of seeing better lol. That causes my hair to do this kind of loop shape where its resting on my ears, to when I release them from the ears they get this loopy shape.

I just wanted to have more control over my hair, thats all, and I wanted it to look healthier, possibly.

Well anyways, i`ll try to post pics later, but id like to know if there is anyways to keep my hair hidrated (i tried some stuff like those things that you leave on the hair for about 10 mins then remove with water). I currently am using Nexxus shampoo, conditioner and tried using once the leave in thingy for better hidration, didnt get much better tho lol

Kind of a wall of text heh, English is not my first language so if you dont understand something please let me know

Thank you, rock on

What kind of work do you do?
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BrunoG

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Well, I am at that stage in life where I'm pretty much lost as to what to do regarding work. Just trying to find myself, really.

So I decided to get some inspiration from you guys. What kind of work do you do? I'd like to know since it will obviously (I think) be longhair friendly work, and that's something that is essential to me, since I am beggining to see myself as a longhair more and more and I'm in it for the long haul.

Of course, you can also just suggest something even if you don't actually do it! =)

See link below:

Conditioner?
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Mike

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At what point did you all here start using conditioner on your hair as it grew out? Shoulder length? Mid back?

BEWARE OF SALONS!!!!!!!!!!!!! [PIC]
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Justin

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Hi all :-)

1. Running a fever and having walked over 5 miles in the rain last year because of car trouble, I "decided" to splurge and just let a Salon I was passing WASH MY HAIR ONLY. Nothing else mind you, and certainly no cutting. The woman couldn't even get that right and destroyed about 1/3rd of my long hair. How? She balled it all up when washing and it was a big tangle the size of a bowling ball atop my shoulder. Before I could think fast enought a metal comb was used and in less than 30 seconds there was my hair on the floor. I NEVER would have believed such a thing could happen and was I ever rippin mad at the idiot.
Conclusion: To walk into a Salon is taking a big chance no matter what is asked for, and we have all heard the horror stories. But for a simple washing? Give me a break. Despite all I managed for quite a while, althought the hair was looking a bit shabby.

2. Emergency surgery to prevent cardiac arrest followed a number of months later and more hair was lost. This of course was not my fault nor the fault of the surgeon who operated. But by then hair this long hung in strands and tangled all the time and was self-destructing itself worse and worse everyday. Something HAD to be done before I lost everything, and so my hair was cut to below the shoulders.

3. I have every intention of growing my hair back but am happily making the best out of all as it gets there. No sense cursing forever what couldn't be helped. Right now I am having a blast with all kinds of different looks and styles. Actually quite fun! :-)

The above top photo was taken last November following the hair cut. The bottom photo was the last photo ever taken of my hair when it was long and had NOT YET been demolished by that Salon idiot less than two weeks later.

Take care and Happy New Year to each and everyone of you.

Justin~

6 month Update [PIC]
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MattT

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Hi all,

Hope everyone's going well, good to see the long hair is still going strong. Hey 80's Metal, good to see you back too!

I forget how to post multiple pics now so here's the 6 month anniversary pic taken today, I don't seem to be getting any more attractive with age oh well.. I'll post the Short pic soon for anyone interested in what 6 months can do.

I told myself I wouldn't over update I think I got over the whole thing last time posting way too many pics, and maybe you all did too so see you all again in July for the next update on this journey! I will of course hang around and visit the board in between that.

Take care all,

Matt.

Oldie but a goodie for starters
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Father M.

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This was a site that has gone the way of many sites, but offered a nice summary of advice for growing out your hair, especially for those who are starting out.

Internet 'Wayback Machine'

Enjoy.
- Fr. M

The Short of It [PIC]
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MattT

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Taken July 21 2009... Bit long on top for a slight head start, pardon the pun.. although I am almost smiling?!?! The pic in the background is of a Wreck called The Maheno on Fraser Island of Queensland, if anyone's interested..

Hi Happily Hairy People,

I realize that talking about hair care products can be a real yawner for many of us old-timers here; but, in this case... drink a stiff cup of coffee and LISTEN UP (lol)!!

I've recently discovered some new hair care gunk that I'm beginning to like a whole lot. My long-time favorite shampoo & conditioner company happens to be "EO" (which apparently stands for "Essential Oil"), which used to be only available in Health Food stores and grocery stores like Whole Foods; but nowadays is also found in other places more and more, too (I think even at Trader Joe's). Avalon Organics is also another favorite of mine, similar in results for me to EO.

Anyway, I digress from my main title of "Hair Milk!"

Hair Milk is made by a company I've never heard of before until just recently, called "Carol's Daughter"... On the outside of the little plastic bottle, it says the following:
"HAIR MILK. A light solution for adding shine and frizz-free definition to natural curls."

They only list 3 ingredients, which are as follows:
Sweet Almond Oil
Apricot Kernel Oil and
Essential Oil of Lemongrass

It also says the following info as well:
"Paraben-free. No petroleum, mineral oil, or artificial color."

I also get a kick out of reading their directions, because they sound a bit "girlie" to me, especially the following: "Twist and twirl your curls as you apply to enhance their shape..."

OK, now for the important part (so, DRINK ANOTHER CUP OF COFFEE TO STAY AWAKE - lol!!):
I'm finding this Hair Milk product more and more to my liking as both a leave-in conditioner, and also replacing my need for applying any other beneficial oil onto my dry hair ends. I only apply this stuff onto the lower portion of my mane (I don't need it on or near my scalp, as my hair naturally gets greasy enough on its own); but it is working wonders on keeping my hair ends soft and moist-feeling -- and best of all, this stuff smells HEAVENLY!!!!! (It kind of reminds me of the exotic but subtle flavor of drinking a sweet Indian Yogurt Lassi Smoothie!)

Alright now, time for me to go back to bed (insert big YAWN here)... My apologies for forcing you all to drink so much coffee; but that's the only way I ever get through reading any of these long-winded hair care product posts myself (LOL)....

There's a few other new hair care products ("new" to me, at least) that I'm interested in writing about and sharing here; but I need to try them out more, first. My partner, for example, likes the "Ojon Hair" company products, which he recently bought from that TV stations that sells stuff in their all-day advertisements. I like their stuff, too; but it's hard for me to give up for even a brief moment my favorite EO shampoo & conditioners!

Happy Hair Milking!

- Ken in San Francisco

Ye olde trimming question
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DarkMetal

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Hello all!

Im starting to think about this question again. To trim or not to trim? I understand that its going to hamper your goal length and put you behind schedule but is it better in the long run? Will the split ends travel all the way up to the root and then cause extremely stringy ratty hair? Or would it be better to get to the length you want and then trim a bit to clean everything up and all that?

1 Year update/My first Post [PIC]
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TyphooN

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Hey guys, I've been growing my hair for about a year. This is my first post, but I'm going to include a picture from a year ago when I started growing it, and some recent pictures. I don't have a camera of my own so the only pictures I have are from parties, etc.

6 month update! [PIC]
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dave

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wow i cant belive its been 6 months already my hair is starting to look like hair insted of plain head lol think i can finaly say ive entered the FUN STAGE!!!!!! at last :P

id like to thank everyone who gave me support after having buzz you guys are great people and there should be more of you in the world :P once again THANKYOU!!!

- Dave

Questions about Turbans [PIC]
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

(I think I stole that above greeting from jonalbear... or, maybe it was originally from someone else -- I can't remember!)

Anyway, I have a few questions about turbans, if anyone here knows enough about them to give me an answer or 2 (CORRECT answers, that is - LOL - since made-up answers won't help me much)... Here they are:
Q #1 - Has anybody here ever worn a turban (or at least CONSIDERED wearing a turban)?
Q #2 - Does anybody know a good place to buy a turban? Here in SF there's an Indian supply store (as in, East Indian, rather than Native American), selling various spices like curries, etc., as well as some clothing; but I'm feeling a bit shy about just walking in there asking too many questions (LOL)....
Q #3 - Does anyone here know where I can learn about how to put on a turban?
Q #4 - I have other questions, but they're more late night ramblings... Do you really want to hear them?
Q #5 - If I end up liking turbans on myself, does that mean I'll have to change my MLHH handle from "Urban Cowboy" to "Turban Cowboy"?
Q #6 - Why do fools fall in love?
Q #7 - Why do birds sing so gay?
Q #8 - Will you still love me tomorrow?
Q #9 - What's that song about May?

... I can sure tell it's waaay past my bedtime now!!

- Ken

PS - Yes, this pic of this turbaned guy was also taken at the same '04 Hairght St. Fair where I took those other pics. I think his turban looks cool as can be -- and a nice way to protect long hair, too!

13-14? month update [PIC]
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Oneeye

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Hello everyone,

I've posted here before a couple times a while back, and figured that now would be a good time to show how much further along I am in the process of growing out.

I've had hair strands around the crown of my head somehow managing to tie themselves into single strand knots, so I made the difficult decision to trim the edges of them, for the slight loss of length, I find that I am once again able to run my fingers through my hair with no problem. Other then that, I've left my hair alone since I've last posted here in what seems forever ago.

''Long Hair Legion'' ot.
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Justin

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Hi Guys

Not sure if any of you might be interested in this, but in case some are, the 59 second video was made for "missheavymetal" to announce a Long Hair Group on You Tube that she just started several days ago. I tossed this one off real quick and didn't do anything special to my own hair........but you CAN see its present length.

Take care all.

Justin~

Long haired high school teachers.
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Zenjamin

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Hello.
Idealy, I would like to be big and muscled, Tattooed, bearded, and with a long braid.

Now.... how hard will it be for me to get a job as a high school history teacher?

How hard will it be with the long hair.... I suspect it would be fairly hard at schools that have a dress code forbidding long hair on males.

But what about schools without such a dress code? are they allowed to deny me employment because of my hair or appearance?

What about the possibility of the hiring principal seeing my long hair, not saying anything about it, but not hiring me because of it? I mean..... how could you prove it was the hair?

Also, what if I were to have a braid long enough to tuck in my shirt? If he didnt notice, and hire me, what then? Can they request I cut it after the fact to set a good example or something like that?

First of all, I think I might have found the winning combination for my hair, after reading the following article about the "curly girl method for long hair".

http://www.wikihow.com/Follow-the-Curly-Girl-Method-for-Curly-Hair

It basically entails a complete avoidance of harsh sulphate shampoos(which most are) and silicone-based conditioners. This essentially means very light or no shampooing and natural conditioner. Yesterday I applied a white vinegar rinse(in the absence of Apple Cidar, but it works all the same anyway) to remove any product residue and build-up from my hair. Then I rinsed it out and followed up with a "leave in" of natural silicone free conditioner(a cheap generic product). I found the conditioner at the supermarket yesterday and it was the only product that was cone free and only $2.50 for a whole litre!
I left it in my hair without having to worry about build-up or damage. My hair feels less dry and flaky now, and seems to have enhanced the natural shine. My hair is always dry and crying out for conditioning but in the past I made the mistake of lathering on copious amounts of silicone conditioner, and often, not rinsing, which was exacerbating the problem and drying(starving) my hair even more.

Thinking of abandoning my cone conditioning products and avoiding shampooing altogether, with the substitute of an occasional vinegar rinse, when necessary.

An observation - As my hair is getting longer and gravity continues to pull it down, it is tending to a natural centre part. My shorter bangs are also naturally separating to the sides of my head, whereas before they used to sit nicely on my fringe. They aren't much shorter than the rest of the length of my hair but I might need to decide now whether I want to keep them short or grow them out. Since I will be wanting to wear my hair out(rather than a ponytail) on most occasions when it's longer, coupled with the fact that I hate having hair in my face entices me to keep a fringe. Even now, I love to wear my hair out and dislike to slick it back with gel or hide it under a cap. I want to enjoy every moment of it and wear it out and proud.

Here is a lovely curly haired example of Marty Friedman who happens to sport a fringe/bangs. An excuse to upload a cool photo :)

New to the Board With Some Questions
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KevinV

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A very cool site here. I was searching for some info when it popped up on a Google search.

A little background...

I had fairly long hair in high school back in the early and mid 80's but got it all cut off at Parris Island when I joined the Marines. I got very use to the style and kept it after getting out as well. I tried twice to grow it but got uncomfortable and frustrated and shaved it all off both times...it hadn't gotten very long, just annoying.

I decided that I want to try again and that no clippers shall touch my hair for all of 2010. At that point I'm hoping I'm use to it enough that I'll want to keep it growing. At this point I'm only about a month out from my last haircut which was zeroed out on the sides and very short on top.

I work in a hospital laboratory and growing my hair out is fine from my employers (I work for the VA) standpoint, but I also want it to look decent while I'm at work. I purchased several things to try out in an effort to keep it slicked back...Vitalis, gel, Murray's pomade, and a couple others. I like the way a little of the Murray's allows me to slick it back and have it stay in place. I'm worried though that some of these may damage my hair in the long run and impede my hair's growth.

Will the judicious use of tonics and pomades be OK, or am I dooming myself from the beginning?

Long hairs in advertising [PIC]
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CA831

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I've been seeing a lot more advertising showing long hair and sometimes hairy faces too in the last year or two. I stopped cutting my hair as of June 2004 and am happy that in the recent past a lot more people are doing the same thing. I did it for my own reasons but am glad for the company. Theoretically an ad display is designed to get sales results, and the vendors must feel that long hair works.

I was standing in line for an ATM machine in one of the more conservative San Francisco neighborhoods (West Portal / St. Francis Woods area, for those who know SF), when I couldn't help but notice that the 2 guys in front of me already at the 2 outdoor machines both had shoulder-length hair. The guy on the left was young, my guess being in his early 20s, w/ thick reddish-brown hair that was loose under a work cap; the guy on the right was definitely old, my guess being maybe even in his 70s, with snow-white hair pulled back into a neatly-tied tail. Then of all things to happen before I stepped up to the ATM machine, yet ANOTHER longhair got behind me in line, too!!!!

There was no opportunity to say anything to any of these people; but the older guy ahead of me did smile and nod as he looked at me when he finished using the machine and walked by (yes, as in, THAT kind of nod -- the kind of nod that silently says, "I know that you know that you see I'm a longhair as well as I see you're a longhair, too!"

I mean, what is that "longhair nod" all about?? I admit, though: I totally love the fact that this habit tends to happen between 2 total strangers who both notice each other as a longhair; yet it cracks me up, as well as puzzles me a bit, that it usually happens pretty much universally...

In any case, it was great to see that many longhairs just going about their normal banking business in a neighborhood that's usually filled with a much shorter-haired look on the men.... I hope this trend continues to grow!

- Ken in San Francisco

Dry Scalp
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Caesar

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I don't know about anyone else but I'm getting some serious dry scalp from this weather.

Does anyone have any remedies for dry scalp?

Canadian Trend!!!!
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Dougboy

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The news last night reported that a new trend amongst men in Canada is growing long hair. Which was presented because work ethics viewing men with long hair have changed in Canada.

Since most emplayers now are not offended by men with long hair, more and more Canadian men are sporting longer hair in the office and many other places.

I see many many men here in Toronto with long hair.

Times are changing

This is good news.

Silicone Dillemma
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jm1987

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I was just wondering how you guys approach silicone in hair care products(shampoos/conditioners).
Do you counter their negative effects(such as build-up and drying out of the hair) with a clarifying shampoo or other home made remedy(such as a vinegar mix)?
Or, do you abstain from using any silicone based products entirely?

It has been a topic that has always fascinated and concerned me, probably due to the mysterious nature of this ingredient.

At the moment, I'm using a regular shampoo and a premium condition(dry/damaged hair) which both contain silicones, used at a frequency of around 2-3 times a week.
I always apply just a small amount to my hair and rinse out fully, after a few minutes. Expect when I deep condition my whole hair, which is about once a week or two, and leave the stuff in for 20 mins or longer. I used to leave copious amounts of silicone based conditioner in my hair, thinking it would be beneficial, when in actual fact, was doing more harm than good.

Is it really difficult to find a cheap non-silicone alternative?
All the products at the supermarket and beauty stores seem to have some form of cones in them. They really are pervasive little things.

Silicone products may actually be good for my hair type, or so I've read. My understanding is that cones aren't all that bad and if rinsed out well will not cause any build up or damage to hair. But I've also read that they are not water soluble. How can this be? Should I even be that worried about using them?

Any good links or info that I could be directed to. Many thanks.

Latest update [PIC]
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Charlie

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Hey all, thought I woiuld share latest photos I took this week. Figured the best way to show progress is with a horizontal lined shirt, so the rugby and I got the camera out. Will still be cold enough next update to hopefully see more progress. All have a good one.

Random post...low water at Yosemite! [PIC]
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Trolleypup

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Taken on Thanksgiving Day at the base of Bridalveil Falls (more precisely, at the lower pool/lower cascade)

Let me assure you my hair didn't stay that neat very long down there in the mist and breeze from the waterfall.

Longhaired Kid Suspended again
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longhairedone

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Here is a link to an article I ran across on Yahoo but from the Ap on a kid from Texas. Wish him and his mom luck!

Wings!
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That ''Ball'' Guy

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Wow, it's been a while. . .I forgot about all these little nuances of the awkward stage.

Hair's forming "wings" now. I'm wearing a ball cap (to blend in with rural East Tx) and I'm constantly tucking them back behind the ears and up under the cap.

Interestingly enough, it's not annoying me nearly so much as last time, and I don't feel the urge to get a trim/shape cut at all. I'm wanting to just let it grow as it will from the shaved head. . .I'll keep it detangled long enough so I can tie it back in a respectable braid before going back to dreadlocks.

Be well!

Hi there,

Well with all the lovely snow we are getting here over in the UK and of course island Britain can't cope with it and makes you wonder how did many years ago.

I does make you wonder if the news networks have not got anything else to talk about and I reckon that causes people to panic over here (no bread of milk in the supermarkets!)

I know our friends from WI and of course in Canada take it in their stride. Makes you wonderf hwo they would cope with it on the lower west side and down y'all south?

Time to and build a snowman :-)

Cheers,

John.B

Old shampoo commercials LOVE =)
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jimho85

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I was checking on youtube yesterday on old commercials.

Don´t you just love the old shampoo commercials from 70´s and 80´s?!
When girls real hair is flowing free. No fake special effects. Their hair is really bautiful.

Im not a computer-guy, but with todays shampoo-commercials, they put this fake shine and flow effect that makes long hair looks like a silk-curtain.....
Looks nice but come on! Everyone knows it´s fake!!!
No shampoo can make hair look lika that.

Check out some old and new ads on youtube and you´ll know what i mean =)

Btw Im not super-old, im born in 1985.

Take care (of your hair =)

// JIM

I've returned from shorthairdom!
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jm1987

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Hey Guys,

I haven't been on this board in like 3-4 years and it hasn't changed a bit!
Most of the 'old timers' still appear to be around which is good.
For those that don't know me I used to post much too frequently under the avatar "80s_metal". I hope you have all been achieving your life(and hair growth) goals!

Well I cut my hair in the past and have been loving as a short haired man for a few years now. There is no denying the convenience and ease of having short hair, not to mention the social compliance that it conveys.

About a year ago I said to "hell with this, I want to grow my hair back long!" and so here I am and my hair is growing back fast and healthy. My hair is almost the length that it was previously. I peaked at around 9-10 inches pre-cut and it is approx 7 inches at the moment. I'm largely evading the "awkward stage" even though I'm theoretically in that stage. This is due to making the conscious decision to style my hair with a short fringe/bangs at the front. I really like this style and it means I don't have to worry about hair constantly being in my face(which drove me mad last time).

Virtually all my hair care knowledge and tips/advice has been thoroughly acquired from my time on this board. I bought a premium conditioner and apply a deep conditioning to my hair about once a week to stop it getting dry and keep the curls vibrant. I rarely need to shampoo, it seems unnecessary, almost counter productive to me.

For me , having long hair is so liberating and is a true reflection of my identity(albeit one that has been repressed, due to social norms and standards, the hair that is :p )

My current aim is to grow shoulder length hair or longer. I've just graduated from university and am in the process of applying for business/corporate jobs. I'm a little concerned that my hair might hold me back from getting that dream job. I recently had a job interview and since my hair is not long enough to tie into a ponytail I slicked it back with a copious amount of gel and hairspray and tried to make it look as neat and presentable as possible. My major lifeline is that I've been told once you land a job then you might be able to get away with growing it longer, albeit with compromises, especially with the style.

It will be nice to catch up with all the old timers and see how y'all are doing. I won't be posting as frequently as in the past but I'll provide growth updates every now and then and let you know how I'm doing. I just want to let it grow and not think about it too much or obsess over it, which is where I went wrong before. If I have modest expectations about my hair growth then I have nothing to loose!

Before I go I will provide some status photos:

Photo dated 26/2/09

OK, 10/1/10 Side shot - looking good

10/1/10 Side/back shot - making progress

So have I missed anything during my extended leave of absence? :)

First update of the new year
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Adam

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Hey guys. Hope everything's good and they hair is doing ok as well.

Here are some pics of my hair a couple weeks after my 20th month of growth, taken today.

I got a 2 inch trim in the back to even it out and I'm pretty sure that already grew back and maybe a little more.

Thanks for checking out my update.

Hey all,

I take my showers in the morning before going to work, and lately it's been so cold that if the hair isn't competely dry prior to heading outside, it freezes while I'm out scraping the windows on the car prior to driving to work.

Is hair freezing for a few minutes damaging to it? Anything to really worry about?

Pizza Hut and hair?
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Dmitri Sylvain

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Does anyone happen to know if Pizza Hut has a policy against long hair and facial hair for delivery drivers?

--D

Once Upon A Time... [PIC]
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RobD

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Hello all.
Just a few pics from my "Jesus Freak" commune days. I am growing my hair long again to get a little bit of that simplicity and genuine life back again.
Thanks for having this page here for those of us who are on this journey.
RobD

Before I go back to lurking, here's another... [PIC]
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Urban Cowboy

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Hey Hairy People,

Just to keep up your inspiration and encouragement to grow your hair long, longer, or loooooooongest, here's another longhair pic from the Haight St. Fair of '04 that I've never posted before...

Out of all the guys that I approached that day when asking their permission to take their pic, this is the only one that asked me to e-mail him his image. Since neither one of us had a pen or piece of paper on us, I tried my best to memorize the e-mail address that he told me. Alas, when I got home and e-mailed him, the e-mail address bounced back at me...

I hope he visits MLHH, although I have no idea if he does. In any case, I found his hair to be an inspiration to me, and he's certainly a great example of how a guy with mega-long hair can look hands-down AWESOME!!!

I hope he still has it long; but it was over 5 years ago when I took this pic....

For my New Year's resolution, I think I need to go back to the Haight St. Fair again this year. A lapse of 6 years by the time the month of June, 2010 comes around, not attending this event since 2004 is just too long a time!

- Ken

...and singing Jim Morrison,

She lives on love street
lingers long on love street
She has a house and garden
i would like to see what happen

She has robes and she has monkees
lazy diamond studded flunkies
She has wisdom and knows what to do
She has me and sheeeeee has youuuuu

I liked sitting in trees, sing allong with my friends in the park, and smoked till we get as high as the clouds ^^

Time has passed, and i am still 21 years...

It is all in my mind hahaha

I found an awesome website that give your pictures that old Polaroid look. I have also done it with my picture, sitting in the tree.

You guys should check it out, and it would be awesome that you post the results of your back to the late sixties picture(s)

Vincent

The things on wikipedia...
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Jowii

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I was browsing Wikipedia the other day, as one does when bored, and came across an... interesting link. I guess long hair is a clear sign of capitalist decadence! Also, I did a mental "what the?" when I read their reasoning for opposing long hair. Surely long hair requires just as much nutrients as short hair? Maybe even less, as you don't need to use up energy cutting it!

I'll just say I'm glad I live in the West. Pressure from family may be tough at times, but it's still easier to handle than being arrested.

Winter Wonderland in Hagerstown, MD (O/T)
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Cevyn

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What a storm that was!! Here are some photos from Dec 19, 2009's storm:

One Year Status [PIC]
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Growing

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A little straggely, but nonetheless a start. Sorry about the pictures. Better next time.

Cutting hair at home
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Scott

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Hi,
Ive finally have my hair at the length I want and I now want to get it cut to even it out and then just get it trimmed periodically to keep it wear I want it. I really don't want to go to the salon because of the cost and the trust issue, so Id like to get it done at home. I was planning on having a relative do it (a relative with little to no cutting experience) and was looking for some tips on cutting hair at home.
Thanks.

Hey all.

I've come to the conclusion that I have a widows peak hairline, normally that'd be fine but it's pretty harsh on one side due to a child hood scar. I dislike brushing my hair behind my ears and not being able to cover the entire area, so I'm wondering what would help hold it in place as a swept back style, as in a gel or hair spray. Currently I wear it in sort of a Elrond style half knot which I quite like.

Also some people were asking for a wedding photo with my wife, and this is the best I have on the computer.

Help with tangled mess after washing?
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Kenny

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Hi all,
I'm relatively new to the site.. stopped cutting my hair in Aug. '09. So right now I'm a longhair wannabe... maybe 3 to 3 1/2".

Here the problem: I'm an avid swimmer, so as you can imagine the chlorine in the pool is murder on the hair, making it very dry. I have very thick and wavy hair. I have been using almond oil to help combat this, which I seem to really like. The chlorine has even lightened my dark brown hair to the point that I now look like I have highlights (fine by me). I have been using an anti-chlorine shampoo with matching conditioner by Sally's Beauty Supply called "Ion anti-chlorine swimmer's shampoo". I chose this because it is sulfate free. When I'm done washing and prior to conditioning, my hair is all matted on my scalp and impossible to finger comb at this point. The conditioner helps greatly.

I'm wondering if it is the shampoo or the chlorine?? I don't recall this happening prior to using this shampoo, however my hair was a little shorter then.

Does anyone have any suggestions?

Kenny

Picture shows all my shampoos and conditioner in my bathroom.
NO I dont´t have a girlfriend, this is all my own hair products!
From left to right:

“Klippoteket Extra Shine Shampoo” and “Super Volume” – price 1 bottle 20 kr = 3 USD - Really bad Swedish mall brand....

“PHC conditioner for dry and damaged hair” – price 26kr = 3,80 USD Half price =) Bought it at “after christmas sale” at Kicks, swedish chain shop with perfume, skincare and hair products, like Ulta in the US. Good conditioner, smells very nice.

“John Frieda FRIZZ-EASE Curl around Shampoo” and “Straight ahead Shampoo” price for 2 bottles 100kr = 14 USD. Also bought at “after christmas sale” at Kicks.
My hair is not curly but its wavy when its wet. The “Curl around Shampoo” gives my hair massive volume and waviness. After washing with this I look like an 80s glam-rocker!
The “Straight ahead Shampoo” makes my hair super soft and really flat., it looks longer!
Its good to notice such huge difference in same brand. Both shampoos smells very nice, like bubblegum.

“Aussie Miracle Moist Shampoo, Conditioner and 3 Minute Miracle Re-constructor” price Sham 100 kr = 14 USD, Cond 100kr = 14 USD, 3 Minute Miracle 125kr = 17.50 USD
This makes my hair shiny and super soft. And it smells wonderful.. The problem is, when im using aussie products, My hair gets greasy the day after i washed it!!! Maybe this is the wrong type for me (moist).

“Redken All Soft Shampoo, Conditioner and Heavy Cream Deep Treatment”
Price: Sham 249kr = 35 USD, Cond 249kr = 35 USD, Deep Treatment 359kr = 50 USD
Prices in Sweden. I ordered them from British site www.lookfantastic.com . They have a pack with all these three products for 45 Gbpounds = 71 USD.
I dont see a difference when im using the Shampoo/ Conditioner. There´s no Wow- effect. But I can go 3 days without washing and my hair looks the same. Thats the difference!
The “Deep Treatment “ is alot better. It makes my hair super soft, shiny and removes all tangles. The problem is that is sooo expensive. I don´t think i will buy these products again.. Im a bit disappointed.....

“Loreal Elvital Deep conditioner” price 69kr = 9.80 USD This is Loreal products for the mall, not salon products but good value for the money.. Together with Schwartzkopf Gliss i would say Loreal Elvital is the best brand you can buy in a Swedish SuperMarket.

Ok lets face it: I spend way too much money on hair care products! I also spend waaay to much time thinking what the best shampoo in the world is!!!! Sometimes i feel like a girl..
I´m have really a trouble finding the right shampoo/conditioner for my hair.
I have tried both mall brands and salon brands.
I like trying out salon brands, but look how many diffrent brands there is!!!!!

I went to www.lookfantastic.com and did a fast count of their shampoo brands.
On their website they have 65 brands!! And this is only brands. Then you must add all the ranges for specific hair types.
I have NEVER seen a shampoo for my hair type:
Greasy roots and dry ends...

To all of you longhair guys I have some questions:

What products do you use for your hair?

Did you search long time befor you found the right products for your hairtype?

Do you switch shampoo brands or stick to the same?

Do you think salon products are worth its price??

Tell me your shampoo/conditioner tips for me please!!!

Im so confused right now...
Please help me!

Take care!

// JIM

Even if you aren't into smithin', you've got to appreciate this man's message:

http://arthurshall.com/x_2009_morlock.shtml

''friends dont let friends get haircuts''
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AICgarden

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just thought id share

Longhaired Guy Wins!
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longhairedone

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I came across this story of a longhaired guy and Chase Bank. The good part is he won, but the bad side is that it took a TV station to help him do it.

Merry Orthodox Christmas!
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Nikola

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Merry Orthodox Christmas to all Orthodox Christians on the hyperboard, including myself!

Hello!! [PIC]
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Glen

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Sorry I have not posted in a while, but, here is a pic of me!!

Bunch of Longhaired Freaky People [PIC]
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PaulKMF

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Mark S drove over to see us today. I have to say, he is a pretty cool cat.
Here's me, him, my two oldest boys and my nephew (in that order, for those who don't know us) at my house down here in "Hillbilly Hell".
Seems like we have quite a bit in common; music, movies, views on religion, disdain for rednecks, etc. We only got one weird look the whole time we were out (some old fuddy duddy), and we had a awesome time.

Paul

What do we think of this?
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Kevin C

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Reading the paper online I saw this story about Osama Bin Laden's son Omar who wrote a book about the family.

I was surprised to see him in dreads and a short Goatee wearing a t shirt and leather jacket. The photo is 2 years old and who knows if he still has the dreads but they were pretty long then.
Not all children follow in their fathers footsteps.

I may actually read Omars book but think if I order it on Amazon will that get me on the governments watch list? LOL
Or maybe not so "LOL" as it really might. I'm remembering the Terry Gilliam film "Brazil" For those who know the film I'm imagining myself reading the book in my home and them cutting a circular hole in my ceiling to come get me.

I linked the article below

naturally straightening
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Matt

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I have slightly curly hair, to the extent that at the roots, it is kept straight by the weight of the hair, but at the tips it is a tangling mess of inch-sized curls at my shoulder blades.

A couple days ago, I braided my hair up after a shower, into about a dozen small braids and let it dry that way, and stay till morning.

After being undone, my hair retained the small braid-shaped bends, but stayed completely straight - no curls at the ends - and it stayed that way till the next wash, 4-5 days! This is much nicer for work! I didn't have to redo my bun because of escaping hair all week :) I I am even contemplating going to work with it down sometimes - its manageable enough when straight.

However the braiding process takes about a half hour to an hour, depending on how fine I am trying to get to go - is there any 'faster' or alternate methods that might work similarly well?

I don't want to do anything that would damage the hair (chemicals, heat?) - but maybe theres some better tricks I don't know of?

These ladies need to see the world :)
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Georges

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Here is a youtube link of a candid shot of a long-haired guy combing his hair in public. Nothing too shocking in my book.

Listen to the reactions of the women who film him.

Hair demolished video just uploaded
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Justin

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Hi all

Well, guess by now you all know the story. Here it is shared in my usual crazy impromptu style on You Tube for anyone interested. Normally I do not announce any videos here, but in this case thought some of you may like to see the "elderly Justin" in action. One take only on my vids. What you see is how it happened off-the-cuff.

Hope you all had a great weekend. :-)

Justin~

January update [PIC]
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Dusk

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Hello guys,

here is my january update.

As I moved into my own little flat my hair is getting better and better, I really get how much stress I had and how much it efforted my hair.
Don't get any split ends, take very much care etc. - hair is always in a braid.

In my pic you see it freshly oiled (coconut oil on dry hair - I just oil wet after my shower) to keep the ends safe and combed. I'm not sure about cutting a straight hemline someday, because my hair is growing so fast I don't think a line would be too neccessary in about 1 year.
Hair was washed 6 days ago, gonna wash it on thursday.

Regards

Last update before.. [PIC]
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Charlie M

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So this will probably be my last normal hair update before I get dreaded :D I'll post updates of that later on.

The best part is that if I decide I don't want dreads anymore, I can go back to having normal long hair, it may just be a bit damaged.

Anyway, wish me luck

10 month update [PIC]
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BrunoG

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Hey guys (and girls)

Been a while since I posted here, so I figured it was a time to share an update from my first long hair journey!

It's now been almost 10 months since I started from a buzz cut, I haven't touched the hair since. The bangs are reaching the tip of my nose now, except you can't see that in the picture because of the curls.

I never understood why long haired people, both men and women, were so attached to their hair. Even though my hair is still not exactly long, I am now beggining to get it. I have grown to love my hair and seem to get more attached to it every day that passes, it's an amazing thing!

So what do you guys think, will it look good once it's below my shoulders? That's currently the length I am aiming for, 2 or 3 inches below the shoulders. I figure it will take another 2 years maybe for it to reach that?

Thanks all for your support, and for accompanying me in my long hair journey!

Easiest way to do a long braid.
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Zenjamin

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Hello. I want a verry long braid.
Sorta like in Avatar, but I wanted mine before that.

What is the easiest way to do a long braid if you are the only one there to do it?

Is there perhaps a product or machine you could buy? like you could insert three sections of your hair into the machine, turn it on, and it would braid it for you?

Also, if you have a long braid, how often do you need to take it out? would it be possible to keep it braided even when in the shower?

What other problems or anything else in general should I know about a long braid.

Thank you for your time.

Hair Loss at 23? [PIC]
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Ash

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Hey guys,I've been lurking here quite some time and the info I've gained from here has been awesome.
Things like WO,olive oil,coconut oil for hair...has really made my hair from dull,dry and lifeless to shiny,nice and healthy.

I've had short hair most of my life,all the way(NO 1-3), till last year July when I came to uni, mostly due to parental objection,conscription and 'corporate image'.

Initially I wanted long hair,because I thought it was cool,but now as it grows, I just like the way it has a life of its own.

Although my hair has been growing,I'm in no way a long hair,(5 months) but I noticed something recently which horrified me.

I think,I'm balding and while,I don't mind going bald eventually,I had hoped that would be in my 50s or 60s. And given the fact the men in my family seem to go bald,(at least my father's side and some on my mother's side.)...

So I was hoping,maybe I'm wrong and worrying for no good reason(which I've been told increases the chances of going bald) and if I really am losing hair,is there anything I can do to slow down or reverse the process?

Thank you.

Hi again,

Believe it or not, I still have at least double the amount of pics of longhairs from that SF Haight St. Fair back in '04 (just didn't want to overload everybody all at once - LOL)....

This pic is a prime example of how to photograph a longhair from the front who has his mane tied back in a tail. When I initially asked his permission to take his pic, I originally saw him from the back, tapping him on the shoulder to ask him my question. He couldn't have been nicer and more polite and agreeable to have his pic taken; but when I looked through the lens of my camera to take the shot, I noticed immediately one "small" problem: from the front, he looked exactly like any ordinary short-haired guy lloked (because his hair was tied back so neatly, and his tail was flowing down his BACK, which was out of sight when I was trying to take the pic in front.

I don't have a clue HOW i asked him to toss his ponytail over his shoulder in front (after all, this was over 5 years ago that I took this picture), -- all I remember is that somehow I must have said the magic words to get him to do just that... If I hadn't, I'd have to say to everyone right now the following:

"See this cool-looking guy here that looks like a short-hair? Well, he's NOT a short-hair! No, really -- his ponytail is quite long, almost to his waist... You should have seen it, if you had been there, you'd believe me... No, really, I ain't kiddin'! No, really..."

The moral of this story, if you're a photographer of longhairs: just ASK, and chances are, you will get whatever it is that might make the picture better!

The moral of this story IF YOU ARE THE LONGHAIR BEING PHOTOGRAPHED: if you want to look back at pics of your longhaired days, especially someday if/when you're old & gray and/or bald and/or short-haired... whenever smiling directly into the camera, that ponytail flowing nicely down your back sure isn't very visible unless you toss it forward over your shoulder!!!

- Ken

Decided to make 2010 the years I finally crack down and make happen a New Years resolution on something I have been wanting to do for several years now. Am finally getting myself motivated to learn bass guitar. What I'd like is some advice as to what's the best type for a beginner that wont break the bank in purchasing. Was talking with a good frined that's the drummer for a band and he told me that cracking down , practicing hard he'll make sure I get a chance to play bass for their band (thought that was very cool). Advice and criticism will be most appreciated. I figure hell, I'm 45, not young by any means but perhaps you can still teach an old dog a new trick, so here I go. I've thought about checking out pawn shops also as a possible beginner bass.

All have a great start to 2010.

Charlie

How to Photograph Longhairs [PIC]
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Urban Cowboy

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Hi Hairy People,

In having some spare time this weekend (I'm usually away at work on weekends), I decided to go through my iphoto library to delete any old pics I no longer need to keep, and then came across these pics of longhairs that I took at the Haight Street Fair back in 2004... WOW, I almost forgot about those!!

No worries, I have NO plans whatsoever of deleting these gems; but just thought this was as good a time as any to share them here.

My apologies over the fact that I only know how to post one pic at a time (and PLEASE don't bother trying to "teach" me how right now, as I'm VERY "technology-challenged", especially when asked to read long-winded, computer-terminology-packed details of how "easy" it is)!

Anyway, starting with this photo I took of a total stranger to me, here are an amazing bunch of outstanding-looking longhairs from a day spent at that street fair, taken 5 and a half years ago....

Enjoy!!

- Ken in San Francisco

New Milestone
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Tony

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So I have a cold. Earlier today I had to sniffle because I didn't have a tissue handy. I inhaled sharply and a lock of my hair went straight up my nose. I think I laughed for about 5-10 minutes.

Aye, I'm sure some of you will remember me.

It's been a while since my last update.

In a couple of weeks I'll be at my 10 month milestone. So here's some pics. :)

I was going over my old pics from 2007/2008 and I can see I've lost weight. Woo.

Hope you're having a good 2010.

- Chris PhoeniX

In case anyone missed it... [PIC]
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Chris

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Here's my pic. I took it this morning and posted it on my introduction thread, but it got buried by other topics, so I'd figured I'd try again because I know people were asking.

Affects of Illness on Long Hair
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Michael ''Strong Bear'' Taylor

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I got sick about a week ago and have been fighting a full respiratory infection ever since. I'm recovering now, but I wanted to share my observations about the condition of my hair during this illness.

When I first got sick I had a high fever and just wanted to sleep. My doctor agreed and so I slept for three days straight. I didn't use the multiple hair tie technique I learned here on MLHH because I was too weak to even care and my hair got kind of tangled as a result. But it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I think that's partly due to my change in hair care products. I switched to a moisturizing shampoo and was washing my hair every other day. The improvement was immediate and obvious. I learned that here at MLHH as well.

The thing that suprised me the most was the effect of not washing my hair at all for a few days. As I spent several days in bed and didn't even have the strength to crawl to the bathroom for a shower, I just put it off till I felt better. My hair felt greasy for the first couple of days, but then it kind of balanced itself. I finally did wash it when I got some strength back, but I haven't washed it again for a few days to see if there was a trend. I'm rather impressed by the health of my hair. It actually feels and looks cleaner than when I was washing it on a regular basis. It's also easier to remove tangles, which is probably due to the natural oils not being stripped away.

Anyway, I thought all this was worth passing along. MLHH helped improve my hair, but I was always skeptical about not washing my hair for more than a day or two. It took getting sick to see the light. Thank you to all who have given advice.

digging around on the net
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tomc1980

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Digging around on the net this afternoon listening to music and i have to say ive came across some of the most interesting long haired musicians. Band called apocalyptica. Wondering if anyone else has heard of them. They play cellos instead of guitars but it sounds bad ass. They all over youtube.

What do you see in the mirror ??
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White Tail

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Years ago, someone started a thread with that title....interesting and funny answers.

Check the link below for a great photo-interpretation.

1st post after about 9 months of no cuts, no trims. Last month I went to no shampoo and only occasional conditioner washes, which helped amazingly after about two weeks of uber-greasy hair. Thanks for all the MLHH support over the last 9 months, whether you knew you were giving it or not!

Frizzy + Static Charged Hair
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Mikhael

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What could one use to minimize frizzy hair & static charged hair like you have just touched one of those electric lightening balls?

I prefer to stick with all-natural, all-organic and non-harsh substance that won't dull the hair or damage it?

Does anybody have any clue?

Mikhael

More cold weather madness
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Validus

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'Tis the season for posting images of how cold it is where we all live, at various points around the globe. Here's a video of my historical re-enactment group, the Hidden Prairie Rendezvous Club, doing our annual Polar Plunge to raise money for Big Brothers Big Sisters. I'm the guy in the kilt (second from the left). If you have telescopic vision, you might be able to see some long-haired guys in the group (just to keep this post slightly on-topic!).

Happy New Year!

http://www.facebook.com/v/1318719052197

Oil, Moisture, + Ponytails Questions
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Mikhael

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A couple of months ago I posted here but due to a computer crash I have not been back until now.. So I have some additional questions for all you long hair guru's out there.. :)

I have been doing research into natural oils for hair and I have found out that Jasmine oil works wonders for soft, silky hair and has been used by people in India for thousands of years. I have also discovered that Shea Butter and Jojoba oil is the best for moisturizing. I have also discovered that Alma (gooseberry) oil is great for having a thicker fuller mane, another ancient tip from India.

Now I am a naturalist and believe that chemicals can damage and dull hair and cause breakage. So when I use oils I use organic, essential and 100% pure oils without additives.

So when I was researching the Jasmine and Alma oils above they were always listed as hair oils, e.g. Jasmine hair oil, etc. So my question is, is there a difference between Hair oil and oil? I do not want to buy Jasmine hair oil with all the additive's if I can buy Jasmine oil essential and add it to a carrier oil like Jojoba and apply to hair. Does anybody have any clue?

Second question has to do with ponytails.. My hair is almost at the point of every hair being put into a ponytail but I still have my front strips that are a little to short. I have not gone outside yet with a ponytail. My question is, is it kosher for a man to have a ponytail with some strips that hang behind the ears? I say my strips are about 2 inches too short to be put into the ponytail... Would that look too girly?

Thank you for all your time..

Mikhael

Thought you guys might get a laugh out of this one I just discovered in the garage today. (The original paper print now all yellow and faded.) So, got my "Crayolas" sharpened and here is Justin in 1949 in Jaffrey New Hampshire colourized. Hair CAN change through the years. Mine was white when I was little. OMG.........where has the time gone! :-) Well, at least my mother wasn't giving me buzz-cuts even then.

Nappy Yew Hear....... [PIC]
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Absalom

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oh, wait a minute.
Yappy Hew Near
Gee, thats not right either.
Oh, HAPPY NEW YEAR
Yay, have a good 2010 everyone, and may your hair reach your knees. (But only if you want it to.)

Scott

Hello all!
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Chris

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First, Happy New Year 2010!

My name is Chris, and I've been lurking around here for some time, and figured I'd make my presence known.

A little about myself: I live in the great (in someone's mind) state of New Tax-- er.. York near the capital of the state. I'm an avid skiier/snowboarder in the wintertime, and working on my Private Pilot-Glider license in the summer. I am also a General class Amateur Radio licensee, callsign KC2NIJ. I can be heard a lot on the local repeaters when I'm driving around town. For my day job, I'm the sixth generation of a locally owned lumber and building materials dealer, and I work every day to get to the point where I can look over it all and just relax for a couple of months (I'll need it by then LOL). Oh, I'm also a libertarian oriented conservative, meaning I say "whatever floats their boat" a lot. There's a whole littany of what I like to do that is enough to write a small book about, ranging from astronomy to whatever.

Anyways, I'm in the process of growing out my hair, and I'm currently at a few cm shy of full shoulder length. My eventual goal is mid-back. Of course I get the usual complaints about it and threats to kidnap me and shave it off, but I know they just like to nitpick. I generally try to keep it clean and under control, usually straightening it and tying it back loosely on occasion. Pics to follow soon.

I have to go to the movies now. We're seeing Sherlock Holmes. Hope to hear from people here, and maybe make new friends.

God bless.
Chris.

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JayKuz

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I've lurked here for some time, but never posted because I didn't know if I would lose interest or forget about the site or what have you. Anyway, I find myself coming back to it near daily, so I figured what the hell. In high school, some 15 or so yrs ago, I had pretty long hair. A 9-12 in ponytail easy! I cut it after growing it for about 2 yrs and sported the "uncle jessie" look haha. For the past 10 yrs I've been wearing extremely short, shaved with a #2 and faded around the back & sides. I've wanted to grow it long again for about 2 yrs now with an attempt or 2, but dreaded the daunting task of actually doing it! Being patient is easier said than done for me. I'm a spontaneous person who loves variety & change. Anyway, I made the decision to just do it and haven't had any kind of cut since very early July. I look like an idiot (but I love it) haha. Ppl just see & comment on the monstrosity they see now, but I see the end result! My goal is mid-back! July 10 '09 was my last cut and I have 3 1/2 inches (ill post a pic soon). It grows kinda fast, but its "spurty" for lack of a better term. It'll seem like its doing nothing, then shoot out an inch & a half haha! I'm a little frustrated cuz I don't particularly enjoy looking like a douche, but I absolutely refuse to cut it! The "get your hair cut, you would look hot again" comments don't bother me in the least. What frustrates me, is my hairs not there yet!! Lol Well, just wanted to say hey, and ill post again! (Won't be as long though haha)

Hey longhaired fellow
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Steve NoVA

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Today:

"Hey longhaired fellow, you got any weed?"

"No"

"D***. I can't find any weed around here"

The guy asking me if I had weed was shorthaired and had a neatly trimmed beard. I really don't have any weed, but if I did, what kind of an idiot says "yes" to a perfect stranger 2 blocks from the court-house anyway?

Happy New Years!
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DarkMetal

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Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Years! May it bring you prosperity, happiness and peace!

Blast from the Past [PIC]
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Rob

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This is me 31 years ago with my hair below shoulder length. I will get all back and more!

Yadgar's post of a few days ago...... [PIC]
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Kevin C

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I'm posting the photo of that longhair who saves whales.
I take full responsibility for the posting of this photo.

Now the target's on my back and I'm happy to make the sacrifice
They want a piece of me........BRING IT ON!!!!

Below is a comment from Yadgar.

Yes, I really like to see such "naturmensch" longhairs, literally immersed in nature, lightyears away from the often obese stay-at-home reality of nowadays' longhairs (myself being, sadly, no exception...) - but dreaming of real life and in fact living it are two different pairs of shoes!

See you in Khyberspace!

Yadgar

My Ugly Mug [PIC]
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Dougboy

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Hey. Posted in Oct, but. Last year, New Years day is when I made my decision to grow my hair back out. So, I thought it fitting to post my year relationship with my hair. It has not always been easy...but, it's a labor of love.

Happy New Year Folks

Doug